WEBVTT 00:00:01.425 --> 00:00:06.991 I have never, ever forgotten the words of my grandmother 00:00:06.991 --> 00:00:09.391 who died in her exile: 00:00:09.391 --> 00:00:14.256 "Son, resist Gaddafi. Fight him. 00:00:14.256 --> 00:00:17.463 But don't you ever turn 00:00:17.463 --> 00:00:23.586 into a Gaddafi-like revolutionary." NOTE Paragraph 00:00:23.586 --> 00:00:25.740 Almost two years have passed 00:00:25.740 --> 00:00:28.556 since the Libyan Revolution broke out, 00:00:28.556 --> 00:00:33.306 inspired by the waves of mass mobilization 00:00:33.306 --> 00:00:38.106 in both the Tunisian and the Egyptian revolutions. 00:00:38.106 --> 00:00:43.206 I joined forces with many other Libyans inside and outside Libya 00:00:43.206 --> 00:00:45.406 to call for a day of rage 00:00:45.406 --> 00:00:51.890 and to initiate a revolution against the tyrannical regime of Gaddafi. 00:00:51.890 --> 00:00:55.923 And there it was, a great revolution. 00:00:55.923 --> 00:00:59.623 Young Libyan women and men were at the forefront 00:00:59.623 --> 00:01:02.807 calling for the fall of the regime, 00:01:02.807 --> 00:01:08.023 raising slogans of freedom, dignity, social justice. 00:01:08.023 --> 00:01:11.063 They have shown an exemplary bravery 00:01:11.063 --> 00:01:15.130 in confronting the brutal dictatorship of Gaddafi. 00:01:15.130 --> 00:01:18.645 They have shown a great sense of solidarity 00:01:18.645 --> 00:01:22.129 from the far east to the far west to the south. 00:01:22.129 --> 00:01:28.045 Eventually, after a period of six months of brutal war 00:01:28.045 --> 00:01:33.513 and a toll rate of almost 50,000 dead, 00:01:33.513 --> 00:01:38.896 we managed to liberate our country and to topple the tyrant. NOTE Paragraph 00:01:38.896 --> 00:01:45.145 (Applause) NOTE Paragraph 00:01:45.145 --> 00:01:49.579 However, Gaddafi left behind a heavy burden, 00:01:49.579 --> 00:01:56.914 a legacy of tyranny, corruption and seeds of diversions. 00:01:56.914 --> 00:02:01.215 For four decades Gaddafi's tyrannical regime 00:02:01.215 --> 00:02:09.664 destroyed the infrastructure as well as the culture and the moral fabric of Libyan society. 00:02:09.664 --> 00:02:13.364 Aware of the devastation and the challenges, 00:02:13.364 --> 00:02:20.147 I was keen among many other women to rebuild the Libyan civil society, 00:02:20.147 --> 00:02:23.639 calling for an inclusive and just transition 00:02:23.639 --> 00:02:26.706 to democracy and national reconciliation. 00:02:26.706 --> 00:02:30.523 Almost 200 organizations were established in Benghazi 00:02:30.523 --> 00:02:33.422 during and immediately after the fall of Gaddafi -- 00:02:33.422 --> 00:02:36.323 almost 300 in Tripoli. NOTE Paragraph 00:02:36.323 --> 00:02:42.273 After a period of 33 years in exile, I went back to Libya, 00:02:42.273 --> 00:02:44.490 and with unique enthusiasm, 00:02:44.490 --> 00:02:46.972 I started organizing workshops 00:02:46.972 --> 00:02:51.804 on capacity building, on human development of leadership skills. 00:02:51.804 --> 00:02:54.339 With an amazing group of women, 00:02:54.339 --> 00:02:58.121 I co-founded the Libyan Women's Platform for Peace, 00:02:58.121 --> 00:03:02.989 a movement of women, leaders, from different walks of life, 00:03:02.989 --> 00:03:07.590 to lobby for the sociopolitical empowerment of women 00:03:07.590 --> 00:03:09.740 and to lobby for our right 00:03:09.740 --> 00:03:14.857 for equal participation in building democracy and peace. NOTE Paragraph 00:03:14.857 --> 00:03:20.573 I met a very difficult environment in the pre-elections, 00:03:20.573 --> 00:03:24.557 an environment which was increasingly polarized, 00:03:24.557 --> 00:03:34.025 an environment which was shaped by the selfish politics of dominance and exclusion. 00:03:34.025 --> 00:03:38.107 I led an initiative by the Libyan Women's Platform for Peace 00:03:38.107 --> 00:03:42.241 to lobby for a more inclusive electoral law, 00:03:42.241 --> 00:03:46.706 a law that would give every citizen, no matter what your background, 00:03:46.706 --> 00:03:49.790 the right to vote and run, 00:03:49.790 --> 00:03:53.941 and most importantly to stipulate on political parties 00:03:53.941 --> 00:03:58.656 the alternation of male and female candidates 00:03:58.656 --> 00:04:02.040 vertically and horizontally in their lists, 00:04:02.040 --> 00:04:04.873 creating the zipper list. 00:04:04.873 --> 00:04:11.218 Eventually, our initiative was adopted and successful. 00:04:11.218 --> 00:04:16.990 Women won 17.5 percent of the National Congress 00:04:16.990 --> 00:04:21.255 in the first elections ever in 52 years. NOTE Paragraph 00:04:21.255 --> 00:04:28.006 (Applause) NOTE Paragraph 00:04:28.006 --> 00:04:34.474 However, bit by bit, the euphoria of the elections, 00:04:34.474 --> 00:04:38.206 and of the revolution as a whole, 00:04:38.206 --> 00:04:39.790 was fading out -- 00:04:39.790 --> 00:04:44.256 for every day we were waking up to the news of violence. 00:04:44.256 --> 00:04:46.490 One day we wake up to the news 00:04:46.490 --> 00:04:49.962 of the desecration of ancient mosques and Sufi tombs. 00:04:49.962 --> 00:04:51.757 On another day we wake up to the news 00:04:51.757 --> 00:04:56.258 of the murder of the American ambassador and the attack on the consulate. 00:04:56.258 --> 00:04:58.340 On another day we wake up to the news 00:04:58.340 --> 00:05:01.857 of the assassination of army officers. 00:05:01.857 --> 00:05:07.424 And every day, every day we wake up with the rule of the militias 00:05:07.424 --> 00:05:12.274 and their continuous violations of human rights of prisoners 00:05:12.274 --> 00:05:16.206 and their disrespect of the rule of law. NOTE Paragraph 00:05:16.206 --> 00:05:19.742 Our society, shaped by a revolutionary mindset, 00:05:19.742 --> 00:05:21.703 became more polarized 00:05:21.703 --> 00:05:25.381 and has driven away from the ideals and the principles -- 00:05:25.381 --> 00:05:28.447 freedom, dignity, social justice -- 00:05:28.447 --> 00:05:30.147 that we first held. 00:05:30.147 --> 00:05:34.257 Intolerance, exclusion and revenge 00:05:34.257 --> 00:05:39.289 became the icons of the [aftermath] of the revolution. 00:05:39.289 --> 00:05:43.939 I am here today not at all to inspire you 00:05:43.939 --> 00:05:48.123 with our success story of the zipper list and the elections. 00:05:48.123 --> 00:05:50.324 I'm rather here today to confess 00:05:50.324 --> 00:05:57.106 that we as a nation took the wrong choice, made the wrong decision. 00:05:57.106 --> 00:05:59.929 We did not prioritize right. 00:05:59.929 --> 00:06:07.323 For elections did not bring peace and stability and security in Libya. 00:06:07.323 --> 00:06:12.623 Did the zipper list and the alternation between female and male candidates 00:06:12.623 --> 00:06:15.656 bring peace and national reconciliation? 00:06:15.656 --> 00:06:18.073 No, it didn't. 00:06:18.073 --> 00:06:20.023 What is it, then? 00:06:20.023 --> 00:06:26.206 Why does our society continue to be polarized and dominated 00:06:26.206 --> 00:06:33.507 with selfish politics of dominance and exclusion, by both men and women? NOTE Paragraph 00:06:33.507 --> 00:06:38.026 Maybe what was missing was not the women only, 00:06:38.026 --> 00:06:45.230 but the feminine values of compassion, mercy and inclusion. 00:06:45.230 --> 00:06:49.603 Our society needs national dialogue and consensus-building 00:06:49.603 --> 00:06:51.403 more than it needed the elections, 00:06:51.403 --> 00:06:55.388 which only reinforced polarization and division. 00:06:55.388 --> 00:07:01.653 Our society needs the qualitative representation of the feminine 00:07:01.653 --> 00:07:07.670 more than it needs the numerical, quantitative representation of the feminine. NOTE Paragraph 00:07:07.670 --> 00:07:14.367 We need to stop acting as agents of rage and calling for days of rage. 00:07:14.367 --> 00:07:19.967 We need to start acting as agents of compassion and mercy. 00:07:19.967 --> 00:07:23.601 We need to develop a feminine discourse 00:07:23.601 --> 00:07:27.734 that not only honors but also implements 00:07:27.734 --> 00:07:36.098 mercy instead of revenge, collaboration instead of competition, 00:07:36.098 --> 00:07:39.317 inclusion instead of exclusion. 00:07:39.317 --> 00:07:42.424 These are the ideals that a war-torn Libya 00:07:42.424 --> 00:07:45.899 needs desperately in order to achieve peace. NOTE Paragraph 00:07:45.899 --> 00:07:48.083 For peace has an alchemy, 00:07:48.083 --> 00:07:55.166 and this alchemy is about the intertwining, the alternation 00:07:55.166 --> 00:07:58.666 between the feminine and masculine perspectives. 00:07:58.666 --> 00:08:00.717 That's the real zipper. 00:08:00.717 --> 00:08:03.766 And we need to establish that existentially 00:08:03.766 --> 00:08:06.217 before we do so sociopolitically. NOTE Paragraph 00:08:06.217 --> 00:08:09.116 According to a Quranic verse 00:08:09.116 --> 00:08:15.617 "Salam" -- peace -- "is the word of the all-merciful God, raheem." 00:08:15.617 --> 00:08:21.352 In turn, the word "raheem," which is known in all Abrahamic traditions, 00:08:21.352 --> 00:08:26.053 has the same root in Arabic as the word "rahem" -- womb -- 00:08:26.053 --> 00:08:31.887 symbolizing the maternal feminine encompassing all humanity 00:08:31.887 --> 00:08:34.003 from which the male and the female, 00:08:34.003 --> 00:08:39.536 from which all tribes, all peoples, have emanated from. 00:08:39.536 --> 00:08:48.547 And so just as the womb entirely envelopes the embryo, which grows within it, 00:08:48.547 --> 00:08:56.313 the divine matrix of compassion nourishes the entire existence. 00:08:56.313 --> 00:09:01.680 Thus we are told that "My mercy encompasses all things." 00:09:01.680 --> 00:09:07.680 Thus we are told that "My mercy takes precedence over my anger." NOTE Paragraph 00:09:07.680 --> 00:09:12.263 May we all be granted a grace of mercy. 00:09:12.263 --> 00:09:16.083 (Applause) NOTE Paragraph 00:09:16.083 --> 00:09:18.187 Thank you. NOTE Paragraph 00:09:18.187 --> 00:09:23.607 (Applause)