0:00:01.149,0:00:04.848 I have spent my entire life 0:00:04.872,0:00:09.173 either at the schoolhouse,[br]on the way to the schoolhouse, 0:00:09.197,0:00:11.796 or talking about what happens[br]in the schoolhouse. 0:00:11.820,0:00:12.919 (Laughter) 0:00:12.943,0:00:15.231 Both my parents were educators, 0:00:15.255,0:00:18.481 my maternal grandparents were educators, 0:00:18.505,0:00:21.600 and for the past 40 years,[br]I've done the same thing. 0:00:22.346,0:00:24.688 And so, needless to say, over those years 0:00:24.712,0:00:28.204 I've had a chance[br]to look at education reform 0:00:28.228,0:00:30.035 from a lot of perspectives. 0:00:30.059,0:00:31.989 Some of those reforms have been good. 0:00:32.012,0:00:34.258 Some of them have been not so good. 0:00:34.282,0:00:36.455 And we know why kids drop out. 0:00:36.479,0:00:37.934 We know why kids don't learn. 0:00:37.958,0:00:40.851 It's either poverty, low attendance, 0:00:40.875,0:00:43.227 negative peer influences... 0:00:43.251,0:00:44.864 We know why. 0:00:44.888,0:00:47.211 But one of the things[br]that we never discuss 0:00:47.235,0:00:49.523 or we rarely discuss 0:00:49.547,0:00:53.815 is the value and importance[br]of human connection. 0:00:53.839,0:00:55.042 Relationships. 0:00:56.076,0:00:59.650 James Comer says[br]that no significant learning 0:00:59.674,0:01:02.123 can occur without[br]a significant relationship. 0:01:02.873,0:01:05.223 George Washington Carver says all learning 0:01:05.247,0:01:09.330 is understanding relationships. 0:01:09.354,0:01:13.874 Everyone in this room has been affected[br]by a teacher or an adult. 0:01:14.946,0:01:19.492 For years, I have watched people teach. 0:01:19.516,0:01:22.874 I have looked at the best[br]and I've looked at some of the worst. 0:01:22.898,0:01:24.696 A colleague said to me one time, 0:01:24.720,0:01:27.219 "They don't pay me to like the kids. 0:01:27.243,0:01:28.808 They pay me to teach a lesson. 0:01:28.832,0:01:30.061 The kids should learn it. 0:01:30.085,0:01:31.991 I should teach it, they should learn it, 0:01:32.015,0:01:33.109 Case closed." 0:01:33.929,0:01:36.179 Well, I said to her, 0:01:36.203,0:01:39.283 "You know, kids don't learn[br]from people they don't like." 0:01:39.307,0:01:41.602 (Laughter) 0:01:41.626,0:01:47.196 (Applause) 0:01:47.220,0:01:50.601 She said, "That's just a bunch of hooey." 0:01:50.625,0:01:51.648 And I said to her, 0:01:51.672,0:01:56.062 "Well, your year is going to be[br]long and arduous, dear." 0:01:56.086,0:01:57.553 Needless to say, it was. 0:01:57.577,0:02:01.339 Some people think that you can either[br]have it in you to build a relationship, 0:02:01.363,0:02:02.600 or you don't. 0:02:03.084,0:02:05.150 I think Stephen Covey had the right idea. 0:02:05.174,0:02:08.692 He said you ought to just[br]throw in a few simple things, 0:02:08.716,0:02:10.997 like seeking first to understand, 0:02:11.021,0:02:12.939 as opposed to being understood. 0:02:13.479,0:02:16.342 Simple things, like apologizing. 0:02:16.366,0:02:17.700 You ever thought about that? 0:02:17.724,0:02:19.880 Tell a kid you're sorry, they're in shock. 0:02:19.904,0:02:21.068 (Laughter) 0:02:21.092,0:02:23.497 I taught a lesson once on ratios. 0:02:23.521,0:02:26.522 I'm not real good with math,[br]but I was working on it. 0:02:26.546,0:02:27.688 (Laughter) 0:02:27.712,0:02:30.494 And I got back and looked[br]at that teacher edition. 0:02:30.518,0:02:32.322 I'd taught the whole lesson wrong. 0:02:32.346,0:02:33.650 (Laughter) 0:02:33.674,0:02:35.968 So I came back to class[br]the next day and I said, 0:02:35.992,0:02:38.200 "Look, guys, I need to apologize. 0:02:38.224,0:02:41.570 I taught the whole lesson wrong.[br]I'm so sorry." 0:02:42.070,0:02:43.899 They said, "That's okay, Ms. Pierson. 0:02:43.923,0:02:45.919 You were so excited, we just let you go." 0:02:50.950,0:02:55.394 I have had classes that were so low, 0:02:55.418,0:02:58.156 so academically deficient, that I cried. 0:02:58.831,0:03:01.783 I wondered, "How am I[br]going to take this group, 0:03:01.807,0:03:03.854 in nine months, 0:03:03.878,0:03:05.989 from where they are[br]to where they need to be? 0:03:06.529,0:03:09.108 And it was difficult, it was awfully hard. 0:03:10.202,0:03:12.679 How do I raise the self-esteem of a child 0:03:12.703,0:03:15.044 and his academic achievement[br]at the same time? 0:03:15.726,0:03:17.768 One year I came up with a bright idea. 0:03:17.792,0:03:19.613 I told all my students, 0:03:19.637,0:03:23.254 "You were chosen to be in my class 0:03:23.278,0:03:24.802 because I am the best teacher 0:03:24.826,0:03:26.348 and you are the best students, 0:03:26.372,0:03:27.793 they put us all together 0:03:27.817,0:03:30.266 so we could show[br]everybody else how to do it." 0:03:31.382,0:03:33.267 One of the students said, "Really?" 0:03:33.291,0:03:35.551 (Laughter) 0:03:35.575,0:03:38.574 I said, "Really. We have[br]to show the other classes 0:03:38.598,0:03:41.034 how to do it, so when[br]we walk down the hall, 0:03:41.058,0:03:43.585 people will notice us,[br]so you can't make noise. 0:03:43.609,0:03:45.219 You just have to strut." 0:03:45.243,0:03:46.436 (Laughter) 0:03:46.460,0:03:48.112 And I gave them a saying to say: 0:03:48.136,0:03:49.404 "I am somebody. 0:03:49.428,0:03:50.769 I was somebody when I came. 0:03:50.793,0:03:52.693 I'll be a better somebody when I leave. 0:03:52.717,0:03:54.686 I am powerful, and I am strong. 0:03:54.710,0:03:57.376 I deserve the education that I get here. 0:03:57.400,0:03:59.768 I have things to do, people to impress, 0:03:59.792,0:04:01.540 and places to go." 0:04:01.564,0:04:02.784 And they said, "Yeah!" 0:04:02.808,0:04:04.312 (Laughter) 0:04:04.336,0:04:05.732 You say it long enough, 0:04:05.756,0:04:08.544 it starts to be a part of you. 0:04:09.189,0:04:15.986 (Applause) 0:04:16.010,0:04:19.367 I gave a quiz, 20 questions. 0:04:19.786,0:04:21.462 A student missed 18. 0:04:22.625,0:04:25.927 I put a "+2" on his paper[br]and a big smiley face. 0:04:25.951,0:04:27.504 (Laughter) 0:04:27.528,0:04:30.647 He said, "Ms. Pierson, is this an F?" 0:04:31.276,0:04:32.608 I said, "Yes." 0:04:32.632,0:04:33.878 (Laughter) 0:04:33.902,0:04:37.057 He said, "Then why'd you[br]put a smiley face?" 0:04:37.081,0:04:39.305 I said, "Because you're on a roll. 0:04:39.329,0:04:42.190 You got two right.[br]You didn't miss them all." 0:04:42.214,0:04:43.377 (Laughter) 0:04:43.401,0:04:46.796 I said, "And when we review this,[br]won't you do better?" 0:04:46.820,0:04:49.325 He said, "Yes, ma'am, I can do better." 