The danger of silence
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0:01 - 0:03Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.,
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0:03 - 0:07in a 1968 speech where he reflects
upon the Civil Rights Movement, -
0:07 - 0:09states, "In the end,
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0:09 - 0:12we will remember not the words of our enemies
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0:12 - 0:15but the silence of our friends."
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0:15 - 0:18As a teacher, I've internalized this message.
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0:18 - 0:20Every day, all around us,
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0:20 - 0:21we see the consequences of silence
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0:21 - 0:24manifest themselves in the form of discrimination,
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0:24 - 0:28violence, genocide and war.
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0:28 - 0:30In the classroom, I challenge my students
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0:30 - 0:32to explore the silences in their own lives
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0:32 - 0:34through poetry.
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0:34 - 0:36We work together to fill those spaces,
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0:36 - 0:39to recognize them, to name them,
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0:39 - 0:43to understand that they don't
have to be sources of shame. -
0:43 - 0:45In an effort to create a culture within my classroom
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0:45 - 0:47where students feel safe sharing the intimacies
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0:47 - 0:49of their own silences,
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0:49 - 0:51I have four core principles posted on the board
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0:51 - 0:53that sits in the front of my class,
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0:53 - 0:56which every student signs
at the beginning of the year: -
0:56 - 0:59read critically, write consciously,
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0:59 - 1:02speak clearly, tell your truth.
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1:02 - 1:05And I find myself thinking a lot about that last point,
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1:05 - 1:07tell your truth.
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1:07 - 1:09And I realized that
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1:09 - 1:11if I was going to ask my students to speak up,
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1:11 - 1:13I was going to have to tell my truth
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1:13 - 1:15and be honest with them about the times
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1:15 - 1:17where I failed to do so.
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1:17 - 1:19So I tell them that growing up,
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1:19 - 1:22as a kid in a Catholic family in New Orleans,
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1:22 - 1:24during Lent I was always taught
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1:24 - 1:26that the most meaningful thing one could do
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1:26 - 1:28was to give something up,
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1:28 - 1:30sacrifice something you typically indulge in
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1:30 - 1:32to prove to God you understand his sanctity.
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1:32 - 1:35I've given up soda, McDonald's, French fries,
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1:35 - 1:38French kisses, and everything in between.
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1:38 - 1:42But one year, I gave up speaking.
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1:42 - 1:45I figured the most valuable thing I could sacrifice
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1:45 - 1:48was my own voice, but it was like I hadn't realized
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1:48 - 1:51that I had given that up a long time ago.
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1:51 - 1:53I spent so much of my life
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1:53 - 1:55telling people the things they wanted to hear
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1:55 - 1:57instead of the things they needed to,
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1:57 - 1:59told myself I wasn't meant to be anyone's conscience
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1:59 - 2:01because I still had to figure out being my own,
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2:01 - 2:05so sometimes I just wouldn't say anything,
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2:05 - 2:07appeasing ignorance with my silence,
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2:07 - 2:10unaware that validation doesn't need words
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2:10 - 2:11to endorse its existence.
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2:11 - 2:13When Christian was beat up for being gay,
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2:13 - 2:14I put my hands in my pocket
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2:14 - 2:17and walked with my head
down as if I didn't even notice. -
2:17 - 2:20I couldn't use my locker for weeks
because the bolt on the lock -
2:20 - 2:22reminded me of the one I had put on my lips
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2:22 - 2:24when the homeless man on the corner
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2:24 - 2:25looked at me with eyes up merely searching
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2:25 - 2:28for an affirmation that he was worth seeing.
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2:28 - 2:30I was more concerned with
touching the screen on my Apple -
2:30 - 2:31than actually feeding him one.
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2:31 - 2:33When the woman at the fundraising gala
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2:33 - 2:34said "I'm so proud of you.
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2:34 - 2:37It must be so hard teaching
those poor, unintelligent kids," -
2:37 - 2:40I bit my lip, because apparently
we needed her money -
2:40 - 2:42more than my students needed their dignity.
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2:42 - 2:44We spend so much time
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2:44 - 2:48listening to the things people are saying
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2:48 - 2:51that we rarely pay attention to the things they don't.
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2:51 - 2:54Silence is the residue of fear.
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2:54 - 2:56It is feeling your flaws
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2:56 - 2:58gut-wrench guillotine your tongue.
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2:58 - 2:59It is the air retreating from your chest
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2:59 - 3:01because it doesn't feel safe in your lungs.
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3:01 - 3:05Silence is Rwandan genocide. Silence is Katrina.
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3:05 - 3:08It is what you hear when there
aren't enough body bags left. -
3:08 - 3:10It is the sound after the noose is already tied.
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3:10 - 3:13It is charring. It is chains. It is privilege. It is pain.
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3:13 - 3:15There is no time to pick your battles
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3:15 - 3:17when your battles have already picked you.
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3:17 - 3:20I will not let silence wrap itself around my indecision.
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3:20 - 3:22I will tell Christian that he is a lion,
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3:22 - 3:24a sanctuary of bravery and brilliance.
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3:24 - 3:27I will ask that homeless man what his name is
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3:27 - 3:28and how his day was, because sometimes
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3:28 - 3:30all people want to be is human.
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3:30 - 3:33I will tell that woman that my students can talk about
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3:33 - 3:35transcendentalism like their last name was Thoreau,
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3:35 - 3:37and just because you watched
one episode of "The Wire" -
3:37 - 3:40doesn't mean you know anything about my kids.
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3:40 - 3:41So this year,
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3:41 - 3:43instead of giving something up,
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3:43 - 3:46I will live every day as if there were a microphone
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3:46 - 3:48tucked under my tongue,
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3:48 - 3:52a stage on the underside of my inhibition.
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3:52 - 3:54Because who has to have a soapbox
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3:54 - 3:58when all you've ever needed is your voice?
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3:58 - 4:01Thank you.
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4:01 - 4:05(Applause)
- Title:
- The danger of silence
- Speaker:
- Clint Smith
- Description:
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"We spend so much time listening to the things people are saying that we rarely pay attention to the things they don't," says slam poet and teacher Clint Smith. A short, powerful piece from the heart, about finding the courage to speak up against ignorance and injustice.
- Video Language:
- English
- Team:
- closed TED
- Project:
- TEDTalks
- Duration:
- 04:22
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Madeleine Aronson edited English subtitles for The danger of silence | ||
Madeleine Aronson edited English subtitles for The danger of silence |