WEBVTT 00:00:00.709 --> 00:00:04.297 Sexual assault on campus has received a lot of media attention, 00:00:04.344 --> 00:00:07.376 as studies show that as many as 1 in 5 women 00:00:07.376 --> 00:00:09.050 are sexually assaulted in college. 00:00:09.610 --> 00:00:12.607 Most sexual assaults are by someone the victim knew, 00:00:13.067 --> 00:00:15.280 and most are never reported. 00:00:16.739 --> 00:00:17.637 In this short video, 00:00:17.919 --> 00:00:20.757 we’ll help you understand what sexual assault is 00:00:21.785 --> 00:00:23.841 and explore the important concept of consent. 00:00:24.081 --> 00:00:27.041 We'll then talk about how to keep you and your friends safe, 00:00:27.041 --> 00:00:29.993 as well as the obligations on your school to help you 00:00:29.993 --> 00:00:32.521 continue your education if an assault does occur. 00:00:35.986 --> 00:00:39.776 Sexual assault is any type of sexual contact or behavior 00:00:39.776 --> 00:00:42.765 that occurs without the agreement of both partners. 00:00:42.965 --> 00:00:45.895 This can include forced or unwanted kissing, 00:00:45.895 --> 00:00:47.887 touching or rape, 00:00:47.887 --> 00:00:51.734 as well as persistent or unwanted sexual comments. 00:00:52.494 --> 00:00:53.957 Although most victims are women, 00:00:53.957 --> 00:00:56.850 1 in 16 men are also assaulted. 00:00:57.630 --> 00:00:59.674 Countries and cultures around the world 00:00:59.674 --> 00:01:02.781 have varying standards to determine what is unacceptable 00:01:02.781 --> 00:01:04.487 or criminal sexual behavior, 00:01:04.487 --> 00:01:07.717 so it’s important to know the rules in the United States 00:01:08.037 --> 00:01:10.566 and it all starts with consent. 00:01:11.146 --> 00:01:15.118 Consent is when both people agree to engage in sexual activity, 00:01:15.118 --> 00:01:19.467 and requires both you and your partner to voluntarily say “yes” 00:01:19.467 --> 00:01:22.297 every step of the way, without feeling pressured 00:01:22.297 --> 00:01:26.338 or intimidated and without being under the influence of drugs or alcohol. 00:01:26.768 --> 00:01:29.931 Here are a few tips for understanding sexual consent: 00:01:32.490 --> 00:01:36.718 A person’s body language, dress, previous sexual activity, 00:01:37.048 --> 00:01:39.623 silence or even marriage 00:01:39.623 --> 00:01:43.030 are not an indication that your partner agrees to sex. 00:01:46.169 --> 00:01:50.567 the legal age for sexual activity in the US varies from state to state. 00:01:50.567 --> 00:01:53.018 Make sure you know the legal age of your state, 00:01:53.018 --> 00:01:57.060 as sexual activity with anyone under these ages is against the law, 00:01:57.060 --> 00:02:00.187 even if they said “yes” every step of the way. 00:02:03.490 --> 00:02:05.969 Even if your partner has said yes in the past, 00:02:06.329 --> 00:02:09.509 they still have their right to change their mind at any time. 00:02:13.416 --> 00:02:15.605 Someone who is drunk, on drugs, 00:02:16.155 --> 00:02:20.078 passed out or simply asleep cannot consent to sex, 00:02:20.078 --> 00:02:22.815 even if it seemed like they wanted to before. 00:02:22.815 --> 00:02:25.075 Without consent from both parties, 00:02:25.075 --> 00:02:29.644 any sexual behavior can be considered sexual assault under US law 00:02:29.644 --> 00:02:31.440 and can be prosecuted, 00:02:31.440 --> 00:02:33.845 with the chance of long prison sentences. 00:02:34.485 --> 00:02:36.953 While there is no way to completely eliminate 00:02:36.953 --> 00:02:38.670 the risk of sexual assault, 00:02:38.670 --> 00:02:40.983 here are some tips to help you stay safe 00:02:40.983 --> 00:02:43.251 as an international student in the US: 00:02:43.781 --> 00:02:46.602 Over half of all reported sexual assaults 00:02:46.602 --> 00:02:48.857 by college students involved alcohol. 00:02:48.857 --> 00:02:51.390 Drinking too much can put you in situations 00:02:51.390 --> 00:02:53.095 where you might be vulnerable. 00:02:53.375 --> 00:02:55.544 Incidents also occur when drugs 00:02:55.544 --> 00:02:56.985 (known as date-rape drugs) 00:02:56.985 --> 00:02:59.475 are slipped into your drink without your knowledge, 00:02:59.475 --> 00:03:02.529 making you feel sleepy or even pass out. 00:03:03.139 --> 00:03:06.032 Make sure to keep your drinks with you at all times, 00:03:06.032 --> 00:03:08.439 and if you happen to let it out of your sight, 00:03:08.439 --> 00:03:09.625 don’t drink it! 00:03:09.955 --> 00:03:11.771 If you feel uncomfortable, 00:03:11.771 --> 00:03:14.672 it is always okay to remove yourself from the situation 00:03:14.672 --> 00:03:15.693 or say “No”. 