1 00:00:02,900 --> 00:00:04,100 Mom, 2 00:00:04,360 --> 00:00:05,800 Dad, 3 00:00:06,320 --> 00:00:07,500 Uncle, Auntie, 4 00:00:08,540 --> 00:00:11,800 Grandfather, Grandmother: 5 00:00:13,680 --> 00:00:16,680 We need to talk. 6 00:00:17,000 --> 00:00:21,670 You may not have grown up around people who are Black, but I have 7 00:00:22,060 --> 00:00:25,260 Black people are a fundamental part of my life: 8 00:00:25,260 --> 00:00:26,940 They’re my friends, 9 00:00:27,020 --> 00:00:28,779 my roommates, 10 00:00:28,779 --> 00:00:30,740 my classmates and teammates, 11 00:00:30,740 --> 00:00:32,049 my family 12 00:00:32,849 --> 00:00:36,200 Today, I’m scared for them 13 00:00:36,560 --> 00:00:42,170 This year, the American police have already killed more than 500 people 14 00:00:42,170 --> 00:00:49,330 Of those, 25% have been black, even though they only make up 13% of the population 15 00:00:49,900 --> 00:00:55,210 Earlier this week in Louisiana two police officers killed a man named Alton Sterling 16 00:00:55,210 --> 00:00:57,760 while he sold CDs on the street 17 00:00:57,760 --> 00:01:00,940 The very next day in Minnesota, a police officer shot and killed 18 00:01:00,940 --> 00:01:03,660 a Black man named Philando Castile 19 00:01:03,660 --> 00:01:06,250 in his car during a traffic stop 20 00:01:06,250 --> 00:01:09,370 while his girlfriend and her four year-old daughter looked on 21 00:01:09,600 --> 00:01:14,950 Overwhelmingly, the police do not face any consequences for ending these lives 22 00:01:15,620 --> 00:01:20,740 This is a terrifying reality that some of my closest friends live with every day 23 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:24,510 Even as we hear about the dangers that Black Americans face 24 00:01:24,510 --> 00:01:29,260 our instinct is to sometimes point at all the ways that we’re different from them 25 00:01:29,560 --> 00:01:34,330 To shield ourselves from their reality, rather than empathizing 26 00:01:34,580 --> 00:01:39,240 When a policeman shoots a Black person you might think it’s the victim’s fault 27 00:01:39,240 --> 00:01:45,180 because you see so many images of them in the media as thugs and criminals 28 00:01:45,880 --> 00:01:47,740 After all, you might say, 29 00:01:47,909 --> 00:01:50,309 we managed to come to America and build good lives 30 00:01:50,309 --> 00:01:52,559 for ourselves despite discrimination, 31 00:01:53,119 --> 00:01:55,510 so why can’t they? 32 00:01:55,510 --> 00:01:57,760 I want to share with you how I see things 33 00:01:58,400 --> 00:02:02,710 It’s true that we face discrimination for being Asian in this country. 34 00:02:02,710 --> 00:02:05,900 Sometimes people are rude to us about our accents, 35 00:02:06,290 --> 00:02:11,900 or withhold promotions because they don’t think of us as leadership material 36 00:02:12,600 --> 00:02:15,030 Some of us are told we’re terrorists 37 00:02:15,540 --> 00:02:19,360 But for the most part, people don’t think “dangerous criminal” 38 00:02:19,360 --> 00:02:21,259 when we are walking down the street 39 00:02:21,709 --> 00:02:28,109 The police do not gun down our children and parents for simply existing 40 00:02:29,210 --> 00:02:31,730 This is not the case for our Black friends 41 00:02:32,079 --> 00:02:36,029 Many Black people were brought to America as slaves against their will 42 00:02:36,480 --> 00:02:43,200 For centuries their communities, families, and bodies were ripped apart for profit 43 00:02:44,030 --> 00:02:48,800 Even after slavery, they had to build back their lives by themselves 44 00:02:48,810 --> 00:02:50,610 with no institutional support – 45 00:02:50,760 --> 00:02:53,419 not allowed to vote or own homes, 46 00:02:53,419 --> 00:02:57,219 and constantly under the threat of violence that continues to this day 47 00:02:57,639 --> 00:03:01,399 In fighting for their own rights, Black activists have led the movement 48 00:03:01,399 --> 00:03:06,400 for opportunities not just for themselves, but for us as well 49 00:03:06,680 --> 00:03:10,770 Black people have been beaten, jailed, even killed 50 00:03:10,770 --> 00:03:14,389 fighting for many of the rights that Asian Americans enjoy today 51 00:03:14,559 --> 00:03:17,010 We owe them so much in return 52 00:03:17,210 --> 00:03:20,450 We are all fighting against the same unfair system 53 00:03:20,540 --> 00:03:23,560 that prefers we compete against each other 54 00:03:24,140 --> 00:03:29,599 When someone is walking home and gets shot by a sworn protector of the peace 55 00:03:29,599 --> 00:03:33,239 –even if that person’s last name is Liang– 56 00:03:33,239 --> 00:03:37,289 that is an assault on all of us, 57 00:03:37,289 --> 00:03:42,809 and on all of our hopes for equality and fairness under the law 58 00:03:43,429 --> 00:03:48,059 For all these reasons I support the Black Lives Matter movement 59 00:03:48,660 --> 00:03:52,260 Part of that support means speaking up when I see people 60 00:03:52,260 --> 00:03:56,330 in my own community –or even my own family– 61 00:03:56,330 --> 00:03:59,410 say or do things that diminish the humanity 62 00:03:59,410 --> 00:04:01,830 of Black Americans in this country 63 00:04:02,440 --> 00:04:09,780 I’m telling you this out of love, because I don’t want this issue to divide us 64 00:04:09,780 --> 00:04:15,800 I’m asking you to try and empathize with the anger and grief of the fathers, 65 00:04:15,800 --> 00:04:21,589 mothers, and children who have lost their loved ones to police violence 66 00:04:22,159 --> 00:04:24,640 To empathize with my anger and grief 67 00:04:25,220 --> 00:04:32,280 To support me if I choose to be vocal and to protest 68 00:04:32,440 --> 00:04:37,640 To share this letter with your friends and to encourage them to be empathetic, too 69 00:04:38,120 --> 00:04:41,730 As your child, I am proud and eternally grateful 70 00:04:41,730 --> 00:04:44,810 that you took the long, hard journey to this country, 71 00:04:44,810 --> 00:04:48,840 that you've lived decades in a place that hasn’t always been kind to you 72 00:04:49,130 --> 00:04:53,070 You’ve never wished your struggles upon me 73 00:04:53,250 --> 00:04:57,260 Instead, you’ve suffered through a prejudiced America, 74 00:04:57,260 --> 00:05:01,620 to bring me closer to the American Dream 75 00:05:02,090 --> 00:05:04,360 But I hope you can consider this: 76 00:05:04,360 --> 00:05:07,570 The American Dream cannot exist only for your children 77 00:05:07,700 --> 00:05:11,810 We’re all in this together and we cannot be safe 78 00:05:11,810 --> 00:05:18,480 until all of our friends, loved ones, and neighbors are safe 79 00:05:18,480 --> 00:05:20,689 The American Dream that we seek 80 00:05:20,689 --> 00:05:26,989 is a place where all Americans can live without fear of police violence 81 00:05:27,360 --> 00:05:33,010 This is the future that I want – and one that I hope you want, too 82 00:05:33,260 --> 00:05:36,210 With love and hope, 83 00:05:36,210 --> 00:05:38,860 Your chidren