WEBVTT 00:00:07.090 --> 00:00:10.478 I think everyone has these three zones: 00:00:10.478 --> 00:00:16.670 their comfort zone, their learning zone, and their panic zone. 00:00:17.212 --> 00:00:22.639 And I think our most defining moments and our greatest lessons 00:00:22.639 --> 00:00:28.678 come when we take risks to move from comfort into learning 00:00:28.678 --> 00:00:32.885 and maybe, to the edge of panic. 00:00:33.583 --> 00:00:39.016 Now, I'm on this stage because I did not go to grad school. 00:00:39.353 --> 00:00:41.205 Instead, about five years ago, 00:00:41.205 --> 00:00:44.289 after working with middle school, and high school students, 00:00:44.289 --> 00:00:49.719 when I was curious about the intersection of for-profit and for-purpose businesses, 00:00:49.719 --> 00:00:54.809 I was almost going to go to a traditional grad school to get a master's in business, 00:00:54.809 --> 00:00:58.879 but the costs were too high, and the style didn't fit me. 00:00:58.879 --> 00:01:03.004 So, I decided I would try to design my own education 00:01:03.004 --> 00:01:07.540 by doing twelve projects in twelve months around the world. 00:01:07.540 --> 00:01:11.001 I would source these projects by talking to companies in design, 00:01:11.001 --> 00:01:12.910 business and social change, 00:01:12.910 --> 00:01:15.819 and I would try to find one project I could complete 00:01:15.819 --> 00:01:17.589 over the course of the month. 00:01:17.589 --> 00:01:20.393 I would fund my year by creating a newsletter 00:01:20.393 --> 00:01:24.487 that my friends and family could subscribe to, at ten dollars a month, 00:01:24.487 --> 00:01:28.254 and I would share my learnings with them each month. 00:01:28.254 --> 00:01:32.320 Now, as I was travelling to fulfill this idea, 00:01:32.320 --> 00:01:35.237 I had met all kinds of amazing people 00:01:35.237 --> 00:01:38.217 who started talking to me about the ideas they had 00:01:38.217 --> 00:01:41.530 to learn in a different kind of way, or to create change, 00:01:41.530 --> 00:01:44.250 to take leaps of their own. 00:01:44.250 --> 00:01:48.716 So, I created an invitation for those people to send stories 00:01:48.716 --> 00:01:51.701 about the leaps and risks they were taking to learn, grow, 00:01:51.701 --> 00:01:53.836 and create change in their communities. 00:01:53.836 --> 00:01:57.071 And I promised that if, at the end of the year, I had enough stories, 00:01:57.071 --> 00:01:59.615 we would take those stories and make a book. 00:01:59.615 --> 00:02:02.338 And at the end of the year, sure enough, we created a book 00:02:02.338 --> 00:02:04.621 called The Leap Year Project, of those stories, 00:02:04.621 --> 00:02:06.991 and this kind of became my dissertation. 00:02:06.991 --> 00:02:11.209 I also needed a place to graduate, some way to end my year. 00:02:11.209 --> 00:02:13.750 And there was a TED Conference happening in Chicago. 00:02:13.750 --> 00:02:16.866 So I put a cap and gown on, and that was my graduation. 00:02:16.866 --> 00:02:21.204 And in 2013, after this was all over, we launched a school, 00:02:21.204 --> 00:02:24.565 a place where people could come and design their education 00:02:24.565 --> 00:02:27.613 through experiences in their field of study. 00:02:27.613 --> 00:02:30.120 We called it the Experience Institute. 00:02:30.120 --> 00:02:33.410 I even got to meet Oprah. (Laughter) 00:02:33.410 --> 00:02:35.175 Now, this is pretty traditional: 00:02:35.175 --> 00:02:38.201 me trying to explain some sort of audacious idea 00:02:38.201 --> 00:02:41.188 to someone who is much more successful and powerful 00:02:41.188 --> 00:02:44.205 and really probably doesn't actually care about what I'm saying. 00:02:44.205 --> 00:02:46.537 This is a good picture of that year. 00:02:46.537 --> 00:02:48.031 (Laughter) 00:02:48.737 --> 00:02:54.261 Now, that was one of the most transformative years of my life. 00:02:54.261 --> 00:02:58.139 I learned about my industry, the things I cared about, 00:02:58.139 --> 00:02:59.550 and about myself. 00:02:59.550 --> 00:03:02.012 And Experience Institute has been my life's work, 00:03:02.012 --> 00:03:05.083 inviting people of all ages to design their education 00:03:05.083 --> 00:03:08.180 through experience and mentorship. 00:03:09.070 --> 00:03:12.743 But I think those photos, they are all beautiful, 00:03:12.743 --> 00:03:14.655 and they show energy and excitement. 00:03:14.655 --> 00:03:18.451 I think they only tell one part of the story. 00:03:18.966 --> 00:03:22.220 Photos like this help give another picture, 00:03:22.692 --> 00:03:24.535 when I was in Orange County, 00:03:24.535 --> 00:03:27.730 trying to find a place to stay, not sure where I would stay, 00:03:27.730 --> 00:03:31.478 and finding a couch in a garage of a friend of a friend, 00:03:31.478 --> 00:03:33.414 and having to sleep there for a while. 00:03:33.414 --> 00:03:36.747 And what you don't see is the number of ants on that couch; 00:03:36.747 --> 00:03:38.007 (Laughter) 00:03:38.007 --> 00:03:42.322 or the motorcycle that would start every morning at 6:30, 00:03:42.322 --> 00:03:44.619 and that would be my alarm; 00:03:45.133 --> 00:03:48.607 or downsizing most of my things, getting rid of them, selling them, 00:03:48.607 --> 00:03:51.087 so I could afford the year, and so I could stay light 00:03:51.087 --> 00:03:54.907 and carry nothing more than just a couple of bags as I traveled; 00:03:55.363 --> 00:03:57.544 getting to the end of the year 00:03:57.544 --> 00:04:02.544 and realizing that writing a book, prepping for a TED talk, 00:04:02.544 --> 00:04:06.971 and trying to start a school is really overwhelming. 00:04:07.935 --> 00:04:10.064 Now, ever since Leap Year, 00:04:10.064 --> 00:04:16.726 I've been exploring the risk it takes to move from comfort into learning, 00:04:16.726 --> 00:04:22.703 and the transformative impact it has on an individual's life and career. 00:04:23.056 --> 00:04:28.868 What I never expected to find was the role that panic plays in learning. 00:04:29.247 --> 00:04:32.218 It's the space where you come face to face with your fears. 00:04:32.218 --> 00:04:36.371 and not just your fear's bloated versions of those fears, 00:04:36.371 --> 00:04:39.077 things that don't even really exist. 00:04:39.077 --> 00:04:44.143 It's a part of learning that's necessary, but it's rarely discussed. 00:04:44.597 --> 00:04:47.919 Now, for a second, let's go back to those zones. 00:04:47.919 --> 00:04:51.477 There's an influential psychologist named Lev Vygotsky. 00:04:51.477 --> 00:04:55.748 He talks about the zone of proximal development. 00:04:55.748 --> 00:05:01.015 The comfort zone isn't necessarily about your resources, what you have. 00:05:01.015 --> 00:05:04.176 It's about your abilities, about not being challenged. 00:05:04.176 --> 00:05:05.408 You know what you know, 00:05:05.408 --> 00:05:07.904 and you're right in the middle of what you know 00:05:07.904 --> 00:05:11.853 and, doing just that, there isn't really a sense of challenge. 00:05:11.853 --> 00:05:14.408 In the learning zone, there is a challenge, 00:05:14.408 --> 00:05:18.055 but you don't have everything you need to meet that challenge. 00:05:18.055 --> 00:05:20.371 You may have pieces of it, 00:05:20.371 --> 00:05:24.421 but you need other people to help you piece those things together 00:05:24.421 --> 00:05:26.485 and if, you get that help, you'll succeed. 00:05:26.485 --> 00:05:31.059 and, if you don't get that help, you'll zip right through to the panic zone. 00:05:31.059 --> 00:05:36.757 And the panic zone is where you feel alone, overwhelmed, afraid. 00:05:36.757 --> 00:05:38.259 You've lost confidence here. 00:05:38.259 --> 00:05:40.648 You can't learn here. You don't function well. 00:05:40.648 --> 00:05:43.312 This is the head-in-hands moment. 00:05:43.312 --> 00:05:46.212 And the only way to move back from panic 00:05:46.212 --> 00:05:48.550 is to have help to get into the learning zone, 00:05:48.550 --> 00:05:53.959 but normally, we just want to shut down and go all the way back to comfort. 00:05:54.471 --> 00:06:00.125 Now, learning is where our most transformative moments happen: 00:06:00.468 --> 00:06:05.477 when we meet somebody who is incredibly helpful, 00:06:05.477 --> 00:06:07.843 or when we overcome a challenge. 00:06:07.843 --> 00:06:11.578 If I were to ask you when you learned your most valuable lessons, 00:06:11.578 --> 00:06:13.200 you would talk about a challenge, 00:06:13.200 --> 00:06:16.368 you would talk about someone who helped you through that. 00:06:16.368 --> 00:06:19.157 But comfort isn't a bad thing. 00:06:19.157 --> 00:06:24.278 In fact, the goal of learning is to expand the comfort zone, 00:06:24.278 --> 00:06:28.600 this is where we become more confident, more comfortable as we move through life, 00:06:28.600 --> 00:06:32.516 whatever it throws at us, and not getting to the panic zone. 00:06:32.516 --> 00:06:34.516 So, if that's the goal of learning, 00:06:34.516 --> 00:06:37.420 if what we're trying to do is figure out how we can be people 00:06:37.420 --> 00:06:40.607 who are more confident no matter what life throws at us, 00:06:40.607 --> 00:06:44.327 how do we expand the comfort zone? 00:06:44.745 --> 00:06:47.475 How do we push back the panic zone? 00:06:48.033 --> 00:06:54.003 Now, the grand paradox is that the only way to expand comfort 00:06:54.003 --> 00:06:56.073 is by leaving it. 00:06:56.638 --> 00:06:58.451 So that's what we have to figure out, 00:06:58.451 --> 00:07:02.814 designing the leaps that move us from comfort into learning, 00:07:02.814 --> 00:07:05.782 and when those leaps are necessary in our lives. 00:07:05.782 --> 00:07:10.247 How do we make space for them in our education systems and our workplaces? 00:07:10.247 --> 00:07:14.090 So I have three hunches. It starts with discovery. 00:07:14.090 --> 00:07:18.962 Now, discovery is just a matter of asking questions: 00:07:18.969 --> 00:07:21.852 the question you have, as you move through the day, 00:07:21.852 --> 00:07:23.959 about how to make something better, 00:07:23.959 --> 00:07:27.127 about how to increase the thing that gives you hope, 00:07:27.127 --> 00:07:30.131 one of those moments that you want to improve something, 00:07:30.131 --> 00:07:33.218 make something, or change something. 00:07:33.218 --> 00:07:36.545 Those questions begin pushing you to the edge of comfort, 00:07:36.545 --> 00:07:41.512 in trying to figure out what things you might want to do next. 00:07:41.512 --> 00:07:45.057 Now, as those questions and hopes surface, 00:07:45.057 --> 00:07:48.129 the thing that happens next is you begin exploring: 00:07:48.129 --> 00:07:52.924 "What is it I could do? How do I learn?," and defining those projects. 00:07:52.924 --> 00:07:56.044 Now, for some people, school is the risk they take, 00:07:56.044 --> 00:07:57.482 they move into that setting, 00:07:57.482 --> 00:08:01.147 but for others, the question is, "Should I try to build something? 00:08:01.147 --> 00:08:04.272 Should I travel or do a research project? 00:08:04.272 --> 00:08:07.871 Or should I just try to work with an expert in the field?" 00:08:08.508 --> 00:08:11.548 The more specific that project becomes, 00:08:11.548 --> 00:08:14.689 the more parameters, the time frames, the deliverables, 00:08:14.689 --> 00:08:17.352 the more other people can start seeing what you're doing 00:08:17.352 --> 00:08:20.403 and you can invite them into it, which leads to the second thing, 00:08:20.403 --> 00:08:22.392 that you need to bring other people, 00:08:22.392 --> 00:08:25.586 you need to invite other people into learning. 00:08:25.586 --> 00:08:27.353 It's not a solo project. 00:08:27.353 --> 00:08:30.439 There is going to be times when you don't know what to do, 00:08:30.439 --> 00:08:32.818 and you're going to need the help of others. 00:08:32.818 --> 00:08:37.065 During Leap Year, I found myself not only needing companies 00:08:37.065 --> 00:08:39.512 to give me a chance to work with them, 00:08:39.512 --> 00:08:41.719 to learn with them and to create with them; 00:08:41.719 --> 00:08:44.303 I needed my community to guide me through times 00:08:44.303 --> 00:08:47.909 when I got stuck, or to support me emotionally. 00:08:47.909 --> 00:08:51.264 This included everyone from my own family, my mother, 00:08:51.264 --> 00:08:53.644 to mentors and friends. 00:08:54.498 --> 00:08:59.228 This photo, the story of this photo isn't that I hit the panic zone. 00:08:59.228 --> 00:09:02.427 The story of this photo is that someone took the photo. 00:09:02.427 --> 00:09:04.586 They were in the room with me, right? 00:09:04.586 --> 00:09:08.184 They were the people who walked me back from the panic zone 00:09:08.184 --> 00:09:09.352 into the learning zone, 00:09:09.352 --> 00:09:12.271 and helped me finish at the end of that year. 00:09:13.128 --> 00:09:17.422 Now, I think there is something more to community 00:09:17.422 --> 00:09:20.298 than just emotional support. 00:09:20.298 --> 00:09:22.439 I think they become our audience, 00:09:22.439 --> 00:09:27.607 they become the people who validate and celebrate the things we learn, 00:09:27.607 --> 00:09:32.651 which leads to the third hunch: how do we share the projects we go into, 00:09:32.651 --> 00:09:35.350 the things we're learning and doing? 00:09:35.350 --> 00:09:36.641 For me, during Leap Year, 00:09:36.641 --> 00:09:41.269 it was nothing more than a weekly blog post, monthly newsletter 00:09:41.269 --> 00:09:45.419 and, at the end of the year, creating a book and a presentation, 00:09:45.419 --> 00:09:49.546 but for you, you don't need a big book or a stage. 00:09:49.546 --> 00:09:52.363 What you need is just regular checkpoints, 00:09:52.363 --> 00:09:55.569 places where people can see what you're working on, 00:09:55.569 --> 00:09:59.958 can give you feedback and can celebrate when you finish. 00:10:00.610 --> 00:10:05.110 Discover. Invite. Share. 00:10:05.709 --> 00:10:08.040 So, I didn't go to grad school, 00:10:08.040 --> 00:10:12.957 but I designed one of the most transformative chapters of my life. 00:10:12.957 --> 00:10:15.505 My comfort zone expanded, 00:10:15.505 --> 00:10:16.985 but, maybe more importantly, 00:10:16.985 --> 00:10:21.325 I learned how to navigate between comfort, into learning, 00:10:21.325 --> 00:10:25.323 and to push on the edge of panic. 00:10:26.084 --> 00:10:30.729 Now, 2016 is actually another leap year, 00:10:30.729 --> 00:10:34.895 and I think in Portuguese they call this "ano bissexto," 00:10:34.895 --> 00:10:39.762 where there's an extra day, and there is a title to the year. 00:10:39.762 --> 00:10:40.914 And we're curious: 00:10:40.914 --> 00:10:46.347 what would happen if people in 2016 decided to design a project of their own, 00:10:46.347 --> 00:10:52.086 to move between comfort into learning, to design a leap, however big or small? 00:10:52.086 --> 00:10:54.139 And if we do, 00:10:54.139 --> 00:10:57.142 whether you're in high school, or college, or in a workplace, 00:10:57.142 --> 00:11:01.751 whatever leap you take, what would happen to learning? 00:11:01.751 --> 00:11:03.711 What would happen to the education space 00:11:03.711 --> 00:11:07.343 when we realize we can create learning, we can design it, 00:11:07.343 --> 00:11:11.191 just by taking a few leaps? 00:11:12.288 --> 00:11:16.336 So, what leap will you take? 00:11:17.098 --> 00:11:19.023 (Applause)