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Dialogue: 0,0:00:29.92,0:00:33.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We are all programmed\Nto love and be loved.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:33.84,0:00:35.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's in us.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:35.26,0:00:39.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It is our genetic programming necessary\Nfor the reproduction of the species.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:40.67,0:00:42.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But love is magic!
Dialogue: 0,0:00:42.34,0:00:44.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,For this magic to work,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:45.00,0:00:47.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,certain conditions must be met.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:47.61,0:00:52.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But too often, we block\Nthis emotional circulation
Dialogue: 0,0:00:52.21,0:00:53.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,without knowing it.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:53.96,0:00:58.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yet, we are all capable, if we will,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:58.39,0:00:59.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to find love in three months.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:59.93,0:01:03.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I would like to tell you two things:
Dialogue: 0,0:01:03.73,0:01:04.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,first,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:07.12,0:01:11.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it is the opposite of what you can read\Nin women's magazines;
Dialogue: 0,0:01:13.12,0:01:14.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,secondly,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:14.83,0:01:17.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it relies on the opposite dynamics
Dialogue: 0,0:01:17.36,0:01:20.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of that which consists\Nin lying on a couch.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:20.71,0:01:24.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Why is it contrary to\Nwhat is said in women's magazines?
Dialogue: 0,0:01:24.05,0:01:26.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because in women's magazines,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:26.10,0:01:30.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you are often told you should talk\Nabout your strong points;
Dialogue: 0,0:01:31.01,0:01:33.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that what kills love is control -
Dialogue: 0,0:01:34.36,0:01:36.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,control over your image,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:36.77,0:01:39.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,control over what you want\Nto reveal about yourself.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:39.88,0:01:42.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So you are told that you must\Ntalk about your strong points,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:42.73,0:01:44.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that you must be self-confident,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:44.76,0:01:46.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and all that seems natural to you.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:46.94,0:01:50.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I often meet women who are beautiful,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:50.27,0:01:54.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,have a great job,\Nare smart, are self-confident.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:54.75,0:01:56.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And yet, they can't find love.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:56.94,0:01:59.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If we had to wait for self-confidence
Dialogue: 0,0:02:01.10,0:02:02.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to find love,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:02.16,0:02:05.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there would not be many babies on Earth.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:05.67,0:02:09.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I will take the example of two singles:
Dialogue: 0,0:02:09.18,0:02:11.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,imagine Paul and Virginia.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:11.23,0:02:14.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They meet for the first time\Naround a drink.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:14.49,0:02:17.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Paul is a serious man,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:17.42,0:02:22.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,he will want to appear\Nintelligent, but also friendly.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:22.92,0:02:26.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Virginie is a little more bohemian,\Nso she will want to show
Dialogue: 0,0:02:26.50,0:02:31.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,how eclectic her life is,\Nhow unusual her activities are,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:31.09,0:02:34.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and then she will also want\Nto talk about her travels.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:34.10,0:02:37.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So that exchange is bound for disaster.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:37.99,0:02:42.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It so happens that when you want\Nto show yourself in your best light,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:42.96,0:02:45.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when you wish to arouse admiration,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:46.37,0:02:51.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,without knowing it, you block\Nthe circulation of emotions.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:52.60,0:02:54.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that's a disaster.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:56.14,0:03:00.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Imagine a cursor on\Nthe range of your personality:
Dialogue: 0,0:03:01.56,0:03:04.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,at one end, you gather\Nall your sources of joy:
Dialogue: 0,0:03:04.80,0:03:08.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what makes you tick, what makes you\Nwake up in the morning,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:08.09,0:03:09.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what makes you very joyful,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:09.78,0:03:13.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And at the other end,\Nyou put what, in your journey,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:13.03,0:03:18.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,constitutes your trials,\Nbut also your doubts, your questions.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:19.41,0:03:21.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The more you advance in age,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:21.05,0:03:25.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the more you tend to place\Nthat cursor in the center -
Dialogue: 0,0:03:25.74,0:03:30.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what you do, your movies, your readings,\Nyour outings, your travels.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:30.52,0:03:34.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The more you advance in age,\Nthe more you need to be reassured.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:34.60,0:03:37.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In fact, you must do the opposite.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:37.19,0:03:41.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sometimes, you get to meet\Nsomeone only once,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:41.25,0:03:45.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then you might as well\Nbe yourself, only stronger.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:45.47,0:03:51.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because this is the only way\Nto truly display our personality,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:51.09,0:03:53.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to let go of your control,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:54.06,0:03:59.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and then to establish a bridge of exchange\Nso as to let emotions circulate.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:59.95,0:04:04.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Secondly: why is falling in love\Nor finding love
Dialogue: 0,0:04:04.03,0:04:08.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the absolutely opposite dynamics\Nof lying on a couch?
Dialogue: 0,0:04:08.28,0:04:10.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because when you are at the shrink,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:10.54,0:04:13.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you're into introspection, into analysis.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:13.90,0:04:19.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When you want to fall in love,\Nyou are into receiving, into opening up.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:19.33,0:04:22.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When you are at a psychiatrist's,\Nyou try to understand;
Dialogue: 0,0:04:22.43,0:04:24.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to understand yourself,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:24.27,0:04:26.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,understand your expectations;
Dialogue: 0,0:04:26.70,0:04:33.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when you fall in love,\Nyou are totally into receiving,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:33.01,0:04:35.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you must allow yourself\Nto be surprised by a personality,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:35.95,0:04:37.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you must be carried away,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:37.28,0:04:40.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you must not listen\Nto this little voice that judges,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:41.22,0:04:45.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that will tell you that this person\Ndoes not meet your requirements.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:45.23,0:04:48.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,For Paul and Virginia
Dialogue: 0,0:04:48.54,0:04:52.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to have a fiery history,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:53.43,0:04:57.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they must return\Nto the state of an adolescent;
Dialogue: 0,0:04:57.37,0:05:03.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,this teenager,\Nwith his emotions, his moods,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:03.88,0:05:07.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and the somewhat cyclotomic\Nactivity of his moods.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:07.32,0:05:10.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Imagine him coming out\Nof a period of withdrawal;
Dialogue: 0,0:05:11.23,0:05:15.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,by opening up to the world,\Nhe's all about receiving from others,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:16.65,0:05:20.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and his attention isn't caught by\Nthe first or second person passing by
Dialogue: 0,0:05:20.82,0:05:22.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but the third one;
Dialogue: 0,0:05:22.34,0:05:26.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,he's all about connection\Nwith this passing person
Dialogue: 0,0:05:26.10,0:05:29.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so he doesn't control himself at all,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:29.17,0:05:31.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and he can totally receive.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:31.71,0:05:34.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You will tell me, "OK,\Nit's all very well, but exactly,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:34.31,0:05:36.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,around a drink, how do you do it?"
Dialogue: 0,0:05:36.22,0:05:40.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In order to create love reciprocity,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:42.15,0:05:45.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you must wake up a sleeping being.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:45.80,0:05:50.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Waking up in yourself, but also\Nfor the other, a sleeping being,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:50.53,0:05:56.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it means resonating strings\Nthat do not vibrate often.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:56.62,0:05:58.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's about asking questions
Dialogue: 0,0:05:59.43,0:06:03.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,about what drives our life,\Nwhat drives us,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:03.84,0:06:05.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what makes us joyful,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:05.82,0:06:08.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,about perhaps a difficult journey,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:08.14,0:06:12.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,about the look back on\Nsuch or such experience.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:12.55,0:06:14.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I can already hear some say,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:14.23,0:06:16.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Oh, no! But on the first date,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:16.20,0:06:18.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you don't go about\Nasking intimate questions."
Dialogue: 0,0:06:18.54,0:06:20.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But these are not intimate questions!
Dialogue: 0,0:06:20.35,0:06:21.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Instead of asking,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:21.100,0:06:24.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"What's your job, how's it going?"
Dialogue: 0,0:06:24.17,0:06:26.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,maybe, "Why did you choose this job?"
Dialogue: 0,0:06:26.64,0:06:28.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Instead of asking,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:28.48,0:06:32.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Ah, you play golf...\NAnd where do you play?
Dialogue: 0,0:06:32.73,0:06:34.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How often do you play?", you ask,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:34.80,0:06:37.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Why do you play golf? And tennis?
Dialogue: 0,0:06:37.35,0:06:39.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Why did you choose this career change?"
Dialogue: 0,0:06:39.73,0:06:45.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It is the only way to express\Nwhat lies deep within you.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:45.71,0:06:49.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And then finally, you realize\Nthat it is not every day
Dialogue: 0,0:06:49.98,0:06:53.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you get the opportunity\Nto look within yourself
Dialogue: 0,0:06:53.16,0:06:56.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for answers to these questions\Nabout your choices.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:56.26,0:06:59.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is the only way to free
Dialogue: 0,0:06:59.76,0:07:04.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and set up this exchange bridge\Nthat allows emotions to circulate.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:04.92,0:07:09.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You fall in love with someone\Nnot for what they do, or how they do it,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:10.31,0:07:12.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but for why they do it.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:13.21,0:07:15.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Do you know these Russian dolls?
Dialogue: 0,0:07:15.13,0:07:18.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Imagine that in you,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:18.21,0:07:22.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you have several Russian dolls:\Nthe biggest is the one that controls.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:23.42,0:07:28.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well, if you really want to fall in love
Dialogue: 0,0:07:28.23,0:07:32.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and be in an exchange\Nwhere emotions circulate,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:32.58,0:07:34.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you must look not for the doll
Dialogue: 0,0:07:34.02,0:07:38.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that controls, judges,\Nthinks, is intelligent,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:38.76,0:07:43.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but this smallest,\Nvery whole doll at the bottom,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:43.99,0:07:49.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which is the one that, like the tree,\Nwants to grow, receive light,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:51.15,0:07:54.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,transform, be touched.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:54.22,0:07:59.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because you all know\Nthat being in love, falling in love
Dialogue: 0,0:07:59.20,0:08:01.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is to be revealed to oneself.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:03.62,0:08:06.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I can already hear some people say,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:06.01,0:08:07.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"No, I do not work like that.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:07.91,0:08:10.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I let myself be guided\Nby physical attractions
Dialogue: 0,0:08:10.91,0:08:14.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or I let myself be guided\Nby intellectual attraction."
Dialogue: 0,0:08:15.00,0:08:16.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Fine.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:16.68,0:08:19.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But you can fail.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:19.19,0:08:23.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You can fail if you do not enrich\Nyour attractions
Dialogue: 0,0:08:23.70,0:08:27.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with all that very raw material\Nwhich constitutes us.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:27.41,0:08:29.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Many people come to see me,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:29.03,0:08:31.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who are sometimes divorced,\Nsingle, and who tell me,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:31.81,0:08:34.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I have not fallen in love for years,"
Dialogue: 0,0:08:34.13,0:08:37.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or "I ask for too much,\NI cannot find the right person,"
Dialogue: 0,0:08:37.79,0:08:39.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or "I do not meet enough people,"
Dialogue: 0,0:08:39.78,0:08:43.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or "I am not interested\Nin anyone at the moment!"
Dialogue: 0,0:08:43.18,0:08:46.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well, in fact, you are misinterpreting.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:46.48,0:08:50.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In fact, these people,\Nwhen they meet someone,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:50.62,0:08:54.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,only get 10% of their personality.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:54.70,0:08:58.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because if they really establish\Na bridge of exchange
Dialogue: 0,0:08:58.26,0:08:59.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where emotions circulate,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:59.83,0:09:03.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then they receive 100% of the person.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:03.01,0:09:05.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,For couples, you'll tell me,\N"OK, that's fine,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:05.95,0:09:08.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but falling in love with\Nyour significant other
Dialogue: 0,0:09:08.43,0:09:10.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,does it work the same way?"
