1 00:00:00,430 --> 00:00:02,650 I'm going to talk about seven things you 2 00:00:02,933 --> 00:00:06,430 can do to boost your self confidence. 3 00:00:06,430 --> 00:00:15,233 music playing 4 00:00:15,233 --> 00:00:17,797 So I found out that entrepreneur in general 5 00:00:17,797 --> 00:00:20,071 need a little bit more confidence in their 6 00:00:20,071 --> 00:00:21,921 ideas. Need a bit more swagger, need a 7 00:00:21,921 --> 00:00:24,139 bit more feel that they can do it. Need a 8 00:00:24,139 --> 00:00:25,508 little bit more belief in their life. 9 00:00:25,508 --> 00:00:27,890 And it's hard because we are doing something 10 00:00:27,890 --> 00:00:29,736 that most people don't do. You know, your 11 00:00:29,736 --> 00:00:31,239 doing something that is outside the norm. 12 00:00:31,239 --> 00:00:32,556 where everyone else is getting jobs, doing 13 00:00:32,556 --> 00:00:34,569 the safe thing. We are off doing this 14 00:00:34,569 --> 00:00:36,480 crazy thing of chasing our dream, 15 00:00:36,480 --> 00:00:38,439 chasing our vision. And because it's so 16 00:00:38,439 --> 00:00:40,659 different, I feel like we need a little 17 00:00:40,659 --> 00:00:42,694 bit more confidence. To be able to 18 00:00:42,694 --> 00:00:44,253 execute and really realize our dreams. 19 00:00:44,253 --> 00:00:46,435 So today I'm going to share with you 20 00:00:46,435 --> 00:00:48,596 seven things you can do to boost 21 00:00:48,596 --> 00:00:49,988 your self confidence. 22 00:00:52,259 --> 00:00:54,786 The first thing is find your one word. 23 00:00:54,786 --> 00:00:57,091 And its not just timely because I have a 24 00:00:57,091 --> 00:00:59,153 book about it. But really because I feel 25 00:00:59,153 --> 00:01:01,086 it's one of the most important things 26 00:01:01,086 --> 00:01:02,862 that you can do. Its understanding what 27 00:01:02,862 --> 00:01:04,471 you stand for as a human being. Because 28 00:01:04,471 --> 00:01:07,686 you will likely say, no to opportunities 29 00:01:07,686 --> 00:01:09,702 that could support you but your really 30 00:01:09,702 --> 00:01:11,591 just afraid. Or you say yes to opportunities 31 00:01:11,591 --> 00:01:13,427 that don't support you but you don't have 32 00:01:13,427 --> 00:01:15,156 the frame work to make that right decision. 33 00:01:15,156 --> 00:01:17,363 When you understand what it is that you 34 00:01:17,363 --> 00:01:19,438 stand for, you start to raise your standards 35 00:01:19,438 --> 00:01:21,144 of the people that you are around. Of 36 00:01:21,144 --> 00:01:24,197 what you will and will not accept anymore. 37 00:01:24,197 --> 00:01:26,504 And it just really makes a big impact 38 00:01:26,504 --> 00:01:28,472 on your own self confidence. When you are 39 00:01:28,472 --> 00:01:30,152 saying no to something, it's not out of 40 00:01:30,152 --> 00:01:32,050 fear. It's out of principal. And being 41 00:01:32,050 --> 00:01:34,320 able to understand the difference, a lot 42 00:01:34,320 --> 00:01:36,280 of times when people identify what their 43 00:01:36,280 --> 00:01:38,606 one word is, it's happy. Because they have 44 00:01:38,606 --> 00:01:40,739 clarity. But also sad because they realize 45 00:01:40,739 --> 00:01:43,911 how much of things in their life are not 46 00:01:43,911 --> 00:01:45,741 congruent with where they should be. 47 00:01:45,741 --> 00:01:48,494 For you to realize the potential that you 48 00:01:48,494 --> 00:01:51,258 have, you need to act a certain way that 49 00:01:51,258 --> 00:01:54,328 is most true to you. And you will notice 50 00:01:54,328 --> 00:01:56,419 how many things in your life 51 00:01:56,419 --> 00:01:57,957 currently, from the people your around 52 00:01:57,957 --> 00:01:59,806 to the business your involved in, to the 53 00:01:59,806 --> 00:02:01,922 things that your doing on a day to day 54 00:02:01,922 --> 00:02:05,463 basis. Are not in line with you achieving 55 00:02:05,463 --> 00:02:07,413 that best version of yourself status. 56 00:02:07,413 --> 00:02:09,217 And when you realize what your one word 57 00:02:09,217 --> 00:02:10,758 is, things start to change. And so that 58 00:02:10,758 --> 00:02:13,545 self awareness to understand who you are 59 00:02:13,545 --> 00:02:15,415 and what you stand for and start making 60 00:02:15,415 --> 00:02:17,766 decisions around that make a huge difference 61 00:02:17,766 --> 00:02:19,819 in your self confidence. Because when you 62 00:02:19,819 --> 00:02:21,644 are saying no to something, it's out of 63 00:02:21,644 --> 00:02:24,027 conviction. Not out of fear of being judged. 64 00:02:27,200 --> 00:02:29,214 Number two is say yes more. 65 00:02:29,214 --> 00:02:31,489 One of the things that I find people are 66 00:02:31,489 --> 00:02:33,410 afraid of and that really limits their self 67 00:02:33,410 --> 00:02:35,310 confidence, Is that they are afraid to step 68 00:02:35,310 --> 00:02:37,730 of their box. Not something that relates 69 00:02:37,730 --> 00:02:39,401 to their one word. Not something that 70 00:02:39,401 --> 00:02:41,699 is degrading or is against what you stand 71 00:02:41,699 --> 00:02:43,540 for. But just something new, something 72 00:02:43,540 --> 00:02:45,341 different, something afraid. You know 73 00:02:45,341 --> 00:02:46,772 as kids we try a lot of stuff. We have 74 00:02:46,772 --> 00:02:49,125 curiosity and somewhere along the line as 75 00:02:49,125 --> 00:02:51,227 we get older, we are more fearful. We 76 00:02:51,227 --> 00:02:53,063 are afraid of trying something new. We 77 00:02:53,063 --> 00:02:55,066 are afraid of making a YouTube video. 78 00:02:55,066 --> 00:02:56,534 We are afraid of getting on a motorcycle. 79 00:02:56,534 --> 00:02:58,276 We are afraid of going on that trip. 80 00:02:58,276 --> 00:03:00,253 We will always come up with practical 81 00:03:00,253 --> 00:03:02,140 reasons why we can't do something but 82 00:03:02,140 --> 00:03:04,544 the real reason is that you are afraid. 83 00:03:04,544 --> 00:03:07,050 And so, what I try to do is when I am 84 00:03:07,050 --> 00:03:08,538 afraid of something, when I want to say 85 00:03:08,538 --> 00:03:10,772 no to something. Because of fear, I try 86 00:03:10,772 --> 00:03:13,829 to force myself to go out and do it. 87 00:03:13,829 --> 00:03:15,693 And exercise that muscle. Consistently so 88 00:03:15,693 --> 00:03:17,858 that it gets stronger and stronger and 89 00:03:17,858 --> 00:03:20,053 stronger and I continue to build and 90 00:03:20,053 --> 00:03:22,407 grow myself. The biggest decision of all 91 00:03:22,407 --> 00:03:24,495 for me, the hardest one, was turning 92 00:03:24,495 --> 00:03:27,337 down a really high paying job. At a 93 00:03:27,337 --> 00:03:29,264 university to start this business that was 94 00:03:29,264 --> 00:03:31,384 struggling and suffering and making $300 95 00:03:31,384 --> 00:03:34,490 a month. To say no to that, to this company 96 00:03:34,490 --> 00:03:36,332 that I didn't know if it would take off or 97 00:03:36,332 --> 00:03:38,534 not. Making that tough decision was one 98 00:03:38,534 --> 00:03:40,066 of the most hardest decisions in my life. 99 00:03:40,066 --> 00:03:42,155 it wasn't super easy, it was days and 100 00:03:42,155 --> 00:03:43,255 days of agony. Trying to think it over. 101 00:03:43,255 --> 00:03:45,049 Making that tough decision help me make 102 00:03:45,049 --> 00:03:46,618 the next tough decision. help me make 103 00:03:46,618 --> 00:03:48,194 the next tough decision. Help me make 104 00:03:48,194 --> 00:03:49,804 the next tough decision. And so, when 105 00:03:49,804 --> 00:03:51,345 there is conflict, when there was a hard 106 00:03:51,345 --> 00:03:53,213 decision a head of you. Don't run away 107 00:03:53,213 --> 00:03:55,254 from it. So Yes! Figure out a solution. 108 00:03:55,254 --> 00:03:57,948 Dive into. It makes you stronger and helps 109 00:03:57,948 --> 00:04:00,711 you tackle the next situation. And using 110 00:04:00,711 --> 00:04:02,362 more confidence to be able to do it 111 00:04:02,362 --> 00:04:03,580 consistently. 112 00:04:05,120 --> 00:04:06,870 Number three is having 113 00:04:06,870 --> 00:04:08,962 master mind group. And again there are 114 00:04:08,962 --> 00:04:10,483 people around you are pushing to be better. 115 00:04:10,483 --> 00:04:11,976 Who believe in you, who can see the 116 00:04:11,976 --> 00:04:14,522 negative self talk in you. Who have your 117 00:04:14,522 --> 00:04:16,294 best self interest at mind. Who understand 118 00:04:16,294 --> 00:04:19,142 what your goal are, and try to gently or 119 00:04:19,142 --> 00:04:21,960 sometimes not so gently push you in that 120 00:04:21,960 --> 00:04:23,964 direction. I've had in my master mind 121 00:04:23,964 --> 00:04:25,380 groups for entrepreneurs here in 122 00:04:25,380 --> 00:04:28,062 Toronto for the past, I don't, ten years 123 00:04:28,062 --> 00:04:30,754 or so. The reason why your not doing the 124 00:04:30,754 --> 00:04:32,787 thing that your suppose to do, to help get 125 00:04:32,787 --> 00:04:34,411 your business where its suppose to be. Is 126 00:04:34,411 --> 00:04:36,157 usually a limiting personal belief. And 127 00:04:36,157 --> 00:04:38,475 you are probably not recognizing that. 128 00:04:38,475 --> 00:04:41,039 And having people around you to call you 129 00:04:41,039 --> 00:04:43,080 on your own BS, when your giving a 130 00:04:43,080 --> 00:04:46,312 practical reasonable answer. But they know 131 00:04:46,312 --> 00:04:48,591 that it's just BS, that really helps. And 132 00:04:48,591 --> 00:04:50,666 it could be a formal structure, where you 133 00:04:50,666 --> 00:04:52,598 have people, that what we do, who meet 134 00:04:52,598 --> 00:04:54,326 meet every month. And there is between 135 00:04:54,326 --> 00:04:56,315 six to eight of us, depending on the size 136 00:04:56,315 --> 00:04:57,752 of the group. But it could just be a 137 00:04:57,752 --> 00:04:59,298 friend of yours, or it could be people in 138 00:04:59,298 --> 00:05:00,436 your industry that you want to connect 139 00:05:00,436 --> 00:05:03,627 with, on a regular basis. You want people 140 00:05:03,627 --> 00:05:06,295 around you to help push you to be that 141 00:05:06,295 --> 00:05:08,385 best version of yourself. And give you 142 00:05:08,385 --> 00:05:10,029 the confidences sometimes that you need 143 00:05:10,029 --> 00:05:11,653 to make the tough decisions when you 144 00:05:11,653 --> 00:05:13,461 don't have the confidence yourself. 145 00:05:15,361 --> 00:05:17,798 Number four along the same lines is 146 00:05:17,798 --> 00:05:19,642 surround your self with greatness. 147 00:05:19,642 --> 00:05:22,154 If you want to be more confident, you need 148 00:05:22,154 --> 00:05:24,734 to surround yourself with things that make 149 00:05:24,734 --> 00:05:26,924 you feel confident, that give you boldness 150 00:05:26,924 --> 00:05:28,759 that make you want to do something big 151 00:05:28,759 --> 00:05:30,767 and new and special and different. And 152 00:05:30,767 --> 00:05:32,152 wanna actually want to follow through 153 00:05:32,152 --> 00:05:33,928 on it. If you look at the people in your 154 00:05:33,928 --> 00:05:35,303 life right now. Do they give you 155 00:05:35,303 --> 00:05:36,802 confidence? Does your mom give you 156 00:05:36,802 --> 00:05:38,256 confidence? Do you friends give you 157 00:05:38,256 --> 00:05:40,792 confidence? Do your teachers or colleages 158 00:05:40,792 --> 00:05:42,885 give you confidence? Or when you tell them 159 00:05:42,885 --> 00:05:45,370 your idea, do they say that it's a stupid 160 00:05:45,370 --> 00:05:47,177 idea and you shouldn't do it? Does your 161 00:05:47,177 --> 00:05:49,472 office or bedroom give your confidence? 162 00:05:49,472 --> 00:05:51,559 Or the videos that you watch give you 163 00:05:51,559 --> 00:05:53,330 confidence? Right. All of that matters. 164 00:05:53,330 --> 00:05:54,933 And you want to design your environment 165 00:05:54,933 --> 00:05:57,348 with intent, so that where ever you are 166 00:05:57,348 --> 00:06:00,260 as much as possible, from the clothes that 167 00:06:00,260 --> 00:06:01,686 you wear to the music that you listen to, 168 00:06:01,686 --> 00:06:02,916 to the videos that you watch and the people 169 00:06:02,916 --> 00:06:04,005 that you hang out with and the 170 00:06:04,005 --> 00:06:05,535 conversations that you have are built up 171 00:06:05,535 --> 00:06:08,231 around helping you do something great. 172 00:06:08,231 --> 00:06:10,433 And to the extent that they are not, 173 00:06:10,433 --> 00:06:12,022 I would have a serious thought about 174 00:06:12,022 --> 00:06:13,868 whether you still wanna have those people 175 00:06:13,868 --> 00:06:15,656 or those things in your life. If you want 176 00:06:15,656 --> 00:06:17,549 to boost your confidence, then you need 177 00:06:17,549 --> 00:06:19,542 to have things around you that make you 178 00:06:19,542 --> 00:06:21,766 feel confident consistently. 179 00:06:25,113 --> 00:06:26,897 Number five is take small steps 180 00:06:26,917 --> 00:06:28,264 One of the biggest 181 00:06:28,264 --> 00:06:30,282 things that I found in trying to tackle 182 00:06:30,282 --> 00:06:32,499 big projects. I'm starting here and I want 183 00:06:32,499 --> 00:06:34,610 to get here, it's a big gap and because 184 00:06:34,610 --> 00:06:35,839 it looks so big, I don't have the 185 00:06:35,839 --> 00:06:38,208 confidence to do it. Well who am I to be 186 00:06:38,208 --> 00:06:40,036 able to go out and do that. Its such a big 187 00:06:40,036 --> 00:06:41,584 task, I can't do it. And all the negative 188 00:06:41,584 --> 00:06:44,063 self talk starts to come in. Well if you 189 00:06:44,063 --> 00:06:45,673 realize that you can take small steps. 190 00:06:45,673 --> 00:06:47,864 This is really big but here to here is not 191 00:06:47,864 --> 00:06:50,801 so big. Its scary but not that scary. 192 00:06:50,801 --> 00:06:52,434 I think I can kind of do that. And then 193 00:06:52,434 --> 00:06:53,953 another step and another step and you 194 00:06:53,953 --> 00:06:55,864 slowly work your way up. Realizing that 195 00:06:55,864 --> 00:06:57,961 any big endeavor is the collection of a 196 00:06:57,961 --> 00:07:00,831 lot of small steps that came before. And 197 00:07:00,831 --> 00:07:03,055 so trying to break down whatever that big 198 00:07:03,055 --> 00:07:05,221 thing is that you wanna do that seems so 199 00:07:05,221 --> 00:07:06,960 scary and crazy and out of this world. 200 00:07:06,960 --> 00:07:09,484 And not possible, not within your skill 201 00:07:09,484 --> 00:07:11,296 set. Or ever going to happen for you. 202 00:07:11,296 --> 00:07:14,068 Find whatever the smallest first step is 203 00:07:14,068 --> 00:07:15,946 and the smallest next step is, and 204 00:07:15,946 --> 00:07:17,964 continue to build those steps and when 205 00:07:17,964 --> 00:07:19,457 you look back. You'll have realized that 206 00:07:19,457 --> 00:07:21,199 you have made pretty significate progress. 207 00:07:24,326 --> 00:07:27,342 Number six is model success. It can be 208 00:07:27,342 --> 00:07:29,334 really scary or really hard when you don't 209 00:07:29,334 --> 00:07:31,076 have a plan. When you don't know where 210 00:07:31,076 --> 00:07:32,892 your going. And as entrepreneur's its, its 211 00:07:32,892 --> 00:07:34,778 especially scary because we are doing new 212 00:07:34,778 --> 00:07:36,096 things, we are pioneering, we're 213 00:07:36,096 --> 00:07:37,654 inventing the future. We're writing the 214 00:07:37,654 --> 00:07:40,592 new scripts or what will happen. And 215 00:07:40,592 --> 00:07:42,517 when you don't have clarity, when you 216 00:07:42,517 --> 00:07:44,800 don't have certainty. That leads to a 217 00:07:44,800 --> 00:07:47,310 lack of confidence. If you know exactly 218 00:07:47,310 --> 00:07:49,100 how to do something and done it a 219 00:07:49,100 --> 00:07:51,158 million times before. You don't have self 220 00:07:51,158 --> 00:07:52,751 confidence issues. Because you've 221 00:07:52,751 --> 00:07:55,037 already done it. Right, like breathing or 222 00:07:55,037 --> 00:07:57,034 walking or writing the letter "A" or 223 00:07:57,034 --> 00:07:58,978 whatever. Like all of these things that 224 00:07:58,978 --> 00:08:01,580 you do constantly. And so, it's not hard 225 00:08:01,580 --> 00:08:03,473 for you to do it. Where when the future 226 00:08:03,473 --> 00:08:05,394 is unclear, it can be really hard. And so 227 00:08:05,394 --> 00:08:07,443 one of the things that I found helps 228 00:08:07,443 --> 00:08:09,808 is modeling success. Maybe no one has done 229 00:08:09,808 --> 00:08:11,981 what I want to do, in my industry. But it 230 00:08:11,981 --> 00:08:14,314 may have been done before and there some 231 00:08:14,314 --> 00:08:16,006 pieces that I can learn from history of 232 00:08:16,006 --> 00:08:17,787 other entrepreneur's, other innovators, 233 00:08:17,787 --> 00:08:19,748 other actors, other musician's or other 234 00:08:19,748 --> 00:08:22,347 athletes. They have done something that I 235 00:08:22,347 --> 00:08:25,162 can take and apply it to my case. And 236 00:08:25,162 --> 00:08:27,634 looking at that not only gives me the 237 00:08:27,634 --> 00:08:30,221 strategy of what but helps give me the plan 238 00:08:30,221 --> 00:08:32,435 of what I can to do. But also inspires 239 00:08:32,435 --> 00:08:33,878 confidence in me because I look at 240 00:08:33,878 --> 00:08:35,879 somebody here, who's done something 241 00:08:35,879 --> 00:08:38,171 amazing. Who started with less than 242 00:08:38,171 --> 00:08:40,151 what I already have right now. If they can 243 00:08:40,151 --> 00:08:42,789 do it. It inspires me to think that I can 244 00:08:42,789 --> 00:08:44,886 do it too. Or at least I can get pretty 245 00:08:44,886 --> 00:08:47,918 close. And I've always found that having 246 00:08:47,918 --> 00:08:49,625 those stories around me, helped boost 247 00:08:49,625 --> 00:08:51,054 my confidence. Which is part of why I 248 00:08:51,054 --> 00:08:53,619 started this channel. Selfishly for me 249 00:08:53,619 --> 00:08:55,100 the top ten rules, especially for me to 250 00:08:55,100 --> 00:08:57,241 watch consistently, daily to give me 251 00:08:57,241 --> 00:09:01,366 confidence. Where I look at these people 252 00:09:01,366 --> 00:09:03,596 and see that these people were able to 253 00:09:03,596 --> 00:09:05,229 do great things, with so little. It makes 254 00:09:05,229 --> 00:09:07,179 me feel like I can do it myself. And I 255 00:09:07,179 --> 00:09:10,372 need it daily. I need that shot daily. At 256 00:09:10,372 --> 00:09:12,375 least for me, maybe you guys can watch 257 00:09:12,375 --> 00:09:14,115 something and it will last you for months. 258 00:09:14,115 --> 00:09:15,717 For me I need it daily. I need that 259 00:09:15,717 --> 00:09:17,888 constant injection. And so, by looking at 260 00:09:17,888 --> 00:09:20,504 what they have done. I get that and I feel 261 00:09:20,504 --> 00:09:22,319 more confident in my abilities to go out 262 00:09:22,319 --> 00:09:24,299 and execute on my vision. 263 00:09:26,798 --> 00:09:28,573 And the number seven thing 264 00:09:28,573 --> 00:09:29,655 you can do to boost your self 265 00:09:29,655 --> 00:09:31,668 confidence. Is try to live with no regrets. 266 00:09:31,668 --> 00:09:35,417 This is the single most important thing 267 00:09:35,417 --> 00:09:38,100 that helped me in my biggest decision 268 00:09:38,100 --> 00:09:40,720 in my life. Was deciding between having 269 00:09:40,720 --> 00:09:43,008 that job, that dream job that I thought 270 00:09:43,008 --> 00:09:45,089 I always wanted and running this business 271 00:09:45,089 --> 00:09:47,734 that was sucking, was I don't want to 272 00:09:47,734 --> 00:09:49,783 live with regret. That's what turned the 273 00:09:49,783 --> 00:09:51,742 tables. It wasn't making a list of pro's 274 00:09:51,742 --> 00:09:53,071 and con's. And strengths and weakness. 275 00:09:53,071 --> 00:09:55,488 And try to think about it logically. It 276 00:09:55,488 --> 00:09:58,555 was really if I didn't do this, if I didn't 277 00:09:58,555 --> 00:10:01,478 try to make this company work. I would 278 00:10:01,478 --> 00:10:05,713 regret it. Where taking that job, I figured 279 00:10:05,713 --> 00:10:07,682 you know what, I can always get another 280 00:10:07,682 --> 00:10:09,491 job. I mean, it may no be that job or 281 00:10:09,491 --> 00:10:11,035 the dream job but I could probably work 282 00:10:11,035 --> 00:10:12,369 my way up there and get the job. But I 283 00:10:12,369 --> 00:10:14,316 wouldn't have this chance again. And I 284 00:10:14,316 --> 00:10:16,180 would regret not taking it. That fear of 285 00:10:16,180 --> 00:10:19,733 regret, that worry about regret, that 286 00:10:19,733 --> 00:10:21,651 looking at your life when your one hundred 287 00:10:21,651 --> 00:10:23,718 years old and back to this moment, will 288 00:10:23,718 --> 00:10:26,141 you think that you will regret not taking 289 00:10:26,141 --> 00:10:29,023 action? That helps me, bust through the 290 00:10:29,023 --> 00:10:31,987 fear. I'm still afraid to take the action. 291 00:10:31,987 --> 00:10:33,441 Still afraid to say yes, still afraid to 292 00:10:33,441 --> 00:10:36,285 do it. But the thought of the regret 293 00:10:36,285 --> 00:10:38,579 haunting me for the rest of my life. Helps 294 00:10:38,579 --> 00:10:40,777 give me the courage to feel the fear and 295 00:10:40,777 --> 00:10:43,229 do it anyway. And it gives me the 296 00:10:43,229 --> 00:10:46,020 confidence to success and at least try. 297 00:10:46,020 --> 00:10:49,452 And knowing that, the trying itself is a 298 00:10:49,452 --> 00:10:51,221 victory. Even if I don't get the result, 299 00:10:51,221 --> 00:10:52,902 even if my business doesn't take off. 300 00:10:52,902 --> 00:10:54,260 Like Yes, it worked out for me. I got 301 00:10:54,260 --> 00:10:56,592 acquired a couple of years later. You know 302 00:10:56,592 --> 00:10:58,374 it was a great scenario for me. But even 303 00:10:58,374 --> 00:11:01,456 if it didn't work out, just knowing the 304 00:11:01,456 --> 00:11:04,601 answer helps. Just talking to that girl 305 00:11:04,601 --> 00:11:06,908 and getting an answer helps. Just making 306 00:11:06,908 --> 00:11:09,818 that sale's call and getting an answer 307 00:11:09,818 --> 00:11:13,013 helps. So it's not necessarily just, you 308 00:11:13,013 --> 00:11:15,306 know, the victory. The win. But certainty. 309 00:11:15,306 --> 00:11:18,715 Because the more that you live your life, 310 00:11:18,715 --> 00:11:22,110 with limited regrets. First of all you'll 311 00:11:22,110 --> 00:11:24,612 live a much happier life but second of 312 00:11:24,612 --> 00:11:26,610 all you'll probably do something amazing 313 00:11:26,610 --> 00:11:29,081 and special. And not every bet it going 314 00:11:29,081 --> 00:11:32,294 to work out. But you don't go off and hit 315 00:11:32,294 --> 00:11:35,168 those amazing goals by playing safe. And 316 00:11:35,168 --> 00:11:37,922 living below what you are capable of 317 00:11:37,922 --> 00:11:40,060 doing. So that is my take on the seven 318 00:11:40,060 --> 00:11:41,805 things that you can do to boost 319 00:11:41,805 --> 00:11:43,071 your self confidence. I would love to 320 00:11:43,071 --> 00:11:44,798 know what you guys think. Which one did 321 00:11:44,798 --> 00:11:46,190 you resonate the most with. What did this 322 00:11:46,190 --> 00:11:47,379 video mean to you. Leave it in the 323 00:11:47,379 --> 00:11:49,111 comments below. Did I miss some? Are 324 00:11:49,111 --> 00:11:50,888 there eight, nine, ten that you guys want 325 00:11:50,888 --> 00:11:52,864 to add in. Pop it down there and I'm going 326 00:11:52,864 --> 00:11:54,718 to join in the discussion. And finally 327 00:11:54,718 --> 00:11:57,189 I want to give a quick shout out to Debra. 328 00:11:57,189 --> 00:11:58,854 Debra, thank you so much for buying a 329 00:11:58,854 --> 00:12:00,379 copy of my book. it really means a lot to 330 00:12:00,379 --> 00:12:02,143 me. For those of you guys who want to 331 00:12:02,143 --> 00:12:04,495 support me and want a chance at a future 332 00:12:04,495 --> 00:12:06,662 shout out in a video. Make sure to pick up 333 00:12:06,662 --> 00:12:08,226 a copy of the book. And email in your 334 00:12:08,226 --> 00:12:09,762 receipt so we can keep track. Thank you 335 00:12:09,762 --> 00:12:11,458 guys so much for watching. Continue to 336 00:12:11,458 --> 00:12:14,145 believe or what your one word is. 337 00:12:14,145 --> 00:12:15,775 And I will see you soon.