[Script Info] Title: [Events] Format: Layer, Start, End, Style, Name, MarginL, MarginR, MarginV, Effect, Text Dialogue: 0,0:00:00.94,0:00:03.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Hey everyone! Happy Tuesday! Dialogue: 0,0:00:03.73,0:00:06.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now today, is Tumblr Tuesday! Dialogue: 0,0:00:06.81,0:00:08.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I feel like I should tumble when I say that. Dialogue: 0,0:00:08.74,0:00:10.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Like I'm in a gymnastics class or something. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Okay, so, before I get into Tumblr land Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I wanted to let you all know - drumroll - Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that the website is up! The new website! Yay! Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I know that Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,many of you have been asking for this, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and hoping for this. Thank you so much Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for being patient. The last website - Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's funny because I remember searching through Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,all the website types, and thinking, that will be perfect! Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because we can share love, and give people Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,little extra hearts on their blog posts, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but then it just got really difficult because Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,how do we ask simple questions? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And what if one of us just has a little question? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And then, how quickly can we get back to one another? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And then [mumbles] , right? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And it was a lot for me to read through Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and make sure there was nothing triggering, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and to approve all those blog posts, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and set pictures to them, and yada yada yada, right? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So the new website is up, and there are forums. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And it's actually Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- I'm looking at my computer over here - Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's actually a social network site now, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where you can friend people, and follow people, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you can update your profile and answer Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,these funny questions I've put in, like Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what are your favorite hobbies? And things like that. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Favorite colors? I don't even know what I put in there. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Chocolate, vanilla, strawberry? What favorite flavor? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So yeah, you kind of create your own profile! Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And it will tell you like how much of that is done, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and it's really exciting! So, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if you haven't hopped on my website - Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,KatiMorton.com - you can check it out. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I have opened up the forums. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I am not looking through all of it Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and approving the forums, because Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I want you to have the support 24/7. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I am not awake 24/7, 'cause then I'd be like a zombie. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, I've opened it up. However, the same rules Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,still apply. And I will check the forums very frequently Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But if you find any triggering information, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,let somebody know. Just say Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Hey, we don't use numbers on here", or Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Hey, you know we don't talk like that on this website" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,blah, blah, blah, or if you want to leave it up to me, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you can let me know. And I will be happy Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to message them and let them know Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the rules of the website, because I want to keep it Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a safe and supportive environment like it's been Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and no way will this ever become a pro- Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,unhealthy behavior website, okay? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So even thought I've opened it up, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the same rules apply. So don't, you know, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,don't break the rules, okay? And, let me see Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if there is anything else. So yeah, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I think that's really it. Give me your feedback, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,let me know if somethings not quite working, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or if you like the way that this is, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or, you know I'm always looking for feedback Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because I'm just getting into this website Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in the back end, and trying different things out. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, I'm always welcoming the feedback. Okay? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And, on to Tumblr-land. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Oh, and I got my nails painted today, you see? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was real excited - I was like - I love purple. Yay! Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, okay - and before I forget actually - Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,on the website, you can still blog. I know many of you Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,have been like, "Katie, where'd the blog option go?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And in the forums, you'll find my explaination Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for how you can still blog. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So if you still want to do that, there's a forum about it Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so you can read. And if you have any Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,questions about it, or sturuggles, you can Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,hit me up on Twitter, okay? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now the questions, the first question is, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"What's the difference between a setback, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and a relapse?". Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now, I'm assuming this would differ Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,from person to person, because it's really just Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a definition thing. But a setback would be like Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Ugh, it was my birthday, and I had two parties to go Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to. So I felt like I binged, and then I purged... Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so I'm feeling really guilty". Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But then we get back up the next day, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and we get back on track. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That would be like a setback or a slip-up, or Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,how ever many kinds of words we could use Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to describe that, right? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And then a relapse would be, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when we go back to the way it used to be. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Like, which we all have felt this - Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if you look up the definition - I think it says something Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like back-sliding, or getting back - Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they talk about it medically, so when the symptoms Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,come back full-force, and I think that applies for Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,eating disorders, self-harm, depression, anxiety, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if we go back to the way it was, before we got help. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, if we are binging and pruging X-amount of times a day again, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or we are exercising X-amount, or we're Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sitting in bed all day, and not getting out. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Or, we're finding ourselves overly anxious in public, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so we're not meeting up with our friends... etc. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Does that make sense? So it's kind of all going back. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And then, then the next part - so that was one Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,persons question on Tumblr. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And the next question was Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"how do we get through a relapse?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So that was another one, but I decided to Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,mush it together. And, just like what I said Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a relapse is going back to the way it use to be. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We have to go back to when we first started Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to recover, and use those same tools. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because all the work we have done - [apologizes] - Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,all the work we have done, is a loss. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's not lost - it's still there - we just have to Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,get back on track, use our tools, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,maybe start on my workbook again Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,task one - which I know you all hate - but, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,get back on there, okay? And start doing that again Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because the same things that helped us before Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,can help us now. And I know it's annoying, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and we're like, "I've already done it". It's like Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,kindergarten or something, and we're like, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"We've already learned this", but we have to Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,go back, okay? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Question number two. This person Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- I'm not going to share anybody's name 'cause Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,on Tumblr it's usually anonymous, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or they really want to to keep their privacy, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but this persons therapist was wanting them Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to give up their scale, and to give it to a friend. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They are feeling really anxious about it obviously, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because a lot of us folks on the numbers and weight, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and all this calorie in and out, and - Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Right? Our eating disorder loves that stuff. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And, she's feeling really anxious, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so she wondered about my thoughts on that. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I think giving it to a friend is a great idea Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a lot of times I'll take it from my client for a week, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and give it back. Or give them the option Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to take it back. So, I think that it's a great idea. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I know that it's really anxiety provoking and, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I would encourage you to journal about it a little bit Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and see why you're feeling so anxious, and Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what does it mean to not be weighed? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What are you afraid is going to happen? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I can pretty much guess what it is, but sometimes Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it helps for us to write it out, and then to say, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Well, what if we can get it back any time?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Like, what it you gave it to your therapist, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and they just said "let me know if you want it back, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I'll put it in a bag in the waiting room, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you can come get it.", then how would it feel? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And maybe you should, before giving it to a friend, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,maybe we should just try not weighing ourselves Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for one day, or one afternoon. It depends on Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,how often you weight yourself, and we'll start Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,weaning off, you know? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, those are my thoughts on that. Your therapist Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is doing a great job, 'cause that's something I Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,always encourage, you know, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,some kind of version of that, okay? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Number three, someone wanted to know the process Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of getting a diagnosis. Now, this probably differs Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,from Therapist to Therapist, but I'll just tell you mine. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm going to see you the first time, and I'm going to Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ask you a lot of questions - about your history, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and where you've been before, and if there is Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,another Therapist I should talk to, and, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'd get you to sign a release if that's the case. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'd ask you about medical conditions, and things Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you struggled with physically that you had to go to Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the hospital for. I'd ask about medications, and Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the list goes on, and on, and on. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And through the course of spending time with you Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and having other sessions, I'll ask you about Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,your behaviors, like how many times Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,do you feel depressed? Or how many times do you Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,binge and purge? Or how many times do you Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,cut yourself in a day, or week, or month? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I'll just start asking questions about that. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And, I probably see my clients four times - I'm just Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,giving you a rough estimate - unless there's some Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,reason we have to make a diagnosis quicker, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I usually see them for about a month, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,before I feel confident enough to give them Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a diagnosis. And then, I usually will jot in my notes Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what I'm ruling out. Like, to rule out major depressive Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,disorder, or bulimia, or binging disorder Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- whatever it is I'm looking at - Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,borderline personality disorder. And then I'll start Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,weeding them out, so that it doesn't quite meet Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,criteria for this, it's more apt to meet that. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And so that's how I do it. So think of it Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as a funnel - I'm taking all of this information Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I'm getting it down to what I think is actually Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the struggle and the issue. But in the meantime, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm also creating a treatment plan based on Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,all those possibilities, so I like doing that Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because it gives a more well rounded treatment plan, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so it's not just one thing that we're focusing on Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- even if it is one diagnosis, we have Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a lot of stuff going on, you know? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, that's just a little snippet about how that works. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Okay, on to number four. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"What do you do, if someone threatens Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to kill themselves, if you tell their parents?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I know that this comes from someone on Twitter,