00:03:15.693 --> 00:03:18.471 Be clear and confident about your limits, 00:03:18.471 --> 00:03:21.053 leaving no room for misunderstanding. 00:03:21.983 --> 00:03:24.245 Keep your cell phone charged at all times, 00:03:24.245 --> 00:03:26.449 and avoid walking home alone at night. 00:03:26.449 --> 00:03:28.700 Stay with a group of trusted friends 00:03:28.700 --> 00:03:31.558 who can make sure that everyone gets home safely 00:03:32.098 --> 00:03:34.169 It’s very important to remember that 00:03:34.169 --> 00:03:36.947 the victim of sexual assault is never to blame. 00:03:37.337 --> 00:03:40.758 We all have a role to play in preventing sexual assault, 00:03:41.008 --> 00:03:42.888 and there are many ways in which 00:03:42.888 --> 00:03:43.975 you can make a difference 00:03:43.975 --> 00:03:45.425 if you see someone at risk. 00:03:45.835 --> 00:03:48.727 The four main steps to “Bystander Intervention” 00:03:48.727 --> 00:03:49.929 starts with CARE: 00:03:52.139 --> 00:03:54.578 Do what you can to interrupt the situation 00:03:54.578 --> 00:03:56.214 if you see something occurring. 00:03:58.323 --> 00:03:59.856 Talk to the person in trouble 00:03:59.856 --> 00:04:01.158 and see if they need help. 00:04:03.649 --> 00:04:05.861 Talk to an authoritative figure 00:04:05.861 --> 00:04:07.400 who can change the situation, 00:04:07.670 --> 00:04:11.476 like a bartender, security guard or the local police. 00:04:14.186 --> 00:04:16.545 Ask others to help you intervene! 00:04:16.545 --> 00:04:18.840 It’s important to help your friends and peers 00:04:18.840 --> 00:04:19.917 when they are in need, 00:04:19.917 --> 00:04:22.025 so take a stand and help others 00:04:22.025 --> 00:04:22.925 when you can. 00:04:26.582 --> 00:04:28.032 Sexual assault is a crime, 00:04:28.032 --> 00:04:30.517 but most assaults are never reported. 00:04:30.517 --> 00:04:32.167 It is a personal decision, 00:04:32.167 --> 00:04:34.581 but reporting an assault can help you 00:04:34.581 --> 00:04:37.371 regain a sense of personal power and control, 00:04:37.371 --> 00:04:38.861 and it could prevent it from happening 00:04:38.861 --> 00:04:39.796 to someone else. 00:04:40.236 --> 00:04:41.906 Medical professionals and police 00:04:41.906 --> 00:04:44.560 are trained to treat victims of sexual assault, 00:04:44.560 --> 00:04:47.065 and your school has counselors that can help. 00:04:47.245 --> 00:04:48.566 It is also important to know 00:04:48.566 --> 00:04:50.253 that you can report to your school 00:04:50.253 --> 00:04:52.353 and that does not necessarily mean 00:04:52.353 --> 00:04:55.057 that the police or law enforcement will be involved 00:04:55.057 --> 00:04:57.719 that is a decision you can make for yourself. 00:04:57.719 --> 00:04:59.423 Often students are concerned 00:04:59.423 --> 00:05:01.397 that if they report a sexual assault, 00:05:01.397 --> 00:05:04.175 it will somehow interfere with their education. 00:05:04.175 --> 00:05:06.601 If the assault occurred on campus 00:05:06.601 --> 00:05:07.911 or by another student, 00:05:07.911 --> 00:05:10.070 your school is required by law to: 00:05:10.070 --> 00:05:11.680 Have an established procedure 00:05:11.680 --> 00:05:14.449 and designated person to handle your situation; 00:05:14.449 --> 00:05:16.118 Take action to help you 00:05:16.118 --> 00:05:17.445 continue your education; 00:05:17.445 --> 00:05:19.936 Keep you safe from discrimination, 00:05:19.936 --> 00:05:22.134 harassment and violence 00:05:22.134 --> 00:05:23.787 This could include counselling, 00:05:23.787 --> 00:05:26.875 private tutoring, changing your campus housing, 00:05:26.875 --> 00:05:28.781 or other remedies to ensure 00:05:28.781 --> 00:05:31.934 that your education continues without feeling threatened. 00:05:32.224 --> 00:05:34.823 Remember your school is on your side 00:05:34.823 --> 00:05:35.941 and there to help you! 00:05:36.390 --> 00:05:38.784 All international students deserve to have 00:05:38.784 --> 00:05:41.286 a safe and enjoyable college experience. 00:05:41.486 --> 00:05:43.876 Remember to be aware of your surroundings, 00:05:43.876 --> 00:05:45.944 mindful of drugs or alcohol, 00:05:45.944 --> 00:05:48.097 help keep your friends safe, 00:05:48.097 --> 00:05:49.352 and be very clear 00:05:49.352 --> 00:05:51.247 about sexual consent. 00:05:51.893 --> 00:05:53.128 If you, or someone you know 00:05:53.128 --> 00:05:54.909 is the victim of sexual assault, 00:05:54.909 --> 00:05:57.697 medical personnel, law enforcement, 00:05:57.697 --> 00:06:00.651 your school and counselors are there to help. 00:06:00.651 --> 00:06:03.542 You can also get help and support from RAINN at: