Hi, guys.
My mom is a strong black woman
who raised her kids to have the same sense of strength and pride.
The spirit was epitomized by a single wall
in our small two-bedroom apartment on the South of Chicago
Two pictures hung proudly:
one larger-than-life photo of my siblings and [me],
and the other, a picture of my mom at twelve years old,
staring into the eyes of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.
When I was younger I used to stand on my tippy toes,
stare at that picture, close my eyes tightly
and just pretend that it was me,
gazing up to the man who revolutionized the civil rights movement,
who marched on Washington and who transformed a generation
by his words "I have a dream."
But I did get to meet him.
No, obviously didn't meet Dr. King,
but I met a man named Dr. Vincent Harding.
He worked with Dr. King from day one
and even wrote some of his most iconic speeches.
You see, this was a really important moment for me as a kid,
because it was the first time that I realized
that it wasn't just Dr. King who led this revolution,
but he was surrounded by a movement
made up of anonymous extraordinaries.
Anonymous extraordinaries are people who work selflessly
and vigorously for what they believe in.
People who are motivated by conviction and not recognition.
It took me a long of time to realize the significance of this moment,
until I was much older.
And like I said, I grew up in Chicago.
I grew up in a rough, poor neighborhood
but it didn't really matter to me as a kid
because I literally I have the most incredible family in the world.
Two things that I did struggle with a lot growing up was,
one, that my dad has been sick my whole life.
He suffers from Parkinson's and pancreatitis,
and as a I kid it was so hard for me to
watch my hero in so much pain.
And my other issue was with me.
I guess you could say I had an identity crisis.
I had to move four times during high school and
my freshman year I went to an extremely racist high school.
Kids were so cruel. They gave us hate letters,
wrote terrible things on our lockers and
because I am biracial they would tell me,
"You can't be both. You have to choose -- black or white."
And in the end I just resented being either.
And then all of the sudden my senior year rolls around in 2008
and being mixed, being racially ambiguous
is this new cool fad.
Like, "Oh, Natalie. Now it's okay to like you. You're pretty now."
I was over it.
I was really tired of caring about what other people thought.
and I just wanted to do whatever I could do to hurry up,
go through my classes, whatever school I was going to be at next,
and graduate.
I wasn't until I was seventeen
and I saw a film called "Invisible Children"
that something happened.
Child soldiers.
Children as young as my nephews being abducted,
given an AK47s and forced to kill,
not just anyone, but often times forced to kill their own parents,
their own siblings.
A rebel army, committing mass murder
for no political or religion reason -- just because.
Twenty five years.
Twenty five years this conflict has been going on.
I'm twenty years old, so that makes this conflict
five years older than me.
One man, one man with one charismatic voice
started this whole thing.
His name is Joseph Kony.
When I saw this film something happened.
Something started kind of stirring inside of me
and I couldn't identify what it was.
I didn't know if it was rage, if it was pity,
if I felt guilty because this was the first time
that I heard about a twenty five year-long war.
I couldn't even give it a name.
All I knew is that it kicked me off my ass and
I started asking questions:
What do I do?
What can one seventeen year old do?
You've gotta give me something.
And they gave me something.
The founders and film makers at Invisible Children
told me that there was this bill,
that if I could just get this bill passed,
it would do two things:
One, it would apprehend Joseph Kony,
and the top commanders of his rebel army.
And two, it would provide funding for the recovery
of these regions that have been devastated
by twenty five years of war.
And I was like: "Done, let me at it,
I swear I will do whatever I can to make this happen."
So, myself and ninety nine other idealistic
eighteen to twenty year olds,
hopped on a plane to intern in San Diego with Invisible Children.
I was postponing college, we weren't getting paid for this,
and you can call me irresponsible or crazy -- my parents did --
but for us it would have been insane not to go.
We all felt this urgency and we would do
whatever it took to pass this bill.
So we were given our first task:
We were going to plan an event called
"The rescue of Josep Kony's child soldiers"
where participants would come
in a hundred cities worldwide
and rally in the city center until a celebrity or a political figure
came and used their voice on behalf of these child soldiers.
And at that point each city was "rescued."
But the catch was
we weren't leaving the cities until we were rescued.
I was given Chicago and nine other cities.
And I told my bosses, I was like,
"if we're going for big name people,
why not go for the queen bee? Why not go for Oprah Winfrey?"
They thought I was a little idealistic.
But, I mean, we were trying to think big.
We were doing an impossible thing,
so why not try to reach a more impossible thing?
And so we had from January to April to get this done.
This is the number of hours that I spent on logistics,
from getting permits to rallying participants
and finding venues.
This is the number of times that I was rejected
by celebrities' agents or politicians' secretaries.
That is the amount of money that I spent personally on Red Bull and Diet Coke
to stay awake during this movement.
(Laughter)
You can judge me if you want to.
That is my hospital bill
from the kidney infection I got
from an overconsumption of caffeine due to this event.
These were just some of the ridiculous things
we did to try and pull this event off.
And so, April 21st rolls around and the event begins.
A hundred cities around the world -- they were beautiful.
Six days later, all the cities were rescued but one:
Chicago.
So we were waiting in the city.
People start coming from all over the world,
all over the country to be reinforcements
and join their voice with ours.
And finally, on May 1st, we wrapped ourselves around Oprah's studio.
And we got her attention.
This is a clip from a film called
"Together We are Free"
documenting the rescue event
and my attempt to get Oprah.
(Video) Oprah: First when I drove into the office this morning
there was a giant ...
When you all came in, was there a group outside?
Audience: Yes.
Oprah: ... holding up signs asking if I would talk to them
for just five minutes, so I was happy to do so
and they are with a group called Invisible Children
and I told this group outside that I'd
give them a minute to state their case.
Man in crowd: Oprah, thank you so much for having us.
Basically these folks out here
have seen the story of thirty thousand children
abducted by a rebel leader named Joseph Kony.
And they're out here in solidarity and they have been out here
for six days.
They started as a hundred thousand people worldwide.
Now it's down to five hundred standing strong,
so that you can raise the profile of this issue
and we can end the longest running war in Africa
and rescue those kids that are child soldiers
still in East Africa.
Man: Oprah, I have to say this girl Natalie here,
she's eighteen years old.
She was an intern for us this year
and she said, "My one goal is to get Oprah."
She had two thousand people come out on Saturday,
but it rained.
She stood here in the rain with fifty people.
When they heard she was here, hundreds started coming.
People are here from Mexico, Australia.
Natalie is eighteen.
Don't think you're too young.
You can change the world any day.
Start now, start today.
(Cheers)
Man in crowd: Was it worth it?
Crowd: Yeah!
Natalie! Natalie! Natalie!
Together we are free! Together we are free!
(Applause)
So, you would think that this is the moment in my life,
the pinnacle that made me an extraordinary.
And it was an awesome moment.
I mean, I was on top of the world.
Ten million people watch the Oprah Winfrey show.
But looking back, that wasn't it.
Don't get me wrong,
like I said, it was a great moment.
It made for a heck of a profile picture on Facebook for a week.
But I had been extraordinary all along.
And I wasn't alone.
You see, even though my story was featured in this film,
I was just one of a hundred interns
who worked their tails off to make this happen.
I'm up in the air, but the guy that I'm sitting on his shoulders,
he's my best friend.
His name is Johannes Oberman
and Johannes worked with me from day one in Chicago --
just as long hours, just as many sleepless nights as I did.
The girl on the right, her name's Bethany Bylsma.
Bethany planned New York City and Boston
and they were seriously the most beautiful events that we held.
The girl on the left, her name's Colleen.
Colleen moved to Mexico, moved for three months,
to plan five events there,
only to be kicked out the day before the events
because of the swine flu.
And then, there was this family.
This family, they didn't get to come to the rescue,
they couldn't make it out,
but they ordered a hundred boxes of pizza for us,
delivered them to the corner of Michigan and Randolph
where we were silently protesting.
You see, it was people like this --
doing whatever they could,
simultaneously, single-mindedly,
without a care for who was watching --
that made this happen.
It wasn't about us getting on Oprah.
Because when I got down from those shoulders,
the war hadn't ended.
It was about that bill.
Oprah was just a checkpoint on the way to that bill.
That bill was the point.
That bill is was what we had our eyes set on from day one.
That was going to help us end Africa's longest running war,
and that is what brought a hundred thousand people
out to the rescue them from around the world.
And it paid off.
Ten days after we were on Oprah,
the bill was introduced into Congress.
A year after that,
it got -- unanimously -- two hundred and sixty-seven
cosponsors in Congress.
And then, one week after that,
President Obama signed our bill into law.
(Applause)
And none of us interns got to be there.
We didn't get to be there in this moment.
Our founders were there.
They're the guys cheesing in the background.
(Laughter)
But that moment right there
is what made all of it worth it.
It's what a hundred thousand anonymous extraordinaries
worked for so hard to make that happen.
You know, the Oprah moments, they
prove that the supposedly impossible can be done.
They inspire us, they boost our confidence.
But the moment isn't a movement.
Even a lot of those moments strung together
don't fuel a movement.
What fuels a movement
are the anonymous extraordinaries behind it.
You know, for me,
what got me pushing on through the rescue
was the thought of those child soldiers.
It became personal.
I was able to go to Africa at one point.
I met these incredible people.
I have friends
that have been living in this conflict
their entire life and it was personal to me.
But that doesn't have to be what drives you.
You know, you may wanna be the next Shepard Fairey
or the next J.K. Rowling
or the next whoever, it doesn't matter.
But what ever you want, chase after it
with everything that you have --
not because of the fame or the fortune,
but solely because that's what you believe in.
Because that's what makes your heart sing.
That's what your dance is.
That's what is going to define our generation --
when we start chasing and fighting
after the things that we love
and that we want to fight for.
I cared too much in high school about
what people thought about me.
That's what's so awesome about this conference.
So many of you are so young.
Find that thing that inspires you,
that you love, and just chase after it.
You know, fight for that.
Because that is what's gonna change this world
and that is what defines us.
Despite what people think,
my Oprah moments, my being on TED,
doesn't define me.
Because if you were to follow me home to LA,
you would see me waiting tables,
and nannying to pay the bills
as I chase after my dream of becoming a filmmaker.
In the small, anonymous, monotonous,
every-single-day acts,
I have to remind myself to be extraordinary.
And believe me, when the door is closed
and the cameras are off, it's tough.
But if there's one thing that I want to drive home to you,
one thing that I can say
not just to you but to myself,
it is that it's the acts that make us extraordinary,
not the Oprah moments.
Thank you.