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Format: Layer, Start, End, Style, Name, MarginL, MarginR, MarginV, Effect, Text
Dialogue: 0,0:00:06.75,0:00:09.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If I am here before you today,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:09.04,0:00:12.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,me, Karine, a 42-year-old woman,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:13.77,0:00:17.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's to share a human experience with you.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:18.76,0:00:21.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No, I didn't invent the light bulb,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:21.75,0:00:24.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,not even the butter slicer,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:24.25,0:00:26.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and besides, I wouldn't even be able to.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:27.51,0:00:28.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If I am here before you,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:28.76,0:00:32.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,while my legs, my hands\Nare shaking like never before,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:33.74,0:00:37.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and my insides at this moment\Nare turning into a liquid state,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:37.25,0:00:38.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:00:39.76,0:00:42.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's to talk to you\Nof this ability we all have,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:42.77,0:00:44.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I am sure of it,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:45.50,0:00:49.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to transform every hardship,\Nhowever painful,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:50.26,0:00:54.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,into something positive,\Nfirst of all for yourself
Dialogue: 0,0:00:54.01,0:00:56.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and for others as well.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:58.75,0:01:01.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I am here before you\Nbut I should be dead.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:02.72,0:01:05.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But not from sickness, no,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:05.25,0:01:07.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,not as a consequence\Nof a serious accident,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:07.42,0:01:09.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,no, none of that,\Nbut I'll come back to it later.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:12.51,0:01:14.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There was a time when I had everything,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:15.37,0:01:16.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,an exciting job,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:17.50,0:01:19.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,my soulmate as a husband
Dialogue: 0,0:01:20.72,0:01:22.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and a child, a girl.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:23.66,0:01:26.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,My existence was following\Na perfectly peaceful path.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:27.49,0:01:29.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We both had careers,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:29.50,0:01:31.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we changed cars regularly,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:31.52,0:01:35.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we went on vacations,\Nwe owned an apartment
Dialogue: 0,0:01:35.26,0:01:39.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and then we began to dream\Nof a house, a beautiful house.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:39.77,0:01:43.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,My husband would have drawn the plans,\NI'd have thought about the decoration,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:43.75,0:01:45.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There would have been a yard for the kids,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:45.77,0:01:48.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,yes, we had decided to have others,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:48.24,0:01:50.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and for the cat as well.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:50.75,0:01:52.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In short, everything was perfect,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:52.96,0:01:54.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,comfortably commonplace.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:57.75,0:01:59.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And then everything fell apart:
Dialogue: 0,0:02:00.77,0:02:04.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for 3 years, violent events\Ncame up one after another
Dialogue: 0,0:02:04.76,0:02:07.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with relentless regularity.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:08.49,0:02:10.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,First my professional life
Dialogue: 0,0:02:10.26,0:02:12.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,paid the price\Nof a labor court procedure.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:12.75,0:02:14.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was the one who took it on.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:14.75,0:02:16.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Psychological harassment.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:17.24,0:02:18.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,At first, I won,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:19.42,0:02:21.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then without too much explaining,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:21.01,0:02:22.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,justice took away with one hand
Dialogue: 0,0:02:22.50,0:02:24.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what they had given me with another.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:25.74,0:02:28.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I have to say that psychological\Nharassment is so subtle.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:30.24,0:02:34.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Above all, I lost a lot of money\Nand self-esteem.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:35.50,0:02:38.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In the middle of all this,\NI was pregnant with my second child.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:38.59,0:02:40.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Another girl though, but we were happy.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:41.74,0:02:43.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I also lost her,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:43.49,0:02:44.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,at birth.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:45.26,0:02:46.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She died in my womb,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:46.78,0:02:49.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I had to give birth to her,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:49.26,0:02:51.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and accept that I would never\Nhear her cry.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:51.75,0:02:54.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Accept that she had left me forever.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:55.25,0:02:58.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She was so beautiful, so perfect.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:58.76,0:03:00.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And then, my husband that left me,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:01.50,0:03:03.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,4 months after\Nthe birth of our third child.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:04.26,0:03:07.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was strongly set on recovering\Nfrom my failures though,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:08.01,0:03:10.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but I lost him too.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:10.48,0:03:12.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There, that was the final blow.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:15.24,0:03:17.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's how I ended up
Dialogue: 0,0:03:17.73,0:03:19.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,lost, alone in the world,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:20.50,0:03:22.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,alone in my world
Dialogue: 0,0:03:22.25,0:03:25.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that had become a real nightmare.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:25.76,0:03:27.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A permanent nightmare!
Dialogue: 0,0:03:27.76,0:03:30.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Filled with suffering, grief,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:30.24,0:03:32.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,fear, and emptiness.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:37.75,0:03:40.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I had no husband, no job,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:40.50,0:03:41.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,no money,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:41.50,0:03:45.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with two young dependent children\Nand tons of mourning to do.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:46.23,0:03:48.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All my dreams had gone up in smoke.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:48.74,0:03:52.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Getting back on my feet?\NI thought it was an impossible mission.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:53.51,0:03:57.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Anyway, each attempt\Nto get myself out of this situation
Dialogue: 0,0:03:57.77,0:03:59.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,by sheer mental force
Dialogue: 0,0:04:00.49,0:04:02.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ended in failure.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:07.75,0:04:10.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Finding a job: failed!
Dialogue: 0,0:04:11.26,0:04:14.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Finding love, in my state,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:15.22,0:04:16.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,failed!
Dialogue: 0,0:04:16.24,0:04:18.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Oh when it has us in its grip!
Dialogue: 0,0:04:18.74,0:04:20.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yes, at that moment, I almost jumped.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:21.25,0:04:23.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It was from the top of my balcony\Non the 5th floor,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:23.76,0:04:26.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,one July evening almost 5 years ago.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:26.78,0:04:29.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I didn't do it, but, you will admit,\Ngiven my situation,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:29.51,0:04:31.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the idea was rather tempting.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:32.23,0:04:35.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No, that day, I made the difficult\Nchoice to stay alive.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:35.76,0:04:39.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I say difficult, because at that instant,\Nto die would almost have been a relief.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:40.49,0:04:45.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But I made the choice to stay alive,\Nat least in appearance.\N
Dialogue: 0,0:04:46.76,0:04:48.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,For many months, I was unable to move,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:48.100,0:04:50.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I just survived,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:51.26,0:04:53.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with an empty heart,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:54.52,0:04:56.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a stomach full of heavy hardships,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:56.78,0:04:59.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that were indigestible.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:04.90,0:05:06.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The more time went by,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:06.76,0:05:10.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the more I began to shut myself\Nin my victim skin
Dialogue: 0,0:05:10.26,0:05:12.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that ended up fitting me wonderfully:
Dialogue: 0,0:05:12.06,0:05:14.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I had become a master\Nin the art of negativity.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:16.50,0:05:19.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I am completely useless,\NI'll never get anywhere.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:20.79,0:05:23.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Why does fate deal such a cruel hand?
Dialogue: 0,0:05:24.26,0:05:26.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What did I do to deserve all of this?
Dialogue: 0,0:05:26.51,0:05:29.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When will the tide finally turn?
Dialogue: 0,0:05:30.33,0:05:33.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Do you know what happens\Nwhen you have nothing left to lose?
Dialogue: 0,0:05:33.51,0:05:36.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because then, I must say,\NI had nothing left to lose.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:36.14,0:05:39.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When you have reached that low,\Nyou want it to stop, to change.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:39.24,0:05:40.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If I was to live,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:40.26,0:05:43.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was ready to try everything\Nas long as it changed the state I was in.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:43.74,0:05:47.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Everything or almost,\NI remained vigilant, attentive.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:47.77,0:05:50.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,My survival instinct\Nstill worked, after all.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:50.76,0:05:54.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Nevertheless, something strange happened.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:55.26,0:05:57.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I let go of my last mental resistances.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:58.22,0:06:01.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I gave up control,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:01.26,0:06:02.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and everything opened up,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:02.73,0:06:04.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,everything became possible.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:05.50,0:06:09.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I first met someone,\Nand then another and another.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:09.48,0:06:12.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,New people, some were strangers,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:12.100,0:06:15.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it was as if we had to be put\Non the same path
Dialogue: 0,0:06:16.25,0:06:18.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,not for nothing, not by chance.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:18.52,0:06:21.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It was as if we had to meet, to talk,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:22.49,0:06:24.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,everything sounded very right.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:25.50,0:06:28.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,These people,\Nwith simplicity and benevolence,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:28.66,0:06:31.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,showed me a whole different way\Nof seeing things
Dialogue: 0,0:06:32.25,0:06:33.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with such good sense.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:34.96,0:06:37.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They taught me about changing posture,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:38.23,0:06:40.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And what I was hoping for finally came.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:40.77,0:06:42.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It changed everything.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:42.70,0:06:45.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Eventually, a part of me decided\Nto get back on my feet.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:45.36,0:06:47.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A part of me decided\Nto face things head-on,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:47.76,0:06:49.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,pushed me to look\Nat myself right in the face.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:49.97,0:06:52.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Me, enclosed in my self-victimization,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:53.01,0:06:55.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was finally able to take a step back,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:55.95,0:06:57.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to look at the events from a distance.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:58.23,0:07:00.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Look, it's like a movie theater,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:00.48,0:07:02.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you fix the eye of the camera
Dialogue: 0,0:07:02.01,0:07:04.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,on an element of the setting\Nthat is particularly terrifying
Dialogue: 0,0:07:06.50,0:07:09.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then zoom out again, again, and again,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:09.78,0:07:13.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,put this element back\Ninto its global context,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:13.27,0:07:16.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,into its place, all of a sudden,\Nit becomes a lot less frightening.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:17.50,0:07:19.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was finally able to bring
Dialogue: 0,0:07:19.01,0:07:21.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the tragic events \Nof my existence into perspective.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:23.23,0:07:26.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was finally able to see the space\Nthat remained for the rest.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:26.29,0:07:29.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And since I was alive,\Nthat space was immense.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:32.24,0:07:35.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Changing posture\Nallowed me to review the story
Dialogue: 0,0:07:35.76,0:07:38.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,while keeping in mind \Nmy share of responsibility.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:38.78,0:07:42.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's right, we all have \Na share of responsibility
Dialogue: 0,0:07:42.36,0:07:44.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in everything that happens to us\Nin our life.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:44.84,0:07:47.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And saying that doesn't mean\Nbeating yourself up,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:47.26,0:07:48.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,on the contrary.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:49.20,0:07:50.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There is our share,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:50.51,0:07:53.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which we can act on,\Nunderstand, intergrate,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:53.99,0:07:55.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ingest, heal if needs be,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:56.26,0:07:59.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to change our manner of being,\Nto no longer imitate.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:00.34,0:08:02.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And there is the share\Nof responsibility of others.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:02.76,0:08:04.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That which has to be left to them.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:05.25,0:08:07.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The share that is \Nimpossible to intercede on.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:08.25,0:08:12.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That which you have to let go of,\Naccepting being powerless.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:14.05,0:08:15.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How arrogant, if we think about it,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:15.76,0:08:18.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to believe that we have\Nthe ability to intervene
Dialogue: 0,0:08:18.12,0:08:20.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,on the part of others' responsibility.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:21.26,0:08:23.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How exhausting really.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:25.49,0:08:27.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I want justice to be fair.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:30.48,0:08:33.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I want my daughter to live.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:34.75,0:08:37.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I want my husband to stay.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:39.90,0:08:41.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All this, I let go of
Dialogue: 0,0:08:41.75,0:08:44.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I already felt a lot lighter.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:47.74,0:08:49.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well I have to confess to you,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:49.51,0:08:52.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,changing posture\Ndidn't happen in one day. No.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:53.25,0:08:55.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Obviously, I made a few round trips
Dialogue: 0,0:08:55.56,0:08:56.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,here and there.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:57.46,0:09:00.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And obviously, the victim in me\Ncame out on a few occasions
Dialogue: 0,0:09:00.76,0:09:02.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and by the way, it still does sometimes.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:03.74,0:09:07.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But I see it coming now,\Nand I face it head-on right away.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:07.96,0:09:09.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It became a reflex.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:11.24,0:09:13.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Imagine how magic changing posture is,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:13.78,0:09:15.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,how it changes everything.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:15.27,0:09:17.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Our view of ourselves, of others,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:17.74,0:09:19.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of life in general.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:19.49,0:09:21.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It even allows for humor.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:22.01,0:09:25.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It opens doors, horizons, possibilites,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:25.75,0:09:27.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and at times even,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:27.25,0:09:30.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it reveals hidden treasures\Nhere, there, on the inside,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:31.48,0:09:32.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that we didn't imagine.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:33.25,0:09:36.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Inside me, since childhood\Nthere was a hidden desire to write.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:36.73,0:09:38.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was doing it, well, it was my career,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:39.22,0:09:41.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but I decided to do it differently,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:41.24,0:09:42.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for pleasure.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:43.50,0:09:45.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I wrote a text,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:45.51,0:09:47.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,texts filled with humor,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:47.26,0:09:48.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,stuffed with irony
Dialogue: 0,0:09:48.76,0:09:51.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to talk about my experiences,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:51.03,0:09:55.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,about women, kids, men,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:56.25,0:09:58.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,about women with kids\Nwho are looking for men
Dialogue: 0,0:09:59.23,0:10:00.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and about society in general.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:01.25,0:10:04.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I wrote one, then two, then 13,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:04.26,0:10:06.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then I opened a Facebook page\Nto share them,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:06.75,0:10:07.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and it worked.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:08.75,0:10:10.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Bravo, it's basically my life",
Dialogue: 0,0:10:10.54,0:10:12.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,said the comments.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:14.50,0:10:16.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,One day, I compiled them,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:16.04,0:10:19.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then I sent them to an editor\Nfound by chance on the internet.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:19.01,0:10:22.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The editor needed 40 pages,\NI had exactly 40.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:24.23,0:10:26.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I still remember the day he replied,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:26.26,0:10:27.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,this "Yes",
Dialogue: 0,0:10:27.94,0:10:29.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,this setence full of compliments
Dialogue: 0,0:10:29.79,0:10:32.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that talked about the unanimity\Nof the reading commity.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:34.47,0:10:36.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Joy brings about joy,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:36.75,0:10:39.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it brings about effort,\Nthe desire to move forward,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:39.83,0:10:41.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to leave the past behind you,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:42.76,0:10:45.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,without ignoring it, oh no,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:45.26,0:10:47.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but transforming it.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:48.72,0:10:54.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Transforming indigestible things\Ninto positive things.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:54.76,0:10:58.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Transforming hardship\Ninto experience for what comes next.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:01.28,0:11:03.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And then I started my own business.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:03.13,0:11:05.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I had no job,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:05.24,0:11:07.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I created one fit to my size, made for me.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:08.24,0:11:11.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Writing for others,\Narticles, brochures, okay.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:12.24,0:11:16.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But also portraits, story-telling,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:16.24,0:11:17.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,recounting stories.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:18.48,0:11:21.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Recounting those that do\Nand what motivates to do,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:21.78,0:11:23.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in depth.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:23.94,0:11:26.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,To find their meaning\Nand to bring it to light.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:27.48,0:11:29.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't really know\Nwhat life has in store for me,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:29.85,0:11:31.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but I am no longer afraid.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:31.100,0:11:34.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I love my life down\Nto the smallest details,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:34.24,0:11:36.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and if I were to do it again,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:36.27,0:11:37.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I wouldn't change a thing.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:38.24,0:11:40.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because I know that the hardships\Nthat I experienced
Dialogue: 0,0:11:40.74,0:11:43.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,contributed to the woman\Nthat I am today.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:44.24,0:11:45.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What a gift!
Dialogue: 0,0:11:48.74,0:11:49.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I am still writing,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:49.77,0:11:53.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there is a new manuscript\Nthat is circulated in the editors' office.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:53.75,0:11:56.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because through my story,\NI intend to bear witness
Dialogue: 0,0:11:56.77,0:12:01.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of this power, our power,\Nto change posture
Dialogue: 0,0:12:01.04,0:12:03.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in order to overcome,\Nto transform everything.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:05.48,0:12:10.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Hardship into experience,\NExperience into the power of life,
Dialogue: 0,0:12:11.24,0:12:13.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,yes, I intend to bear witness
Dialogue: 0,0:12:13.01,0:12:14.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because I know that hardships,
Dialogue: 0,0:12:14.74,0:12:16.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,small or large,
Dialogue: 0,0:12:16.51,0:12:18.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,can affect each and every one of us.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:18.75,0:12:23.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They have no race, culture, or border.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:25.24,0:12:28.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In my close environment \Nat the moment,
Dialogue: 0,0:12:28.24,0:12:31.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there is a woman whose husband\Nis dying from cancer,
Dialogue: 0,0:12:32.25,0:12:36.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and to stick the knife deeper, their only\Nchild has a degenerative disease
Dialogue: 0,0:12:36.75,0:12:40.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and he will perhaps not\Nbe able to grow old.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:42.75,0:12:45.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I know what this woman will go through.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:46.25,0:12:48.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Perhaps she will find herself\Nin her turn.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:49.07,0:12:52.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Perhaps she will not believe \Nherself capable of picking herself up.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:53.25,0:12:55.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So if my account \Ncould help her a little...
Dialogue: 0,0:12:57.74,0:13:00.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But beyond tragic situations,\NI must tell you,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:00.25,0:13:01.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,changing posture works every time.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:01.99,0:13:04.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So there are many situations\Nin everyday's life
Dialogue: 0,0:13:04.76,0:13:08.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that can put you on\Nthe small floating victim's island.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:09.02,0:13:10.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Imagine,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:12.25,0:13:16.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,your youngest chooses the day
Dialogue: 0,0:13:16.27,0:13:19.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of that unavoidable business meeting
Dialogue: 0,0:13:19.51,0:13:22.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to get up in the morning\Nwith a 104 degree fever
Dialogue: 0,0:13:23.26,0:13:26.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Shit! This kid! This can't\Nbe happening, I can't handle this!"
Dialogue: 0,0:13:30.03,0:13:32.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You light the last candle,\Nthe meal is ready,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:32.76,0:13:36.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you're wearing your \Nspecial romantic evening dress.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:37.23,0:13:41.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The telephone rings, it's your husband,\Nhe seems embarrassed,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:42.23,0:13:46.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Yes, honey, it's me,\NI'm calling you quickly, I am sorry,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:46.76,0:13:49.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,tonight I'm coming home late,\NI have a meeting."
Dialogue: 0,0:13:50.75,0:13:53.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I'm fed up with this guy!"
Dialogue: 0,0:13:56.50,0:13:59.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Your boss asks you, kindly but firmly,
Dialogue: 0,0:14:00.76,0:14:02.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to postpone the day\Nyou leave for vacation,
Dialogue: 0,0:14:03.48,0:14:06.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when your bags are already packed
Dialogue: 0,0:14:06.24,0:14:09.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and in the trunk of your car,\Nyour family is waiting,
Dialogue: 0,0:14:09.03,0:14:11.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the plane takes off in 2 hours...
Dialogue: 0,0:14:12.50,0:14:15.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So tired of this shit job.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:18.76,0:14:21.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Last case, an old lady,
Dialogue: 0,0:14:22.50,0:14:25.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,totally impolite but sure of herself,
Dialogue: 0,0:14:25.00,0:14:27.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,cuts you in the line at the till\Nat the super market,
Dialogue: 0,0:14:28.24,0:14:30.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,pushing you.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:32.05,0:14:34.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Old hag!\NFloating victim's island.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:36.02,0:14:38.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Change your posture immediately!
Dialogue: 0,0:14:42.49,0:14:45.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What is your share of responsibility \Nin what is happening to you?
Dialogue: 0,0:14:46.76,0:14:49.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What is making you suffer so much?
Dialogue: 0,0:14:49.26,0:14:51.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What had you planned?
Dialogue: 0,0:14:51.52,0:14:53.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What are you a victim of?
Dialogue: 0,0:14:53.77,0:14:56.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And by the way, are you the victim?
Dialogue: 0,0:14:57.75,0:15:01.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And then, leave the share\Nof responsibility to the others.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:01.49,0:15:06.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Finally, open up here.\NLet the creativity come.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:06.74,0:15:11.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Invent, imagine, laugh, transform!
Dialogue: 0,0:15:16.02,0:15:18.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It is almost 5 years\Nthat I should have been dead.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:20.25,0:15:24.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If I had been told \Nthat I'd be here, now,
Dialogue: 0,0:15:24.76,0:15:28.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sharing my human experience with you...
Dialogue: 0,0:15:30.78,0:15:33.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that changing my posture saved me
Dialogue: 0,0:15:33.77,0:15:36.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and then that it still saves me\Neveryday.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:37.27,0:15:39.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because it allows me to be alive,
Dialogue: 0,0:15:39.76,0:15:42.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so alive, and happy to be it.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:43.25,0:15:44.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Thank you.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:44.77,0:15:49.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause)