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Dialogue: 0,0:00:00.96,0:00:02.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is a play called "Sell/Buy/Date."
Dialogue: 0,0:00:02.89,0:00:05.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's my first since "Bridge and Tunnel,"\Nwhich I did on Broadway,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:05.96,0:00:09.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and this one, I -- thank you --
Dialogue: 0,0:00:09.33,0:00:13.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I've excerpted it just for you,\Nso here we go.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:17.76,0:00:20.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Right. Class, let's be absolutely certain
Dialogue: 0,0:00:20.90,0:00:25.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,all electronic devices are switched off\Nbefore we begin.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:26.27,0:00:31.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So class, hopefully you'll recognize\Nwhat you just heard me say as the -- ?
Dialogue: 0,0:00:31.98,0:00:35.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Very good, the cellular\Nphone announcement.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:35.20,0:00:39.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Right? This was also known\Nas a mobile phone.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:39.38,0:00:41.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So you'll remember, people of that era
Dialogue: 0,0:00:41.61,0:00:46.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,would have had an external\Nelectronic device, right,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:46.48,0:00:48.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,something like this,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:48.43,0:00:51.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and they all would have carried\None of these around with them,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:51.37,0:00:54.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and amongst their biggest fears\Nwas the sheer mortification
Dialogue: 0,0:00:54.75,0:00:58.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that one of these might ring\Nat some inopportune moment.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:58.14,0:01:00.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Right? So a bit of trivia\Nabout that era for you.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:00.54,0:01:03.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:01:03.10,0:01:05.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So the format of today's class is
Dialogue: 0,0:01:05.85,0:01:09.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I will be presenting multiple\NBERT modules today
Dialogue: 0,0:01:09.79,0:01:12.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,from that period in history, right,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:12.16,0:01:14.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so starting circa 2016.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:14.97,0:01:19.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And remember, this was\Nthe very first year of the BERT program.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:19.32,0:01:21.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So we've got quite a few\Nof these to get through.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:21.69,0:01:25.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Bear in mind, I will be living\Ninto various different bodies,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:25.70,0:01:26.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,different ages,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:27.82,0:01:31.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,also what were then called races,\Nor ethnic groups,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:31.40,0:01:33.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as you'll remember from Unit 1.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:33.49,0:01:36.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And -- (Laughter) -- and along\Nthe gender continuum,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:36.81,0:01:39.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I will be living into males as well.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:39.32,0:01:40.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It was quite binary at that time.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:40.99,0:01:42.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:01:42.55,0:01:45.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Also, don't forget, we are reading\Nthe book module
Dialogue: 0,0:01:45.87,0:01:47.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for next week's focus on gender.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:47.84,0:01:51.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now, I know some of you\Nhave requested the book in pill form.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:51.88,0:01:56.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I know people still believe\Ningesting it is better for retention,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:56.20,0:02:01.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but since we are trying to experience\Nwhat our forebears did, right,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:01.70,0:02:07.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,let's please just consider doing\Nthe actual ocular reading, okay?
Dialogue: 0,0:02:07.21,0:02:12.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And also, how many people\Nhave your emotional shunts engaged?
Dialogue: 0,0:02:12.22,0:02:14.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Right. Please toggle them off. Okay?
Dialogue: 0,0:02:14.92,0:02:19.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I know it's challenging, but I want you\Nto be able to feel the entire
Dialogue: 0,0:02:19.86,0:02:21.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,natural emo range, all right?
Dialogue: 0,0:02:21.72,0:02:24.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It is essential to this\Npart of the syllabus.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:25.89,0:02:27.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yes, Macy?
Dialogue: 0,0:02:27.76,0:02:31.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All right. I understand.\NIf you're unwilling to --
Dialogue: 0,0:02:31.63,0:02:33.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All right, well, we can discuss\Nthat after class.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:33.100,0:02:36.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All right, we will discuss your concerns.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:36.43,0:02:40.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Just relax. Nobody's died\Nand gone to composting.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:40.55,0:02:43.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Okay. After class. Okay? After class.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:45.13,0:02:47.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Let's just get started, okay.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:47.14,0:02:53.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This first subject identified\Nas a middle-class homemaker.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:53.55,0:02:55.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Remember, these early modules
Dialogue: 0,0:02:55.85,0:02:59.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in these people's full identities\Nwere protected,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:59.98,0:03:03.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and this allowed them to speak\Nmore freely on our topic,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:03.20,0:03:07.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which for many of them was taboo.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:08.11,0:03:11.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Okay honey, now,\NI'm ready when you are.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:11.73,0:03:14.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No, sweetheart, I said,\NI'm ready when you are.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:16.06,0:03:17.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm freezing.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:18.06,0:03:21.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's like a meat locker in here\Nin this recording studio.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:21.21,0:03:23.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I should have brought a shmata.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:23.81,0:03:27.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All this fancy technology\Nbut they can't afford heat.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:28.38,0:03:31.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What is he saying? I can't hear you!
Dialogue: 0,0:03:31.68,0:03:34.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I can't hear you\Nthrough the glass, honey!
Dialogue: 0,0:03:34.56,0:03:37.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There you are in my ear.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:37.32,0:03:39.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Oh, you can hear me?
Dialogue: 0,0:03:39.92,0:03:41.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The whole time.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:41.78,0:03:44.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Oh, yes, I am a little chilly.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:45.98,0:03:51.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yes, oh the cold is for the machines,\Nthe new technology. Okay.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:51.55,0:03:57.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yes, now remind me again, you're recording\Nnot only my voice but my feelings
Dialogue: 0,0:03:57.30,0:03:59.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and my memories? Right.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:00.41,0:04:02.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yes, BERT, yes, I read about it.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:02.43,0:04:05.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Bio-Empathetic Resonant Technology.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:05.48,0:04:10.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Right, right, so people will be able\Nto feel my experience
Dialogue: 0,0:04:10.64,0:04:12.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and my memory? Okay.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:12.54,0:04:13.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No, right, I'm ready.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:13.96,0:04:18.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I just thought you were going to give me\Na test to see how my memory's doing.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:18.06,0:04:21.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was going to tell you you're too late,\Nit's already bad news.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:22.85,0:04:25.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No, no, go ahead, honey.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:25.65,0:04:27.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Oh, that's the first question?
Dialogue: 0,0:04:27.98,0:04:31.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What do I think of prostitution?
Dialogue: 0,0:04:31.26,0:04:34.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Are you soliciting me, young man?
Dialogue: 0,0:04:35.48,0:04:39.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I've heard of May-December romances,\Nbut what are you, about 20 years old?
Dialogue: 0,0:04:41.10,0:04:42.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Eighteen? Eighteen years.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:42.84,0:04:48.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I think I have candies in my purse\Nolder than 18 years old.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:48.46,0:04:49.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:04:52.28,0:04:56.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm teasing you, sweetheart.\NNo, I'm comfortable with any question.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:57.94,0:05:02.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sure. So about the prostitution --\Noh, sex worker, sex worker.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:03.95,0:05:07.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No, just in my day, they called it\Nprostitution, not sex work.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:07.92,0:05:10.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Oh, because it includes pornography also?
Dialogue: 0,0:05:10.67,0:05:12.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Okay.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:12.48,0:05:14.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No, well, I guess when I was a girl,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:14.66,0:05:17.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we didn't really have\Na name for that either.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:17.17,0:05:22.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We would have said dirty magazines,\NI suppose, or dirty movies.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:22.90,0:05:25.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well, it's not like what you have\Nwith the Internet.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:26.13,0:05:29.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No, well, I don't mind sharing.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:29.64,0:05:34.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,My late husband and I,\Nwe were a very romantic couple.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:35.90,0:05:38.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Lots of tenderness, you understand.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:39.79,0:05:43.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well, as you get older, you know,\Nat one point I thought my husband
Dialogue: 0,0:05:43.16,0:05:47.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,might be helped by using\Nsome of the pills men can take,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:49.32,0:05:52.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but he wasn't interested in those,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:52.41,0:05:58.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so I thought, what about maybe\Nwatching an adult movie on the Internet?
Dialogue: 0,0:05:58.47,0:06:01.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Just for inspiration, you understand.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:01.91,0:06:06.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well, at the time, neither of us\Nwere very good on the computer,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:06.91,0:06:09.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so usually, if we needed help\Nwith the Internet,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:09.62,0:06:14.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we would just call our children\Nor our grandchildren,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:14.60,0:06:18.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but obviously, in this case,\Nthat wasn't an option,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:18.16,0:06:23.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so I thought, I'll have\Na look myself, just to see.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:23.59,0:06:26.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How difficult could it be?
Dialogue: 0,0:06:26.13,0:06:29.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You search for certain key words\Nand you look --
Dialogue: 0,0:06:29.76,0:06:31.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Oh wow is right, young man.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:31.96,0:06:34.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You can't imagine what I saw.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:34.67,0:06:39.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well, first of all, I was just trying\Nto find, you know, couples,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:39.62,0:06:41.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,normal couples making love,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:43.30,0:06:47.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but this, so many people\Ntogether at one time.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:47.79,0:06:51.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You couldn't tell which part\Nbelonged to which body.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:51.60,0:06:55.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How they even got the cameras to\Ncapture some of this, I couldn't tell you.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:55.78,0:07:00.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But the one thing they didn't capture\Nwas making love.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:02.66,0:07:07.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There was lots of making of something,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:07.39,0:07:11.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but they took the love part\Nright out of it, you know, the fun.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:11.50,0:07:15.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It was all very extreme, you know?
