[Script Info]
Title: 
[Events]
Format: Layer, Start, End, Style, Name, MarginL, MarginR, MarginV, Effect, Text
Dialogue: 0,0:00:19.76,0:00:21.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,One of my hobbies, \Nis Rubik's cubing.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:21.76,0:00:22.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:00:22.77,0:00:24.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,As childish as that may seem,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:24.50,0:00:26.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I feel like this colorful little box
Dialogue: 0,0:00:26.23,0:00:27.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is the best representation
Dialogue: 0,0:00:27.99,0:00:30.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of the point that I'm going\Nto be trying to make to you today.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:30.26,0:00:32.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But, we'll comeback to that later
Dialogue: 0,0:00:32.13,0:00:33.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so try to stick with me.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:33.78,0:00:35.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,First, I want to share with you guys
Dialogue: 0,0:00:35.54,0:00:37.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,some observations on the world around me
Dialogue: 0,0:00:37.51,0:00:40.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,from a 19 years old student's perspective.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:40.26,0:00:41.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The way I see it,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:41.52,0:00:43.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there's a big problem\Nin the world nowadays,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:43.77,0:00:45.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and that's that people overall
Dialogue: 0,0:00:45.52,0:00:48.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,are starting to become the same.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:48.52,0:00:53.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I mean, it's if everyone\Nis constantly thinking
Dialogue: 0,0:00:53.01,0:00:54.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,about what everyone else
Dialogue: 0,0:00:54.53,0:00:57.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is doing or saying or thinking,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:57.77,0:01:01.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that no one because of that\Ncan live for themselves anymore.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:01.76,0:01:03.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I mean, just look around you
Dialogue: 0,0:01:03.25,0:01:05.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, Vine
Dialogue: 0,0:01:05.51,0:01:07.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,our lives have almost become devoted
Dialogue: 0,0:01:07.77,0:01:12.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to this idea of fishing \Nfor likes and reposts.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:12.25,0:01:14.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's as if the masses have grown \Nto cling to this idea
Dialogue: 0,0:01:14.97,0:01:16.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that most of what we are
Dialogue: 0,0:01:16.52,0:01:18.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,comes from what other people think of us
Dialogue: 0,0:01:18.50,0:01:20.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and expect us to be,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:20.26,0:01:22.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and then if you take them away
Dialogue: 0,0:01:22.03,0:01:25.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then nothing means anything.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:25.23,0:01:28.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But when we lay down at night \Nand look at ourselves,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:28.51,0:01:33.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,how can we be satisfied living our lives\Nfor those other people.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:33.27,0:01:37.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We're missing the fact \Nthat confirmation and conformation
Dialogue: 0,0:01:37.77,0:01:42.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,are the exact same thing.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:42.26,0:01:44.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That when we constantly\Nseek the approval of others
Dialogue: 0,0:01:44.76,0:01:47.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we're not acting as ourselves anymore,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:47.26,0:01:49.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we're simply acting \Nhow that person would act
Dialogue: 0,0:01:49.78,0:01:51.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in our situation.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:51.75,0:01:54.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now, we have to rethink this lifestyle,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:54.54,0:01:58.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we have to find a way \Nto become individuals again.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:58.52,0:02:00.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We have to begin to embrace
Dialogue: 0,0:02:00.52,0:02:04.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the little things that make \Neach and everyone of us
Dialogue: 0,0:02:04.29,0:02:07.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,absolutely unique.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:07.77,0:02:10.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I want everyone to do something \Nwith me for a second.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:10.50,0:02:13.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I want you take a moment\Nand look at yourself,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:13.01,0:02:14.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,find something about you,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:14.51,0:02:17.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,maybe something not a lot of people know,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:17.27,0:02:20.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,some small simple unique thing
Dialogue: 0,0:02:20.02,0:02:22.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that no one does quite like you do.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:22.51,0:02:23.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Maybe it's a hobby,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:23.100,0:02:27.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,maybe math come really easy to you,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:27.50,0:02:30.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,maybe it's your smile,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:30.76,0:02:35.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,just something that you believe\Ndefines you.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:35.05,0:02:37.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I really hope that by the end of today
Dialogue: 0,0:02:37.04,0:02:40.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,everyone has at least one thing in mind.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:40.02,0:02:42.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because that's where it all starts,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:42.27,0:02:45.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that's how you start to find that identity,\Nthat individualism,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:45.79,0:02:50.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and that unique thing \Nwill allow you to be happy as you,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:50.74,0:02:55.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,no matter what anyone else has to say.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:55.50,0:02:57.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now I begin with the same idea,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:57.25,0:03:01.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and that's because I believe\Nit is exactly these small things
Dialogue: 0,0:03:01.50,0:03:06.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that truly speak the largest volume\Nabout who each person truly is.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:06.79,0:03:10.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you don't believe me of, \Nuse mine as an example.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:10.23,0:03:12.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, I want everyone to look at this box
Dialogue: 0,0:03:12.50,0:03:15.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and, what do you see?
Dialogue: 0,0:03:15.25,0:03:17.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,For most people it's a toy,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:17.49,0:03:20.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,some will agree, \N"Yeah pretty tough puzzle,"
Dialogue: 0,0:03:20.27,0:03:22.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,others will say, \N"I mean, what's the big deal?
Dialogue: 0,0:03:22.76,0:03:25.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I can probably look up a tutorial\Nhow to solve it online.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:25.26,0:03:28.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm sure it's not that difficult."
Dialogue: 0,0:03:28.76,0:03:31.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You see when you look at it,\Nit's insignificant,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:31.100,0:03:36.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but when I see it\NI see very important lesson.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:36.26,0:03:38.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I will try to show you that today.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:38.52,0:03:40.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So we've all learned \Nfrom the very beginning
Dialogue: 0,0:03:40.76,0:03:43.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that everything is a whole lot easier
Dialogue: 0,0:03:43.22,0:03:45.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when we work together as a team.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:45.77,0:03:49.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But those of us who set\Nabout finding that perfect team,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:49.28,0:03:51.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that perfect friend group,\Nour very first time,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:51.74,0:03:53.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,are going to fail,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:53.25,0:03:54.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I mean we should,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:54.50,0:03:57.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you know for most of us life\Nis not a fairy tale,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:57.00,0:03:59.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,no matter how dashing the prince may be.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:59.01,0:04:00.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:04:00.75,0:04:02.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,As for the rest of us,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:02.26,0:04:05.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we just have to keep turning the wheels\Nuntil as if by magic
Dialogue: 0,0:04:05.75,0:04:09.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,everything falls into place.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:09.25,0:04:11.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now most people,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:11.27,0:04:14.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when they see this beautiful picture \Nthat they've painted for themselves,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:14.27,0:04:15.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,this perfect friend group,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:15.73,0:04:19.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they're too blinded \Nto do anything to try to ruin it.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:19.24,0:04:21.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,These are those who conform,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:21.51,0:04:24.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the people who are so focused\Non keeping their picture pretty
Dialogue: 0,0:04:24.98,0:04:29.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that they can't even step back \Nand look at the entire 3D problem.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:29.21,0:04:32.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So this is the challenge \NI have for you guys after today.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:32.53,0:04:34.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Be yourself,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:34.01,0:04:36.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,don't be afraid to rock the boat,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:36.52,0:04:39.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because things will come back \Ntogether for you at the end,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:39.50,0:04:41.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and when you take a step back
Dialogue: 0,0:04:41.23,0:04:45.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you'll see the progress \Nthat you've truly made.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:45.26,0:04:48.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now, a lot of people do get this far
Dialogue: 0,0:04:48.27,0:04:51.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and they see that perfect picture,\Nthat beautiful friend group,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:51.77,0:04:53.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that team that they've always wanted,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:53.53,0:04:57.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and the other aspects of their lives\Nare starting to come along too.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:57.24,0:04:58.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But they're not finished yet,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:58.76,0:05:01.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there are still pieces missing.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:01.51,0:05:03.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They've not truly found that identity
Dialogue: 0,0:05:03.39,0:05:07.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because they've not found\Ntheir unique qualities,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:07.03,0:05:09.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,their Rubik's Cube.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:09.49,0:05:11.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In fact, it's the Rubik's Cube that show us
Dialogue: 0,0:05:11.48,0:05:13.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that progress cannot be made
Dialogue: 0,0:05:13.52,0:05:15.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,without twisting the gears.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:15.75,0:05:19.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Without taking the chance\Nof ruining some of what we already have
Dialogue: 0,0:05:19.77,0:05:21.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in order to progress further.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:21.97,0:05:24.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But if you've the ability to persevere
Dialogue: 0,0:05:24.76,0:05:27.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and find what's truly unique to you
Dialogue: 0,0:05:27.25,0:05:31.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and start living for yourself\Nnot for those other people,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:31.27,0:05:36.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then you'll actually realize \Nthat you were a part of a bigger picture
Dialogue: 0,0:05:36.51,0:05:39.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,all along.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:39.26,0:05:40.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And things get easier as you go,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:40.76,0:05:43.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you know once you stop \Nto try to fit that mold
Dialogue: 0,0:05:43.24,0:05:47.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and start living for yourself\Nand find that confidence then,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:47.24,0:05:51.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the changes that you make \Nwill have less and less of an impact on your team
Dialogue: 0,0:05:51.04,0:05:53.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and on the other important aspects \Nof your life as well.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:53.78,0:05:57.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Until you find yourself \Nso close to that self-actualization
Dialogue: 0,0:05:57.50,0:06:00.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that you're not afraid anymore.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:00.25,0:06:03.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You now have the ability to finish strong\Nand then say to the world,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:03.62,0:06:09.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Here I am, this is me."
Dialogue: 0,0:06:09.26,0:06:11.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So yeah, it's just a toy,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:11.76,0:06:15.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's my Rubik's Cube.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:15.23,0:06:17.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What's yours?
Dialogue: 0,0:06:17.25,0:06:18.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause)\NThank you.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:18.50,0:06:22.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause)