[Script Info] Title: [Events] Format: Layer, Start, End, Style, Name, MarginL, MarginR, MarginV, Effect, Text Dialogue: 0,0:00:00.12,0:00:04.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[This talk contains graphic content.\NViewer discretion is advised.] Dialogue: 0,0:00:04.28,0:00:07.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is Nina Rodríguez's Facebook profile. Dialogue: 0,0:00:09.07,0:00:11.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This person had three different profiles Dialogue: 0,0:00:11.29,0:00:15.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and 890 kids between 8 and 13 years old\Namong her friends list. Dialogue: 0,0:00:18.83,0:00:22.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,These are excerpts of a chat\Nwith one of those kids. Dialogue: 0,0:00:25.38,0:00:27.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is an exact copy of the chat. Dialogue: 0,0:00:28.65,0:00:30.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's part of the case file. Dialogue: 0,0:00:32.89,0:00:36.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This kid started sending private photos Dialogue: 0,0:00:36.37,0:00:38.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,until his family realized\Nwhat was going on. Dialogue: 0,0:00:39.87,0:00:44.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The police report and subsequent\Ninvestigation lead them to a house. Dialogue: 0,0:00:45.41,0:00:47.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This was the girl's bedroom. Dialogue: 0,0:00:50.45,0:00:55.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Nina Rodríguez was actually\Na 24-year-old man Dialogue: 0,0:00:55.48,0:00:58.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that used to do this with lots of kids. Dialogue: 0,0:01:01.47,0:01:03.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Micaela Ortega was 12 years old Dialogue: 0,0:01:04.70,0:01:07.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when she went to meet\Nher new Facebook friend, Dialogue: 0,0:01:07.50,0:01:08.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,also 12. Dialogue: 0,0:01:09.67,0:01:12.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Rochi de River," was her name. Dialogue: 0,0:01:14.14,0:01:17.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She actually met Jonathan Luna,\Nwho was 26 years old. Dialogue: 0,0:01:18.61,0:01:20.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When they finally caught him, Dialogue: 0,0:01:20.28,0:01:24.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,he confessed that he killed the girl\Nbecause she refused to have sex with him. Dialogue: 0,0:01:26.70,0:01:29.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He had four Facebook profiles Dialogue: 0,0:01:29.71,0:01:33.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and 1,700 women on his contact list; Dialogue: 0,0:01:35.00,0:01:37.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,90 percent of them\Nwere under 13 years old. Dialogue: 0,0:01:40.53,0:01:42.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,These are two different\Ncases of "grooming": Dialogue: 0,0:01:44.20,0:01:47.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,an adult contacts a kid\Nthrough the internet, Dialogue: 0,0:01:48.26,0:01:52.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and through manipulation or lying,\Nleads that kid into sexual territory -- Dialogue: 0,0:01:52.63,0:01:54.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,from talking about sex Dialogue: 0,0:01:54.53,0:01:56.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to sharing private photos, Dialogue: 0,0:01:56.73,0:01:58.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,recording the kid using a webcam Dialogue: 0,0:01:58.98,0:02:00.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or arranging an in-person meeting. Dialogue: 0,0:02:02.53,0:02:03.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is grooming. Dialogue: 0,0:02:04.59,0:02:07.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is happening, and it's on the rise. Dialogue: 0,0:02:09.73,0:02:12.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The question is: What are we going to do? Dialogue: 0,0:02:12.21,0:02:15.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because, in the meantime, kids are alone. Dialogue: 0,0:02:16.72,0:02:18.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They finish dinner, go to their rooms, Dialogue: 0,0:02:18.76,0:02:20.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,close the door, Dialogue: 0,0:02:20.96,0:02:23.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,get on their computer, their cell phones, Dialogue: 0,0:02:23.41,0:02:25.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and get into a bar, Dialogue: 0,0:02:26.70,0:02:27.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,into a club. Dialogue: 0,0:02:30.28,0:02:32.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Think for one second\Nabout what I've just said: Dialogue: 0,0:02:34.75,0:02:37.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they're in a place full of strangers Dialogue: 0,0:02:37.62,0:02:39.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in an uninhibited environment. Dialogue: 0,0:02:41.85,0:02:43.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The internet broke physical boundaries. Dialogue: 0,0:02:44.74,0:02:48.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When we're alone in our bedroom\Nand we go online, Dialogue: 0,0:02:48.80,0:02:50.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we're not really alone. Dialogue: 0,0:02:53.46,0:02:58.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There are at least two reasons\Nwhy we're not taking care of this, Dialogue: 0,0:02:58.16,0:02:59.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or at least not in the right way. Dialogue: 0,0:03:01.78,0:03:06.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,First, we're sure that everything\Nthat happens online is "virtual." Dialogue: 0,0:03:06.21,0:03:09.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In fact, we call it "the virtual world." Dialogue: 0,0:03:11.02,0:03:12.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you look it up in the dictionary, Dialogue: 0,0:03:13.82,0:03:16.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,something virtual is something\Nthat seems to exist Dialogue: 0,0:03:16.32,0:03:17.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but is not real. Dialogue: 0,0:03:19.03,0:03:23.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And we use that word\Nto talk about the internet: Dialogue: 0,0:03:23.22,0:03:24.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,something not real. Dialogue: 0,0:03:26.87,0:03:29.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that's the problem with grooming. Dialogue: 0,0:03:29.27,0:03:30.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It is real. Dialogue: 0,0:03:31.71,0:03:37.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Degenerate, perverted adults\Nuse the internet to abuse boys and girls Dialogue: 0,0:03:37.55,0:03:39.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and take advantage of, among other things, Dialogue: 0,0:03:39.66,0:03:43.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the fact that the kids and their parents\Nthink that what happens online Dialogue: 0,0:03:43.10,0:03:44.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,doesn't actually happen. Dialogue: 0,0:03:47.63,0:03:51.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Several years ago,\Nsome colleagues and I founded an NGO Dialogue: 0,0:03:51.36,0:03:53.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,called "Argentina Cibersegura," Dialogue: 0,0:03:53.33,0:03:56.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dedicated to raising awareness\Nabout online safety. Dialogue: 0,0:03:58.68,0:04:02.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In 2013, we attended meetings\Nat the House of Legislature Dialogue: 0,0:04:02.90,0:04:05.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to discuss a law about grooming. Dialogue: 0,0:04:07.69,0:04:09.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I remember that a lot of people thought Dialogue: 0,0:04:09.99,0:04:12.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that grooming was strictly a precursor Dialogue: 0,0:04:12.18,0:04:15.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to arranging an in-person meeting\Nwith a kid to have sex with them. Dialogue: 0,0:04:18.25,0:04:21.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But they didn't think about what happened\Nto the kids who were exposed Dialogue: 0,0:04:21.88,0:04:24.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,by talking about sex\Nwith an adult without knowing it, Dialogue: 0,0:04:25.90,0:04:29.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or who shared intimate photos thinking\Nonly another kid would see them, Dialogue: 0,0:04:29.67,0:04:30.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or even worse, Dialogue: 0,0:04:31.89,0:04:34.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who had exposed themselves\Nusing their web cam. Dialogue: 0,0:04:34.88,0:04:36.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Nobody considered that rape. Dialogue: 0,0:04:39.23,0:04:43.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm sure lots of you find it odd to think\None person can abuse another Dialogue: 0,0:04:43.57,0:04:44.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,without physical contact. Dialogue: 0,0:04:45.74,0:04:47.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We're programmed to think that way. Dialogue: 0,0:04:49.18,0:04:51.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I know, because I used to think that way. Dialogue: 0,0:04:51.27,0:04:53.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was just an IT security guy Dialogue: 0,0:04:55.35,0:04:56.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,until this happened to me. Dialogue: 0,0:04:59.42,0:05:01.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,At the end of 2011, Dialogue: 0,0:05:02.18,0:05:04.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in a little town in Buenos Aires Province, Dialogue: 0,0:05:04.74,0:05:07.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I heard about a case for the first time. Dialogue: 0,0:05:08.78,0:05:10.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,After giving a talk, Dialogue: 0,0:05:11.29,0:05:15.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I met the parents of an 11-year-old girl\Nwho had been a victim of grooming. Dialogue: 0,0:05:18.11,0:05:22.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A man had manipulated her\Ninto masturbating in front of her web cam, Dialogue: 0,0:05:22.16,0:05:23.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and recorded it. Dialogue: 0,0:05:24.21,0:05:27.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And the video was on several websites. Dialogue: 0,0:05:28.98,0:05:31.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That day, her parents asked us, in tears, Dialogue: 0,0:05:31.69,0:05:33.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to tell them the magic formula Dialogue: 0,0:05:33.25,0:05:35.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for how to delete those videos\Nfrom the internet. Dialogue: 0,0:05:38.04,0:05:41.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It broke my heart and changed me forever Dialogue: 0,0:05:41.72,0:05:45.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to be their last disappointment,\Ntelling them it was too late: Dialogue: 0,0:05:45.67,0:05:48.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,once content is online, Dialogue: 0,0:05:48.24,0:05:49.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we've already lost control. Dialogue: 0,0:05:52.71,0:05:54.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Since that day, I think about that girl Dialogue: 0,0:05:57.11,0:06:00.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,waking up in the morning,\Nhaving breakfast with her family, Dialogue: 0,0:06:00.68,0:06:02.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who had seen the video, Dialogue: 0,0:06:03.21,0:06:08.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and then walking to school, meeting\Npeople that had seen her naked, Dialogue: 0,0:06:08.66,0:06:12.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,arriving to school, playing with\Nher friends, who had also seen her. Dialogue: 0,0:06:14.83,0:06:16.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That was her life. Dialogue: 0,0:06:17.50,0:06:18.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Exposed. Dialogue: 0,0:06:21.76,0:06:23.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Of course, nobody raped her body. Dialogue: 0,0:06:25.36,0:06:27.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But hadn't her sexuality been abused? Dialogue: 0,0:06:30.72,0:06:34.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We clearly use different standards\Nto measure physical and digital things. Dialogue: 0,0:06:37.36,0:06:39.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And we get angry at social networks Dialogue: 0,0:06:39.32,0:06:43.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because being angry with ourselves\Nis more painful and more true. Dialogue: 0,0:06:44.78,0:06:46.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And this brings us\Nto the second reason why Dialogue: 0,0:06:46.84,0:06:49.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we aren't paying proper\Nattention to this issue. Dialogue: 0,0:06:50.18,0:06:54.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We're convinced that kids\Ndon't need our help, Dialogue: 0,0:06:54.69,0:06:56.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that they "know everything"\Nabout technology. Dialogue: 0,0:07:00.09,0:07:01.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When I was a kid, Dialogue: 0,0:07:02.59,0:07:05.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,at one point, my parents started\Nletting me walk to school alone. Dialogue: 0,0:07:07.33,0:07:11.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,After years of taking me by the hand\Nand walking me to school, Dialogue: 0,0:07:12.48,0:07:14.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,one day they sat me down, Dialogue: 0,0:07:14.09,0:07:15.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,gave me the house keys Dialogue: 0,0:07:15.95,0:07:19.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and said, "Be very careful with these;\Ndon't give them to anyone, Dialogue: 0,0:07:19.96,0:07:24.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,take the route we showed you,\Nbe at home at the time we said, Dialogue: 0,0:07:24.14,0:07:26.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,cross at the corner,\Nand look both ways before you cross, Dialogue: 0,0:07:26.91,0:07:30.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and no matter what,\Ndon't talk to strangers." Dialogue: 0,0:07:32.97,0:07:34.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I knew everything about walking, Dialogue: 0,0:07:35.89,0:07:39.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and yet, there was a responsible adult\Nthere taking care of me. Dialogue: 0,0:07:40.89,0:07:42.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Knowing how to do something is one thing, Dialogue: 0,0:07:42.89,0:07:45.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,knowing how to take care\Nof yourself is another. Dialogue: 0,0:07:46.65,0:07:48.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Imagine this situation: Dialogue: 0,0:07:48.56,0:07:51.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm 10 or 11 years old,\NI wake up in the morning, Dialogue: 0,0:07:51.15,0:07:53.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,my parents toss me the keys and say, Dialogue: 0,0:07:53.29,0:07:55.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Seba, now you can walk to school alone." Dialogue: 0,0:07:56.49,0:07:58.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And when I come back late, Dialogue: 0,0:07:59.54,0:08:02.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they say, "No, you need to be home\Nat the time we said." Dialogue: 0,0:08:04.83,0:08:06.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And two weeks later, Dialogue: 0,0:08:06.71,0:08:09.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when it comes up,\Nthey say, "You know what? Dialogue: 0,0:08:09.85,0:08:13.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You have to cross at the corner,\Nand look both ways before crossing." Dialogue: 0,0:08:14.82,0:08:16.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And two years later, they say, Dialogue: 0,0:08:17.48,0:08:20.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"And also, don't talk to strangers." Dialogue: 0,0:08:22.87,0:08:24.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It sounds absurd, right? Dialogue: 0,0:08:26.31,0:08:29.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We have the same absurd behavior\Nin relation to technology. Dialogue: 0,0:08:30.13,0:08:32.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We give kids total access Dialogue: 0,0:08:32.30,0:08:35.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and we see if one day, sooner or later, Dialogue: 0,0:08:35.16,0:08:37.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they learn how to take care of themselves. Dialogue: 0,0:08:38.94,0:08:40.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Knowing how to do something is one thing, Dialogue: 0,0:08:40.97,0:08:43.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,knowing how to take care\Nof yourself is another. Dialogue: 0,0:08:44.70,0:08:47.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Along those same lines,\Nwhen we talk to parents, Dialogue: 0,0:08:47.30,0:08:52.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they often say they don't care\Nabout technology and social networks. Dialogue: 0,0:08:54.20,0:08:57.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I always rejoin that by asking\Nif they care about their kids. Dialogue: 0,0:08:57.98,0:09:00.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,As adults, being interested\Nor not in technology Dialogue: 0,0:09:00.46,0:09:03.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is the same as being interested\Nor not in our kids. Dialogue: 0,0:09:03.31,0:09:05.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The internet is part of their lives. Dialogue: 0,0:09:06.70,0:09:11.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Technology forces us to rethink\Nthe relationship between adults and kids. Dialogue: 0,0:09:12.98,0:09:16.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Education was always based\Non two main concepts: Dialogue: 0,0:09:16.21,0:09:18.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,experience and knowledge. Dialogue: 0,0:09:20.69,0:09:26.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How do we teach our kids to be safe online\Nwhen we don't have either? Dialogue: 0,0:09:28.06,0:09:30.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Nowadays, we adults\Nhave to guide our children Dialogue: 0,0:09:30.82,0:09:33.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,through what is often for us\Nunfamiliar territory -- Dialogue: 0,0:09:33.30,0:09:35.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,territory much more inviting for them. Dialogue: 0,0:09:37.50,0:09:40.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's impossible to find an answer Dialogue: 0,0:09:40.59,0:09:43.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,without doing new things --\Nthings that make us uncomfortable, Dialogue: 0,0:09:43.66,0:09:45.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,things we're not used to. Dialogue: 0,0:09:47.58,0:09:50.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A lot of you may think it's easy for me, Dialogue: 0,0:09:50.30,0:09:52.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because I'm relatively young. Dialogue: 0,0:09:52.68,0:09:54.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And it used to be that way. Dialogue: 0,0:09:55.34,0:09:56.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Used to. Dialogue: 0,0:09:58.25,0:10:00.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Until last year, Dialogue: 0,0:10:00.14,0:10:04.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when I felt the weight\Nof my age on my shoulders Dialogue: 0,0:10:05.42,0:10:10.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the first time I opened Snapchat. Dialogue: 0,0:10:10.39,0:10:13.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter) Dialogue: 0,0:10:14.51,0:10:17.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause) Dialogue: 0,0:10:19.58,0:10:22.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I didn't understand a thing! Dialogue: 0,0:10:23.32,0:10:25.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I found it unnecessary, Dialogue: 0,0:10:25.67,0:10:28.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,useless, hard to understand; Dialogue: 0,0:10:28.84,0:10:30.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it looked like a camera! Dialogue: 0,0:10:30.75,0:10:32.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It didn't have menu options! Dialogue: 0,0:10:34.76,0:10:37.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It was the first time I felt the gap Dialogue: 0,0:10:37.47,0:10:40.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that sometimes exists\Nbetween kids and adults. Dialogue: 0,0:10:41.74,0:10:45.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But it was also an opportunity\Nto do the right thing, Dialogue: 0,0:10:45.03,0:10:47.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to leave my comfort zone, to force myself. Dialogue: 0,0:10:48.95,0:10:52.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I never thought I'd ever use Snapchat, Dialogue: 0,0:10:52.28,0:10:56.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but then I asked my teenage cousin\Nto show me how to use it. Dialogue: 0,0:10:58.35,0:11:00.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I also asked why she used it. Dialogue: 0,0:11:00.79,0:11:02.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What was fun about it? Dialogue: 0,0:11:03.74,0:11:05.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We had a really nice talk. Dialogue: 0,0:11:05.93,0:11:08.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She showed me her Snapchat,\Nshe told me things, Dialogue: 0,0:11:08.41,0:11:10.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we got closer, we laughed. Dialogue: 0,0:11:12.95,0:11:14.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Today, I use it. Dialogue: 0,0:11:14.68,0:11:16.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter) Dialogue: 0,0:11:16.79,0:11:18.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't know if I do it right, Dialogue: 0,0:11:18.44,0:11:22.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but the most important thing\Nis that I know it and I understand it. Dialogue: 0,0:11:24.41,0:11:28.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The key was to overcome the initial shock Dialogue: 0,0:11:28.57,0:11:30.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and do something new. Dialogue: 0,0:11:31.94,0:11:33.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Something new. Dialogue: 0,0:11:33.44,0:11:36.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Today, we have the chance\Nto create new conversations. Dialogue: 0,0:11:37.31,0:11:39.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What's the last app you downloaded? Dialogue: 0,0:11:39.65,0:11:42.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Which social network do you use\Nto contact your friends? Dialogue: 0,0:11:43.07,0:11:45.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What kind of information do you share? Dialogue: 0,0:11:46.56,0:11:48.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Have you ever been\Napproached by strangers? Dialogue: 0,0:11:50.86,0:11:53.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Could we have these conversations\Nbetween kids and adults? Dialogue: 0,0:11:55.54,0:11:58.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We have to force ourselves\Nto do it. All of us. Dialogue: 0,0:11:58.24,0:12:02.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Today, lots of kids are listening to us. Dialogue: 0,0:12:04.71,0:12:07.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sometimes when we go\Nto schools to give our talks, Dialogue: 0,0:12:07.46,0:12:09.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or through social networks, Dialogue: 0,0:12:09.14,0:12:11.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,kids ask or tell us things Dialogue: 0,0:12:11.49,0:12:15.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they haven't told\Ntheir parents or their teachers. Dialogue: 0,0:12:15.81,0:12:17.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They tell us -- they don't even know us. Dialogue: 0,0:12:20.97,0:12:22.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Those kids need to know Dialogue: 0,0:12:24.14,0:12:26.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what the risks of being online are, Dialogue: 0,0:12:28.17,0:12:29.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,how to take care of themselves, Dialogue: 0,0:12:29.70,0:12:33.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but also that, fundamentally,\Nas with almost everything else, Dialogue: 0,0:12:33.30,0:12:36.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,kids can learn this from any adult. Dialogue: 0,0:12:39.56,0:12:43.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Online safety needs to be\Na conversation topic Dialogue: 0,0:12:43.47,0:12:46.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in every house and every\Nclassroom in the country. Dialogue: 0,0:12:47.86,0:12:52.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We did a survey this year that showed\Nthat 15 percent of schools said Dialogue: 0,0:12:52.15,0:12:54.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they knew of cases of grooming\Nin their school. Dialogue: 0,0:12:55.39,0:12:56.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And this number is growing. Dialogue: 0,0:12:59.83,0:13:03.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Technology changed\Nevery aspect of our life, Dialogue: 0,0:13:03.32,0:13:06.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,including the risks we face Dialogue: 0,0:13:06.08,0:13:08.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and how we take care of ourselves. Dialogue: 0,0:13:08.51,0:13:11.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Grooming shows us this\Nin the most painful way: Dialogue: 0,0:13:13.09,0:13:14.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,by involving our kids. Dialogue: 0,0:13:16.79,0:13:18.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Are we going to do something\Nto avoid this? Dialogue: 0,0:13:20.20,0:13:23.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The solution starts\Nwith something as easy as: Dialogue: 0,0:13:24.42,0:13:25.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,talking about it. Dialogue: 0,0:13:25.71,0:13:26.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Thank you. Dialogue: 0,0:13:26.89,0:13:32.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause)