[Script Info] Title: [Events] Format: Layer, Start, End, Style, Name, MarginL, MarginR, MarginV, Effect, Text Dialogue: 0,0:00:00.84,0:00:03.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,乜嘢係父母? Dialogue: 0,0:00:03.100,0:00:05.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,阿爸,阿媽又係乜嘢? Dialogue: 0,0:00:07.04,0:00:09.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,呢個問題唔簡單 Dialogue: 0,0:00:09.63,0:00:12.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,今日,我哋有領養 Dialogue: 0,0:00:12.03,0:00:13.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,再婚家庭 Dialogue: 0,0:00:13.63,0:00:15.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,同代孕媽媽 Dialogue: 0,0:00:15.85,0:00:18.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,好多父母都面臨著難題 Dialogue: 0,0:00:19.15,0:00:20.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,同艱難嘅選擇 Dialogue: 0,0:00:21.89,0:00:25.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,講唔講畀個细路知\N精子捐贈呢件事? Dialogue: 0,0:00:27.32,0:00:28.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,如果講, 幾時講? Dialogue: 0,0:00:29.18,0:00:30.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,點講? Dialogue: 0,0:00:31.52,0:00:37.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,精子捐贈人通常被稱為「親身阿爸」 Dialogue: 0,0:00:37.41,0:00:40.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,但係我哋應唔應該用「阿爸」呢個詞? Dialogue: 0,0:00:41.84,0:00:44.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,身為一個哲學家同社會科學家 Dialogue: 0,0:00:44.27,0:00:48.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,我研究父母身份呢個問題 Dialogue: 0,0:00:49.09,0:00:52.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,今日,我想同大家講下 Dialogue: 0,0:00:52.14,0:00:54.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,我同啲父母同細路\N傾偈學到嘅嘢 Dialogue: 0,0:00:55.38,0:00:59.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,佢哋知道個屋企裡邊咩最緊要 Dialogue: 0,0:00:59.76,0:01:02.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,就算佢哋同一般家庭有啲唔同 Dialogue: 0,0:01:03.13,0:01:08.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,我會講下佢哋點有創意咁處理難題 Dialogue: 0,0:01:09.29,0:01:13.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,亦會講下呢啲父母嘅不安 Dialogue: 0,0:01:15.28,0:01:16.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,我哋採訪過幾對\N喺根特大學附屬醫院 Dialogue: 0,0:01:16.84,0:01:20.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,接受不孕治療 Dialogue: 0,0:01:21.08,0:01:22.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,通過精子捐贈而受孕嘅夫婦 Dialogue: 0,0:01:23.18,0:01:24.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,我哋喺呢個治療嘅\N時間線上嘅兩個點 Dialogue: 0,0:01:24.77,0:01:28.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(治療同之後 7-10 年)做採訪 Dialogue: 0,0:01:28.99,0:01:31.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,我哋包括咗因男方不育嚟尋治嘅 Dialogue: 0,0:01:32.06,0:01:35.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,異性戀夫婦 Dialogue: 0,0:01:36.44,0:01:41.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,同需要精子捐贈嘅女同性戀夫婦 Dialogue: 0,0:01:42.100,0:01:45.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,我哋亦包括佐啲細路 Dialogue: 0,0:01:46.88,0:01:48.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,我之前想知 Dialogue: 0,0:01:48.38,0:01:53.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,啲細路點定義父母同家庭 Dialogue: 0,0:01:54.15,0:01:56.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,事實上,我有問佢哋呢個問題 Dialogue: 0,0:01:58.26,0:01:59.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,不過用咗唔同嘅問法 Dialogue: 0,0:02:01.44,0:02:04.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,我畫咗一棵蘋果樹 Dialogue: 0,0:02:05.06,0:02:08.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,然後以一種唔容易離題嘅方式 Dialogue: 0,0:02:08.43,0:02:11.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,問佢哋一啲抽象嘅、哲學性嘅問題 Dialogue: 0,0:02:13.33,0:02:14.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,大家喺度睇到 Dialogue: 0,0:02:15.01,0:02:16.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,呢棵蘋果樹係空嘅 Dialogue: 0,0:02:17.63,0:02:20.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,呢個就係我嘅研究方法 Dialogue: 0,0:02:20.66,0:02:22.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,咁樣 Dialogue: 0,0:02:22.97,0:02:27.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,我可以盡量減少我講嘅嘢 Dialogue: 0,0:02:28.53,0:02:30.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,而將重點放喺佢哋講嘅嘢 Dialogue: 0,0:02:32.36,0:02:33.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,我問佢哋: Dialogue: 0,0:02:34.74,0:02:37.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,如果你嘅家庭係一顆蘋果樹\N佢會係咩樣? Dialogue: 0,0:02:38.74,0:02:42.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,佢哋就係代表 Dialogue: 0,0:02:42.51,0:02:44.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,家庭成員嘅紙蘋果寫上個名 Dialogue: 0,0:02:44.14,0:02:47.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,想挂喺樹上嘅邊度就掛嗰度 Dialogue: 0,0:02:47.34,0:02:48.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,然後我再問問題,多數細路 Dialogue: 0,0:02:50.15,0:02:53.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,會從爸爸媽媽或者兄弟姊妹度講起 Dialogue: 0,0:02:53.81,0:02:55.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,有個細路從 「拳師」講起 Dialogue: 0,0:02:56.67,0:02:59.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,佢係個細路嘅阿爺屋企死咗嘅狗仔 Dialogue: 0,0:02:59.83,0:03:03.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,嗰時,冇一個細路提及精子捐贈人 Dialogue: 0,0:03:04.46,0:03:08.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,我問佢哋出世嘅故仔嗰時 Dialogue: 0,0:03:09.16,0:03:11.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,我話:「喺你出世之前, Dialogue: 0,0:03:11.21,0:03:13.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,個屋企就得你嘅爸爸、媽媽, Dialogue: 0,0:03:13.59,0:03:14.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,或者媽媽同媽咪。你可唔可以 Dialogue: 0,0:03:15.42,0:03:18.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,同我講下你係點嚟到呢個屋企呢?」 Dialogue: 0,0:03:19.28,0:03:20.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,佢哋就講畀我聽 Dialogue: 0,0:03:21.60,0:03:22.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,一個細路話 Dialogue: 0,0:03:23.69,0:03:26.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,「我嘅阿爸阿媽冇好嘅種子, Dialogue: 0,0:03:26.86,0:03:30.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,但係有啲好人有剩餘嘅種子, Dialogue: 0,0:03:31.39,0:03:33.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,佢哋將啲種子帶去醫院度, Dialogue: 0,0:03:33.16,0:03:35.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,放喺一個大罐度。 Dialogue: 0,0:03:36.25,0:03:37.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,我媽咪佢喺醫院 Dialogue: 0,0:03:37.51,0:03:40.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,從個罐度摞咗兩粒種子, Dialogue: 0,0:03:40.79,0:03:42.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,一個係我,一個係我妹妹。 Dialogue: 0,0:03:43.72,0:03:45.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,佢將種植放入佢肚腩度。 Dialogue: 0,0:03:46.16,0:03:47.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,唔知點, Dialogue: 0,0:03:48.24,0:03:50.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,佢嘅肚腩就變到好大, Dialogue: 0,0:03:50.57,0:03:51.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,然後我就出咗世。」 Dialogue: 0,0:03:53.29,0:03:54.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,嗯 Dialogue: 0,0:03:56.12,0:04:00.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,佢哋有提到精子捐贈人時 Dialogue: 0,0:04:00.22,0:04:03.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,我就用佢哋嘅語言\N問關於捐赠人嘅問題 Dialogue: 0,0:04:03.93,0:04:05.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,我話 Dialogue: 0,0:04:05.35,0:04:09.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,「如果呢個蘋果係\N嗰個有種植嘅好人, Dialogue: 0,0:04:09.84,0:04:11.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,你會點做?」 Dialogue: 0,0:04:12.07,0:04:14.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,有個男仔攞住個紙蘋果 Dialogue: 0,0:04:14.45,0:04:15.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,諗邊講 Dialogue: 0,0:04:15.84,0:04:17.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,話: Dialogue: 0,0:04:17.89,0:04:20.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,「我唔會將個蘋果放喺個樹上, Dialogue: 0,0:04:21.24,0:04:23.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,佢唔係我屋企人, Dialogue: 0,0:04:24.19,0:04:26.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,但係我亦唔會將佢放喺個地度, Dialogue: 0,0:04:26.41,0:04:28.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,個地度太凍太硬。 Dialogue: 0,0:04:29.02,0:04:31.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,我覺得佢應該喺個樹幹度, Dialogue: 0,0:04:32.21,0:04:34.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,因為佢使我哋有個屋企, Dialogue: 0,0:04:35.26,0:04:37.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,如果冇佢(將種子放入個罐度), Dialogue: 0,0:04:37.24,0:04:41.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,就冇我哋屋企, 咁就好慘喇, Dialogue: 0,0:04:41.22,0:04:42.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,我就唔會喺度。」 Dialogue: 0,0:04:45.84,0:04:49.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,所以,父母都會講啲 Dialogue: 0,0:04:49.40,0:04:51.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,關於屋企嘅故仔畀啲仔女聽 Dialogue: 0,0:04:52.66,0:04:55.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,有對夫婦為咗解釋佢哋受精嘅過程 Dialogue: 0,0:04:55.81,0:04:58.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,帶咗啲仔女去農場 Dialogue: 0,0:04:59.29,0:05:01.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,睇獸醫同奶牛接種 Dialogue: 0,0:05:03.66,0:05:05.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,有咩唔得呢? Dialogue: 0,0:05:05.05,0:05:07.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,呢個係佢哋解釋嘅方式 Dialogue: 0,0:05:07.52,0:05:10.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,佢哋自製嘅家庭敘事方式 Dialogue: 0,0:05:10.98,0:05:12.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,DIY Dialogue: 0,0:05:12.53,0:05:14.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,我哋仲採訪咗一對自己整書 Dialogue: 0,0:05:14.92,0:05:16.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,一個細路一本書嘅夫婦 Dialogue: 0,0:05:16.75,0:05:18.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,嗰啲書真係藝術品 Dialogue: 0,0:05:18.30,0:05:21.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,寫咗夫婦喺治療過程嘅感想 Dialogue: 0,0:05:22.19,0:05:24.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,仲放埋當時喺醫院嘅泊車飛入去 Dialogue: 0,0:05:25.55,0:05:27.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,呢就係 DIY Dialogue: 0,0:05:27.20,0:05:29.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,揾到方法、語言同畫面 Dialogue: 0,0:05:29.60,0:05:32.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,將你屋企嘅故仔話畀啲仔女知 Dialogue: 0,0:05:33.72,0:05:36.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,呢啲故仔多種多樣 Dialogue: 0,0:05:36.94,0:05:39.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,但係有個共同點: Dialogue: 0,0:05:41.91,0:05:45.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,都有講對 BB 嘅渴望 Dialogue: 0,0:05:45.88,0:05:47.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,同追求 Dialogue: 0,0:05:48.37,0:05:53.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,係關於佢哋對仔女深深嘅愛 Dialogue: 0,0:05:55.14,0:05:59.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,研究顯示, 呢啲仔女發育得好正常 Dialogue: 0,0:05:59.81,0:06:02.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,並冇比其他細路多問題 Dialogue: 0,0:06:02.85,0:06:07.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,但係,呢啲父母亦想通過啲家庭故仔 Dialogue: 0,0:06:07.30,0:06:08.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,為自己辯護 Dialogue: 0,0:06:09.50,0:06:12.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,佢哋希望佢哋嘅仔女明白 Dialogue: 0,0:06:12.66,0:06:14.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,佢哋用呢種方式組建家庭嘅理由 Dialogue: 0,0:06:15.86,0:06:19.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,表面之下,佢哋好驚佢哋嘅仔女會 Dialogue: 0,0:06:19.84,0:06:22.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,唔認同甚至抗拒冇血緣嘅父母 Dialogue: 0,0:06:22.51,0:06:25.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,呢種擔心係情有可原 Dialogue: 0,0:06:25.16,0:06:28.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,事關我哋身處一個異性主流 Dialogue: 0,0:06:28.22,0:06:29.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,同強調基因遺傳嘅社會 Dialogue: 0,0:06:30.44,0:06:31.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,一個仲係相信一個真正嘅家庭 Dialogue: 0,0:06:31.95,0:06:36.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,有一個爸爸,一個媽媽,仲有 Dialogue: 0,0:06:36.13,0:06:38.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,同佢哋有血緣關係嘅仔女嘅家庭 Dialogue: 0,0:06:39.74,0:06:40.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,噢 Dialogue: 0,0:06:42.16,0:06:45.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,我想同大家分享一個男仔嘅故仔 Dialogue: 0,0:06:45.29,0:06:48.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,佢係靠捐贈出世\N但唔係我哋嘅研究對象 Dialogue: 0,0:06:48.66,0:06:51.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,有一日,佢同佢阿爸鬧交 Dialogue: 0,0:06:51.30,0:06:52.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,佢話: Dialogue: 0,0:06:53.30,0:06:55.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,「你要叫我做嘢? Dialogue: 0,0:06:55.43,0:06:57.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,你都唔係我爸爸!」 Dialogue: 0,0:06:59.60,0:07:02.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,呢就係我哋研究嘅父母最驚嘅 Dialogue: 0,0:07:03.98,0:07:07.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,呢個男仔好快就知錯\N然後同佢爸爸好返 Dialogue: 0,0:07:07.63,0:07:11.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,最好玩嘅就係佢爸爸對呢件事嘅反應 Dialogue: 0,0:07:12.17,0:07:13.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,佢話: Dialogue: 0,0:07:13.77,0:07:19.