Sexual assault on campus has received a lot of media attention,
as studies show that as many as 1 in 5 women
are sexually assaulted in college.
Most sexual assaults are by someone the victim knew,
and most are never reported.
In this short video,
we’ll help you understand what sexual assault is
and explore the important concept of consent.
We'll then talk about how to keep you and your friends safe,
as well as the obligations on your school to help you
continue your education if an assault does occur.
Sexual assault is any type of sexual contact or behavior
that occurs without the agreement of both partners.
This can include forced or unwanted kissing,
touching or rape,
as well as persistent or unwanted sexual comments.
Although most victims are women,
1 in 16 men are also assaulted.
Countries and cultures around the world
have varying standards to determine what is unacceptable
or criminal sexual behavior,
so it’s important to know the rules in the United States
and it all starts with consent.
Consent is when both people agree to engage in sexual activity,
and requires both you and your partner to voluntarily say “yes”
every step of the way, without feeling pressured
or intimidated and without being under the influence of drugs or alcohol.
Here are a few tips for understanding sexual consent:
A person’s body language, dress, previous sexual activity,
silence or even marriage
are not an indication that your partner agrees to sex.
the legal age for sexual activity in the US varies from state to state.
Make sure you know the legal age of your state,
as sexual activity with anyone under these ages is against the law,
even if they said “yes” every step of the way.
Even if your partner has said yes in the past,
they still have their right to change their mind at any time.
Someone who is drunk, on drugs,
passed out or simply asleep cannot consent to sex,
even if it seemed like they wanted to before.
Without consent from both parties,
any sexual behavior can be considered sexual assault under US law
and can be prosecuted,
with the chance of long prison sentences.
While there is no way to completely eliminate
the risk of sexual assault,
here are some tips to help you stay safe
as an international student in the US:
Over half of all reported sexual assaults
by college students involved alcohol.
Drinking too much can put you in situations
where you might be vulnerable.
Incidents also occur when drugs
(known as date-rape drugs)
are slipped into your drink without your knowledge,
making you feel sleepy or even pass out.
Make sure to keep your drinks with you at all times,
and if you happen to let it out of your sight,
don’t drink it!
If you feel uncomfortable,
it is always okay to remove yourself from the situation
or say “No”.
Be clear and confident about your limits,
leaving no room for misunderstanding.
Keep your cell phone charged at all times,
and avoid walking home alone at night.
Stay with a group of trusted friends
who can make sure that everyone gets home safely
It’s very important to remember that
the victim of sexual assault is never to blame.
We all have a role to play in preventing sexual assault,
and there are many ways in which
you can make a difference
if you see someone at risk.
The four main steps to “Bystander Intervention”
starts with CARE:
Do what you can to interrupt the situation
if you see something occurring.
Talk to the person in trouble
and see if they need help.
Talk to an authoritative figure
who can change the situation,
like a bartender, security guard or the local police.
Ask others to help you intervene!
It’s important to help your friends and peers
when they are in need,
so take a stand and help others
when you can.
Sexual assault is a crime,
but most assaults are never reported.
It is a personal decision,
but reporting an assault can help you
regain a sense of personal power and control,
and it could prevent it from happening
to someone else.
Medical professionals and police
are trained to treat victims of sexual assault,
and your school has counselors that can help.
It is also important to know
that you can report to your school
and that does not necessarily mean
that the police or law enforcement will be involved
that is a decision you can make for yourself.
Often students are concerned
that if they report a sexual assault,
it will somehow interfere with their education.
If the assault occurred on campus
or by another student,
your school is required by law to:
Have an established procedure
and designated person to handle your situation;
Take action to help you
continue your education;
Keep you safe from discrimination,
harassment and violence
This could include counselling,
private tutoring, changing your campus housing,
or other remedies to ensure
that your education continues without feeling threatened.
Remember your school is on your side
and there to help you!
All international students deserve to have
a safe and enjoyable college experience.
Remember to be aware of your surroundings,
mindful of drugs or alcohol,
help keep your friends safe,
and be very clear
about sexual consent.
If you, or someone you know
is the victim of sexual assault,
medical personnel, law enforcement,
your school and counselors are there to help.
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