Wishing for success? Stop comparing yourself to others | Luciole | TEDxCannes
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0:34 - 0:36(In spoken verse) From time to time,
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0:36 - 0:38Would you mind
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0:39 - 0:41Taking me away from it all, just ...
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0:41 - 0:43Going to the sea, just ...
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0:44 - 0:46Letting it lick our feet, just ...
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0:47 - 0:49Pretending to forget,
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0:50 - 0:53Feeling every grain of sand
touch our palms and soles -
0:53 - 0:56Feeling each piece of algae
caress our ankles -
0:56 - 0:58Feeling the whole sky in our hair
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1:00 - 1:01Blowing.
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1:01 - 1:02From time to time,
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1:02 - 1:04Would you mind
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1:04 - 1:06Surprising me at a street corner
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1:06 - 1:08Forgetting I asked you,
saying I'm astonished, -
1:08 - 1:10Pleasantly surprised,
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1:10 - 1:11And after a start I jump
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1:13 - 1:14into your arms
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1:14 - 1:19And after looking deep
into your eyes indiscreetly -
1:19 - 1:21to find something,
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1:22 - 1:24I steal a kiss from you
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1:24 - 1:27to put in my pocket and keep
for when you're gone -
1:28 - 1:31And because I'd feel alone
with all these people around. -
1:32 - 1:34Then I'll take it slowly
in the palm of my hand -
1:34 - 1:37And slowly put it on my cheek, there.
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1:38 - 1:40See?
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1:40 - 1:42Can you feel how soft it is?
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1:43 - 1:44Can you feel it?
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1:45 - 1:46From time to time,
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1:46 - 1:48Would you mind
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1:48 - 1:49Carrying me on your back,
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1:49 - 1:51Whisking me away lightly,
far from the earth -
1:51 - 1:53Where everything is so beautiful,
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1:53 - 1:56Like the traces of your back,
like the curves of your back, -
1:56 - 1:58Melody of my senses,
you can see how I think -
1:58 - 2:01And my feet are so heavy
and my verses are so fleeting -
2:01 - 2:03My "if's" and my syllables
grind me and plow me -
2:03 - 2:06I leave ink footprints on the sidewalk.
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2:06 - 2:08So just for once,
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2:10 - 2:12Could you carry me?
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2:14 - 2:15From time to time,
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2:15 - 2:18Would you mind letting me caress you
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2:19 - 2:21With the tip of my pen,
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2:21 - 2:22With my fingertips?
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2:23 - 2:24I'll redraw your face
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2:24 - 2:27The way one sketches a landscape.
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2:27 - 2:30I'll do it on a misty day
to hide my emotions a little -
2:31 - 2:32And my "what-about-me's"
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2:32 - 2:33My "I's," my games,
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2:34 - 2:36Just for you, just for the two of us.
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2:36 - 2:37You know,
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2:38 - 2:39It's so easy.
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2:40 - 2:42I just have one last request
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2:43 - 2:44I won't keep you much longer
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2:44 - 2:45I just wanted to ask you
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2:45 - 2:48If from time to time you wouldn't mind
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2:52 - 2:54Saying "You and me,"
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2:54 - 2:55Like in the movies
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2:55 - 2:57saying, "We," that's all.
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2:57 - 2:59Saying, "You send me,"
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2:59 - 3:00saying, "You shake me,"
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3:00 - 3:03saying, "You intoxicate me,"
saying "You inspire me," -
3:03 - 3:06Saying "you" again and again
at the top of your lungs -
3:06 - 3:08because deep in my head
you're overflowing. -
3:08 - 3:10Saying, "Your kisses burn me, carry me,"
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3:10 - 3:11Saying, "I like you,"
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3:11 - 3:13And more, yes.
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3:14 - 3:15From time to time,
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3:16 - 3:19Would you mind taking me away
from it all, you know, just ... -
3:19 - 3:20(End spoken verse)
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3:20 - 3:22(Singing) Going to the sea
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3:23 - 3:27Letting it lick our feet, just ...
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3:28 - 3:31Pretending to forget
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3:32 - 3:38For between you and me
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3:39 - 3:41The one I prefer
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3:43 - 3:44is you.
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3:45 - 3:46(End singing)
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3:49 - 3:51(Speaking) It's with those lines
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3:52 - 3:54that I won The French Slam
Championship in 2005. -
3:54 - 3:56It's true!
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3:56 - 3:57(Applause)
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3:57 - 3:58Thank you.
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4:03 - 4:06You probably weren't expecting
a slam champion to look like this, right? -
4:07 - 4:09So what is "slam"?
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4:09 - 4:13It's an open stage where anyone
in the audience can express themselves. -
4:13 - 4:16You have three minutes
to do whatever you want. -
4:16 - 4:19No props, music or set decoration -
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4:19 - 4:22just words, voice, body.
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4:22 - 4:24A field of free expression,
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4:24 - 4:27where rappers, poets,
storytellers, singers -
4:27 - 4:29or simply word lovers
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4:30 - 4:33can meet, share.
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4:34 - 4:36It's rather similar
to what we're doing here today, -
4:37 - 4:40although TEDx is not a slam scene.
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4:40 - 4:45It isn't! You can't come onstage
after me, sorry! -
4:46 - 4:50Well, except for the people
hidden backstage, waiting for their turn. -
4:51 - 4:54I've always been attracted to the stage,
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4:55 - 4:57since childhood.
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4:57 - 4:59I'd sing all the time
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4:59 - 5:01and imagine doing super-dramas
in costume for my parents. -
5:02 - 5:05I thought only other people
could make a living out of it. -
5:05 - 5:06It was a childhood dream.
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5:08 - 5:10Today, I'm a singer-songwriter
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5:10 - 5:11and performer.
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5:11 - 5:12That's my job.
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5:12 - 5:16Discovering slam at 17 was a catalyst.
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5:17 - 5:18That's when I realized
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5:18 - 5:21how I really wanted to climb onstage,
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5:21 - 5:23I also realized
I wanted to write to be ... -
5:24 - 5:25heard.
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5:26 - 5:28Suddenly everything became possible!
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5:28 - 5:30And when, at 20, I left everything
to make a record, -
5:30 - 5:34I wasn't afraid at all,
that much was clear. -
5:34 - 5:38Today, I refer to that time as the most
spontaneous summer of my life. -
5:39 - 5:41I released my first album in 2009,
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5:42 - 5:45then a second one in 2015.
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5:45 - 5:49Between the two releases,
the world of music changed a lot. -
5:50 - 5:54I self-produced the second album, "Une."
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5:55 - 5:57The songs were ready,
and I didn't want to wait -
5:57 - 6:00for a record company to decide
whether to produce it. -
6:00 - 6:02I ended up being an entrepreneur,
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6:02 - 6:03a ship captain.
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6:04 - 6:08Within that period
of movement, of transition, -
6:09 - 6:11I had to learn a new trade --
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6:12 - 6:13in fact, many trades:
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6:13 - 6:17producer, head of marketing,
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6:17 - 6:20project manager, community manager,
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6:20 - 6:23caught in a whirlwind
of emails, of logistics, -
6:23 - 6:27a flurry of goals and mandatory codes
that you have to follow -
6:27 - 6:30when you want to make a record.
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6:31 - 6:32Gradually,
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6:34 - 6:35I lost control,
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6:36 - 6:39forgetting that, hidden
under the multiple hats, -
6:41 - 6:42I was an artist,
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6:43 - 6:45first and foremost.
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6:47 - 6:51(Singing) All around,
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6:51 - 6:55thoughts dancing back and forth
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6:57 - 7:04All around, thoughts dancing
back and forth -
7:05 - 7:07I put them
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7:09 - 7:12I put them on
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7:13 - 7:16I put them on
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7:19 - 7:20my boat
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7:22 - 7:24I put them
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7:25 - 7:30I put them on
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7:30 - 7:35I put them onto my boat
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7:36 - 7:37My paper boat
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7:39 - 7:41And I let them sail away
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7:42 - 7:44(End singing)
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7:48 - 7:53(Applause)
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7:55 - 7:56My record was released.
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7:57 - 8:00I managed to find help,
partners to accompany me, -
8:00 - 8:03I received a lot of praise but …
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8:05 - 8:06something was wrong.
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8:07 - 8:09I felt disappointment,
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8:10 - 8:11frustration
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8:12 - 8:14and even guilt.
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8:15 - 8:17I felt I had somehow failed
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8:17 - 8:19when, at my level,
it was quite the opposite. -
8:21 - 8:22How did I get there?
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8:24 - 8:26I compared myself.
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8:26 - 8:29I constantly compared my project
to other people's. -
8:30 - 8:32I felt they managed better than me;
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8:32 - 8:35I was fooled by all the images of success
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8:35 - 8:38that you see on social networks,
on the Internet. -
8:39 - 8:42In fact, many people
must have thought the same about me -
8:42 - 8:45when visiting my Facebook page,
always full of good news. -
8:46 - 8:48We only highlight the positive.
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8:48 - 8:50We almost never talk about our trials.
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8:50 - 8:53And suddenly, we feel
we are the only one facing difficulties. -
8:53 - 8:56But of course that's not true.
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8:57 - 8:58We all face them.
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9:00 - 9:03We might be better off
talking about them more often, right? -
9:04 - 9:06Me, I never did enough.
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9:07 - 9:11Though I worked from morning to night
seven days a week - -
9:12 - 9:13never enough.
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9:13 - 9:16I spent my time on the phone
or on my computer. -
9:16 - 9:18I wasn't spending any time writing.
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9:18 - 9:21For me, the captain,
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9:21 - 9:25it was a terrible inner storm.
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9:26 - 9:28And a downpour.
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9:31 - 9:37I was - am - so proud of this album.
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9:38 - 9:40I loved every bit of it!
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9:40 - 9:42And despite that,
I saw my glass as half empty. -
9:43 - 9:46I focused on what remained to be filled,
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9:46 - 9:48rather than on the road already traveled.
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9:49 - 9:53I'd get up in the morning
with this question looping in my head: -
9:56 - 9:58What's the point?
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9:59 - 10:01It was time to sound the alarm
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10:02 - 10:03and respond to it.
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10:04 - 10:09At one point, I just couldn't enjoy
my success anymore, -
10:10 - 10:12even though my childhood dream
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10:12 - 10:14was right there, before very my eyes.
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10:15 - 10:17I released 2 CD’s, I won prizes.
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10:18 - 10:21I sang at major festivals
in beautiful venues like the Olympia, -
10:21 - 10:24took part in many wonderful projects
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10:24 - 10:25and above all,
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10:25 - 10:27I make a living out of my art.
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10:27 - 10:30How lucky I am!
It should be absolute bliss! -
10:32 - 10:34But at one point,
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10:34 - 10:39I forgot who I was and why
I was doing all those things. -
10:41 - 10:44But the important thing
is to realize it, right? -
10:45 - 10:46It's normal to doubt.
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10:47 - 10:49It's not a straight road.
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10:49 - 10:53It's hectic. It's a journey.
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10:54 - 10:56Today, I want to look at my glass,
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10:57 - 10:59see it as half full,
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11:00 - 11:02and love this half, find it beautiful.
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11:03 - 11:04I want to continue to write,
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11:04 - 11:06cultivate my singularity
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11:06 - 11:08and stop comparing myself to others,
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11:08 - 11:11because that's what paralyzes me.
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11:12 - 11:16Most of all, I don't want to lose sight
of that one reason so fundamental, -
11:16 - 11:19that it's the answer every time
I ask, "What's the point?" - -
11:20 - 11:22because I love what I do
more than anything else. -
11:22 - 11:25Because I love looking for
the right words, -
11:25 - 11:26listening to how they sound.
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11:26 - 11:29Because I love sharing them
onstage with my voice, -
11:29 - 11:33my hands, my face and my bare feet!
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11:33 - 11:35Because it is vital for me
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11:35 - 11:37and I can't imagine doing
anything else with my life. -
11:37 - 11:40That's why I make music,
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11:40 - 11:42not to achieve this vision of success
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11:42 - 11:44that the world wants to impose on us.
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11:47 - 11:48I have succeeded.
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11:50 - 11:52And it's icing on the cake
if, within my words, -
11:53 - 11:55people recognize themselves.
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11:56 - 12:01(Singing) When silence screams
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12:05 - 12:07It becomes deafening
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12:08 - 12:11Tiny sounds
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12:11 - 12:15Become a giant's cries
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12:15 - 12:20Our words are compasses,
our guides on the ocean -
12:20 - 12:23Words as continent
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12:25 - 12:27That's what we'll keep
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12:27 - 12:30When the clouds speed by
and we can't touch them -
12:30 - 12:35On the tender island blue
impossible to land -
12:35 - 12:39Our words are three-masted ships
sailing in these clouds -
12:39 - 12:40Our words like sailboats
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12:40 - 12:42That's what we'll keep.
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12:42 - 12:46And when the sky weeps,
darkening with sobs -
12:46 - 12:50So the sounds, the colors,
get caught in the scrolls -
12:50 - 12:54Our words at arm's length
are our weapons, our torches -
12:54 - 12:56Our words as flags
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12:56 - 12:57That's what we'll keep.
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12:57 - 13:01When the doors are closed
and we're left outside -
13:01 - 13:05Knocking helplessly
with our hands, our bodies, -
13:05 - 13:09Our words will remain there,
etched into the decor -
13:09 - 13:11Our words like treasure
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13:11 - 13:13That’s what we'll keep.
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13:13 - 13:17When my lips are sealed
and I don't know what to say -
13:17 - 13:21When I don't know what to do but cry,
even though I want to smile -
13:21 - 13:24My words softly slide to avoid the worst
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13:24 - 13:27My words like sighs
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13:27 - 13:28That's what I'll keep.
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13:28 - 13:33When we'd like to keep
every memory, every name -
13:33 - 13:36To remember everything, every feeling
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13:36 - 13:38Words are our struggles,
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13:38 - 13:41Words are ...
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13:44 - 13:46emotion
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13:49 - 13:51Our words like songs
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13:53 - 13:55That's what we'll keep.
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13:58 - 14:04(Applause)
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14:07 - 14:09Thank you.
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14:10 - 14:11Thank you.
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14:12 - 14:13That's it,
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14:14 - 14:15that's all I want to keep,
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14:16 - 14:17this little taste of being onstage,
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14:18 - 14:20this need to convey with my voice,
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14:20 - 14:22sharing words that inspire.
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14:22 - 14:24It's kind of what we've done
together this afternoon. -
14:26 - 14:28That's what matters to me.
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14:29 - 14:32And I'm sure that you, too,
know the answer -
14:32 - 14:34to your "What's the point?" -
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14:35 - 14:37that one idea stronger than any other,
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14:37 - 14:41that will always be there to guide us
when we lose our way. -
14:41 - 14:45Mine, the work of 20 years,
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14:45 - 14:47my dream since I was a little girl,
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14:48 - 14:50I don't want to forget it anymore
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14:50 - 14:52or all of these victories
that belong only to me, -
14:53 - 14:56and to my path full of twists and turns.
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14:57 - 14:59As long as they remain,
I will be able to go on, -
14:59 - 15:01despite the doubts and obstacles,
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15:02 - 15:04the rough sea.
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15:05 - 15:09Perseverance and passion are my allies.
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15:10 - 15:14So let's raise our half-full glasses
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15:15 - 15:20and rejoice that so much room remains
to keep on filling them. -
15:21 - 15:22To us!
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15:22 - 15:25(Applause)
- Title:
- Wishing for success? Stop comparing yourself to others | Luciole | TEDxCannes
- Description:
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This talk was given at a TEDx event, organized independently from TED conferences.
Why do the transitions we all experience in our lives frighten and hurt us? Beyond the leap into the unknown, the reflex of wanting to compare oneself to others can be very painful. This tendency can feed the careers of artists, who live with it every day, but they need to learn to overcome it in order to create. Singer-songwriter Luciole tells us how an artist can go beyond their doubts and towards the light.
Author, composer, performer from the slam scene, Luciole uses words and melodies as raw material that touches on opposites: childhood and adulthood, shadow and light, hot and cold, stillness and movement. The music becomes more dense, becomes comfortable and larger. Luciole loves contrasts. She sings, tells stories, and oscillates between poetry and modernity. She has a taste for chance encounters and paths that cross.
- Video Language:
- French
- Team:
- closed TED
- Project:
- TEDxTalks
- Duration:
- 15:41
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