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,「成件事同我哋冇基因聯繫冇關係, Dialogue: 0,0:07:19.76,0:07:24.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,關個仔喺青春期多啲。 Dialogue: 0,0:07:24.47,0:07:26.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,到嗰個年齡就係咁㗎啦, Dialogue: 0,0:07:26.79,0:07:28.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,而且會過去嘅。」 Dialogue: 0,0:07:29.46,0:07:31.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,呢個男人使我哋明白 Dialogue: 0,0:07:31.34,0:07:33.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,有啲事唔順利時 Dialogue: 0,0:07:34.56,0:07:36.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,唔好即刻諗 Dialogue: 0,0:07:36.19,0:07:38.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,係因為屋企有啲唔同 Dialogue: 0,0:07:39.33,0:07:42.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,查實個個屋企都會有啲嘢唔同 Dialogue: 0,0:07:43.94,0:07:45.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,而且 Dialogue: 0,0:07:45.82,0:07:47.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,所有嘅父母都想知 Dialogue: 0,0:07:48.41,0:07:50.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,佢哋做阿爸阿媽夠唔夠稱職 Dialogue: 0,0:07:51.16,0:07:52.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,我哋研究嘅父母亦會咁問 Dialogue: 0,0:07:53.10,0:07:57.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,畢竟,佢哋都想畀仔女最好嘅嘢 Dialogue: 0,0:07:57.75,0:07:59.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,佢哋有時亦會諗 Dialogue: 0,0:08:00.03,0:08:01.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,我係咪一個真正嘅阿爸阿媽? Dialogue: 0,0:08:02.29,0:08:06.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,佢哋喺做爸爸媽媽之前就唔確定 Dialogue: 0,0:08:06.28,0:08:07.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,個療程啱啱開始時 Dialogue: 0,0:08:07.74,0:08:09.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,佢哋第一次去見諮詢師時 Dialogue: 0,0:08:10.15,0:08:12.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,佢哋就聽得好專心 Dialogue: 0,0:08:12.86,0:08:14.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,事關佢哋好想做得好 Dialogue: 0,0:08:15.85,0:08:17.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,甚至十年後 Dialogue: 0,0:08:18.05,0:08:20.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,佢哋仲記得當初收到嘅建議 Dialogue: 0,0:08:24.98,0:08:27.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,所以佢哋諗起嗰個諮詢師 Dialogue: 0,0:08:28.85,0:08:30.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,同佢畀嘅建議 Dialogue: 0,0:08:30.68,0:08:31.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,我哋就討論下 Dialogue: 0,0:08:31.86,0:08:35.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,有一對女同性戀夫婦講: Dialogue: 0,0:08:36.63,0:08:38.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,「我哋嘅仔仔問我哋︰ Dialogue: 0,0:08:38.26,0:08:40.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,『我有冇阿爸?』 Dialogue: 0,0:08:41.48,0:08:44.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,我哋會話:『唔,你冇阿爸。』 Dialogue: 0,0:08:44.84,0:08:47.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,但係我哋唔會再講咩,除非佢再問, Dialogue: 0,0:08:48.29,0:08:50.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,事關佢可能未準備好接受嗰個答案。 Dialogue: 0,0:08:50.34,0:08:51.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,嗰個諮詢師都話係咁。」 Dialogue: 0,0:08:53.35,0:08:54.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,好 Dialogue: 0,0:08:55.09,0:08:56.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,呢個同我哋一般 Dialogue: 0,0:08:57.02,0:08:59.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,解答細路嘅問題好唔一樣 Dialogue: 0,0:09:00.47,0:09:03.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,譬如「牛奶係咪喺工廠裡邊造出嚟?」 Dialogue: 0,0:09:03.78,0:09:06.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,我哋會話「唔係,\N牛奶喺奶牛個度出嚟嘅。」 Dialogue: 0,0:09:06.97,0:09:08.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,然後我哋會講下農民 Dialogue: 0,0:09:08.75,0:09:10.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,同牛奶點樣去到商店 Dialogue: 0,0:09:11.81,0:09:13.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,我哋唔會講 Dialogue: 0,0:09:14.10,0:09:17.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,「唔係,牛奶唔係喺工廠度\N整出嚟嘅。」 Dialogue: 0,0:09:20.04,0:09:22.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,所以就有怪事發生 Dialogue: 0,0:09:22.50,0:09:24.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,啲細路都發覺到 Dialogue: 0,0:09:25.57,0:09:26.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,一個男仔講︰ Dialogue: 0,0:09:27.44,0:09:29.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,「我問我爸媽好多問題, Dialogue: 0,0:09:29.86,0:09:31.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,但係佢哋嘅反應得好奇怪。 Dialogue: 0,0:09:32.79,0:09:36.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,我喺學校有個朋友,\N佢亦係捐贈受孕出世嘅。 Dialogue: 0,0:09:37.24,0:09:40.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,我有嘢想問時, 就直頭去問佢。」 Dialogue: 0,0:09:41.76,0:09:42.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,叻仔! Dialogue: 0,0:09:43.63,0:09:44.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,問題就咁解決咗 Dialogue: 0,0:09:45.76,0:09:48.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,但係佢嘅父母都唔覺得係咁 Dialogue: 0,0:09:48.88,0:09:51.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,佢哋同個諮詢師討論建立 Dialogue: 0,0:09:51.48,0:09:53.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,一個開放式溝通嘅家庭時 Dialogue: 0,0:09:53.44,0:09:58.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,應該冇諗到呢個情況 Dialogue: 0,0:10:00.46,0:10:02.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,畀人哋意見就係奇怪 Dialogue: 0,0:10:02.74,0:10:06.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,我哋同人開藥時,會先收集證據 Dialogue: 0,0:10:06.54,0:10:07.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,再做化驗 Dialogue: 0,0:10:07.82,0:10:09.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,再做後續研究 Dialogue: 0,0:10:09.14,0:10:13.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,我哋要知道個藥丸有咩作用 Dialogue: 0,0:10:13.09,0:10:15.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,同會點影響病人嘅生活 Dialogue: 0,0:10:16.04,0:10:17.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,至於畀意見呢? Dialogue: 0,0:10:18.75,0:10:20.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,專家畀意見 Dialogue: 0,0:10:20.62,0:10:25.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,唔應該就係理論上好好 Dialogue: 0,0:10:25.46,0:10:26.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,或者有善意,就得喇 Dialogue: 0,0:10:27.45,0:10:30.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,畀出嘅意見應該有 Dialogue: 0,0:10:30.85,0:10:34.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,真正改善人嘅生活嘅證據 Dialogue: 0,0:10:36.17,0:10:40.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,身為一個哲學家\N我想畀大家一個悖論諗下: Dialogue: 0,0:10:42.31,0:10:46.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,我建議大家唔再聽從任何建議 Dialogue: 0,0:10:47.90,0:10:49.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,係 Dialogue: 0,0:10:50.22,0:10:53.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(掌聲) Dialogue: 0,0:10:54.59,0:10:57.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,我唔想講完咩錯咗就停低 Dialogue: 0,0:10:57.18,0:11:01.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,咁係對唔住我哋研究嘅咁溫暖嘅家庭 Dialogue: 0,0:11:02.93,0:11:05.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,仲記唔記得\N嗰啲自製書同去農場嘅郊遊? Dialogue: 0,0:11:05.58,0:11:09.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,父母做適合啲仔女嘅嘢時 Dialogue: 0,0:11:09.57,0:11:11.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,佢哋做得好叻 Dialogue: 0,0:11:12.39,0:11:16.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,我想大家記住,作為家庭嘅一份子 Dialogue: 0,0:11:16.06,0:11:18.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,無論個屋企係咩形式 Dialogue: 0,0:11:18.93,0:11:24.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,屋企人需要互相關愛 Dialogue: 0,0:11:25.41,0:11:28.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,冇專業人士嘅指導 Dialogue: 0,0:11:29.64,0:11:31.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,我哋都會做得好好 Dialogue: 0,0:11:32.99,0:11:34.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,雖然可能會好難 Dialogue: 0,0:11:35.04,0:11:37.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,時不時,仲要聽下其他人嘅意見 Dialogue: 0,0:11:39.21,0:11:40.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,所以 Dialogue: 0,0:11:40.50,0:11:42.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,記住三件事 Dialogue: 0,0:11:43.76,0:11:47.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,聽取適合你屋企人嘅意見 Dialogue: 0,0:11:48.01,0:11:51.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,記住,你係專家 Dialogue: 0,0:11:51.68,0:11:54.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,事關呢個係你同你家人嘅生活 Dialogue: 0,0:11:54.68,0:11:55.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,收屘 Dialogue: 0,0:11:56.48,0:12:00.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,相信你自己嘅能力同創意 Dialogue: 0,0:12:01.03,0:12:04.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,你自己搞得掂 Dialogue: 0,0:12:05.26,0:12:06.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,多謝 Dialogue: 0,0:12:06.44,0:12:12.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(鼓掌)