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Why do ambitious women have flat heads?

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    When I wrote my memoir,
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    the publishers were really confused.
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    Was it about me as a child refugee
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    or a woman who set up a high-tech
    software company
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    back in the 1960s,
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    one that went public, and eventually
    employed over 8,000 people?
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    Or was it as a mother of an autistic child?
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    Or as a philanthropist who has
    now given away serious money?
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    Well, it turns out, I'm all of these.
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    Let me tell you my story.
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    All that I am steams from when
    I got onto a train in Vienna,
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    part of the kinder-transport that saved
    nearly 10,000 Jewish children
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    from Nazi Europe.
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    I was 5-years-old, clutching the hand
    of my 9-year-old sister
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    and had very little idea as to
    what was going on .
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    "What is England and why am I going there?"
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    I'm only alive because so long ago,
    I was helped my generous strangers.
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    I was lucky, and doubly-lucky
    to be later united
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    with my birth parents.
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    But, sadly, I never bonded with them again.
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    But I've done more in the seven decades
    since that miserable day
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    my mother put me on the train
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    than I would ever have dreamed possible.
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    And I love England, my adopted country
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    with a passion that perhaps someone
    who has lost their human rights
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    can feel.
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    I decided to make mine a life
    that was worth saving.
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    And then, I just got on with it.
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    (Laughter)
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    Let me take you back to the early 1960s.
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    To get past the gender issues of the time,
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    I set up my own software house
    at one of the first such startups in Britain.
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    It was also a company of women,
    a company for women,
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    an early social business.
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    And people laughed at the very idea
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    because software, at that time,
    was given away free with hardware.
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    No body would buy software,
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    certainly not from a woman.
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    Although women were then coming out
    of the universities
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    with decent degrees,
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    there was a glass ceiling to our progress.
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    And I'd hit that glass ceiling too often.
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    And I want opportunities for women.
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    I recruited professionally-qualified women
    who'd left the industry
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    on marrriage or when their first child was expected
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    and structured them into a home-working
    organization.
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    We pioneered the concept of women
    getting back into the workforce
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    after a career break.
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    We pioneered all sorts
    of flexible work methods:
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    job shares, profit sharing, and eventually,
    co-ownership
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    when I took a quarter of the company
    into the hands of the staff
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    at no cost to anyone but me.
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    For years, I was the "first-woman" this,
    or the "only-woman" that.
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    And in those days, I couldn't work
    on the stock exchange,
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    I couldn't drive a bus or fly an airplane.
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    Indeed I couldn't open a bank account
    without my husband's permission.
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    My generation of women fought
    the battles for the right to work
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    and the right for equal pay.
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    Nobody really expected much
    from people at work
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    or people in society because
    all the expectations then
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    were about home and family responsibilities.
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    And I couldn't really face that,
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    so I started to challenge the conventions
    of the time,
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    even to the extent of changing my name
    from Stephanie to Steve
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    in my business development letters,
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    so as to get through the door
    before anyone realized
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    that he was a she.
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    (Laughter).
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    My company called Freelance Programmers,
    and that's precisely what it was,
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    couldn't have started smaller:
    on the dining room table
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    and fiancee by the equivalent of
    one hundred dollars in today's terms,
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    and financed by my labor and by borrowing
    against the house.
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    My interests were scientific,
    the market was commercial.
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    Things such as payroll, which I found
    rather boring.
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    So I had to compromise with operational
    research work,
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    which had the intellectual challenge that
    interested me and the commercial
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    value that was valued by the clients.
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    Things like scheduling freight trains,
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    time-tabling buses, stock control,
    lots and lots of stock control.
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    And eventually, the work came in.
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    We disguised the domestic
    and part-time nature
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    of the staff by offering fixed prices,
    one of the very first
Title:
Why do ambitious women have flat heads?
Speaker:
Dame Stephanie Shirley
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Video Language:
English
Team:
closed TED
Project:
TEDTalks
Duration:
13:39

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