Dialogue: 0,0:07:15.42,0:07:17.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Like you would say,\Nwith the extreme sports.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:19.15,0:07:22.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Lots of endurance,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:22.78,0:07:25.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but never tenderness.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:25.80,0:07:32.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So anyway, needless to say,\Nthat was $19.95 I'll never get back again,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:32.12,0:07:36.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but it only showed up on the credit card\Nas "entertainment services,"
Dialogue: 0,0:07:36.94,0:07:39.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so my husband was never the wiser,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:39.73,0:07:42.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and after all of that,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:43.13,0:07:45.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,well, you could say it turned out
Dialogue: 0,0:07:45.57,0:07:49.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,he didn't need the extra\Ninspiration after all.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:51.15,0:07:54.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Right, so next subject is a young woman\N-- (Applause) --
Dialogue: 0,0:07:55.92,0:07:58.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Next subject, class,\Nis a young woman called Bella,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:58.96,0:08:02.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a university student interviewed in 2016
Dialogue: 0,0:08:02.90,0:08:06.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,during what was called\Nan Intro to Feminist Porn class
Dialogue: 0,0:08:06.83,0:08:11.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as part of her major in sex work\Nat a college in the Bay Area.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:11.32,0:08:14.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:08:14.67,0:08:17.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah, I just want to, like,\Nget a recording of, like,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:17.44,0:08:19.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you guys recording me,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:19.81,0:08:21.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like a meta recording, or whatever.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:22.89,0:08:26.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's just like this whole experience\Nis just, like, really amazing,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:26.61,0:08:30.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I'd like to capture that\Nfor, like, Instagram and my Tumblr.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:30.13,0:08:33.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, like, hi guys, it's me, Bella,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:33.13,0:08:36.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I am, like, being\Ninterviewed right now
Dialogue: 0,0:08:37.72,0:08:43.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for this, like, really amazing\NBio-Empathetic Resonance Technology,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:43.50,0:08:49.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which is, like, basically where they are,\Nlike, recording, as you can see
Dialogue: 0,0:08:49.78,0:08:51.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,from these, whatever, like, electrodes,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:51.70,0:08:57.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the formation of, like, neuropeptides\Nin my hippocampus, or whatever.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:58.16,0:09:00.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They will later be able\Nto reconstitute these
Dialogue: 0,0:09:00.92,0:09:06.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as, like, my own actual memory,\Nlike actual experiences,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:07.54,0:09:11.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so other people can, like,\Nactually feel what I'm feeling right now.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:12.32,0:09:14.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Okay. Okay.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:14.57,0:09:20.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, like, hello, BERT person of the future\Nwho is experiencing me.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:20.75,0:09:24.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is what it feels like to be,\Nlike, a college freshman,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:24.56,0:09:29.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and also the, like, headache\Nthat you are experiencing through me
Dialogue: 0,0:09:29.78,0:09:36.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is the, like, residual effect\Nof the Jell-O shots which I had last night
Dialogue: 0,0:09:36.20,0:09:39.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,at the bi-weekly feminist\Npole dancing party
Dialogue: 0,0:09:39.12,0:09:42.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which I cohost on Wednesdays.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:42.16,0:09:45.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's called "Don't Get All Pole-emical" --\N(Laughter) --
Dialogue: 0,0:09:45.78,0:09:49.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and it's in Beekman Hall,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:50.07,0:09:52.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and, what else, like,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:52.25,0:09:56.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,non-Jell-O shots are also\Navailable for vegans,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:56.30,0:10:04.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and, oh, okay, yeah, totally, yeah, we\Nshould also focus on your questions also.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:05.98,0:10:10.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So for your record, I am, like,\Na sex work studies major
Dialogue: 0,0:10:10.18,0:10:12.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but minoring in social media
Dialogue: 0,0:10:12.46,0:10:15.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with a concentration\Non notable YouTube memes.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:15.15,0:10:17.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:10:18.24,0:10:21.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yes, well, of course, like,\NI consider myself to be, like,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:21.49,0:10:23.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,obviously, like, a feminist.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:23.58,0:10:28.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was named for Bella Abzug,\Nwho was, like, a famous, like,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:28.57,0:10:30.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,feminist from history,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:30.99,0:10:37.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and, like, also I feel that it is, like,\Nimportant to, like, represent women
Dialogue: 0,0:10:37.26,0:10:40.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who are, like, sex-positive feminists.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:42.22,0:10:44.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What is sex-negative?
Dialogue: 0,0:10:44.94,0:10:49.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well, like, I guess I would ask,\Nlike, what do you think
Dialogue: 0,0:10:49.40,0:10:52.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sex-negative is? (Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:10:52.42,0:10:57.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah, because, like, the terms that we use\Nare, like, so important, because, like,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:57.31,0:11:04.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we call it sex work because it helps\Npeople understand that, like, it's work,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:04.35,0:11:09.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and, like, you know, just like there are,\Nlike, healthcare providers
Dialogue: 0,0:11:09.23,0:11:11.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and, like, insurance providers,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:11.71,0:11:17.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like, we think of these workers\Nas, like, sex care providers.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:18.51,0:11:22.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah, but like, I don't think of myself\Nlike, providing direct
Dialogue: 0,0:11:22.18,0:11:26.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sex care services per se as, like,\Nbeing a requirement
Dialogue: 0,0:11:26.43,0:11:28.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for me to be, like, an advocate.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:28.89,0:11:32.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Like, I support other women's right\Nto choose it voluntarily, like,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:32.56,0:11:34.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if they enjoy it.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:34.68,0:11:37.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah, but, like, I see\Nmyself going forward
Dialogue: 0,0:11:37.51,0:11:41.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as more likely, like,\Nprotecting sex workers',
Dialogue: 0,0:11:41.25,0:11:44.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like, legal freedoms and rights.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:44.29,0:11:48.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah, so, like, basically,\NI'm planning on becoming a lawyer.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:50.13,0:11:51.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Right, class. (Laughter) (Applause)
Dialogue: 0,0:11:51.84,0:11:55.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So these next two modules\Nare also circa 2016.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:55.92,0:11:59.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,One subject is an Irishwoman\Nwith a particularly noteworthy
Dialogue: 0,0:11:59.92,0:12:02.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,relationship to this issue,
Dialogue: 0,0:12:02.85,0:12:06.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but first will be a West Indian woman,
Dialogue: 0,0:12:06.51,0:12:08.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a self-described escort
Dialogue: 0,0:12:08.83,0:12:14.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who was recorded at a\Nsex workers' rights rally and parade.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:14.24,0:12:18.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She was interviewed whilst marching\Nin full carnival headdress
Dialogue: 0,0:12:18.79,0:12:21.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and very little else.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:24.30,0:12:26.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All right, you want me\Nto start talking now.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:26.38,0:12:29.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah, I told you, you can\Nput those wires anywhere you want to
Dialogue: 0,0:12:29.51,0:12:32.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as long as it don't get in the way.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:33.16,0:12:38.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah, no, but, tell me again\Nwhat the name of -- BERT? BERT.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:38.07,0:12:41.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah, I was telling you, you know,\NI think I have in all my time
Dialogue: 0,0:12:41.11,0:12:44.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I have had at least one client with that\Nname, so this won't be the first time
Dialogue: 0,0:12:44.80,0:12:47.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I had BERT all over me.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:51.90,0:12:53.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Oh, I'm sorry,
Dialogue: 0,0:12:53.22,0:12:56.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but you got to get into the spirit of it\Nif you're going to interview me.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:56.67,0:12:58.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All right? You can say it.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:58.54,0:13:00.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No justice, no piece!\NNo justice, no piece!
Dialogue: 0,0:13:00.93,0:13:06.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But you see the sign? You get it?\NP-I-E-C-E. No justice, no piece of us.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:06.88,0:13:08.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You understand?
Dialogue: 0,0:13:08.79,0:13:11.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Right, so that's the part\Nwhere I was telling you
Dialogue: 0,0:13:11.24,0:13:15.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is that when I first came to this country,\NI worked every job I could find.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:15.61,0:13:20.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was a nanny; I was a home care attendant\Nfor all these different old people,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:20.30,0:13:24.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and then I said, child, if I have to touch\Nanother white man's backside,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:24.42,0:13:27.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I might as well get paid\Na lot more money for it than this,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:27.38,0:13:29.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you understand?
Dialogue: 0,0:13:29.28,0:13:32.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Pshh, you know how hard it is\Nbeing a domestic worker?
Dialogue: 0,0:13:32.98,0:13:34.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Some of these men, they're heavy.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:34.73,0:13:37.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You have to pick them up\Nand flip them over.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:37.53,0:13:41.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now, I let them pick me up\Nand flip me over, you understand?
Dialogue: 0,0:13:41.99,0:13:45.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well, you have to have a sense of humor\Nabout it, that's what I think.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:45.40,0:13:47.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No, but see, listen,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:47.35,0:13:50.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you find me somebody who don't hate\Nsome part of their job.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:50.74,0:13:53.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I mean, there's a lot of things\Nabout this job that I hate,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:53.50,0:13:55.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but the money is not one of them,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:55.07,0:13:57.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I will tell you, as long as this\Nis the best possibility
Dialogue: 0,0:13:57.89,0:13:59.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for me to make real money,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:59.66,0:14:03.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I am going to be Jamaican-No-Fakin'\Nif that's what they want to call me.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:03.81,0:14:07.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No, I'm not even from Jamaica.\NThat's how they market me.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:07.32,0:14:10.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,My family is from Trinidad\Nand the Virgin Islands.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:11.50,0:14:13.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They don't know what I do,\Nbut you know what?
Dialogue: 0,0:14:13.71,0:14:16.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,My children, they know\Nthat their school fees are paid,
Dialogue: 0,0:14:16.98,0:14:19.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they have their books and their computer,
Dialogue: 0,0:14:19.48,0:14:22.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and this way, I know\Nthat they have a chance.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:22.46,0:14:25.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I'm not going to tell you\Nthat what I do, it's easy,
Dialogue: 0,0:14:25.27,0:14:28.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm not going to tell you that I feel --\Nwhat's that you said, liberated?
Dialogue: 0,0:14:30.13,0:14:32.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But I'm going to tell you\Nthat I feel paid.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:34.12,0:14:37.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Right. (Applause)
Dialogue: 0,0:14:38.87,0:14:41.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Thanks, that's lovely,\Nand just the cup of tea, love,
Dialogue: 0,0:14:41.50,0:14:43.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and just a splash of the whiskey.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:43.47,0:14:48.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's perfect, that's grand.\NJust a drop more. A splash. Perfect.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:48.20,0:14:51.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What was your name? Peter?\NIs that right, so, Peter?
Dialogue: 0,0:14:51.55,0:14:54.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Right. So that, that is\Nthe unique part of it for me,
Dialogue: 0,0:14:54.71,0:14:57.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,right, is that I ended up in both,
Dialogue: 0,0:14:58.68,0:15:02.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,first in the convent, and then\Nin the prostitution after. That's right.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:02.55,0:15:04.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:15:04.16,0:15:08.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So one woman at the university\Nhere in Dublin, she wrote about me.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:08.12,0:15:13.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She said, Maureen Fitzroy is the living\Nembodiment of the whore-virgin dichotomy.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:13.82,0:15:15.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Right? (Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:15:15.34,0:15:18.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Doesn't it sound like something\Nyou need to go into hospital?
Dialogue: 0,0:15:18.36,0:15:20.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well, I've got this terrible dichotomy.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:20.25,0:15:21.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Doesn't it.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:21.78,0:15:25.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Right. Well, for me though, it was,\Nas a girl, it started with me dad.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:25.12,0:15:28.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I mean, half the time, when he\Nspoke to us, it was just a sort of
Dialogue: 0,0:15:28.39,0:15:32.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,tell us we were all useless rotten idiots\Nand we had no morals, that type of thing.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:32.86,0:15:36.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I certainly didn't\Ndo myself any favors.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:36.18,0:15:38.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,By the time I was 16,
Dialogue: 0,0:15:38.41,0:15:41.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I had started messing about\Nwith this older fella,
Dialogue: 0,0:15:41.28,0:15:44.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and he wanted it to be\Nour little secret,
Dialogue: 0,0:15:44.84,0:15:47.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I did as I was told, didn't I,
Dialogue: 0,0:15:47.34,0:15:53.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and when that got back to me dad, he\Nhad me sent straightaway to the convent.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:54.75,0:15:58.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well no, that older fella, he would still\Ncome to find me in the convent.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:59.17,0:16:00.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah, he'd leave me notes
Dialogue: 0,0:16:00.77,0:16:04.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,tucked into the holes in the brick\Nat the back of the charity shop
Dialogue: 0,0:16:04.00,0:16:05.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so we could meet.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:05.19,0:16:08.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And he'd tell me how\Nhe's leaving his wife,
Dialogue: 0,0:16:08.92,0:16:13.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I believed him, until I got pregnant.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:13.14,0:16:18.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I did, Peter, and I left him a note\Nabout it in our special place there,
Dialogue: 0,0:16:18.46,0:16:21.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I never did hear from him again.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:21.48,0:16:26.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No, I gave it up for adoption\Nso it could have a decent life,
Dialogue: 0,0:16:27.07,0:16:29.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and then they wouldn't let me\Nback into the convent.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:30.82,0:16:34.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No, my one sister Virginia gave me\Na fiver for the coach to Dublin,
Dialogue: 0,0:16:34.27,0:16:36.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and that's how I ended up here.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:36.99,0:16:41.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well, surprise, surprise, I fell in love\Nwith another fella much older than me,
Dialogue: 0,0:16:41.12,0:16:46.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I always say I was just so happy\Nbecause he didn't drink,
Dialogue: 0,0:16:47.35,0:16:49.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I married the bastard.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:50.50,0:16:54.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well, he didn't drink, but he did have\Njust the wee heroin problem, didn't he,
Dialogue: 0,0:16:54.18,0:16:57.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and -- That's right, and before I knew it,
Dialogue: 0,0:16:57.28,0:17:00.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,he was the one who turned me on\Nto the prostitution, my own husband.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:01.70,0:17:03.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He had me supporting the both of us.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:03.77,0:17:05.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was 18.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:06.14,0:17:09.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well, it wasn't Pretty Woman,\NI can tell you that.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:10.51,0:17:12.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That Julia Roberts,
Dialogue: 0,0:17:13.57,0:17:17.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if she'd ever had to sleep with a man\Nto put a few pounds in her pocket,
Dialogue: 0,0:17:17.57,0:17:20.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't think she'd ever\Nhave made that film.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:20.11,0:17:22.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well, for your record,
Dialogue: 0,0:17:22.34,0:17:25.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,my opinion of the legalization,\NI'd say I'm against it.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:26.62,0:17:28.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I just, I don't care what\Nthese young girls say.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:28.86,0:17:31.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know, living like that,\Nyou're just lost,
Dialogue: 0,0:17:31.98,0:17:34.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and, you know, I'm 63 years old.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:34.48,0:17:36.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm still trying to find who I am.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:37.50,0:17:41.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know, I never was a wife or a nun,
Dialogue: 0,0:17:41.24,0:17:44.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or a prostitute even, really, not really.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:44.56,0:17:47.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Nobody ever asked who I wanted to be.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:47.65,0:17:49.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They just told me,
Dialogue: 0,0:17:49.48,0:17:51.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and if you legalize it,
Dialogue: 0,0:17:51.43,0:17:55.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then you're really telling these girls,\N"Go on and get lost for a living,"
Dialogue: 0,0:17:55.26,0:17:57.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and a lot of them,\Nthey'll do as they're told.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:58.61,0:18:03.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All right, so four perspectives\Nfrom four quite -- (Applause) --
Dialogue: 0,0:18:03.67,0:18:05.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,four quite different voices there, right?
Dialogue: 0,0:18:05.83,0:18:10.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,One woman saying sex itself is natural\Nbut the sex industry seems to
Dialogue: 0,0:18:10.79,0:18:12.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,mechanize or industrialize it.
Dialogue: 0,0:18:12.79,0:18:17.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Then the second woman considered\Nsex work to be empowering,
Dialogue: 0,0:18:17.16,0:18:20.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,liberating, and feminist,\Nthough she, herself, notably,
Dialogue: 0,0:18:20.99,0:18:23.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,did not seem keen to do it.
Dialogue: 0,0:18:23.57,0:18:27.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The third woman, who actually was\Na so-called sex worker
Dialogue: 0,0:18:27.100,0:18:31.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,did not agree that it was liberating\Nbut she wanted the right
Dialogue: 0,0:18:31.34,0:18:33.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to the economic empowerment,
Dialogue: 0,0:18:33.10,0:18:36.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and then we hear the fourth woman\Nsaying not only prostitution itself
Dialogue: 0,0:18:36.41,0:18:38.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but proscribed roles for women in general
Dialogue: 0,0:18:38.94,0:18:42.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,prevented her from ever\Nfinding who she was, right?
Dialogue: 0,0:18:42.40,0:18:44.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So another fact most people did not know
Dialogue: 0,0:18:44.40,0:18:50.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,was the average age of an at-risk girl\Nbeing introduced to the sex industry
Dialogue: 0,0:18:50.08,0:18:52.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,was 12 or 13.
Dialogue: 0,0:18:52.11,0:18:55.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Also consider that the age\Nwhen all girls in that society
Dialogue: 0,0:18:55.15,0:18:58.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,first became exposed\Nto sexualized images of women
Dialogue: 0,0:18:58.79,0:19:01.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,was quite a bit earlier, right?
Dialogue: 0,0:19:01.34,0:19:06.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This was a doll called Barbie, right?
Dialogue: 0,0:19:06.10,0:19:09.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I initially thought she was an educational\Ntool for anorexia prevention --
Dialogue: 0,0:19:09.69,0:19:10.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter) --
Dialogue: 0,0:19:10.84,0:19:14.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but actually she was considered by many
Dialogue: 0,0:19:14.21,0:19:18.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to be a wholesome symbol of femininity,
Dialogue: 0,0:19:18.27,0:19:21.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and often young girls began\Nwhat was called dieting.
Dialogue: 0,0:19:21.62,0:19:25.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Remember this? This was\Nrestricting food intake on purpose
Dialogue: 0,0:19:25.85,0:19:27.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,by the age of six,
Dialogue: 0,0:19:27.23,0:19:30.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and defining themselves\Nbased on attractiveness
Dialogue: 0,0:19:30.06,0:19:31.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,by around that same time. Right?
Dialogue: 0,0:19:31.90,0:19:33.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yes?
Dialogue: 0,0:19:33.71,0:19:35.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Right, Bradley, okay, excellent point.
Dialogue: 0,0:19:35.76,0:19:40.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So there was a lucrative market\Nin that society in convincing all people
Dialogue: 0,0:19:40.58,0:19:44.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they had to look a certain way\Nto even have a sex life, right?
Dialogue: 0,0:19:44.46,0:19:49.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But girls, especially, were expected\Nto be "sexy" while avoiding
Dialogue: 0,0:19:49.62,0:19:52.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,being perceived as "sluts"\Nfor being sexual. Right?
Dialogue: 0,0:19:52.97,0:19:55.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So there's that shame piece\Nwe've heard about.
Dialogue: 0,0:19:55.24,0:19:56.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yes.
Dialogue: 0,0:19:56.84,0:19:58.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Valerie, right? Okay, very good.
Dialogue: 0,0:19:58.70,0:20:01.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Of course, men were having sex as well,
Dialogue: 0,0:20:01.51,0:20:03.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but you'll remember from the reading,
Dialogue: 0,0:20:03.94,0:20:05.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what were male sluts called?
Dialogue: 0,0:20:06.68,0:20:08.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Very good, they were called men.
Dialogue: 0,0:20:08.54,0:20:10.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter) (Applause)
Dialogue: 0,0:20:10.75,0:20:16.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So not easy living in\Na world like that, right?
Dialogue: 0,0:20:16.86,0:20:18.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Though it was not all bad news either.
Dialogue: 0,0:20:18.71,0:20:22.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Most women in the early 2000s\Nconsidered themselves empowered,
Dialogue: 0,0:20:22.22,0:20:26.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and men generally felt they were\Nalso evolved in this area,
Dialogue: 0,0:20:26.45,0:20:29.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and, in fact, most people would have\Nbeen aware of issues
Dialogue: 0,0:20:29.30,0:20:31.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like human trafficking, for example,
Dialogue: 0,0:20:31.24,0:20:33.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but they would have seen that\Nas quite separate
Dialogue: 0,0:20:33.64,0:20:36.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,from more recreational\Nadult entertainment.
Dialogue: 0,0:20:36.43,0:20:39.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And so we'll just very briefly, class --\Nwe don't have a lot of time --
Dialogue: 0,0:20:39.85,0:20:42.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we'll just very briefly hear from a man
Dialogue: 0,0:20:42.06,0:20:43.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,on our topic at this stage.
Dialogue: 0,0:20:43.84,0:20:49.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So this next subject was interviewed\Non the night of his bachelor party.
Dialogue: 0,0:20:51.43,0:20:54.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dude, can you, all right,\Ncan you just keep it down?
Dialogue: 0,0:20:54.98,0:20:57.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm trying to talk to BERT right now.
Dialogue: 0,0:20:57.18,0:20:58.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Oh, your name's not BERT.
Dialogue: 0,0:20:59.30,0:21:01.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,BERT's the name of the, oh, all right.
Dialogue: 0,0:21:01.57,0:21:04.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No, no, no, totally, it's totally fine.\NI'm mostly sober,
Dialogue: 0,0:21:04.64,0:21:07.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so I just want to be helpful.
Dialogue: 0,0:21:08.07,0:21:11.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah, and I totally believe in causes,\Nyeah, like, all that stuff.
Dialogue: 0,0:21:11.89,0:21:13.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:21:13.33,0:21:15.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And actually, I'm wearing Toms right now.
Dialogue: 0,0:21:16.95,0:21:20.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah, Toms, like, the shoes,
Dialogue: 0,0:21:20.56,0:21:23.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like, you buy a pair and then\Na kid in Africa gets clean water.
Dialogue: 0,0:21:24.86,0:21:26.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah. Totally.
Dialogue: 0,0:21:26.39,0:21:29.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But what was the question again? Sorry.
Dialogue: 0,0:21:29.18,0:21:33.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Of course I believe in women's rights.\NI'm marrying a woman.
Dialogue: 0,0:21:33.89,0:21:36.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:21:36.39,0:21:40.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No, but I mean, like, just because\NI'm in a strip club parking lot
Dialogue: 0,0:21:40.02,0:21:43.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,doesn't mean that I'm, like,\Na sexist or whatever.
Dialogue: 0,0:21:43.04,0:21:47.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,My fiancee is totally amazing,\Nshe's totally a strong girl, woman,
Dialogue: 0,0:21:47.45,0:21:49.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,smart woman, like, the whole thing.
Dialogue: 0,0:21:49.95,0:21:53.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah, she knows I'm here. She's probably\Nat a strip club herself right now,
Dialogue: 0,0:21:53.52,0:21:55.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like, as a joke, same as me.
Dialogue: 0,0:21:55.51,0:21:57.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,My best man, I told him\Nhe could surprise me,
Dialogue: 0,0:21:57.60,0:21:59.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and he thought this would be hilarious,
Dialogue: 0,0:21:59.60,0:22:01.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but this is not something.
Dialogue: 0,0:22:02.35,0:22:04.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah, we all went to B school together.
Dialogue: 0,0:22:05.06,0:22:06.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Wharton.
Dialogue: 0,0:22:06.54,0:22:07.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:22:07.72,0:22:10.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah, so, dude, can you guys --
Dialogue: 0,0:22:10.17,0:22:12.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All right, but it's my bachelor party,
Dialogue: 0,0:22:12.09,0:22:15.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I can spend it in the parking lot\Nwith Anderson Cooper if I want to.
Dialogue: 0,0:22:15.60,0:22:18.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All right, I'll see you in there.
Dialogue: 0,0:22:19.08,0:22:21.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All right, okay, so Anderson,
Dialogue: 0,0:22:21.21,0:22:25.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so, like, first of all, stripping,
Dialogue: 0,0:22:25.11,0:22:27.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but then, like, all the other things\Nyou're talking about,
Dialogue: 0,0:22:27.90,0:22:31.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,prostitution and all that stuff,\Nthat's, like, not the same thing at all.
