Mental illness | Theo Bennett | TEDxBozeman
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0:19 - 0:21My dad called me
from Seattle last spring, -
0:21 - 0:23telling me about
his new ground-breaking novel -
0:23 - 0:26entitled "Harry Potter goes to college,"
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0:26 - 0:28which would follow
the newly ripened wizard -
0:28 - 0:32and document his experiences,
but on an American campus. -
0:32 - 0:35And so, I already know
what you are thinking: -
0:36 - 0:37"This guy is crazy."
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0:37 - 0:39You are right.
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0:39 - 0:43In wilful ignorance, my father planned
to completely ignore copyright laws, -
0:43 - 0:44steal intellectual property,
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0:44 - 0:47but, most importantly,
make millions in the process. -
0:48 - 0:50And on top of this, on top of tackling
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0:50 - 0:53one of the most successful series
of books of all time, -
0:53 - 0:56he was also in the process
of writing two other memoirs, -
0:56 - 0:59about something that many
of us have experience with, -
0:59 - 1:02but yet we shy away
from talking openly about. -
1:02 - 1:04And that is mental illness.
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1:05 - 1:07You see, my dad is bipolar.
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1:07 - 1:09And so, while we were brainstorming
over the phone, -
1:09 - 1:14the static connecting our voices
from two seemingly different realities, -
1:14 - 1:16I once again felt the familiar weight
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1:16 - 1:19that accompanied
my father's bipolarity return as well. -
1:21 - 1:24Now, I'm obviously totally open
to the whole process, -
1:24 - 1:27but the first time that I was forced
to face my father's bipolarity, -
1:27 - 1:30I'd barely turned 12 years old.
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1:30 - 1:33And, as this kid, I was confused,
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1:33 - 1:35because my dad is already a bit manic
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1:35 - 1:39and so, as a 12-year old boy,
I just thought he was overly excited. -
1:39 - 1:42I saw him throwing himself
into every facet of human experience, -
1:42 - 1:44and I wanted to jump in there with him.
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1:44 - 1:49But granted, I wasn't around to experience
the darker side of the mania, -
1:49 - 1:52the hallucinations and the nights
spent in the hospital, -
1:52 - 1:55but I was there when it all came down.
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1:55 - 1:57And so, let me tell you from experience
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1:57 - 2:00that depression is immeasurably crippling.
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2:01 - 2:03The days are hazy in memory, I'll admit,
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2:03 - 2:06but I do remember a few details clearly:
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2:06 - 2:08coming home to our house
completely reorganized -
2:08 - 2:11by my completely unorganized dad,
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2:11 - 2:14and the nights spent with my ear
pressed to the floor boards -
2:14 - 2:18trying to listen to my father
cry softly below me, -
2:18 - 2:21as the fan above me did nothing
but stir the summer heat. -
2:23 - 2:27Hearing your father cry is an act
that kids experience all too rarely. -
2:27 - 2:31And so in my immaturity,
I was embarrassed and afraid of -
2:31 - 2:34a lot more than just the fact
that my Dad was slowly going crazy. -
2:35 - 2:38I had to not only face
the vulnerability in a man -
2:38 - 2:41who had literally
and emotionally raised me, -
2:41 - 2:43but also confront my own ideas
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2:43 - 2:46of what I thought it meant
to have a mental disorder. -
2:47 - 2:52Through this experience, however,
I've come to learn more about myself -
2:52 - 2:54and the human condition
than I'd ever thought possible. -
2:54 - 2:56And I'm so grateful for that,
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2:56 - 2:58especially because
when the inevitable call came -
2:58 - 3:02to extend my father's journey
for another bout with mania and depression -
3:02 - 3:03the second time around,
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3:03 - 3:08I was able to accept my father's condition
despite my own vulnerability. -
3:08 - 3:12You see, the fluidity of mental disorders
is what I find so fascinating. -
3:12 - 3:16But yet at the same time it has prevented
those very same disorders -
3:16 - 3:20from gaining societal acceptance
in the same way that physical illness has. -
3:20 - 3:23Our society is so driven
around self-improvement -
3:23 - 3:27that sometimes mental illness
gets confused with mental weakness. -
3:29 - 3:31And this is just not the case.
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3:32 - 3:35In talking with family and friends,
I became increasingly frustrated -
3:35 - 3:39by how we, as this support network
jumped to totally ineffective ways -
3:39 - 3:43of showing our support;
and we're all equally guilty. -
3:43 - 3:47We've all said: "Oh, you're so strong.
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3:47 - 3:51I know you can do it. Just keep
your chin up one day at a time." -
3:52 - 3:54And while I'm a huge advocate
of positive thinking, -
3:54 - 3:57just take a moment and imagine
saying that to a diabetic: -
3:57 - 4:03"Oh, I love you. You're so strong. Just
keep producing insulin one day at a time." -
4:03 - 4:04(Laughter)
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4:04 - 4:09It's laughable. Our current perspective
of mental disorders is laughable. -
4:10 - 4:14And it's not our fault.
It's just how we've been raised. -
4:14 - 4:17More importantly, however, our perception
of mental illness is skewed -
4:17 - 4:20because we understand much less about
the mechanisms and treatment -
4:20 - 4:23behind mental disorders
than we do of physical ones. -
4:23 - 4:25We just don't understand.
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4:26 - 4:30And this, this is what makes grappling
with a mental disorder perhaps, -
4:30 - 4:33one of the most difficult challenges
that one can experience. -
4:33 - 4:37Because even if you lived
in a perfect world, full of perfect people -
4:37 - 4:42who fully understood that mental illness
is just the same as physical illness, -
4:42 - 4:44this idea is so ingrained
into our society, -
4:44 - 4:47that convincing yourself
that you are not weak, -
4:47 - 4:52that mental illness is normal,
that you are normal -
4:53 - 4:55is perhaps one
of the most difficult things to do. -
4:57 - 4:59So, what can we do?
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4:59 - 5:03For starters, I want each and every one
of you right now to raise your hand, -
5:03 - 5:06if you know someone closely and personally
who suffers from a mental illness. -
5:06 - 5:11Now, take a look around.
It's not exactly surprising. -
5:11 - 5:14But what I want each and every one
of you to realize is that we, -
5:14 - 5:16as this massive support network,
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5:16 - 5:18can do just as much
in the way of treatment -
5:18 - 5:20as we can to change
our own perspectives. -
5:22 - 5:23And, if nothing else,
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5:23 - 5:26just learning more about what your friend
or loved one is suffering with -
5:26 - 5:28can never hurt.
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5:28 - 5:32Because for someone who's dealing
with mental illness, even talking openly, -
5:32 - 5:37eating right, and exercising can be just
as important as medication for treatment. -
5:37 - 5:41Again, treatment should be holistic
because we're talking about -
5:41 - 5:47mothers, daughters, fathers, and sons,
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5:48 - 5:51not just cerebral soup
that is somehow missing an ingredient. -
5:53 - 5:55The years between 12
and where I'm standing today -
5:55 - 5:58were spent marking
much more than just time. -
5:58 - 6:00In an effort to understand
the drastic change in my father, -
6:00 - 6:04I sought high school courses,
I shadowed psychiatrists, -
6:04 - 6:07and I read articles online;
and I learned a ton. -
6:08 - 6:11But not everything that I learned
was exactly reassuring. -
6:12 - 6:15And in order to illustrate this point,
let's briefly extend the analogy -
6:15 - 6:19between diabetics and those suffering
from mental illness, just one more time. -
6:20 - 6:23So, if you were concerned
that you are suffering with diabetes, -
6:23 - 6:25you walk into a doctor's office
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6:25 - 6:27and you are given
multiple blood work tests, -
6:27 - 6:30and a concrete answer
that varies by only half a percent. -
6:30 - 6:32Half a percent.
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6:32 - 6:34And yet at the same time,
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6:34 - 6:38if I was concerned that I'm dealing
with depression for example, -
6:38 - 6:42I'd walk into that same doctor's office
and I'm given what? -
6:43 - 6:47A questionnaire and a pamphlet.
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6:48 - 6:51It's 2014 and yet,
this is how we diagnose a disorder -
6:51 - 6:54that affects
more than 15 million Americans. -
6:55 - 6:58And our medications
like Prozac, Paxel, and lithium -
6:58 - 7:00have shown to work for many people.
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7:00 - 7:01But again, they're grossly inefficient
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7:01 - 7:04because they change the chemistry
of the brain as a whole, -
7:04 - 7:08as opposed to those specific pathways
that are actually affected. -
7:08 - 7:11What we need to do,
using American ingenuity -
7:11 - 7:13and the medical technology
that we do have, -
7:13 - 7:16is design a new generation of medications
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7:16 - 7:20that specifically targets those regions
that are affected, in order to get rid of -
7:20 - 7:24the awful side effects
of our current options. -
7:24 - 7:25Essentially, what I'm trying to say
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7:25 - 7:30is that our perspective and treatment
of mental illness should reflect -
7:30 - 7:32the complexity
of those disorders themselves. -
7:34 - 7:38Now, there are many things
that can and need to be changed -
7:38 - 7:40about our mental health care system,
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7:40 - 7:44but the bottom line
is that we, as human beings, -
7:44 - 7:48owe it to ourselves
to be a part of this change. -
7:49 - 7:53If I've learned one thing, having been
raised in a patriarchal society, -
7:53 - 7:56is that there is nothing more weak
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7:56 - 7:59than telling another man
that you truly love him. -
7:59 - 8:00And dad, I love you.
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8:01 - 8:05I believe in part that your journey
has made us the men that we are today. -
8:06 - 8:09We've laughed harder
for all the times spent crying, -
8:09 - 8:11appreciated spring for all the winters,
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8:11 - 8:13and marveled on mountain tops
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8:13 - 8:16at all the valleys
that lay below and behind us. -
8:17 - 8:21Through your precipitous highs
and seemingly endless lows, -
8:21 - 8:24we've both loved more
and been loved more. -
8:25 - 8:28All in all, I've just come
to the realization -
8:28 - 8:32of the intense beauty that exists
in an uneven balance -
8:32 - 8:34between mania and depression.
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8:36 - 8:39So call those people
who you've just raised your hand for. -
8:39 - 8:40And thank you.
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8:40 - 8:43(Applause)
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8:45 - 8:48Hey, hold on. Come back here. Come here.
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8:48 - 8:49(Applause)
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8:53 - 8:56It's awesome, that was awesome.
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8:56 - 8:57(Applause)
- Title:
- Mental illness | Theo Bennett | TEDxBozeman
- Description:
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This talk was given at a local TEDx event, produced independently of the TED conferences.
Theo Bennett shares his insight regarding living with a loved one with a mental illness. He proposes a more sensible approach for how society in general and each of us in particular could take a new fresh look at these patients. - Video Language:
- English
- Team:
- closed TED
- Project:
- TEDxTalks
- Duration:
- 09:07
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Tulio Leao
Hello,
I've reworked the title to comply with new standards and removed the description of TEDx, all of which are stated here: http://translations.ted.org/wiki/How_to_Tackle_a_Transcript#Title_format
Could you come up with a description for the talk? It shouldn't be a blank field :)
I've noticed a few subtitles don't respect the 42 characters per line or 21 characters per second rule, could you please adjust them, so that they do? The rule is explained here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yvNQoD32Qqo
There is a good tool to check if they are respecting the 42:21 rule here: http://archifabrika.hu/tools/
Thank you!
Tulio Leao
When re-reviewing, please insert this description, provided by H Maria Castro:
Theo Bennett shares his insight regarding living with a loved one with a mental illness. He proposes a more sensible approach for how society in general and each of us in particular could take a new fresh look at these patients.