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Jenni Change: When I told my parents
I was gay,
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the first thing they said to me was,
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"We're bring you back to Taiwan."
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(Laughter)
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In their minds, my sexual orientation
was America's fault.
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The West had corrupted me
with divergent ideas,
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and if only my parents
had not left Taiwan,
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this would not have happened
to their only daughter.
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In truth, I wondered
if they were right.
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Of course, there are gay people
in Asia,
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just as there are gay people
in every part of the world.
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But is the idea of living
an "out" life,
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in the "I'm gay, this is my spouse,
and we're proud of our lives together"
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kind of way just a Western idea?
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If I had grown up in Taiwan,
or any place outside of the West,
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would I have found models
of happy, thriving, LGBT people?
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Liza Dazols: I had similar notions.
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As an HIV social worker in San Francisco,
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I met many gay immigrants.
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They told me their stories of persecution
in their home countries,
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just for being gay,
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and the reasons why they escaped the US.
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I saw how this had beaten them down.
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After 10 years of doing this kind of work,
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I needed better stories for myself.
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I knew the world was far from perfect,
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but surely not every gay story was tragic.
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JG: So as a couple, we both had a need
to find stories of hope.
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So we set off on a mission
to travel the world
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and look for the people we
finally termed as "The Super Gays".
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(Laughter)
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These would be the LGBT invidiuals
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who are doing something
extraordinary in the world.
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They would be courageous, resilient,
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and most of all, proud of who they were.
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They would be the kind of person
that I aspired to be.
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Our plan was to share their stories
to the world through film.
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LD: There's just one problem,
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we had zero reporting
and zero filmmaking experience.
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(Laughter)
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We didn't even know
where to find the Super Gays,
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so we just had to trust that we'd
figure it all out along the way.
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So we picked 15 countries
in Asia, Africa and South America,
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countries outside the West
that varied in LGBT rights.
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We ordered a camcorder,
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ordered a book on
how to make a documentary,
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(Laughter)
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you can learn a lot these days,
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and set off on an
around-the-world trip.
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JC: One of the first countries
that we traveled to was Nepal.
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Despite widespread poverty,
a decade-long civil war,
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and more recently,
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a devastating earthquake,
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Nepal has made significant strides
in the fight for equality.
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One of the key figures
in the movement is Bhumika Shrestha.
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A beautiful, vibrant transgendered woman,
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Bhumika has had to overcome
being expelled from school
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and getting incarcerated
because of her gender presentation.
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But, in 2007, Bhumika and Nepal's
LGBT rights organization
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successfully petitioned
the Nepali Supreme Court
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against LGBT discrimination.
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Here's Bhumika:
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BS: What I'm most proud,
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I'm a transgendered person.
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I'm so proud of my life.
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On December 21, 2007,
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the Supreme Court gave the decision
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for the Nepal government
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to give transgender identity cards
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and sam sex marriage.
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LD: I could appreciate
Bhumika's confidence on a daily basis.
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Something as simple
as using a public restroom
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can be huge challenge
when you don't fit in
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to people's strict gender expectations.
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Traveling around Asia,
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I tended to freak out women
in public restrooms.
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They weren't used to seeing
someone like me.
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I had to come up with a strategy
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so that I could just pee in peace.
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(Laughter)