Dialogue: 0,0:22:31.40,0:22:34.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know? Like, you keep calling it\Nthe sex industry or whatever,
Dialogue: 0,0:22:34.66,0:22:38.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but it's like, if the girl wants\Nto be an exotic dancer
Dialogue: 0,0:22:38.60,0:22:42.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and she's 18, like, that's her right.
Dialogue: 0,0:22:43.09,0:22:46.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Whoa, whoa, I hear what you're saying,\Nbut I just feel like people,
Dialogue: 0,0:22:46.34,0:22:49.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they just want to make it seem\Nlike all dudes are just, like, predators,
Dialogue: 0,0:22:49.98,0:22:53.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that we would just automatically\Ngo to a prostitute, or whatever.
Dialogue: 0,0:22:53.11,0:22:57.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Even, like, when I pledged, you know,\Nlike when I rushed my fraternity.
Dialogue: 0,0:22:58.35,0:23:01.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,My brothers who I'm close to,\Nthose guys, they're all like me.
Dialogue: 0,0:23:01.34,0:23:05.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We're just normal people, but, like,\Nthere's this myth that you must
Dialogue: 0,0:23:05.29,0:23:09.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,be that guy who is kind of an asshole,\Nand like, all bros before hos or whatever.
Dialogue: 0,0:23:09.93,0:23:13.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And actually, like, bros before hos,\Nit doesn't mean like what it sounds like.
Dialogue: 0,0:23:14.60,0:23:18.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's actually just like a joking way of\Nsaying that you care about your brothers
Dialogue: 0,0:23:18.38,0:23:20.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you put them first.
Dialogue: 0,0:23:21.47,0:23:23.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah, but, you can't blame\Nthe media, either.
Dialogue: 0,0:23:23.58,0:23:26.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I mean, like, if you\Ngo watch "Hangover 2,"
Dialogue: 0,0:23:26.11,0:23:28.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you think that's an instruction manual
Dialogue: 0,0:23:28.26,0:23:30.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for your life, like,\NI don't know what to tell you.
Dialogue: 0,0:23:30.80,0:23:32.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know? You don't\Nwatch "Bourne Identity"
Dialogue: 0,0:23:32.86,0:23:37.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and go drive your car\Nover a gondola in Venice. (Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:23:37.74,0:23:40.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well, yeah, okay, like, if you're\Na little kid or whatever,
Dialogue: 0,0:23:40.67,0:23:42.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of course it's different, but --
Dialogue: 0,0:23:42.88,0:23:46.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah, all right, I remember\None thing like that.
Dialogue: 0,0:23:47.38,0:23:50.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was at this kid's house\None time playing GTA,
Dialogue: 0,0:23:51.28,0:23:52.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,uh, Grand Theft Auto?
Dialogue: 0,0:23:53.42,0:23:56.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dude, are you from Canada? (Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:23:57.59,0:24:00.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, like, whatever, with Grand Theft Auto,
Dialogue: 0,0:24:00.99,0:24:04.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you're this kid, like, you're this guy\Nwalking around or whatever,
Dialogue: 0,0:24:04.16,0:24:07.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you can basically, like,\Nthe more cops you kill,
Dialogue: 0,0:24:07.09,0:24:09.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the more points you get,\Nand stuff like that.
Dialogue: 0,0:24:09.76,0:24:12.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But also, you can find prostitutes
Dialogue: 0,0:24:12.60,0:24:15.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and obviously you can do\Nsexual stuff with them,
Dialogue: 0,0:24:15.80,0:24:19.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but you can, like, kill them\Nand take your money back.
Dialogue: 0,0:24:20.52,0:24:24.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah, this kid, I remember he ran over\Na couple of them a few times with his car
Dialogue: 0,0:24:24.47,0:24:27.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and he got all these points.
Dialogue: 0,0:24:27.32,0:24:29.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We were, like, 10, I think.
Dialogue: 0,0:24:31.68,0:24:33.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It felt pretty terrible, actually.
Dialogue: 0,0:24:34.83,0:24:40.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No, I don't think I said anything,\NI just finished playing and went home.
Dialogue: 0,0:24:40.84,0:24:43.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All right class, so then there were men\Nwho had more than just
Dialogue: 0,0:24:43.77,0:24:46.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a passing relationship to this issue.\N(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:24:47.96,0:24:52.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The next subject described himself\Nas a reformed and remorseful pimp
Dialogue: 0,0:24:52.88,0:24:54.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,turned motivational speaker,
Dialogue: 0,0:24:54.53,0:24:56.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,life coach and therapist,
Dialogue: 0,0:24:56.96,0:25:00.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but if you want to know more about him,\Nyou'll have to come to the entire play.
Dialogue: 0,0:25:00.93,0:25:04.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Thank you so much,\Nyou beautiful TED audience.
Dialogue: 0,0:25:04.92,0:25:06.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I will see you for "Sell/Buy/Date."
Dialogue: 0,0:25:06.72,0:25:12.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause)