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Dialogue: 0,0:00:00.00,0:00:03.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't realize that what I think is\Na compliment about your weight
Dialogue: 0,0:00:03.08,0:00:05.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,actually makes you feel anxious,\Ninsecure, and watched.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:06.01,0:00:08.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(air whipping, creaking noise as "BuzzFeed \Npresents" appears)
Dialogue: 0,0:00:08.99,0:00:10.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(music playing softly)
Dialogue: 0,0:00:10.98,0:00:13.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm looking you up and down because\NI've been socialized
Dialogue: 0,0:00:13.13,0:00:15.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to judge other women and \Ntake advantage of that.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:15.07,0:00:17.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm worried that if you don't have a\Nperfect body
Dialogue: 0,0:00:17.06,0:00:18.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,people are going to think \Nthat I'm a bad mom.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:18.76,0:00:21.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Literally everything that I don't like\Nabout the way you look
Dialogue: 0,0:00:21.00,0:00:23.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is a projection of what I don't \Nlike about myself.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:23.40,0:00:26.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't value your personality nearly as\Nmuch as I value your breasts.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:26.81,0:00:28.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm going to tell you your butt \Nlooks great in that
Dialogue: 0,0:00:28.79,0:00:30.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,even though no one really knows\Nwhat a good butt looks like.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:30.68,0:00:32.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I've never had a healthy relationship\Nwith food.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:32.97,0:00:34.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that's really going to fuck you up
Dialogue: 0,0:00:34.89,0:00:38.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I make comments about your weight because\NI make snap judgements about what it means
Dialogue: 0,0:00:38.90,0:00:41.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when really I have no idea what's going on \Nin your life.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:41.58,0:00:45.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm uncomfortable with people of different\Nshapes and sizes but I'm not really sure why.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:45.03,0:00:49.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I accept the fact that our beauty standards \Nare based entirely on photoshop.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:49.09,0:00:52.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm going to tell you that everything here\Nis really slimming on you so that you shop
Dialogue: 0,0:00:52.12,0:00:53.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,here over and over and over again.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:53.77,0:00:56.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't lift weights because I've been\Nconditioned to think that looking
Dialogue: 0,0:00:56.30,0:00:58.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,beautiful and feminine means not looking\Nstrong.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:58.45,0:01:00.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I think your life will be easier if you're\Nthin.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:00.63,0:01:03.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I'm going to try to encourage that\Nfrom a very young age.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:03.82,0:01:06.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This dress will look good on literally\Nany body type but the smaller sizes
Dialogue: 0,0:01:06.91,0:01:09.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,look better on the rack so we keep\Neverything else in back.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:09.55,0:01:12.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't like the fact that you are not \Nconforming to a misogynistic ideal of
Dialogue: 0,0:01:12.64,0:01:14.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,female beauty. And I can't think beyond\Nthat.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:14.96,0:01:18.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I criticize skinny girls to cover up the \Nfact that I'm actually really concerned \N
Dialogue: 0,0:01:18.26,0:01:19.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,about my own weight.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:19.38,0:01:22.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm putting my own issues on you when I'm\Ncompletely unaware of the damage that
Dialogue: 0,0:01:22.62,0:01:23.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm doing.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:23.88,0:01:26.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm going to tell you that this covers up\Nyour flaws. You don't really have any
Dialogue: 0,0:01:26.40,0:01:28.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but I work on commission so I need you\Nto buy this.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:28.45,0:01:32.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I've been conditioned to be critical of \Nmyself and use self-deprecation as a
Dialogue: 0,0:01:32.16,0:01:34.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,coverup so people don't think I'm \Nconceited.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:34.59,0:01:36.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But the truth is, I look amazing.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:46.47,0:01:48.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mannequins are all the same size even \Nthough none of us are.