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Dialogue: 0,0:00:00.43,0:00:02.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm going to talk about seven things you
Dialogue: 0,0:00:02.93,0:00:06.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,can do to boost your self confidence.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:06.43,0:00:15.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,music playing
Dialogue: 0,0:00:15.23,0:00:17.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I found out that entrepreneur in general
Dialogue: 0,0:00:17.80,0:00:20.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,need a little bit more confidence in their
Dialogue: 0,0:00:20.07,0:00:21.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ideas. Need a bit more swagger, need a
Dialogue: 0,0:00:21.92,0:00:24.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,bit more feel that they can do it. Need a
Dialogue: 0,0:00:24.14,0:00:25.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,little bit more belief in their life.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:25.51,0:00:27.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And it's hard because we are doing something
Dialogue: 0,0:00:27.89,0:00:29.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that most people don't do. You know, your
Dialogue: 0,0:00:29.74,0:00:31.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,doing something that is outside the norm.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:31.24,0:00:32.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where everyone else is getting jobs, doing
Dialogue: 0,0:00:32.56,0:00:34.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the safe thing. We are off doing this
Dialogue: 0,0:00:34.57,0:00:36.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,crazy thing of chasing our dream,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:36.48,0:00:38.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,chasing our vision. And because it's so
Dialogue: 0,0:00:38.44,0:00:40.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,different, I feel like we need a little
Dialogue: 0,0:00:40.66,0:00:42.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,bit more confidence. To be able to
Dialogue: 0,0:00:42.69,0:00:44.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,execute and really realize our dreams.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:44.25,0:00:46.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So today I'm going to share with you
Dialogue: 0,0:00:46.44,0:00:48.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,seven things you can do to boost
Dialogue: 0,0:00:48.60,0:00:49.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,your self confidence.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:52.26,0:00:54.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The first thing is find your one word.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:54.79,0:00:57.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And its not just timely because I have a
Dialogue: 0,0:00:57.09,0:00:59.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,book about it. But really because I feel
Dialogue: 0,0:00:59.15,0:01:01.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's one of the most important things
Dialogue: 0,0:01:01.09,0:01:02.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that you can do. Its understanding what
Dialogue: 0,0:01:02.86,0:01:04.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you stand for as a human being. Because
Dialogue: 0,0:01:04.47,0:01:07.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you will likely say, no to opportunities
Dialogue: 0,0:01:07.69,0:01:09.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that could support you but your really
Dialogue: 0,0:01:09.70,0:01:11.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,just afraid. Or you say yes to opportunities
Dialogue: 0,0:01:11.59,0:01:13.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that don't support you but you don't have
Dialogue: 0,0:01:13.43,0:01:15.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the frame work to make that right decision.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:15.16,0:01:17.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When you understand what it is that you
Dialogue: 0,0:01:17.36,0:01:19.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,stand for, you start to raise your standards
Dialogue: 0,0:01:19.44,0:01:21.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of the people that you are around. Of
Dialogue: 0,0:01:21.14,0:01:24.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what you will and will not accept anymore.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:24.20,0:01:26.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And it just really makes a big impact
Dialogue: 0,0:01:26.50,0:01:28.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,on your own self confidence. When you are
Dialogue: 0,0:01:28.47,0:01:30.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,saying no to something, it's not out of
Dialogue: 0,0:01:30.15,0:01:32.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,fear. It's out of principal. And being
Dialogue: 0,0:01:32.05,0:01:34.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,able to understand the difference, a lot
Dialogue: 0,0:01:34.32,0:01:36.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of times when people identify what their
Dialogue: 0,0:01:36.28,0:01:38.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,one word is, it's happy. Because they have
Dialogue: 0,0:01:38.61,0:01:40.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,clarity. But also sad because they realize
Dialogue: 0,0:01:40.74,0:01:43.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,how much of things in their life are not
Dialogue: 0,0:01:43.91,0:01:45.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,congruent with where they should be.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:45.74,0:01:48.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,For you to realize the potential that you
Dialogue: 0,0:01:48.49,0:01:51.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,have, you need to act a certain way that
Dialogue: 0,0:01:51.26,0:01:54.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is most true to you. And you will notice
Dialogue: 0,0:01:54.33,0:01:56.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,how many things in your life
Dialogue: 0,0:01:56.42,0:01:57.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,currently, from the people your around
Dialogue: 0,0:01:57.96,0:01:59.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to the business your involved in, to the
Dialogue: 0,0:01:59.81,0:02:01.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,things that your doing on a day to day
Dialogue: 0,0:02:01.92,0:02:05.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,basis. Are not in line with you achieving
Dialogue: 0,0:02:05.46,0:02:07.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that best version of yourself status.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:07.41,0:02:09.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And when you realize what your one word
Dialogue: 0,0:02:09.22,0:02:10.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is, things start to change. And so that
Dialogue: 0,0:02:10.76,0:02:13.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,self awareness to understand who you are
Dialogue: 0,0:02:13.54,0:02:15.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and what you stand for and start making
Dialogue: 0,0:02:15.42,0:02:17.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,decisions around that make a huge difference
Dialogue: 0,0:02:17.77,0:02:19.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in your self confidence. Because when you
Dialogue: 0,0:02:19.82,0:02:21.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,are saying no to something, it's out of
Dialogue: 0,0:02:21.64,0:02:24.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,conviction. Not out of fear of being judged.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:27.20,0:02:29.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Number two is say yes more.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:29.21,0:02:31.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,One of the things that I find people are
Dialogue: 0,0:02:31.49,0:02:33.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,afraid of and that really limits their self
Dialogue: 0,0:02:33.41,0:02:35.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,confidence, Is that they are afraid to step
Dialogue: 0,0:02:35.31,0:02:37.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of their box. Not something that relates
Dialogue: 0,0:02:37.73,0:02:39.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to their one word. Not something that
Dialogue: 0,0:02:39.40,0:02:41.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is degrading or is against what you stand
Dialogue: 0,0:02:41.70,0:02:43.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for. But just something new, something
Dialogue: 0,0:02:43.54,0:02:45.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,different, something afraid. You know
Dialogue: 0,0:02:45.34,0:02:46.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as kids we try a lot of stuff. We have
Dialogue: 0,0:02:46.77,0:02:49.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,curiosity and somewhere along the line as
Dialogue: 0,0:02:49.12,0:02:51.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we get older, we are more fearful. We
Dialogue: 0,0:02:51.23,0:02:53.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,are afraid of trying something new. We
Dialogue: 0,0:02:53.06,0:02:55.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,are afraid of making a YouTube video.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:55.07,0:02:56.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We are afraid of getting on a motorcycle.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:56.53,0:02:58.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We are afraid of going on that trip.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:58.28,0:03:00.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We will always come up with practical
Dialogue: 0,0:03:00.25,0:03:02.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,reasons why we can't do something but
Dialogue: 0,0:03:02.14,0:03:04.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the real reason is that you are afraid.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:04.54,0:03:07.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And so, what I try to do is when I am
Dialogue: 0,0:03:07.05,0:03:08.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,afraid of something, when I want to say
Dialogue: 0,0:03:08.54,0:03:10.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,no to something. Because of fear, I try
Dialogue: 0,0:03:10.77,0:03:13.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to force myself to go out and do it.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:13.83,0:03:15.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And exercise that muscle. Consistently so
Dialogue: 0,0:03:15.69,0:03:17.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that it gets stronger and stronger and
Dialogue: 0,0:03:17.86,0:03:20.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,stronger and I continue to build and
Dialogue: 0,0:03:20.05,0:03:22.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,grow myself. The biggest decision of all
Dialogue: 0,0:03:22.41,0:03:24.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for me, the hardest one, was turning
Dialogue: 0,0:03:24.50,0:03:27.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,down a really high paying job. At a
Dialogue: 0,0:03:27.34,0:03:29.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,university to start this business that was
Dialogue: 0,0:03:29.26,0:03:31.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,struggling and suffering and making $300
Dialogue: 0,0:03:31.38,0:03:34.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a month. To say no to that, to this company
Dialogue: 0,0:03:34.49,0:03:36.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that I didn't know if it would take off or
Dialogue: 0,0:03:36.33,0:03:38.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,not. Making that tough decision was one
Dialogue: 0,0:03:38.53,0:03:40.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of the most hardest decisions in my life.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:40.07,0:03:42.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it wasn't super easy, it was days and
Dialogue: 0,0:03:42.16,0:03:43.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,days of agony. Trying to think it over.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:43.26,0:03:45.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Making that tough decision help me make
Dialogue: 0,0:03:45.05,0:03:46.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the next tough decision. help me make
Dialogue: 0,0:03:46.62,0:03:48.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the next tough decision. Help me make
Dialogue: 0,0:03:48.19,0:03:49.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the next tough decision. And so, when
Dialogue: 0,0:03:49.80,0:03:51.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there is conflict, when there was a hard
Dialogue: 0,0:03:51.34,0:03:53.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,decision a head of you. Don't run away
Dialogue: 0,0:03:53.21,0:03:55.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,from it. So Yes! Figure out a solution.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:55.25,0:03:57.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dive into. It makes you stronger and helps
Dialogue: 0,0:03:57.95,0:04:00.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you tackle the next situation. And using
Dialogue: 0,0:04:00.71,0:04:02.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,more confidence to be able to do it
Dialogue: 0,0:04:02.36,0:04:03.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,consistently.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:05.12,0:04:06.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Number three is having
Dialogue: 0,0:04:06.87,0:04:08.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,master mind group. And again there are
Dialogue: 0,0:04:08.96,0:04:10.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,people around you are pushing to be better.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:10.48,0:04:11.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Who believe in you, who can see the
Dialogue: 0,0:04:11.98,0:04:14.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,negative self talk in you. Who have your
Dialogue: 0,0:04:14.52,0:04:16.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,best self interest at mind. Who understand
Dialogue: 0,0:04:16.29,0:04:19.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what your goal are, and try to gently or
Dialogue: 0,0:04:19.14,0:04:21.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sometimes not so gently push you in that
Dialogue: 0,0:04:21.96,0:04:23.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,direction. I've had in my master mind
Dialogue: 0,0:04:23.96,0:04:25.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,groups for entrepreneurs here in
Dialogue: 0,0:04:25.38,0:04:28.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Toronto for the past, I don't, ten years
Dialogue: 0,0:04:28.06,0:04:30.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or so. The reason why your not doing the
Dialogue: 0,0:04:30.75,0:04:32.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,thing that your suppose to do, to help get
Dialogue: 0,0:04:32.79,0:04:34.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,your business where its suppose to be. Is
Dialogue: 0,0:04:34.41,0:04:36.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,usually a limiting personal belief. And
Dialogue: 0,0:04:36.16,0:04:38.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you are probably not recognizing that.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:38.48,0:04:41.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And having people around you to call you
Dialogue: 0,0:04:41.04,0:04:43.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,on your own BS, when your giving a
Dialogue: 0,0:04:43.08,0:04:46.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,practical reasonable answer. But they know
Dialogue: 0,0:04:46.31,0:04:48.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that it's just BS, that really helps. And
Dialogue: 0,0:04:48.59,0:04:50.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it could be a formal structure, where you
Dialogue: 0,0:04:50.67,0:04:52.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,have people, that what we do, who meet
Dialogue: 0,0:04:52.60,0:04:54.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,meet every month. And there is between
Dialogue: 0,0:04:54.33,0:04:56.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,six to eight of us, depending on the size
Dialogue: 0,0:04:56.32,0:04:57.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of the group. But it could just be a
Dialogue: 0,0:04:57.75,0:04:59.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,friend of yours, or it could be people in
Dialogue: 0,0:04:59.30,0:05:00.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,your industry that you want to connect
Dialogue: 0,0:05:00.44,0:05:03.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with, on a regular basis. You want people
Dialogue: 0,0:05:03.63,0:05:06.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,around you to help push you to be that
Dialogue: 0,0:05:06.30,0:05:08.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,best version of yourself. And give you
Dialogue: 0,0:05:08.38,0:05:10.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the confidences sometimes that you need
Dialogue: 0,0:05:10.03,0:05:11.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to make the tough decisions when you
Dialogue: 0,0:05:11.65,0:05:13.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,don't have the confidence yourself.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:15.36,0:05:17.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Number four along the same lines is
Dialogue: 0,0:05:17.80,0:05:19.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,surround your self with greatness.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:19.64,0:05:22.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you want to be more confident, you need
Dialogue: 0,0:05:22.15,0:05:24.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to surround yourself with things that make
Dialogue: 0,0:05:24.73,0:05:26.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you feel confident, that give you boldness
Dialogue: 0,0:05:26.92,0:05:28.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that make you want to do something big
Dialogue: 0,0:05:28.76,0:05:30.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and new and special and different. And
Dialogue: 0,0:05:30.77,0:05:32.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,wanna actually want to follow through
Dialogue: 0,0:05:32.15,0:05:33.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,on it. If you look at the people in your
Dialogue: 0,0:05:33.93,0:05:35.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,life right now. Do they give you
Dialogue: 0,0:05:35.30,0:05:36.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,confidence? Does your mom give you
Dialogue: 0,0:05:36.80,0:05:38.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,confidence? Do you friends give you
Dialogue: 0,0:05:38.26,0:05:40.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,confidence? Do your teachers or colleages
Dialogue: 0,0:05:40.79,0:05:42.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,give you confidence? Or when you tell them
Dialogue: 0,0:05:42.88,0:05:45.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,your idea, do they say that it's a stupid
Dialogue: 0,0:05:45.37,0:05:47.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,idea and you shouldn't do it? Does your
Dialogue: 0,0:05:47.18,0:05:49.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,office or bedroom give your confidence?
Dialogue: 0,0:05:49.47,0:05:51.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Or the videos that you watch give you
Dialogue: 0,0:05:51.56,0:05:53.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,confidence? Right. All of that matters.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:53.33,0:05:54.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And you want to design your environment
Dialogue: 0,0:05:54.93,0:05:57.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with intent, so that where ever you are
Dialogue: 0,0:05:57.35,0:06:00.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as much as possible, from the clothes that
Dialogue: 0,0:06:00.26,0:06:01.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you wear to the music that you listen to,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:01.69,0:06:02.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to the videos that you watch and the people
Dialogue: 0,0:06:02.92,0:06:04.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that you hang out with and the
Dialogue: 0,0:06:04.00,0:06:05.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,conversations that you have are built up
Dialogue: 0,0:06:05.54,0:06:08.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,around helping you do something great.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:08.23,0:06:10.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And to the extent that they are not,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:10.43,0:06:12.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I would have a serious thought about
Dialogue: 0,0:06:12.02,0:06:13.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,whether you still wanna have those people
Dialogue: 0,0:06:13.87,0:06:15.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or those things in your life. If you want
Dialogue: 0,0:06:15.66,0:06:17.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to boost your confidence, then you need
Dialogue: 0,0:06:17.55,0:06:19.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to have things around you that make you
Dialogue: 0,0:06:19.54,0:06:21.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,feel confident consistently.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:25.11,0:06:26.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Number five is take small steps
Dialogue: 0,0:06:26.92,0:06:28.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,One of the biggest
Dialogue: 0,0:06:28.26,0:06:30.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,things that I found in trying to tackle
Dialogue: 0,0:06:30.28,0:06:32.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,big projects. I'm starting here and I want
Dialogue: 0,0:06:32.50,0:06:34.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to get here, it's a big gap and because
Dialogue: 0,0:06:34.61,0:06:35.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it looks so big, I don't have the
Dialogue: 0,0:06:35.84,0:06:38.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,confidence to do it. Well who am I to be
Dialogue: 0,0:06:38.21,0:06:40.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,able to go out and do that. Its such a big
Dialogue: 0,0:06:40.04,0:06:41.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,task, I can't do it. And all the negative
Dialogue: 0,0:06:41.58,0:06:44.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,self talk starts to come in. Well if you
Dialogue: 0,0:06:44.06,0:06:45.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,realize that you can take small steps.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:45.67,0:06:47.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is really big but here to here is not
Dialogue: 0,0:06:47.86,0:06:50.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so big. Its scary but not that scary.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:50.80,0:06:52.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I think I can kind of do that. And then
Dialogue: 0,0:06:52.43,0:06:53.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,another step and another step and you
Dialogue: 0,0:06:53.95,0:06:55.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,slowly work your way up. Realizing that
Dialogue: 0,0:06:55.86,0:06:57.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,any big endeavor is the collection of a
Dialogue: 0,0:06:57.96,0:07:00.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,lot of small steps that came before. And
Dialogue: 0,0:07:00.83,0:07:03.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so trying to break down whatever that big
Dialogue: 0,0:07:03.06,0:07:05.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,thing is that you wanna do that seems so
Dialogue: 0,0:07:05.22,0:07:06.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,scary and crazy and out of this world.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:06.96,0:07:09.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And not possible, not within your skill
Dialogue: 0,0:07:09.48,0:07:11.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,set. Or ever going to happen for you.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:11.30,0:07:14.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Find whatever the smallest first step is
Dialogue: 0,0:07:14.07,0:07:15.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and the smallest next step is, and
Dialogue: 0,0:07:15.95,0:07:17.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,continue to build those steps and when
Dialogue: 0,0:07:17.96,0:07:19.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you look back. You'll have realized that
Dialogue: 0,0:07:19.46,0:07:21.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you have made pretty significate progress.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:24.33,0:07:27.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Number six is model success. It can be
Dialogue: 0,0:07:27.34,0:07:29.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,really scary or really hard when you don't
Dialogue: 0,0:07:29.33,0:07:31.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,have a plan. When you don't know where
Dialogue: 0,0:07:31.08,0:07:32.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,your going. And as entrepreneur's its, its
Dialogue: 0,0:07:32.89,0:07:34.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,especially scary because we are doing new
Dialogue: 0,0:07:34.78,0:07:36.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,things, we are pioneering, we're
Dialogue: 0,0:07:36.10,0:07:37.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,inventing the future. We're writing the
Dialogue: 0,0:07:37.65,0:07:40.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,new scripts or what will happen. And
Dialogue: 0,0:07:40.59,0:07:42.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when you don't have clarity, when you
Dialogue: 0,0:07:42.52,0:07:44.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,don't have certainty. That leads to a
Dialogue: 0,0:07:44.80,0:07:47.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,lack of confidence. If you know exactly
Dialogue: 0,0:07:47.31,0:07:49.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,how to do something and done it a
Dialogue: 0,0:07:49.10,0:07:51.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,million times before. You don't have self
Dialogue: 0,0:07:51.16,0:07:52.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,confidence issues. Because you've
Dialogue: 0,0:07:52.75,0:07:55.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,already done it. Right, like breathing or
Dialogue: 0,0:07:55.04,0:07:57.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,walking or writing the letter "A" or
Dialogue: 0,0:07:57.03,0:07:58.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,whatever. Like all of these things that
Dialogue: 0,0:07:58.98,0:08:01.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you do constantly. And so, it's not hard
Dialogue: 0,0:08:01.58,0:08:03.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for you to do it. Where when the future
Dialogue: 0,0:08:03.47,0:08:05.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is unclear, it can be really hard. And so
Dialogue: 0,0:08:05.39,0:08:07.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,one of the things that I found helps
Dialogue: 0,0:08:07.44,0:08:09.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is modeling success. Maybe no one has done
Dialogue: 0,0:08:09.81,0:08:11.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what I want to do, in my industry. But it
Dialogue: 0,0:08:11.98,0:08:14.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,may have been done before and there some
Dialogue: 0,0:08:14.31,0:08:16.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,pieces that I can learn from history of
Dialogue: 0,0:08:16.01,0:08:17.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,other entrepreneur's, other innovators,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:17.79,0:08:19.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,other actors, other musician's or other
Dialogue: 0,0:08:19.75,0:08:22.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,athletes. They have done something that I
Dialogue: 0,0:08:22.35,0:08:25.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,can take and apply it to my case. And
Dialogue: 0,0:08:25.16,0:08:27.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,looking at that not only gives me the
Dialogue: 0,0:08:27.63,0:08:30.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,strategy of what but helps give me the plan
Dialogue: 0,0:08:30.22,0:08:32.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of what I can to do. But also inspires
Dialogue: 0,0:08:32.44,0:08:33.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,confidence in me because I look at
Dialogue: 0,0:08:33.88,0:08:35.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,somebody here, who's done something
Dialogue: 0,0:08:35.88,0:08:38.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,amazing. Who started with less than
Dialogue: 0,0:08:38.17,0:08:40.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what I already have right now. If they can
Dialogue: 0,0:08:40.15,0:08:42.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,do it. It inspires me to think that I can
Dialogue: 0,0:08:42.79,0:08:44.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,do it too. Or at least I can get pretty
Dialogue: 0,0:08:44.89,0:08:47.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,close. And I've always found that having
Dialogue: 0,0:08:47.92,0:08:49.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,those stories around me, helped boost
Dialogue: 0,0:08:49.62,0:08:51.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,my confidence. Which is part of why I
Dialogue: 0,0:08:51.05,0:08:53.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,started this channel. Selfishly for me
Dialogue: 0,0:08:53.62,0:08:55.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the top ten rules, especially for me to
Dialogue: 0,0:08:55.10,0:08:57.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,watch consistently, daily to give me
Dialogue: 0,0:08:57.24,0:09:01.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,confidence. Where I look at these people
Dialogue: 0,0:09:01.37,0:09:03.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and see that these people were able to
Dialogue: 0,0:09:03.60,0:09:05.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,do great things, with so little. It makes
Dialogue: 0,0:09:05.23,0:09:07.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,me feel like I can do it myself. And I
Dialogue: 0,0:09:07.18,0:09:10.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,need it daily. I need that shot daily. At
Dialogue: 0,0:09:10.37,0:09:12.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,least for me, maybe you guys can watch
Dialogue: 0,0:09:12.38,0:09:14.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,something and it will last you for months.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:14.12,0:09:15.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,For me I need it daily. I need that
Dialogue: 0,0:09:15.72,0:09:17.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,constant injection. And so, by looking at
Dialogue: 0,0:09:17.89,0:09:20.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what they have done. I get that and I feel
Dialogue: 0,0:09:20.50,0:09:22.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,more confident in my abilities to go out
Dialogue: 0,0:09:22.32,0:09:24.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and execute on my vision.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:26.80,0:09:28.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And the number seven thing
Dialogue: 0,0:09:28.57,0:09:29.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you can do to boost your self
Dialogue: 0,0:09:29.66,0:09:31.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,confidence. Is try to live with no regrets.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:31.67,0:09:35.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is the single most important thing
Dialogue: 0,0:09:35.42,0:09:38.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that helped me in my biggest decision
Dialogue: 0,0:09:38.10,0:09:40.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in my life. Was deciding between having
Dialogue: 0,0:09:40.72,0:09:43.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that job, that dream job that I thought
Dialogue: 0,0:09:43.01,0:09:45.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I always wanted and running this business
Dialogue: 0,0:09:45.09,0:09:47.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that was sucking, was I don't want to
Dialogue: 0,0:09:47.73,0:09:49.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,live with regret. That's what turned the
Dialogue: 0,0:09:49.78,0:09:51.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,tables. It wasn't making a list of pro's
Dialogue: 0,0:09:51.74,0:09:53.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and con's. And strengths and weakness.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:53.07,0:09:55.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And try to think about it logically. It
Dialogue: 0,0:09:55.49,0:09:58.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,was really if I didn't do this, if I didn't
Dialogue: 0,0:09:58.56,0:10:01.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,try to make this company work. I would
Dialogue: 0,0:10:01.48,0:10:05.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,regret it. Where taking that job, I figured
Dialogue: 0,0:10:05.71,0:10:07.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you know what, I can always get another
Dialogue: 0,0:10:07.68,0:10:09.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,job. I mean, it may no be that job or
Dialogue: 0,0:10:09.49,0:10:11.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the dream job but I could probably work
Dialogue: 0,0:10:11.04,0:10:12.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,my way up there and get the job. But I
Dialogue: 0,0:10:12.37,0:10:14.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,wouldn't have this chance again. And I
Dialogue: 0,0:10:14.32,0:10:16.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,would regret not taking it. That fear of
Dialogue: 0,0:10:16.18,0:10:19.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,regret, that worry about regret, that
Dialogue: 0,0:10:19.73,0:10:21.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,looking at your life when your one hundred
Dialogue: 0,0:10:21.65,0:10:23.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,years old and back to this moment, will
Dialogue: 0,0:10:23.72,0:10:26.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you think that you will regret not taking
Dialogue: 0,0:10:26.14,0:10:29.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,action? That helps me, bust through the
Dialogue: 0,0:10:29.02,0:10:31.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,fear. I'm still afraid to take the action.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:31.99,0:10:33.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Still afraid to say yes, still afraid to
Dialogue: 0,0:10:33.44,0:10:36.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,do it. But the thought of the regret
Dialogue: 0,0:10:36.28,0:10:38.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,haunting me for the rest of my life. Helps
Dialogue: 0,0:10:38.58,0:10:40.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,give me the courage to feel the fear and
Dialogue: 0,0:10:40.78,0:10:43.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,do it anyway. And it gives me the
Dialogue: 0,0:10:43.23,0:10:46.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,confidence to success and at least try.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:46.02,0:10:49.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And knowing that, the trying itself is a
Dialogue: 0,0:10:49.45,0:10:51.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,victory. Even if I don't get the result,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:51.22,0:10:52.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,even if my business doesn't take off.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:52.90,0:10:54.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Like Yes, it worked out for me. I got
Dialogue: 0,0:10:54.26,0:10:56.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,acquired a couple of years later. You know
Dialogue: 0,0:10:56.59,0:10:58.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it was a great scenario for me. But even
Dialogue: 0,0:10:58.37,0:11:01.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if it didn't work out, just knowing the
Dialogue: 0,0:11:01.46,0:11:04.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,answer helps. Just talking to that girl
Dialogue: 0,0:11:04.60,0:11:06.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and getting an answer helps. Just making
Dialogue: 0,0:11:06.91,0:11:09.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that sale's call and getting an answer
Dialogue: 0,0:11:09.82,0:11:13.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,helps. So it's not necessarily just, you
Dialogue: 0,0:11:13.01,0:11:15.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,know, the victory. The win. But certainty.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:15.31,0:11:18.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because the more that you live your life,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:18.72,0:11:22.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with limited regrets. First of all you'll
Dialogue: 0,0:11:22.11,0:11:24.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,live a much happier life but second of
Dialogue: 0,0:11:24.61,0:11:26.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,all you'll probably do something amazing
Dialogue: 0,0:11:26.61,0:11:29.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and special. And not every bet it going
Dialogue: 0,0:11:29.08,0:11:32.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to work out. But you don't go off and hit
Dialogue: 0,0:11:32.29,0:11:35.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,those amazing goals by playing safe. And
Dialogue: 0,0:11:35.17,0:11:37.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,living below what you are capable of
Dialogue: 0,0:11:37.92,0:11:40.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,doing. So that is my take on the seven
Dialogue: 0,0:11:40.06,0:11:41.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,things that you can do to boost
Dialogue: 0,0:11:41.80,0:11:43.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,your self confidence. I would love to
Dialogue: 0,0:11:43.07,0:11:44.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,know what you guys think. Which one did
Dialogue: 0,0:11:44.80,0:11:46.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you resonate the most with. What did this
Dialogue: 0,0:11:46.19,0:11:47.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,video mean to you. Leave it in the
Dialogue: 0,0:11:47.38,0:11:49.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,comments below. Did I miss some? Are
Dialogue: 0,0:11:49.11,0:11:50.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there eight, nine, ten that you guys want
Dialogue: 0,0:11:50.89,0:11:52.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to add in. Pop it down there and I'm going
Dialogue: 0,0:11:52.86,0:11:54.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to join in the discussion. And finally
Dialogue: 0,0:11:54.72,0:11:57.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I want to give a quick shout out to Debra.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:57.19,0:11:58.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Debra, thank you so much for buying a
Dialogue: 0,0:11:58.85,0:12:00.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,copy of my book. it really means a lot to
Dialogue: 0,0:12:00.38,0:12:02.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,me. For those of you guys who want to
Dialogue: 0,0:12:02.14,0:12:04.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,support me and want a chance at a future
Dialogue: 0,0:12:04.50,0:12:06.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,shout out in a video. Make sure to pick up
Dialogue: 0,0:12:06.66,0:12:08.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a copy of the book. And email in your
Dialogue: 0,0:12:08.23,0:12:09.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,receipt so we can keep track. Thank you
Dialogue: 0,0:12:09.76,0:12:11.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,guys so much for watching. Continue to
Dialogue: 0,0:12:11.46,0:12:14.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,believe or what your one word is.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:14.14,0:12:15.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I will see you soon.