0:00:09.325,0:00:13.773 If you had the chance,[br]would you change the world? 0:00:13.773,0:00:14.436 (Audience): Yes 0:00:14.436,0:00:16.626 Thank you.[br]There is a little delay. 0:00:16.626,0:00:20.904 Of course you would.[br]Because I didn't say, save the world, 0:00:20.904,0:00:24.081 I said change the world,[br]improve it. 0:00:24.081,0:00:28.421 Make it better than we found it.[br]And we all want to do that, don't we? 0:00:28.421,0:00:31.613 Great! Because I'm here[br]with the happy news 0:00:31.613,0:00:35.587 that you can, and you do,[br]and you will change the world. 0:00:35.587,0:00:38.466 But all too often, partly the reason[br]for your hesitation just now 0:00:38.466,0:00:42.963 we often think, "Gosh changing the world,[br]that's going to be really hard work, 0:00:42.963,0:00:47.025 perhaps impossible,[br]probably not much fun." 0:00:47.025,0:00:49.351 And we leave it to someone else,[br]someone really important. 0:00:49.351,0:00:52.080 They'll do it.[br]And that's a real shame, 0:00:52.080,0:00:56.761 because we are all capable[br]of changing the world 0:00:56.761,0:00:59.746 and I am trying to explain how[br]it's going to work for you individually. 0:00:59.746,0:01:01.088 I am not going to tell you what to do. 0:01:01.088,0:01:04.500 So one of the reasons[br]why we tend to hold back that way 0:01:04.500,0:01:08.188 has to do with the way[br]that we've been taught history. 0:01:08.188,0:01:09.940 Essentially we are told that it is about 0:01:09.940,0:01:11.501 the kind of the things[br]that certain big individuals, 0:01:11.501,0:01:13.416 usually men, have done over the time. 0:01:13.416,0:01:15.944 The great British historian, Carlyle, 0:01:15.944,0:01:20.318 once said that "History is but[br]the biography of great men." 0:01:20.318,0:01:21.951 And if you don't happen[br]to think of yourself 0:01:21.951,0:01:23.772 as a great man already 0:01:23.772,0:01:26.085 that may leave you feeling[br]a little bit left out. 0:01:26.085,0:01:29.385 But luckily, happily, Leo Tolstoy,[br]the novelist, came along. 0:01:29.385,0:01:33.616 This is him in his glory. And Tolstoy[br]came along and said that history 0:01:33.616,0:01:37.824 is more accurately considered[br]to be an infinitely large number 0:01:37.824,0:01:40.864 of infinitesimally small things 0:01:40.864,0:01:45.221 that we all do and don't do everyday. 0:01:45.221,0:01:46.505 What does that mean? 0:01:46.505,0:01:48.171 It's easy to understand what he means 0:01:48.171,0:01:49.755 if you think about an election. 0:01:49.755,0:01:52.504 You vote for this party,[br]or you vote for that party 0:01:52.504,0:01:54.423 or you hate them all[br]so you don't vote for any of them. 0:01:54.423,0:01:56.174 But we all know[br]that whatever you do, 0:01:56.174,0:01:58.340 has an affect on the outcome. 0:01:58.340,0:02:01.084 It helps to determine[br]the final result, we all know that. 0:02:01.084,0:02:03.174 But what Tolstoy is saying,[br]is that everything you do 0:02:03.174,0:02:06.229 and everything you don't do,[br]has an affect on how things are. 0:02:06.229,0:02:09.088 It shapes the way the world is. 0:02:09.088,0:02:11.258 It's really useful and healthy 0:02:11.258,0:02:13.504 and satisfying to take[br]some responsibility 0:02:13.504,0:02:15.260 for yourself in that sense. 0:02:15.260,0:02:17.010 So what can we do about it? 0:02:17.010,0:02:18.177 We want to recognize 0:02:18.177,0:02:20.273 that we all make history all the time. 0:02:20.273,0:02:21.760 And if you don't recognize that, 0:02:21.760,0:02:24.146 if you don't realize what[br]I've just tried to say 0:02:24.146,0:02:25.497 you may be one of those people 0:02:25.497,0:02:28.386 who complains a lot[br]about the "status quo". 0:02:28.386,0:02:31.193 And the Status quo is[br]a horrible abstract noun. 0:02:31.193,0:02:32.684 Nobody likes it,[br]it feels really oppressive, 0:02:32.684,0:02:34.685 but if you notice that[br]you have some responsibility 0:02:34.685,0:02:35.826 then that's good. 0:02:35.826,0:02:37.533 So I'm going to offer you another way 0:02:37.533,0:02:39.226 to think about the status quo. 0:02:39.226,0:02:42.904 I want you to think instead[br]of a powerful king on the stage. 0:02:42.904,0:02:44.184 If you like, you can shut your eyes 0:02:44.184,0:02:46.742 and imagine what a powerful[br]king on the stage looked like. 0:02:46.742,0:02:48.871 It might be a really big crown, 0:02:48.871,0:02:50.664 it might be a golden throne, 0:02:50.664,0:02:53.424 and I would say, "No! Those only[br]tell you that he is the king." 0:02:53.424,0:02:55.585 What makes him powerful? 0:02:55.585,0:02:57.387 What makes him powerful[br]are all that other people 0:02:57.387,0:03:00.020 on the stage flat on[br]their faces before him. 0:03:00.020,0:03:01.503 And if all of those people sat up, 0:03:01.503,0:03:04.825 turned their backs on him,[br]went to sleep, 0:03:04.825,0:03:08.129 told jokes, smoked cigarettes,[br]played the trumpet, 0:03:08.129,0:03:09.915 it would have an enormous[br]effect, wouldn't it? 0:03:09.915,0:03:11.727 He would no longer[br]be a powerful king 0:03:11.727,0:03:13.694 even without him[br]doing anything differently. 0:03:13.694,0:03:17.106 So all of the power comes[br]from those over whom it is exercised. 0:03:17.106,0:03:19.487 And you can imagine,[br]if you imagine that stage, 0:03:19.487,0:03:21.534 imagine just one of those people[br]getting up, turning their back, 0:03:21.534,0:03:22.921 and playing the trumpet, 0:03:22.921,0:03:25.344 it would have an amazing[br]sensational effect, wouldn't it? 0:03:25.344,0:03:26.769 It's a kind of extraordinary thing. 0:03:26.769,0:03:29.211 It's like a human version[br]of the butterfly effect 0:03:29.211,0:03:30.821 that physicists talk of. 0:03:30.821,0:03:32.388 One flap of the wings 0:03:32.388,0:03:34.819 and you have a really distinct[br]change in the weather. 0:03:34.819,0:03:36.390 And so it's really rather wonderful. 0:03:36.390,0:03:38.391 We can see it when[br]I talk about the stage 0:03:38.391,0:03:39.772 but what about in real life? 0:03:39.772,0:03:41.693 What about your life?[br]Your everyday life? 0:03:41.693,0:03:43.321 If you don't like the status quo, 0:03:43.321,0:03:44.386 how can you get up 0:03:44.386,0:03:46.186 and turn your back and[br]do something better instead? 0:03:46.186,0:03:47.304 Well, there are lots of ways 0:03:47.304,0:03:50.338 but I want to have[br]a little experiment in this room. 0:03:50.338,0:03:53.514 I want to see what the human[br]butterfly effect can look like, 0:03:53.514,0:03:54.906 and what I'm going to ask you to do, 0:03:54.906,0:03:56.761 is one of the most beautiful[br]things you can do, 0:03:56.761,0:03:59.153 to be a human butterfly. 0:03:59.153,0:04:00.441 Don't do anything yet, okay? 0:04:00.441,0:04:01.666 Turn to your neighbor, 0:04:01.666,0:04:03.344 and it's going to be someone[br]you don't already know, 0:04:03.344,0:04:04.586 so its someone behind you[br]or in front of you. 0:04:04.586,0:04:06.103 And I want you just to smile, 0:04:06.103,0:04:08.825 and say what your name is[br]and introduce yourself 0:04:08.825,0:04:10.370 because you don't get[br]to choose your neighbors. 0:04:10.370,0:04:12.345 The people who are sitting[br]near you are your neighbors. 0:04:12.345,0:04:15.051 Now I've explained it and given[br]to you a little bit of extra time, 0:04:15.051,0:04:17.185 because I know that some people[br]are listening on translation. 0:04:17.185,0:04:19.147 I don't want them to be shocked[br]by you turning around 0:04:19.147,0:04:21.223 and introducing yourself[br]before they understand. 0:04:21.223,0:04:23.506 So now if anyone[br]is listening on translation 0:04:23.506,0:04:24.861 can you put your hand up 0:04:24.861,0:04:26.493 to tell me that you've[br]already understood this? 0:04:26.493,0:04:27.695 OK. Thank you. 0:04:27.695,0:04:29.750 So now please just quickly[br]introduce yourself to each other. 0:04:29.750,0:04:33.058 Now. Off you go! 0:04:33.089,0:04:36.530 (Chatter) 0:04:36.530,0:04:38.988 Hello, John-Paul.[br]Nice to meet you. 0:04:41.419,0:04:45.585 Thank you. Thank you.[br]That's great! 0:04:45.585,0:04:47.585 What a lovely sight! 0:04:47.585,0:04:49.986 (Applause) 0:04:49.986,0:04:53.665 Congratulations to all of you.[br]Thank you. 0:04:53.665,0:04:56.152 It's really important to recognize[br]that these neighbors around you 0:04:56.162,0:04:59.617 are not the ones you chose[br]but they're the ones you've got. 0:04:59.617,0:05:01.431 And it's really lovely[br]to introduce yourself 0:05:01.431,0:05:02.894 in a friendly way to your neighbors, 0:05:02.894,0:05:05.737 but it's easy at TED because everyone[br]here is obviously really lovely. 0:05:05.737,0:05:08.184 But I want you to promise,[br]that when you go home, 0:05:08.184,0:05:10.304 you will introduce yourself[br]to another neighbor, 0:05:10.304,0:05:12.137 who is not someone[br]who you chose, 0:05:12.137,0:05:15.249 and just see if you can spread[br]a little bit of the love that way. 0:05:15.249,0:05:16.505 So that's a little thing you can do. 0:05:16.505,0:05:18.452 Meanwhile,[br]I want to move on 0:05:18.452,0:05:20.907 and I want to talk about certain[br]types of political action we can do, 0:05:20.907,0:05:23.223 other than saying hello[br]to our neighbors. 0:05:23.223,0:05:27.515 The great American political[br]scientist Gene Sharp, 0:05:27.521,0:05:28.981 has spent a lifetime collecting 0:05:28.981,0:05:33.973 198 forms of non-violent political[br]action, an amazing variety. 0:05:33.973,0:05:35.357 He wants to encourage people to use 0:05:35.357,0:05:37.255 some of the things[br]that have been used before. 0:05:37.271,0:05:39.504 So he has put all of these forms 0:05:39.504,0:05:41.185 into basically three groups. 0:05:41.185,0:05:44.457 The first one is highlighting an issue: 0:05:44.457,0:05:45.946 That can be drawing[br]attention to an issue 0:05:45.946,0:05:47.784 that nobody knows about, 0:05:47.784,0:05:49.262 or it could be drawing[br]attention to an issue that 0:05:49.262,0:05:50.941 everyone knows about[br]but they do not take it seriously. 0:05:50.941,0:05:52.597 So highlighting an issue[br]is very important 0:05:52.597,0:05:53.901 and we can all do that. 0:05:53.901,0:05:54.824 I'm sure lots of people in this room 0:05:54.824,0:05:57.375 have already posted things[br]on Facebook or tweeted about them. 0:05:57.375,0:06:00.357 And that's very light-weight[br]and easy, but valuable. 0:06:00.357,0:06:02.783 But sometimes highlighting[br]an issue can be really dangerous. 0:06:02.783,0:06:06.185 You're putting yourself at some risk. 0:06:06.185,0:06:08.198 So I'm going to tell you about[br]the White Rose group. 0:06:08.198,0:06:09.904 That's this group in this picture 0:06:09.904,0:06:11.708 who are now national[br]heroes in Germany 0:06:11.708,0:06:13.889 because they stood up to fascism. 0:06:13.889,0:06:17.824 And they didn't want to be a part[br]of what the Nazi regime were doing, 0:06:17.824,0:06:20.183 so they sent letters[br]to their fellow citizens. 0:06:20.183,0:06:22.878 They wrote letters,[br]they printed them on a machine 0:06:22.878,0:06:25.634 and they sent them at random,[br]to people throughout the country 0:06:25.634,0:06:27.744 whose names and addresses[br]they got from the phone book. 0:06:27.766,0:06:30.964 Can you imagine the effect[br]when you get one of those letters? 0:06:30.964,0:06:32.464 In order to give[br]themselves the appearacnce 0:06:32.464,0:06:34.130 of being a great nation-wide network, 0:06:34.130,0:06:36.106 they also, at great risk,[br]travelled across the country 0:06:36.106,0:06:38.105 with their printing press[br]and with their letters, 0:06:38.105,0:06:40.306 so they could send them from[br]Dusseldorf to Cologne 0:06:40.306,0:06:43.465 and Dresden to Berlin and Munich,[br]and you get the picture. 0:06:43.465,0:06:44.583 So that's what they did. 0:06:44.583,0:06:46.050 So sometimes just[br]highlighting an issue 0:06:46.050,0:06:47.505 can be incredibly[br]dangerous stuff. 0:06:47.505,0:06:49.200 It can be easy,[br]it can be dangerous. 0:06:49.200,0:06:52.960 The second category is[br]withdrawing your consent 0:06:52.967,0:06:54.784 from something you disapprove of. 0:06:54.784,0:06:57.106 So I could tell you about[br]Moses and the Israelites 0:06:57.106,0:06:59.025 who didn't like the way the Pharaoh 0:06:59.025,0:07:01.574 was carrying on,[br]so they got out of Egypt. 0:07:01.574,0:07:03.693 It's quite simple[br]withdrawal of consent. 0:07:03.693,0:07:06.027 But I want to tell you about Rosa Parks, 0:07:06.027,0:07:09.187 a seamstress who,[br]one day, in the 1950s, 0:07:09.187,0:07:11.718 decided on the bus[br]in Montgomery, Alabama, 0:07:11.718,0:07:13.805 that she was not going[br]to give up her seat 0:07:13.805,0:07:17.104 to a white person[br]as the rules required. 0:07:17.104,0:07:19.473 And one reason why I like[br]her story, is that she said 0:07:19.473,0:07:22.266 she was too tired to go along[br]with the system any longer. 0:07:22.266,0:07:24.103 So you don't have to be full[br]of energy and enthusiasm 0:07:24.103,0:07:25.720 to change things.[br]You can just be quite tired. 0:07:25.720,0:07:28.622 Another reason why[br]I like Rosa Parks' story 0:07:28.622,0:07:31.784 is that she didn't actually run[br]everything that happened afterwards. 0:07:31.784,0:07:33.544 That was her thing, she was a spark 0:07:33.544,0:07:36.023 that led lots of other people in the black[br]community to do amazing stuff, 0:07:36.023,0:07:37.661 But she didn't run everything. 0:07:37.661,0:07:39.545 So don't worry, you can start[br]something and if it's any good, 0:07:39.545,0:07:41.384 people will follow and[br]they will take it on. 0:07:41.384,0:07:43.075 That's ok, you can relax. 0:07:43.075,0:07:44.865 And the third thing[br]I like about her thing, 0:07:44.865,0:07:46.705 is that she started[br]with something very small. 0:07:46.705,0:07:48.543 It's very hard to believe,[br]with hindsight, 0:07:48.543,0:07:49.786 that lots of people at the time 0:07:49.786,0:07:53.023 thought that what they were[br]doing was campaigning 0:07:53.023,0:07:55.142 to change the rules[br]about where black people 0:07:55.142,0:07:59.225 were allowed to sit on buses[br]in Montgomery, Alabama. 0:07:59.225,0:08:02.596 But actually of course[br]their success and their ambition 0:08:02.596,0:08:05.743 increased over time, so within[br]a very remarkably short period, 0:08:05.743,0:08:07.583 they had desegregation[br]across the whole of the U.S., 0:08:07.583,0:08:10.384 which is a previously[br]unthinkable achievement. 0:08:10.384,0:08:11.951 So you can start[br]with something small 0:08:11.951,0:08:15.222 and you will become[br]more ambitious as a result of it. 0:08:15.222,0:08:16.943 So that's withdrawing your consent. 0:08:16.943,0:08:18.980 The third broad category is building 0:08:18.980,0:08:21.896 a better alternative to what[br]is currently available. 0:08:21.896,0:08:24.116 So I could tell you about[br]Charles De Gaulle 0:08:24.116,0:08:27.399 who set up the French government[br]in exile in the Second World War, 0:08:27.399,0:08:30.251 bacause he didn't like the ones[br]that was in Vichy France, 0:08:30.251,0:08:33.104 but I want to tell you instead[br]about my friend Richard Reynolds, 0:08:33.104,0:08:35.626 who lives in a tower block[br]in South London, 0:08:35.626,0:08:37.223 in a rather unattractive[br]part of London, 0:08:37.223,0:08:38.653 he wouldn't mind me saying that. 0:08:38.653,0:08:42.302 He lives in a high floor[br]so he doesn't have a garden. 0:08:42.302,0:08:43.862 So one day he[br]started to go downstairs, 0:08:43.862,0:08:45.733 and look around in the area[br]where he lived, 0:08:45.733,0:08:48.726 and he found bits of earth,[br]and he would put plants down. 0:08:48.726,0:08:51.063 He wasn't a very good gardener,[br]so some of the plants died 0:08:51.063,0:08:52.983 but he got better and[br]some of the plants survived. 0:08:52.983,0:08:54.984 And then some[br]of his friends joined in, 0:08:54.984,0:08:57.467 and then complete[br]strangers joined in 0:08:57.467,0:08:59.390 and then the local authority said, 0:08:59.390,0:09:01.013 "You can't do that,[br]it's not your land." 0:09:01.013,0:09:02.181 But they carried on anyway, 0:09:02.181,0:09:03.377 because they[br]are Guerilla Gardeners. 0:09:03.377,0:09:04.736 You see, and Richard is the leader 0:09:04.736,0:09:06.221 of the worldwide[br]Guerilla Gardening Movement, 0:09:06.221,0:09:09.202 and if you look him up online,[br]he is Richard_001. 0:09:09.202,0:09:11.891 But the thing is, the reason why[br]I mentioned this story, 0:09:11.891,0:09:14.664 is that anything you do, can be an[br]inspirational example to someone else. 0:09:14.664,0:09:16.653 And Richard is an inspirational[br]example, he is a leader. 0:09:16.653,0:09:18.723 One other little thing I'd like[br]to point out about Richard, 0:09:18.723,0:09:21.865 is [that] his great blessing is[br]he doesn't have a garden. 0:09:21.865,0:09:24.023 If he'd had a garden he wouldn't[br]be a Guerilla gardener, would he? 0:09:24.023,0:09:25.739 The thing that you see is[br]a lack or a short coming 0:09:25.739,0:09:27.469 could be the thing that's[br]really the making of you. 0:09:27.469,0:09:29.482 So that's quite an encouraging[br]thought, isn't it? 0:09:29.482,0:09:31.545 So, all of these people[br]can be an inspiring example. 0:09:31.545,0:09:33.984 I've taken great care[br]to tell you about things 0:09:33.984,0:09:36.945 like desegregation[br]or fighting fascism 0:09:36.945,0:09:37.945 which is sort of terribly important 0:09:37.945,0:09:39.242 but also to tell you[br]about someone 0:09:39.242,0:09:40.945 who just wants[br]to do some gardening. 0:09:40.945,0:09:42.013 Because when you're changing the world 0:09:42.029,0:09:43.466 it doesn't have to be[br]changing the whole world. 0:09:43.466,0:09:45.571 And something that you perceive[br]to be very important to you, 0:09:45.571,0:09:47.945 it could be just changing your world[br]in a way to make it better 0:09:47.945,0:09:49.889 and gardening is fine. 0:09:49.889,0:09:53.555 So what are you going to do?[br]I'm not going to tell you. 0:09:53.555,0:09:56.341 Often we feel like we're impaled[br]on a kind of a paradox: 0:09:56.341,0:09:57.801 We really want to do something, 0:09:57.801,0:10:00.117 but we have no idea[br]what it is going to be. 0:10:00.117,0:10:01.256 And one way to resolve that 0:10:01.256,0:10:04.781 is to think about[br]the things that you enjoy. 0:10:06.349,0:10:09.288 And so I want you[br]to think about that. 0:10:09.304,0:10:13.387 The positive psychologists[br]are people who got fed up 0:10:13.387,0:10:14.623 with being negative psychologists 0:10:14.623,0:10:15.786 and saying what's[br]wrong with people. 0:10:15.786,0:10:17.467 They wanted to find out[br]what's great about people 0:10:17.467,0:10:18.666 and share that knowledge. 0:10:18.666,0:10:19.704 So they did a test. 0:10:19.704,0:10:20.709 One of the things they did, 0:10:20.709,0:10:23.680 they sent out two groups of people[br]to find out what gives people pleasure. 0:10:23.680,0:10:26.144 The first was sent[br]to do hedonism, 0:10:26.144,0:10:29.471 if you like having a foot massage[br]while eating chocolate. 0:10:29.471,0:10:31.743 And the second group was sent out[br]to do something meaningful. 0:10:31.743,0:10:33.143 Meaningful to them,[br]I'll come back to that. 0:10:33.143,0:10:34.905 The results came in and the people 0:10:34.905,0:10:36.302 who'd done something meaningful, 0:10:36.302,0:10:38.464 had a much deeper and longer[br]lasting sense of satisfaction 0:10:38.464,0:10:40.225 than the ones who'd[br]done the hedonism. 0:10:40.225,0:10:41.930 That something about[br]them had changed inside, 0:10:41.930,0:10:45.024 they felt, I'm the sort of person[br]who does that thing, which is nice. 0:10:45.024,0:10:46.583 So, changing the world[br]is actually nicer 0:10:46.583,0:10:49.224 than having a foot massage[br]and eating chocolate. 0:10:49.224,0:10:50.986 But the thing is, what is[br]something meaningful? 0:10:50.986,0:10:53.677 You impose the meaning[br]on what you do, not me. 0:10:53.677,0:10:54.904 I can't tell you[br]what is meaningful. 0:10:54.904,0:10:55.986 I can give you an example: 0:10:55.986,0:10:57.664 You could walk[br]your neighbor's dog, 0:10:57.664,0:11:00.627 and really feel resentful and[br]really hate the whole thing 0:11:00.627,0:11:01.908 and just not really[br]be happy about it. 0:11:01.908,0:11:03.503 Or you could walk[br]your neighbors' dog, 0:11:03.503,0:11:04.545 because your neighbor's unwell, 0:11:04.545,0:11:05.837 and you know that[br]they'd feel really happy 0:11:05.837,0:11:06.824 for you having done it. 0:11:06.824,0:11:07.986 As you would feel[br]all puffed up with joy, 0:11:07.986,0:11:09.687 you'd feel like a really great person. 0:11:09.687,0:11:11.789 So the same thing,[br]can be either good or bad. 0:11:11.789,0:11:12.744 You impose meaning, not me. 0:11:12.744,0:11:15.339 So you need to think what actually[br]is something meaningful to you, 0:11:15.339,0:11:16.762 and one way to do that[br]is to ask yourself 0:11:16.762,0:11:19.056 what have you done in the past[br]to make a difference, 0:11:19.056,0:11:20.677 that made you feel good. 0:11:20.677,0:11:22.163 And what are the dreams that you've had. 0:11:22.163,0:11:24.483 But if you really want to cut[br]to the absolute nub of issue, 0:11:24.483,0:11:27.275 you must ask yourself this question: 0:11:27.275,0:11:31.385 What would you do if you knew[br]you couldn't fail? 0:11:31.385,0:11:32.782 As if success was magically guaranteed. 0:11:32.782,0:11:34.583 It's important to ask[br]the question in that way. 0:11:34.583,0:11:36.387 So you get rid of the boring answers 0:11:36.387,0:11:37.466 that are sort of achievable, 0:11:37.466,0:11:38.514 and you don't really want to do them. 0:11:38.514,0:11:40.690 Go for the one that is[br]absolutely sensational, 0:11:40.690,0:11:41.907 and you are really passionate about, 0:11:41.907,0:11:43.464 because then you will persist with it. 0:11:43.464,0:11:44.988 So you do that.[br]Ask yourself that question, 0:11:44.988,0:11:46.906 keep that question from now[br]to the rest of your lives. 0:11:46.906,0:11:48.742 And then once you've[br]come up with an answer, 0:11:48.742,0:11:50.176 I'll hope it would be something[br]so magnificent, 0:11:50.176,0:11:52.343 you're almost embarrassed[br]to tell anybody because it's so great. 0:11:52.343,0:11:53.910 And then there is a danger: 0:11:53.910,0:11:55.096 What might happen then, 0:11:55.096,0:11:57.836 is you put it on a shrine[br]and it will be like an icon. 0:11:57.845,0:11:59.503 Or it will be like a beautiful painting 0:11:59.503,0:12:01.384 that's been beautifully painted,[br]has got a beautiful frame 0:12:01.384,0:12:03.965 and you know just where it's going[br]to go in the whole way at home. 0:12:03.985,0:12:07.198 But nobody is painting it,[br]so it's not going to happen. 0:12:07.198,0:12:08.847 And you are using static thinking. 0:12:08.847,0:12:11.582 We might want to move away[br]from static thinking to process thinking. 0:12:11.597,0:12:13.146 Instead of thinking[br]about the end result, 0:12:13.146,0:12:15.442 start thinking about it [br]as a process. 0:12:15.442,0:12:16.950 One person who can help us with that, 0:12:16.950,0:12:19.356 is the german philosopher[br]Nietzsche, who said: 0:12:19.356,0:12:23.121 "Not every end is a goal.[br]The end of a melody is not a goal." 0:12:23.121,0:12:24.716 He's got a point but[br]what does he mean? 0:12:24.716,0:12:26.838 Well if you go to a concert,[br]you don't say, 0:12:26.838,0:12:29.806 "I wish this music would finish[br]and then I can really enjoy it." 0:12:29.806,0:12:31.665 You enjoy it as it goes along. 0:12:31.665,0:12:35.225 So start thinking about your mission[br]instead as a piece of music. 0:12:35.227,0:12:37.967 It's already started. Can you hear it?[br]I think it sounds great. 0:12:37.967,0:12:39.225 So that's what you want to do. 0:12:39.225,0:12:40.824 What is great about noticing that, 0:12:40.824,0:12:42.769 it is a process instead of an end result[br]that you are after, 0:12:42.769,0:12:44.814 is you then liberate yourself[br]to stop being freaked out 0:12:44.814,0:12:46.859 by the sheer monumental scale[br]of what you want to do, 0:12:46.859,0:12:48.905 and you enjoy every step,[br]because no one did anything 0:12:48.905,0:12:51.505 in all of human kind[br]except in small steps. 0:12:51.505,0:12:53.067 And Neil Armstrong[br]didn't wake up one morning, 0:12:53.067,0:12:54.770 and said, "I'm going to the moon now." 0:12:54.770,0:12:57.779 Lots of people had to go[br]to the office and do stuff. 0:12:57.779,0:12:59.306 So we can all do that. 0:12:59.306,0:13:00.366 We have to notice the smalls steps 0:13:00.366,0:13:01.904 and the great thing about smalls steps[br]is they give you courage. 0:13:01.904,0:13:04.178 There are mini victories, they move you[br]onto the next small step, 0:13:04.178,0:13:05.264 that's not quite so small, 0:13:05.264,0:13:07.789 and so you can use those as a way[br]to encourage yourself. 0:13:07.789,0:13:08.984 So you've got your mission, 0:13:08.984,0:13:11.310 you've got the need[br]to find small steps, 0:13:11.310,0:13:12.687 but if you really want[br]to pin down the small steps, 0:13:12.687,0:13:14.021 ask yourself this question: 0:13:14.021,0:13:17.774 What can you do[br]in the next 24 hours? 0:13:17.774,0:13:19.344 Because if you can't do[br]anything in the next 24 hours, 0:13:19.344,0:13:22.755 what makes you think[br]you will ever start? 0:13:22.755,0:13:25.134 Ok, so you've got the mission,[br]you've got the small steps, 0:13:25.135,0:13:27.907 and now you're going[br]to need to find some allies. 0:13:27.907,0:13:29.592 You're not going to do[br]much all on your own. 0:13:29.592,0:13:30.775 So one way you can do that, 0:13:30.775,0:13:32.147 is to try and draw a map[br]of your support network, 0:13:32.147,0:13:33.442 the people you already know. 0:13:33.442,0:13:34.665 Do it like this,[br]put yourself in the middle, 0:13:34.665,0:13:36.026 put the names of people[br]around the edge 0:13:36.026,0:13:38.786 who give you support[br]and to whom you give support. 0:13:38.786,0:13:40.962 So on this one you can see[br]I'm giving a lot of support to William. 0:13:40.985,0:13:42.102 He is giving me nothing back. 0:13:42.102,0:13:44.836 What do I do about that?[br]I'll have to work it out. 0:13:44.836,0:13:48.118 But the relationships[br]that are most useful, 0:13:48.118,0:13:50.310 and psychologists use this[br]with addicts and alcoholics, 0:13:50.310,0:13:51.723 are the ones that are reciprocal. 0:13:51.723,0:13:54.500 So you can see Sonya and Ben,[br]both are reciprocal relationships. 0:13:54.500,0:13:56.146 So you might want to draw this map,[br]it is quite interesting. 0:13:56.146,0:13:58.397 And then go and ask[br]those people for help. 0:13:58.397,0:14:00.551 You must actually ask them to help you. 0:14:00.551,0:14:03.009 You might think, "I can't ask,[br]that's awful, a real imposition." 0:14:03.009,0:14:04.665 But people like to be asked,[br]because it means 0:14:04.665,0:14:06.815 that they are wise and kind[br]and generous and sensitive. 0:14:06.815,0:14:09.085 But the only reason people[br]don't like to be asked, 0:14:09.085,0:14:11.146 is when they can't see[br]a way to say no. 0:14:11.146,0:14:12.519 So you say to them,[br]"Would you help? 0:14:12.519,0:14:13.863 And by the way if you can't, 0:14:13.863,0:14:16.115 either now or at any time[br]in the future, I really don't mind." 0:14:16.115,0:14:17.146 And you have to mean it. 0:14:17.146,0:14:18.103 And once you've asked them[br]in that way, 0:14:18.103,0:14:19.366 why would they say no? 0:14:19.366,0:14:20.609 And what you have done[br]then is liberate them 0:14:20.609,0:14:22.578 to be an active part of your mission. 0:14:22.578,0:14:25.174 They will want to do things,[br]to really be part of it. 0:14:25.174,0:14:26.300 And they'll phone you and say, 0:14:26.300,0:14:27.429 they've seen something[br]in the newspapers. 0:14:27.429,0:14:28.505 So that's great. 0:14:28.505,0:14:30.105 You may also find that[br]there are other people, 0:14:30.105,0:14:31.182 sort of activists all over the country. 0:14:31.182,0:14:32.746 This is my country, the U.K. 0:14:32.746,0:14:34.904 You may find people spread[br]all over the place, 0:14:34.904,0:14:36.770 and you can go and find some of those. 0:14:36.770,0:14:40.346 And I want to end, by giving you[br]some account of my own experience. 0:14:40.346,0:14:41.618 Because I feel a bit dishonored, 0:14:41.618,0:14:44.353 standing in front of you and say[br]anyone could change the world, 0:14:44.353,0:14:48.001 if I didn't try to say something[br]how I've tried to do. 0:14:48.001,0:14:49.206 So some years ago, 0:14:49.206,0:14:50.746 I got very seriously freaked out, 0:14:50.746,0:14:52.106 very depressed about climate change, 0:14:52.106,0:14:56.109 and peak oil, result shortages,[br]that are coming. 0:14:56.109,0:14:57.177 And I didn't know what to do, 0:14:57.177,0:14:59.038 I thought we had to change[br]the whole way that everyone lives, 0:14:59.056,0:15:01.561 we had to get much more[br]self-sufficient, more resourceful, 0:15:01.561,0:15:02.666 stop flying things around the world. 0:15:02.666,0:15:05.071 Everyone has got to start growing food. 0:15:05.071,0:15:06.726 They've got to start making[br]their own clothes, 0:15:06.726,0:15:07.927 doing all sorts of things like that. 0:15:07.927,0:15:09.827 So I joined all the campaign[br]groups you can imagine 0:15:09.827,0:15:11.118 and there were wonderful 0:15:11.118,0:15:14.919 and we did some great stuff[br]joining these networks nationwide. 0:15:14.919,0:15:16.492 After about a year, 0:15:16.507,0:15:17.585 I realized we were doing[br]some amazing stuff 0:15:17.585,0:15:18.958 but I was seeing all the same faces. 0:15:18.958,0:15:20.542 Lovely faces, but all the same faces. 0:15:20.542,0:15:21.783 And I wanted everybody to change, 0:15:21.783,0:15:24.206 not just the seasoned campaigners. 0:15:24.206,0:15:26.618 And I happen around then to read[br]a book by Alistair Mackintosh 0:15:26.625,0:15:29.754 which talks about how it's[br]no good being a campaigner, 0:15:29.754,0:15:31.265 if you're not a good neighbor. 0:15:31.265,0:15:32.531 And it kind of hit me[br]in the head right there, 0:15:32.531,0:15:34.022 so you know why I've now asked you 0:15:34.022,0:15:35.266 to think of each other as neighbors. 0:15:35.266,0:15:36.506 I felt like, what can I do with it, 0:15:36.506,0:15:38.459 so I can resign from[br]these campaigners, 0:15:38.459,0:15:40.327 and I went to work on my street, 0:15:40.327,0:15:43.636 and I had an allotment where[br]I was growing my own food. 0:15:43.636,0:15:46.222 And so I went to the allotment,[br]filled a sack full of apples 0:15:46.222,0:15:47.448 and I went home. 0:15:47.448,0:15:49.452 And I have a wonderful beautiful wife[br]and daughter, 0:15:49.452,0:15:53.077 little daughter at the time, Nancy,[br]and so I grabbed Nancy's hand, 0:15:53.077,0:15:56.146 I didn't need to take Nancy,[br]but she gave me courage basically. 0:15:56.162,0:15:57.562 And so I took the sack and the apples, 0:15:57.562,0:15:59.268 and I carried Nancy along with me. 0:15:59.268,0:16:01.585 We knocked on every door,[br]and people opened the door 0:16:01.585,0:16:03.596 and I said I'm taking the risk. 0:16:03.596,0:16:06.229 Yeah, a man with apples and[br]a lovely daughter isn't a big threat. 0:16:06.229,0:16:07.993 And they opened the door[br]and I took the apples, 0:16:07.993,0:16:09.940 and so that was nice[br]to get to know people a bit better. 0:16:09.945,0:16:13.204 Then, the sneaky bit[br]was six months later 0:16:13.204,0:16:15.551 but forgive me, because[br]it came from the right place. 0:16:15.551,0:16:18.470 I deliberately grew[br]too many tomato seedlings, 0:16:18.470,0:16:19.807 and I put them all in a box, 0:16:19.807,0:16:21.402 and I grabbed Nancy's[br]lovely hand again, 0:16:21.402,0:16:23.810 and we walked on the street,[br]and knocked on the doors. 0:16:23.810,0:16:26.418 We'd said, "Hello", then[br]Nancy again said, "Hello" 0:16:26.418,0:16:29.344 and I said "Oh dear, I've got[br]too many tomato seedlings" 0:16:29.344,0:16:31.147 and I gave it to them,[br]and they took them. 0:16:31.147,0:16:33.363 And I know for a fact that[br]many people in my street 0:16:33.386,0:16:35.195 that year for the first time[br]started growing food. 0:16:35.195,0:16:39.123 So I hadn't had to freak them out about[br]climate change or resort shortages. 0:16:39.123,0:16:40.458 I just got them growing a plant, 0:16:40.474,0:16:41.775 that was kind of the solution. 0:16:41.775,0:16:43.283 So I was very lucky,[br]it was possible in that way, 0:16:43.303,0:16:45.929 to find the happy solution that way. 0:16:45.929,0:16:49.040 Nancy drew a picture, this is[br]a reenactment for you. 0:16:49.054,0:16:51.945 So I had been lucky 0:16:51.945,0:16:54.290 and by chance I discovered[br]something that's really important 0:16:54.290,0:16:56.857 which is: Try to emphasize the positive. 0:16:56.857,0:16:59.264 Because as the late philosopher[br]Reynold Williams once said, 0:16:59.264,0:17:02.564 "The key is not to make[br]despair convincing, 0:17:02.564,0:17:05.383 but to make hope possible." 0:17:05.383,0:17:08.183 You are on a journey,[br]it starts now. 0:17:08.183,0:17:09.946 You might as well make it fun. 0:17:09.946,0:17:11.815 Thank you. 0:17:11.815,0:17:14.507 (Applause)