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The best Christmas my children ever had
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was also the worst Christmas
my husband and I ever had.
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Elizabeth, age seven,
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and her brother, Ian, age five,
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couldn't imagine why they were getting
everything they wanted for Christmas.
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The reason Santa was so generous
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was because something
my husband Pat and I knew
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and the kids couldn't comprehend.
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Something that we had just learned,
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and it terrified us.
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This was 1994,
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and the story actually starts
a few years earlier.
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For a couple of years,
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I had noticed a rash on the sides
of Elizabeth's neck
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that looked like prickly heat.
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For those same years,
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my father and brother both died of cancer,
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and I was probably
over-anxious about illness.
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The doctors assured us
there was nothing wrong
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and I shouldn't worry,
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but I wasn't so sure.
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And so without a referral,
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and paying out-of-pocket,
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I took Elizabeth to a dermatologist.
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She was probably just
allergic to something,
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but why did it appear just
on the sides of her neck,
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this rash?
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So it's two days before Christmas,
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1994,
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and the dermatologist takes
a quick look at her neck
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and says, "She has pseudoxanthoma elasticum."
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And then he shuts off the lights
and looks in her eyes.
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It turns out by chance,
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this dermatologist also
trained in ophthalmology.
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Our lucky day.
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I am sick to my stomach.
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"Oma?"
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Oma's like melanoma, lymphoma --
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cancer.
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"Why are you looking
in her eyes for a skin rash?"
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I scream and make no sound.
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So there it is.
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Elizabeth has pseudoxanthoma elasticum,
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PXE for short.
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Questions mix with fear
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and erupt like bile in my throat.
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Why are you looking in her eyes?
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What do you know about this?
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How do you know for sure?
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What is the prognosis?
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My training in pastoral counseling
did not prepare me for this.
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Dr. Bercovitch tells us everything
he knows about PXE.
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It's a rare genetic disorder,
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it's systemic,
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it's a slowly progressing,
premature aging disease.
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It causes loose wrinkly skin
in the flexor areas.
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It causes legal blindness,
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like macular degeneration,
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and a host of cardiovascular problems.
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Little is known about this disease,
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and some people die in their 30s,
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say some of the reports at the time.
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He then just glances at our son and says,
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"He has it, too."
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We want to flee
back to the land of normal.
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Two days after Christmas,
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researchers come from
a university in Boston,
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and they take blood
from us and our children
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for a research project focused
on finding the gene.
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A few days later,
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researchers come from
a medical center in New York
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and say they want blood, too.
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"These are children.
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They're five and seven-years-old.
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Don't make them face the needle twice.
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Go and get your share
from the other researchers."
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They laugh, incredulous.
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"Share?"
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It is then that we learn that there
is little sharing in biomedical research.
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This moment,
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more than any other,
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lit a fire beneath my husband Pat and me.
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Pat and I went to a medical school library
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and we copied every article
we could find on PXE.
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We didn't understand a thing.
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We bought medical dictionaries
and scientific textbooks
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and read everything
we could get our hands on.
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And though we still didn't understand,
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we could see patterns,
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and it became quickly
apparent within a month
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that there was no systematic effort
to understand PXE.
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In addition,
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the lack of sharing that we
experienced was pervasive.
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Researchers competed with each other
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because the ecosystem was designed
to reward competition
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rather than to alleviate suffering.
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We realized that we would have to do
work on this condition ourselves
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to find solutions for ourselves
and others like us.
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But we faced two major barriers.
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The first one:
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Pat and I have no science background.
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At the time,
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he's the manager
of a construction company,
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and I'm a former college chaplain
stay-at-home mom ...
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hardly the backgrounds to take
the research world by storm.
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The second barrier:
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researchers don't share.
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People told us you can't herd cats.
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Well, yes you can if you move their food.
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(Laughter)
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(Applause)
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DNA and clinical data is the food.
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So we would collect blood
and medical histories,
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and require that all scientists
using these resources
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would share results with each other
and with the people who donated.
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Well before the Internet
was in common use,
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Pat and I established PXE International,
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a non-profit dedicated to initiating
research and conducting it on PXE,
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and also supporting
individuals with the disease.
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Using traditional media,
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we garnered around 100-150
people around the world
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who we asked,
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would you give us your blood, your tissue,
your medical histories,
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your medical records.
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And we brought all of that together.
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We quickly learned that this shared
resource was not going to be enough.
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And so we decided we had
to do hardcore bench science --
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hardcore research.
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So we borrowed bench space
at a lab at Harvard.
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A wonderful neighbor came
a couple times a week
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and sat with the kids from 8pm-2am
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while Pat and I extracted DNA,
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ran and scored gels
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and searched for the gene.
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Generous postdocs tutored us
as we went along.
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Within a few years we found the gene.
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We patented it so that it
would be freely available.
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We created a diagnostic test.
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We put together a research consortium,
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we held research meetings
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and opened a center of excellence.
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We found more than 4,000 people
around the world who had PXE,
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and held patient meetings
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and did clinical trials and studies.
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Through all this,
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we lived with fear.
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Fear of the disease
breathing down our neck
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while the clock ticked.
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Fear of reseachers,
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so well-credentialed and positioned
in a world made for them.
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Fear that we were making
the wrong choices.
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Fear that the naysayers were right,
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and the cats would simply find a new food.
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But greater than all these fears
was our drive to make a difference
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for our kids and for all those
we had met along the way.
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And very quickly,
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we also realized what we
were doing for one disease,
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we should do for all diseases.
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We joined with,
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and I eventually led,
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Genetic Alliance.
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A network of health advocacy,
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patient advocacy,
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research and health organizations.
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We built scalable
and extensible resources,
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like biobanks and registries
and directories of support
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for all diseases.
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And as I learned about all those diseases
and all those disease communities,
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I realized that there were
two secrets in health care
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that were impacting me greatly.
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The first:
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there are no ready answers
for people like my kids,
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or all the people I was working with,
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whether common or rare conditions.
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And the second secret:
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the answers lie in all of us together,
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donating our data,
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our biological samples
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and ultimately ourselves.
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There is a small
groundswell of individuals
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who are working to change this.
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Citizen scientists, activists --
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hacks --
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who are using crowdsourcing,
do-it-yourself science,
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are changing the game.
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Even President Obama
and Vice President Biden
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are evangelists for the idea
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that people should be
partners in research.
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This is a founding principle
of our organization.
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Sure, it's really hard
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to discover and develop
interventions and therapies.
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The science is hard,
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the regulatory regime is difficult.
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There are a lot of stakeholders
with lots of interests,
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and misaligned incentives
like publishing, promotion and tenure.
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I don't fault scientists
for following this path,
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but I challenge them and us
to do this differently.
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To recognize that people
are at the center.
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Genetic Alliance has experimented
on what it will take
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to transform these crusty systems.
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Our goal is to work without boundaries.
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That sounds abstract,
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but for us it's quite practical.
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When we're frustrated
that entities won't share data --
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data that comes from people who gave
their energy, their time, their blood
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and even their tears --
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we need to stop and ask,
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"How is it true that we
could share but we aren't?"
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We're part of this system, too.
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How do we make it
so that people can share ideas freely?
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So that people can take risks
and move closer to one another?
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This leads to a dissolving
of us versus them,
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not only for organizations
but also for individuals.
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If I'm going to ask
organizations or individuals
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to strive for these standards,
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then I too need to explore
my own being and my practices.
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If I'm going to ask clinicians
and researchers and administrators
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to take risks,
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then I, Sharon, need
to take risks as well.
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I need to face my personal fears.
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My fear of not having enough impact.
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My fear of not leading well.
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My fear of not being enough.
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Just before they entered their teens,
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our kids stopped us in our tracks,
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and said, "You have to stop worrying
about making a difference,
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making an impact,
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and instead, like us, learn
to live with disease
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rather than fight it."
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I have to ask,
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where does all my fear come from?
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The kids' declaration shines
a spotlight on that fear.
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It arises from a bedrock of love.
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I love Elizabeth and Ian.
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I love people with PXE.
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I love people with any disease.
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I love people.
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Some of my colleagues have discovered
that it is not death we fear,
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it is the enormity of our loving.
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This expansive love
opens me to great pain
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as I face loss.
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As I discover my fear,
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I discover that I,
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and all those around me,
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have boundless capacity for love.
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And I also discover
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as I move into this fear,
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that I can learn many new things
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and find paths to things
like practical solutions
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as well as the core of healing and health.
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I don't fear fear the way I used to.
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In fact lately,
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with enormous support
from all my fellow journeyers,
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I notice that it's not a warning
the way it used to be.
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I notice that instead,
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it's an invitation to go forward
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because in it lies love
and the path to greater love.
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If I turn with gentle curiosity
toward that fear,
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I find enormous wealth within
myself and others,
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and the ability to step into challenges
that I never thought I could.
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My kids are ahead of me
on that path still.
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At ages 29 and 27,
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they declare they are happy and healthy
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despite have manifestations of PXE
in their skin and eyes and artery.
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And so I invite you, us, we,
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to turn toward our fear.
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To embrace the things that scare us
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and find the love at the center.
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We'll not only find ourselves there,
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but we'll also be able
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to step into the shoes of those we fear
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and those who fear us.
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If we breathe into that fear,
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and are vulnerable with the systems
and people who challenge us,
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our power as changemakers
grows exponentially.
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And when we realize
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that working on our inner life
is working on our outer life,
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and outer work is inner work,
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we get down to what is real,
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and shit gets done.
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(Laughter)
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There is no limit to what we
can accomplish together.
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Thank you.
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(Applause)