Dialogue: 0,0:09:10.59,0:09:13.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And here I say a big yes.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:13.53,0:09:18.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,For a couple, it's about\Nreconnecting regularly
Dialogue: 0,0:09:18.58,0:09:21.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with what moves us in the other.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:23.05,0:09:28.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When we separate, when we cheat,\Nwhen we distance ourselves,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:28.59,0:09:31.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it is because we lost\Nthe connection between us.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:32.81,0:09:34.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We all evolve!
Dialogue: 0,0:09:34.56,0:09:37.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Fifteen or twenty years later,\Nwe are not the same anymore.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:37.40,0:09:39.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's not that bad.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:39.52,0:09:42.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But just because of exchanges,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:43.47,0:09:48.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we connect regularly\Nthrough what makes us vibrate,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:48.09,0:09:50.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,through what makes us sensitive,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:50.24,0:09:55.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then we touch the other's vulnerability.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:56.22,0:09:59.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know, vulnerability\Nhas nothing to do with weakness.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:59.98,0:10:03.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Vulnerability is what is fragile,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:03.16,0:10:05.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's our doubts, our questions.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:05.93,0:10:08.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because you know,\Nsomeone's strength, you see it,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:08.69,0:10:10.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you see it all the time.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:10.14,0:10:14.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,On the other hand,\Nvulnerability is rarely shown.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:14.58,0:10:19.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We often separate for the same reasons\Nwe have loved each other.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:19.88,0:10:21.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You remember Paul -
Dialogue: 0,0:10:21.87,0:10:24.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,fifteen years and three children later,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:25.21,0:10:30.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,he's going to get irritated, upset\Nabout Virginie's very bohemian side.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:30.42,0:10:35.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And Virginie will be irritated\Nby Paul's rigidity
Dialogue: 0,0:10:35.50,0:10:40.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and his very orderly mind\Nover things and the world.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:40.50,0:10:42.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And yet,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:43.46,0:10:48.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they were precisely attracted\Nfifteen years earlier
Dialogue: 0,0:10:48.43,0:10:51.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,by this difference,\Nby this very different matter
Dialogue: 0,0:10:52.73,0:10:58.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that had in fact, perhaps,\Nawakened something in them
Dialogue: 0,0:10:58.66,0:11:01.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that their education had stifled.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:02.56,0:11:06.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If the couple connects regularly,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:08.12,0:11:12.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if the couple sets up these exchanges,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:12.30,0:11:18.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then it is still easier to accept the idea
Dialogue: 0,0:11:18.42,0:11:20.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of the other's difference.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:21.10,0:11:24.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If we want to get out\Nof the differences-irritate-me stage,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:24.73,0:11:27.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that's when we really understand
Dialogue: 0,0:11:27.75,0:11:32.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what love with a capital L is for,\Nwhat a couple that lasts is for.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:32.71,0:11:37.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because it is much easier\Nto accept the alterity of the other
Dialogue: 0,0:11:37.83,0:11:43.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when we connect regularly,\Nwhen we engage regularly.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:43.44,0:11:46.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The important thing I wanted\Nto tell you about the couple
Dialogue: 0,0:11:46.73,0:11:49.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is that is when you connect,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:49.59,0:11:53.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it is much easier\Nto understand that the other,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:53.40,0:11:56.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Is actually an invitation to go
Dialogue: 0,0:11:56.98,0:12:01.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and wake up in us this part
Dialogue: 0,0:12:01.04,0:12:04.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that maybe our education\Nhas buried, has stifled.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:04.83,0:12:07.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The other is an invitation
Dialogue: 0,0:12:08.54,0:12:14.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to go reveal colors,\Nother colors of our personality.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:14.66,0:12:16.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Love!
Dialogue: 0,0:12:16.11,0:12:17.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause)