1 00:00:05,970 --> 00:00:08,198 Mahatma Gandhi once said, 2 00:00:08,199 --> 00:00:11,838 "There are two types of power in the world: 3 00:00:11,839 --> 00:00:15,118 the first obtained for the fear of punishment, 4 00:00:15,119 --> 00:00:17,879 and the second through acts of love." 5 00:00:17,880 --> 00:00:20,479 He believed in love as a force for change, 6 00:00:20,480 --> 00:00:24,709 and that any power obtained through the fear of punishment was weak, 7 00:00:24,710 --> 00:00:28,799 temporary, corrosive to the human spirit, 8 00:00:28,800 --> 00:00:32,158 whereas that power enacted through the acts of love 9 00:00:32,159 --> 00:00:35,078 was 1,000 times more effective. 10 00:00:35,079 --> 00:00:39,279 And better yet, permanent. 11 00:00:39,280 --> 00:00:43,428 I felt that power of love from my father 12 00:00:43,429 --> 00:00:47,599 the first time he taught me how to ride a bicycle. 13 00:00:47,600 --> 00:00:49,398 His love took the form of patience. 14 00:00:49,399 --> 00:00:56,249 I recall how he gently ran beside me holding, steadying, pushing, 15 00:00:56,250 --> 00:01:01,339 gently encouraging me to trust in what he knew was inside of me. 16 00:01:02,489 --> 00:01:04,679 I must have failed 100 times. 17 00:01:06,149 --> 00:01:09,959 But then came that moment, as if by some act of magic, 18 00:01:09,960 --> 00:01:13,399 my tires righted for the first time. 19 00:01:13,400 --> 00:01:15,589 And I remember as this young child 20 00:01:15,590 --> 00:01:21,958 feeling as if I was floating in flight through the heart of a neighborhood. 21 00:01:21,959 --> 00:01:27,639 And for that moment, all the things that hung heavy in my young heart, 22 00:01:27,640 --> 00:01:31,078 all the things my young mind couldn't understand, 23 00:01:31,079 --> 00:01:34,078 my parents late-night fights, 24 00:01:34,079 --> 00:01:37,718 their crumbling marriage, the slow-moving disease 25 00:01:37,719 --> 00:01:39,519 that crept through my mother's body, 26 00:01:39,520 --> 00:01:42,969 all of it seemed to disappear that first afternoon. 27 00:01:44,439 --> 00:01:49,119 And so it was not long after that that I began a ritual of my own. 28 00:01:49,120 --> 00:01:50,949 It began each day after school 29 00:01:50,950 --> 00:01:53,039 as I'd hurriedly make my way to my bicycle, 30 00:01:53,040 --> 00:01:56,508 grab it from the rack, pedal across my neighborhood, 31 00:01:56,509 --> 00:01:57,958 push it beneath the fence, 32 00:01:57,959 --> 00:02:02,318 and then cycle deep into the heart of a nearby wildlands 33 00:02:02,319 --> 00:02:06,679 in the east of the San Francisco Bay area. 34 00:02:06,680 --> 00:02:09,559 And it was there that I found solace. 35 00:02:09,560 --> 00:02:15,478 Simply peddling over dirt, through the forest and the trees, 36 00:02:15,479 --> 00:02:19,598 because there was something in that simple act of motion 37 00:02:19,599 --> 00:02:23,408 atop that equally simple machine of rubber and steel 38 00:02:23,409 --> 00:02:26,438 that brought me back to myself. 39 00:02:26,439 --> 00:02:29,890 And in that I was free. 40 00:02:31,400 --> 00:02:34,239 But then my life changed as all lives must. 41 00:02:34,240 --> 00:02:37,399 And within two years, my parents had argued so much, 42 00:02:37,400 --> 00:02:43,099 my father moved out of the house, and I lost interest in that bike. 43 00:02:44,439 --> 00:02:49,279 And as it sat dormant collecting dust in some remote corner of the garage, 44 00:02:49,280 --> 00:02:52,440 my mother died in the midst of a bitter divorce. 45 00:02:53,960 --> 00:02:58,318 Needless to say, as I was first thrust out in the world as a young man, 46 00:02:58,319 --> 00:03:01,809 I spent the first decade of my life angry, 47 00:03:01,810 --> 00:03:06,279 bitter, hurting myself, hurting others, 48 00:03:06,280 --> 00:03:10,158 the power of love nowhere to be found. 49 00:03:10,159 --> 00:03:13,878 But then my father returned to my life. 50 00:03:13,879 --> 00:03:17,039 He said to me, "I understand. 51 00:03:18,879 --> 00:03:21,839 I felt that loss, too. 52 00:03:21,840 --> 00:03:23,438 And I needed to talk to somebody. 53 00:03:23,439 --> 00:03:26,449 Perhaps you should think about that as well." 54 00:03:28,879 --> 00:03:32,460 Six months later, I sat before a psychotherapist. 55 00:03:33,940 --> 00:03:36,718 "I think I'm crazy," I said to her. 56 00:03:36,719 --> 00:03:39,207 I thought she'd have me committed. 57 00:03:39,208 --> 00:03:42,399 Instead, she looked at me with warm, empathetic eyes, and she said, 58 00:03:42,400 --> 00:03:46,758 "Rick, the ones who are truly crazy in this world 59 00:03:46,759 --> 00:03:50,839 are the ones who are trying very hard to convince you that they're not." 60 00:03:51,889 --> 00:03:55,038 That was the beginning of my healing path. 61 00:03:55,039 --> 00:03:57,878 And for the next three years, I dug deeply into myself, 62 00:03:57,879 --> 00:04:01,779 sometimes looking at parts I didn't want to see. 63 00:04:03,019 --> 00:04:06,819 But after that three-years period, there came what some people call 64 00:04:06,820 --> 00:04:10,799 a moment of clarity, a tipping point, if you will, 65 00:04:10,800 --> 00:04:16,958 at which I was able to ask myself one of life's most important questions: 66 00:04:16,959 --> 00:04:19,889 what do you want before you die? 67 00:04:19,890 --> 00:04:22,239 What is your dream? 68 00:04:22,240 --> 00:04:25,518 I had worked 14 years as a daily newspaper photographer, 69 00:04:25,519 --> 00:04:30,349 and I knew one thing for sure: that career was no longer feeding me. 70 00:04:31,519 --> 00:04:34,239 I had had a larger dream. 71 00:04:34,240 --> 00:04:37,919 I had always dreamed of riding a bicycle around the world. 72 00:04:37,920 --> 00:04:40,638 And so within a two-year period of time, 73 00:04:40,639 --> 00:04:43,999 I found myself sitting on the top of the Golden Gate Bridge on my bike, 74 00:04:44,000 --> 00:04:50,160 saying goodbye to friends and family, riding 4,000 miles across America. 75 00:04:52,800 --> 00:04:57,238 I pedaled in America 4,000 miles there, and moved on to Europe 76 00:04:57,239 --> 00:05:02,119 where I spent eight months cycling through the coldest winter in European record. 77 00:05:03,480 --> 00:05:08,559 From there, I went south through Greece and into Turkey. 78 00:05:08,560 --> 00:05:10,799 I was denied a visa to come into Iran 79 00:05:10,800 --> 00:05:15,999 so I continued through Uzbekistan, Kyrgyzstan, China, 80 00:05:16,000 --> 00:05:21,180 18,000 feet over the Tibetan Plateau, and down into India, 81 00:05:23,080 --> 00:05:25,080 Nepal, and Bangladesh. 82 00:05:27,080 --> 00:05:29,878 It was there that I began to see something different 83 00:05:29,879 --> 00:05:32,339 from the seat of my bicycle: 84 00:05:32,340 --> 00:05:36,150 suffering on a level that I had never seen before. 85 00:05:37,480 --> 00:05:40,918 And only then did I learn the second power of love, 86 00:05:40,919 --> 00:05:44,969 the first being the care of self, and the second to allow that 87 00:05:44,970 --> 00:05:48,950 to be reflected outwards, towards service to others. 88 00:05:50,680 --> 00:05:53,318 I began volunteering in the time off my bike. 89 00:05:53,319 --> 00:05:55,789 The first, the hardest, was comforting 90 00:05:55,790 --> 00:05:58,879 the dead and dying in an aid hospice in Thailand. 91 00:06:01,279 --> 00:06:05,248 That was followed by bomb extraction work 92 00:06:05,249 --> 00:06:08,608 in Laos alongside these gentlemen 93 00:06:08,609 --> 00:06:13,039 that extract bombs and keep them from killing anybody else. 94 00:06:13,040 --> 00:06:18,199 I followed that up in Vietnam by working alongside mine victim rehabilitation 95 00:06:19,449 --> 00:06:23,100 and then taught English to impoverished children in Cambodia. 96 00:06:24,870 --> 00:06:26,528 But the reason I'm here today 97 00:06:26,529 --> 00:06:29,838 is to tell you about what happened just after that. 98 00:06:29,839 --> 00:06:33,039 I was cycling south through Thailand, 99 00:06:33,040 --> 00:06:38,679 and I met this gentleman, an Iranian from Mashhad, Iran. 100 00:06:38,680 --> 00:06:40,759 We corresponded by email for a while. 101 00:06:40,760 --> 00:06:42,791 Mohammed Tajaran was his name. 102 00:06:42,792 --> 00:06:45,751 He invited me to come to Penang, Malaysia. 103 00:06:46,589 --> 00:06:50,599 Pretty soon, I was sitting having coffee and lunch with him. 104 00:06:50,600 --> 00:06:53,119 We agreed we'd ride together across Malaysia, 105 00:06:53,120 --> 00:06:59,278 across Malaysia's main range, one of the oldest rainforests in the world. 106 00:06:59,279 --> 00:07:03,120 And as we rode side by side, I asked him about his life. 107 00:07:04,480 --> 00:07:06,629 What he told me was profound. 108 00:07:07,839 --> 00:07:11,638 He told me, his father had died when he was young, 109 00:07:11,639 --> 00:07:14,639 and that he'd done everything right in his life; 110 00:07:15,999 --> 00:07:19,520 that he got his degree in engineering, opened a successful business. 111 00:07:19,521 --> 00:07:21,758 But then as he was climbing a mountain one day, 112 00:07:21,759 --> 00:07:26,318 he realized that it just wasn't right. 113 00:07:26,319 --> 00:07:32,078 And so, he began to plan for a journey. 114 00:07:32,079 --> 00:07:36,059 For him, he had a dream to cycle around the world. 115 00:07:37,759 --> 00:07:42,680 And as he got ready to do that, he learned English, 116 00:07:44,510 --> 00:07:49,239 and then he just set out with 500 bucks in his pocket. 117 00:07:49,240 --> 00:07:54,138 Well, that afternoon, what I realized 118 00:07:54,139 --> 00:07:58,608 was this man was telling my story. 119 00:07:58,609 --> 00:08:01,039 That was my story. 120 00:08:01,040 --> 00:08:04,739 And I thought to myself: here was this man that people were saying, 121 00:08:04,740 --> 00:08:09,709 this is your enemy, when, in fact, I had more in common with this man 122 00:08:09,710 --> 00:08:12,509 than I had with many of my friends back home. 123 00:08:15,079 --> 00:08:17,018 After the end of our ride, 124 00:08:17,019 --> 00:08:20,448 into the east coast of Malaysia, we dug a hole. 125 00:08:20,449 --> 00:08:22,638 He was riding around the world planting trees. 126 00:08:22,639 --> 00:08:25,758 And we decided to plant a tree together, for peace, 127 00:08:25,759 --> 00:08:28,578 a tree that still remains and grows for peace 128 00:08:28,579 --> 00:08:30,939 between our two countries, America and Iran. 129 00:08:32,119 --> 00:08:33,460 (Applause) 130 00:08:42,120 --> 00:08:47,719 And when I said goodbye to Mohammed, I told him that I loved him. 131 00:08:47,720 --> 00:08:54,438 I began to weep because I was sorry that our two countries 132 00:08:54,439 --> 00:08:58,518 were hurling a warlike rhetoric at one another. 133 00:08:58,519 --> 00:09:00,608 They were not acting from the power of love, 134 00:09:00,609 --> 00:09:02,678 but they were acting from this power 135 00:09:02,679 --> 00:09:06,758 they hope to attain through threats of punishment. 136 00:09:06,759 --> 00:09:09,649 And so, over the years that I didn't see Mohammed, 137 00:09:09,650 --> 00:09:14,659 we developed a second program project called "The Wheels of Peace". 138 00:09:15,799 --> 00:09:17,638 And instead of explaining that to you, 139 00:09:17,639 --> 00:09:20,859 I'd like to invite him out here to explain it to you himself. 140 00:09:20,860 --> 00:09:25,518 Mohammed, are you in there somewhere? He got lost on his bike somewhere. 141 00:09:25,519 --> 00:09:29,839 Where are you Mohammed? He's shy. 142 00:09:29,840 --> 00:09:31,439 He doesn't want to come out now. 143 00:09:31,440 --> 00:09:33,550 Mohammad, are you back there? 144 00:09:38,320 --> 00:09:39,678 I don't know what happened. 145 00:09:39,679 --> 00:09:41,279 (Applause) 146 00:09:49,199 --> 00:09:52,679 Mohammed Tajaran: I've been waiting so long for this moment 147 00:09:52,680 --> 00:09:57,959 to hug one of my best friends in front of a crowd in my country, in Iran. 148 00:09:57,960 --> 00:10:00,970 I'm so excited, so emotional now. 149 00:10:02,380 --> 00:10:04,838 "Wheels of Peace" is a project 150 00:10:04,839 --> 00:10:08,039 to connect kids from two different nations. 151 00:10:08,042 --> 00:10:14,479 They're like two wheels of a bicycle, totally dependent on each other. 152 00:10:14,480 --> 00:10:18,719 If one doesn't work, the other one would fail. 153 00:10:18,720 --> 00:10:25,979 Rick and I are just like a frame trying to connect them through our force, 154 00:10:25,980 --> 00:10:29,139 our letters and exchanging those letters. 155 00:10:30,429 --> 00:10:32,010 A letter to understand 156 00:10:32,930 --> 00:10:36,758 they have the same values in the whole system. 157 00:10:36,759 --> 00:10:40,548 In the same way, in our world, 158 00:10:40,549 --> 00:10:45,429 peace is related to the peace of every single nation. 159 00:10:46,876 --> 00:10:49,068 As Saadi said, 160 00:10:49,069 --> 00:10:54,839 "Human beings are members of a whole, in creation of one essence and soul. 161 00:10:54,840 --> 00:11:01,660 If one member is afflicted with pain, other members uneasy will remain." 162 00:11:04,000 --> 00:11:08,250 RG: And so Mohammed and I visited classrooms in Iran and America. 163 00:11:08,269 --> 00:11:10,999 Each one of us would collect artwork and letters 164 00:11:11,000 --> 00:11:13,999 to be exchanged by the children. 165 00:11:14,000 --> 00:11:17,209 Then we met in-- I can't say the word, 166 00:11:17,210 --> 00:11:20,638 Kish Island, just next door last year. 167 00:11:20,639 --> 00:11:25,239 And we brought that artwork and those letters together. 168 00:11:25,240 --> 00:11:27,918 And I guess the thing that I want to finish with is: 169 00:11:27,919 --> 00:11:30,599 what did you learn from all of this? 170 00:11:30,600 --> 00:11:34,999 And you know, I think it's something that all of you already know; 171 00:11:35,000 --> 00:11:39,079 that in our approach every day, moment to moment, 172 00:11:39,080 --> 00:11:42,678 we have a choice to operate from what Gandhi spoke of, 173 00:11:42,679 --> 00:11:48,399 to operate from that place of love or to operate from that place of fear. 174 00:11:50,399 --> 00:11:54,599 And so, for me personally, I think you know the choice, 175 00:11:54,600 --> 00:11:57,558 I think you know the choice for Mohammad. 176 00:11:57,559 --> 00:11:59,857 But we'll be gone soon enough in so many years, 177 00:11:59,858 --> 00:12:02,614 and we have the next generation coming. 178 00:12:02,615 --> 00:12:04,999 So I'd like to share with you what they had to say 179 00:12:05,000 --> 00:12:07,969 to one another with their art and with their letters. 180 00:12:10,909 --> 00:12:14,979 [What did the children of America and Iran have to say to one another?] 181 00:12:16,369 --> 00:12:18,323 (Video) (Music) 182 00:12:33,208 --> 00:12:35,062 [I love you my friend!] 183 00:12:35,063 --> 00:12:38,539 [Aren't we all humans, then why can't we live in peace?] 184 00:12:46,609 --> 00:12:47,730 [Love] 185 00:12:53,030 --> 00:12:55,269 [me and you, friends forever] 186 00:13:01,715 --> 00:13:02,895 [Friends] 187 00:13:04,879 --> 00:13:06,660 [No more war] 188 00:13:13,294 --> 00:13:16,294 [Iran, America, Peace] 189 00:13:17,230 --> 00:13:19,989 [No war, more peace] 190 00:13:32,659 --> 00:13:36,388 [Love is the only force capable of turning an enemy into a friend." Dr.MLK Jr.] 191 00:13:36,388 --> 00:13:37,439 (Applause) 192 00:13:37,440 --> 00:13:38,499 RG: Thank you. 193 00:13:38,500 --> 00:13:40,919 MT: Thank you very much. I really appreciate it. 194 00:13:40,920 --> 00:13:42,320 (Applause)