The Hidden Meanings in Kids' Movies - Colin Stokes at TEDxBeaconStreet
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0:15 - 0:17You know, my favorite part of being a dad
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0:17 - 0:20is the movies I get to watch.
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0:20 - 0:22I love sharing my favorite movies with my kids
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0:22 - 0:28and when my daughter was four,
we got to watch "The Wizard of Oz" together. -
0:28 - 0:31Totally dominated her imagination for months.
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0:31 - 0:34Her favorite character was Glinda, of course.
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0:34 - 0:38Gave a great excuse to wear
a sparkly dress and carry a wand. -
0:38 - 0:40You know, you watch a movie enough times
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0:40 - 0:42and you start to realize how unusual it is.
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0:42 - 0:45Now, we live today and are raising our children
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0:45 - 0:52in a kind of children's fantasy
spectacular industrial complex. -
0:52 - 0:56But "The Wizard of Oz" stood alone,
it did not start that trend. -
0:56 - 0:59Forty years later was
when the trend really caught on -
0:59 - 1:05with, interestingly, another movie
that featured a metal guy and a furry guy -
1:05 - 1:09rescuing a girl by dressing up
as the enemy's guards. -
1:09 - 1:10(Laughter)
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1:10 - 1:14Do you know what I'm talking about? (Laughter)
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1:14 - 1:18Now, there's a big difference
between these two movies, -
1:18 - 1:20a couple of really big differences
between "The Wizard of Oz" -
1:20 - 1:21and all the movies we watch today.
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1:21 - 1:24One is there's very little violence
in "The Wizard of Oz". -
1:24 - 1:29The monkeys are rather aggressive
as are the apple trees. -
1:29 - 1:34But I think if "The Wizard of Oz"
were made today, the wizard would say, -
1:34 - 1:39"Dorothy, you are the savior of Oz
that the prophecy foretold. -
1:39 - 1:41Use your magic slippers to defeat
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1:41 - 1:45the computer-generated armies
of the Wicked Witch." -
1:45 - 1:47That's not how it happens.
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1:47 - 1:50Another thing that is really unique
about "The Wizard of Oz" to me is that -
1:50 - 1:59all of the most heroic and wise
and even villainous characters are female. -
1:59 - 2:01Now, I started to notice this
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2:01 - 2:04when I actually showed "Star Wars"
to my daughter, -
2:04 - 2:07which was years later
and the situation was different. -
2:07 - 2:10At that point, I also had a son.
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2:10 - 2:11He was only 3 at the time.
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2:11 - 2:16He was not invited to the screening.
He's too young for that. -
2:16 - 2:20But he was a second child and the level
of supervision had plummeted. -
2:20 - 2:21(Laughter)
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2:21 - 2:36So, he wandered in and it imprinted on him
like a mommy duck does to its duckling. -
2:36 - 2:40Is he picking up on the fact that
there are only boys in the universe, -
2:40 - 2:45except for Aunt Beru and, of course,
this princess who is really cool -
2:45 - 2:48but who kind of waits around
through most of the movie -
2:48 - 2:51so that she can award the hero with a medal
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2:51 - 2:53and a wink to thank him
for saving the universe, -
2:53 - 2:57which he does by the magic
that he was born with. -
2:57 - 3:00Compare this to 1939 with "The Wizard of Oz".
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3:00 - 3:03How does Dorothy win her movie?
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3:03 - 3:08By making friends with everybody
and being a leader. -
3:08 - 3:12That's kind of the world
I'd rather raise my kids in. -
3:12 - 3:15Why is there so much force,
capital F Force, -
3:15 - 3:17in the movies we have for our kids
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3:17 - 3:19and so little Yellow Brick Road?
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3:19 - 3:25I know from my own experience
that Princess Leia did not provide -
3:25 - 3:29the adequate context that I could've used
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3:29 - 3:32in navigating the adult world that is co-ed.
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3:32 - 3:36(Laughter)
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3:36 - 3:39You know, there was
a kind of first-kiss moment -
3:39 - 3:43when I really expected
the credits to start rolling -
3:43 - 3:45because that's the end of the movie, right?
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3:45 - 3:50I finished my quest, I got the girl,
why are you still standing there? (Laughter) -
3:50 - 3:53The movies are very, very focused
on defeating the villain -
3:53 - 3:55and getting your reward
and there's not a lot of room -
3:55 - 3:58for other relationships and other journeys.
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3:58 - 4:02It's almost as though if you're a boy,
you are a dopey animal -
4:02 - 4:07and if you are a girl,
you should bring your warrior costume. -
4:07 - 4:11I mean, there are plenty of exceptions
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4:11 - 4:17and I will defend the Disney princesses
in front of any of you. -
4:17 - 4:22But they do send a message to boys.
The boys are not really the target audience. -
4:22 - 4:25They're doing a phenomenal job of teaching girls
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4:25 - 4:28how to defend against the patriarchy,
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4:28 - 4:30but they're not necessarily showing boys
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4:30 - 4:33how they're supposed to defend
against the patriarchy. -
4:33 - 4:35There are no models for them.
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4:35 - 4:41And we also have some terrific women
who are writing new stories for our kids. -
4:41 - 4:45And as three-dimensional and delightful
as Hermione and Katniss are, -
4:45 - 4:48these are still war movies.
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4:48 - 4:52And, of course, the most
successful studio of all time -
4:52 - 4:55continues to crank out
classic after classic, -
4:55 - 5:02every single one of them about
the journey of a boy, or a man, -
5:02 - 5:05or two men who are friends,
or a man and his son -
5:05 - 5:10or two men who are raising a little girl.
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5:10 - 5:13Until, as many of you are thinking, this year,
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5:13 - 5:15when they finally came out with Brave.
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5:15 - 5:19I recommend it to all of you.
It's on demand now. (Laughter) -
5:19 - 5:22You remember what the critics said
when Brave came out? -
5:22 - 5:25"Ahh, I can't believe Pixar
made a princess movie". -
5:25 - 5:29Now, almost none of these movies
passed the Bechdel test. -
5:29 - 5:34Alison Bechdel is a comic book artist
and back in the mid '80s -
5:34 - 5:39she recorded this conversation
she'd had with a friend, -
5:39 - 5:40about assessing the movies that they saw.
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5:40 - 5:44It's very simple.
It's just three questions you should ask, -
5:44 - 5:49Is there more than one character
in the movie that is female who has lines? -
5:49 - 5:52So, try to meet that bar.
(Laughter) -
5:52 - 5:58And do these women talk to each other
at any point in the movie? (Laughter) -
5:58 - 6:01And is their conversation about
something other than -
6:01 - 6:03the guy that they both like?
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6:03 - 6:05(Laughter)
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6:05 - 6:07Right? Thank you.
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6:07 - 6:09(Applause)
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6:09 - 6:11Thank you very much.
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6:11 - 6:19Two women who exist and talk
to each other about stuff. -
6:20 - 6:24It does happen. I've seen it.
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6:24 - 6:26So, let's look at the numbers.
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6:26 - 6:292011, the hundred most popular movies.
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6:29 - 6:35How many of them do you think
actually have female protagonists? -
6:35 - 6:37Eleven.
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6:37 - 6:40But there is a number
that is greater than this, -
6:40 - 6:43that's going to bring this room down.
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6:43 - 6:48Last year, the New York Times published
a study that the government had done. -
6:48 - 6:49Here's what it said.
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6:49 - 6:54One out of five women in America say
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6:54 - 7:00that they have been sexually assaulted
sometime in their lives. -
7:00 - 7:04Now, I don't think that's the fault
of popular entertainment. -
7:04 - 7:07I don't think kids' movies
have anything to do with that, -
7:07 - 7:11but something is going wrong
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7:11 - 7:13and when I hear that statistic,
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7:13 - 7:20one of the things I think of is,
that's a lot of sexual assailants. -
7:20 - 7:23Who are these guys?
What are they learning? -
7:23 - 7:25What are they failing to learn?
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7:25 - 7:30Are they absorbing the story
that a male hero's job -
7:30 - 7:33is to defeat the villain with violence
and then collect the reward, -
7:33 - 7:38which is a woman who has no friends
and doesn't speak? -
7:40 - 7:43Are we soaking up that story?
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7:45 - 7:52You know, as a parent with the privilege
of raising a daughter, -
7:53 - 7:56like all of you who are doing the same thing,
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7:56 - 7:59we find this world
and this statistic very alarming -
7:59 - 8:01and we want to prepare them.
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8:01 - 8:07We have tools at our disposal like girl power
and we hope that that will help. -
8:07 - 8:12But I got to wonder, is girl power going
to protect them if at the same time, -
8:12 - 8:18actively or passively, we are training
our sons to maintain their boy power? -
8:18 - 8:21And I'm talking mainly to the dads here.
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8:21 - 8:26I think we have got to show our sons
a new definition of manhood. -
8:26 - 8:31Now, the definition of manhood
is already turning upside down. -
8:31 - 8:33I mean, you've read about
how the new economy -
8:33 - 8:36is changing the roles of
caregiver and wage earner. -
8:36 - 8:38They are throwing it up in the air.
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8:38 - 8:41So, our sons are going to have
to find some way of adapting -
8:41 - 8:43to this new relationship with each other.
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8:43 - 8:47And I think we really have
to show them and model for them -
8:47 - 8:56how a real man is someone who trusts
his sisters and respects them, -
8:56 - 9:01and wants to be on their team,
and stands up against the real bad guys, -
9:01 - 9:05who are the men who want
to abuse the women. -
9:05 - 9:10And I think our job in the Netflix queue
is to look out for those movies -
9:10 - 9:14that passed the Bechdel test,
if we can find them, -
9:14 - 9:19and to seek out the heroines,
who are there, who show real courage, -
9:19 - 9:26who bring people together and nudge
our sons to identify with those heroines, -
9:26 - 9:29and to say, "I want to be on their team",
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9:29 - 9:34because they're going to be on their team.
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9:34 - 9:37When I asked my daughter who her favorite
character was in "Star Wars", -
9:37 - 9:39you know what she said?
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9:39 - 9:42Obi-Wan.
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9:42 - 9:46Obi-Wan Kenobi and Glinda.
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9:46 - 9:49What do these two have in common?
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9:49 - 9:52I think these are the two people in the movie
who know more than anybody else -
9:52 - 9:55and they love sharing their knowledge
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9:55 - 9:59with other people to help them
reach their potential. -
9:59 - 10:01They're leaders.
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10:01 - 10:03I like that kind of quest for my daughter,
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10:03 - 10:05and I like that kind of quest for my son.
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10:05 - 10:07I want more quests like that.
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10:07 - 10:13I want fewer quests where my son is told,
"Go out and fight it alone" -
10:13 - 10:18and more quests where he sees
that it's his job to join a team, -
10:18 - 10:22maybe a team led by women,
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10:22 - 10:28to help other people become better
and be better people, -
10:28 - 10:31like "The Wizard of Oz".
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10:31 - 10:32Thank you.
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10:32 - 10:38(Applause)
- Title:
- The Hidden Meanings in Kids' Movies - Colin Stokes at TEDxBeaconStreet
- Description:
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Watching "The Wizard of Oz" and "Star Wars" with his son and daughter made communications expert Colin Stokes wonder about the stories we celebrate. Thanks to a growing awareness of gender representation, the world is now safe for girls in armor - but is the hero journey we've gotten used to inherently limiting? This funny and thought-provoking talk from TEDxBeaconStreet will make you look twice at your favorite films.
- Video Language:
- English
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- closed TED
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- TEDxTalks
- Duration:
- 10:43
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