0:04:49.349,0:04:52.957 You see, "-18" sucks[br]all the life out of you. 0:04:52.981,0:04:55.039 "+2" said, "I ain't all bad." 0:05:00.999,0:05:07.038 For years, I watched my mother[br]take the time at recess to review, 0:05:07.062,0:05:09.870 go on home visits in the afternoon, 0:05:09.894,0:05:12.629 buy combs and brushes[br]and peanut butter and crackers 0:05:12.653,0:05:15.363 to put in her desk drawer[br]for kids that needed to eat, 0:05:15.387,0:05:18.626 and a washcloth and some soap[br]for the kids who didn't smell so good. 0:05:18.650,0:05:20.912 See, it's hard to teach kids who stink. 0:05:20.936,0:05:22.299 (Laughter) 0:05:22.323,0:05:24.192 And kids can be cruel. 0:05:24.827,0:05:27.379 And so she kept those things in her desk, 0:05:27.403,0:05:30.904 and years later, after she retired, 0:05:30.928,0:05:33.521 I watched some of those[br]same kids come through 0:05:33.545,0:05:35.505 and say to her, "You know, Ms. Walker, 0:05:35.529,0:05:37.330 you made a difference in my life. 0:05:38.044,0:05:39.256 You made it work for me. 0:05:39.280,0:05:41.294 You made me feel like I was somebody, 0:05:41.318,0:05:44.681 when I knew, at the bottom, I wasn't. 0:05:44.705,0:05:46.808 And I want you to just[br]see what I've become." 0:05:46.832,0:05:49.931 And when my mama died two years ago at 92, 0:05:49.955,0:05:53.135 there were so many former[br]students at her funeral, 0:05:53.159,0:05:55.849 it brought tears to my eyes,[br]not because she was gone, 0:05:55.873,0:05:59.256 but because she left[br]a legacy of relationships 0:05:59.280,0:06:00.968 that could never disappear. 0:06:01.788,0:06:05.511 Can we stand to have more relationships? 0:06:05.535,0:06:06.690 Absolutely. 0:06:06.714,0:06:09.824 Will you like all your children?[br]Of course not. 0:06:09.848,0:06:11.102 (Laughter) 0:06:11.126,0:06:15.024 And you know your toughest[br]kids are never absent. 0:06:15.048,0:06:17.017 (Laughter) 0:06:17.041,0:06:18.657 Never. 0:06:18.681,0:06:20.115 You won't like them all, 0:06:20.139,0:06:23.525 and the tough ones show up for a reason. 0:06:23.549,0:06:26.705 It's the connection.[br]It's the relationships. 0:06:32.230,0:06:35.997 So teachers become[br]great actors and great actresses, 0:06:36.021,0:06:38.260 and we come to work[br]when we don't feel like it, 0:06:38.284,0:06:41.310 and we're listening to policy[br]that doesn't make sense, 0:06:41.334,0:06:43.647 and we teach anyway. 0:06:44.515,0:06:48.555 We teach anyway,[br]because that's what we do. 0:06:48.579,0:06:51.221 Teaching and learning should bring joy. 0:06:51.818,0:06:54.255 How powerful would our world be 0:06:54.279,0:06:58.005 if we had kids who were[br]not afraid to take risks, 0:06:58.029,0:06:59.410 who were not afraid to think, 0:06:59.434,0:07:00.766 and who had a champion? 0:07:00.790,0:07:03.231 Every child deserves a champion, 0:07:03.255,0:07:05.441 an adult who will never give up on them, 0:07:05.465,0:07:08.433 who understands the power of connection, 0:07:08.457,0:07:12.069 and insists that they become[br]the best that they can possibly be. 0:07:12.370,0:07:14.594 Is this job tough? You betcha. 0:07:14.618,0:07:16.837 Oh God, you betcha. 0:07:16.861,0:07:20.071 But it is not impossible. 0:07:20.095,0:07:21.828 We can do this. We're educators. 0:07:21.852,0:07:24.112 We're born to make a difference. 0:07:24.136,0:07:25.503 Thank you so much. 0:07:25.527,0:07:30.820 (Applause)