0:00:18.799,0:00:23.715 Life is about opportunities,[br]creating them, and embracing them 0:00:23.715,0:00:26.830 and for me that was the Olympic dream, 0:00:26.830,0:00:29.896 that's what defined me, that was my bliss. 0:00:30.570,0:00:34.096 As a cross-country skier and a member[br]of the Australian ski team 0:00:34.096,0:00:35.890 headed toward the Winter Olympics, 0:00:35.890,0:00:39.931 I was on a training bike ride[br]with my fellow teammates. 0:00:39.931,0:00:42.692 As we made our way up[br]towards the spectacular 0:00:42.692,0:00:44.822 Blue Mountains west of Sydney 0:00:44.822,0:00:47.588 it was the perfect autumn day: 0:00:47.588,0:00:51.672 sunshine, the smell of eucalypt,[br]and a dream. 0:00:51.672,0:00:53.263 Life was good. 0:00:53.263,0:00:55.839 We'd been on our bikes[br]around five and a half hours 0:00:55.839,0:00:58.325 when we got to the part[br]of the ride that I loved, 0:00:58.325,0:01:01.502 and that was the hills,[br]because I loved the hills. 0:01:01.502,0:01:03.464 And I got up off the seat of my bike 0:01:03.464,0:01:06.913 and I started pumping my legs[br]and as I sucked in the cold mountain air, 0:01:06.913,0:01:08.956 I could feel it burning my lungs 0:01:08.956,0:01:12.414 and I looked up to see the sun[br]shining in my face. 0:01:13.115,0:01:15.794 And then everything went black. 0:01:16.616,0:01:18.035 Where was I? 0:01:18.035,0:01:19.421 What was happening? 0:01:19.421,0:01:22.047 My body was consumed by pain. 0:01:23.073,0:01:26.178 I'd been hit by a speeding utility truck 0:01:26.178,0:01:29.306 with only 10 minutes[br]to go on the bike ride. 0:01:29.306,0:01:31.599 I was airlifted from the scene[br]of the accident 0:01:31.599,0:01:34.636 by a rescue helicopter[br]to a large spinal unit in Sydney. 0:01:34.636,0:01:38.131 I had extensive[br]and life threatening injuries. 0:01:38.131,0:01:42.013 I'd broken my neck[br]and my back in six places. 0:01:42.013,0:01:45.643 I broke five ribs on my left side,[br]I broke my right arm, 0:01:45.643,0:01:49.553 I broke my collarbone,[br]I broke some bones in my feet. 0:01:49.553,0:01:52.523 My whole right side[br]was ripped open filled with gravel. 0:01:52.523,0:01:54.476 My head was cut open across the front, 0:01:54.476,0:01:56.931 lifted back,[br]exposing the skull underneath. 0:01:56.931,0:02:00.016 I had head injuries, internal injuries,[br]I had massive blood loss. 0:02:00.016,0:02:02.147 In fact, I lost about 5 liters of blood 0:02:02.147,0:02:04.881 which is all someone my size[br]would actually hold. 0:02:04.881,0:02:08.288 By the time the helicopter arrived[br]to Prince Henry Hospital in Sydney, 0:02:08.288,0:02:11.329 my blood pressure was forty over nothing. 0:02:12.081,0:02:14.729 I was having a really bad day. 0:02:14.729,0:02:17.526 (Laughter) 0:02:21.004,0:02:25.987 For over 10 days,[br]I drifted between two dimensions. 0:02:25.987,0:02:28.745 I had an awareness of being in my body, 0:02:28.745,0:02:30.573 but also being out of my body 0:02:30.573,0:02:32.325 somewhere else watching from above, 0:02:32.325,0:02:34.251 as if it was happening[br]to someone else. 0:02:34.251,0:02:37.699 Why would I want to go back[br]to a body that was so broken? 0:02:37.699,0:02:42.511 But this voice kept calling me,[br]"Come on, stay with me." 0:02:42.818,0:02:45.467 "No, it's too hard." 0:02:45.467,0:02:48.626 "Come on, this is our opportunity." 0:02:48.626,0:02:52.748 "No! That body is broken.[br]It can no longer serve me!" 0:02:52.748,0:02:56.885 "Come on, stay with me.[br]We can do it! We can do it together." 0:02:57.531,0:03:00.041 I was at a crossroads. 0:03:00.041,0:03:04.861 I knew if I didn't return to my body,[br]I'd have to leave this world forever. 0:03:04.861,0:03:07.385 It was the fight of my life. 0:03:08.261,0:03:13.191 After 10 days, I made the decision[br]to return to my body, 0:03:13.191,0:03:16.253 and the internal bleeding stopped. 0:03:16.971,0:03:20.336 The next concern[br]was weather I would walk again 0:03:20.336,0:03:23.006 because I was paralyzed[br]from the waist down. 0:03:23.006,0:03:25.988 They said to my parents,[br]the neck break was a stable fracture, 0:03:25.988,0:03:27.769 but the back was completely crushed. 0:03:27.769,0:03:30.746 The vertebra at L1 was like[br]you'd dropped a peanut, 0:03:30.746,0:03:34.777 stepped on it, and smashed it[br]into thousands of pieces. 0:03:34.777,0:03:37.072 They'd have to operate. 0:03:37.072,0:03:39.631 They went in, they put me on a bean bag, 0:03:39.631,0:03:41.784 they cut me, literally cut me in half. 0:03:41.784,0:03:45.076 I have a scar that wraps around[br]my entire body. 0:03:45.076,0:03:48.032 They picked as much broken bone[br]as they could 0:03:48.032,0:03:49.808 that had lodged in my spinal cord. 0:03:49.808,0:03:53.843 They took out two of my broken ribs,[br]and they rebuilt my back, L1. 0:03:53.843,0:03:55.063 They rebuilt it. 0:03:55.063,0:03:57.050 They took out another broken rib. 0:03:57.050,0:04:00.984 They fused T12, L1, and L2 together,[br]then they stitched me up. 0:04:00.984,0:04:03.092 They took an entire hour to stitch me up. 0:04:03.092,0:04:04.661 I woke up in intensive care 0:04:04.661,0:04:08.314 and the doctors were really excited[br]that the operation had been a success 0:04:08.314,0:04:11.912 because at that stage, I had a little bit[br]of movement in one of my big toes 0:04:11.912,0:04:14.858 and I thought, "Great![br]Because I'm going to the Olympics!" 0:04:14.858,0:04:16.901 (Laughter) 0:04:16.901,0:04:18.787 I had no idea. 0:04:18.787,0:04:21.495 That's the sort of thing[br]that happens to someone else! 0:04:21.495,0:04:22.665 Not me, surely. 0:04:22.665,0:04:25.021 But then the doctor came over[br]to me and she said, 0:04:25.021,0:04:27.768 "Janine, the operation was a success, 0:04:27.768,0:04:31.160 and we've picked as much bone[br]out of your spinal cord as we could, 0:04:31.160,0:04:32.755 but the damage is permanent." 0:04:32.755,0:04:35.288 The central nervous system nerves,[br]there is no cure. 0:04:36.238,0:04:38.284 You're what we call a partial paraplegic 0:04:38.284,0:04:42.110 and you'll have all of the injuries[br]that go along with that. 0:04:42.110,0:04:44.474 You have no feeling from the waist down 0:04:44.474,0:04:48.266 and at most you might get[br]10 or 20% return. 0:04:48.266,0:04:50.985 You'll have internal injures[br]for the rest of your life. 0:04:50.985,0:04:54.404 You'll have to use a catheter[br]for the rest of your life 0:04:54.404,0:04:59.078 and if you walk again, it will be[br]with calipers and a walking frame." 0:04:59.078,0:05:03.062 And then she said, "Janine, you'll have[br]to rethink everything you do in your life 0:05:03.062,0:05:08.164 because you're never going to be able[br]to do the things you did before." 0:05:08.164,0:05:10.504 I tried to grasp what she was saying. 0:05:10.504,0:05:13.300 I was an athlete.[br]That's all I knew, that's all I'd done, 0:05:13.300,0:05:16.262 if I couldn't do that,[br]then what could I do? 0:05:16.262,0:05:21.548 And the question I asked myself is:[br]if I couldn't do that, then who was I? 0:05:25.409,0:05:29.448 They moved me from intensive care[br]to acute spinal. 0:05:29.448,0:05:32.832 I was lying on a thin, hard spinal bed.[br]I had no movement in my legs. 0:05:32.832,0:05:36.519 I had tight stocking on[br]to protect from blood clots. 0:05:36.519,0:05:39.411 I had one arm in plaster,[br]one arm tied down by drips. 0:05:39.411,0:05:42.284 I had a neck brace and sand bags[br]on either side of my head, 0:05:42.284,0:05:44.236 and I saw my world through a mirror 0:05:44.236,0:05:47.314 that was suspended above my head. 0:05:47.314,0:05:50.391 I shared the ward with five other people 0:05:50.652,0:05:52.649 and the amazing thing is that 0:05:52.649,0:05:55.649 because we were all lying paralyzed[br]in the spinal ward 0:05:55.649,0:05:58.190 we didn't know[br]what each other looked like. 0:05:58.190,0:05:59.974 How amazing is that? 0:05:59.974,0:06:05.675 How often in life do you get to make[br]friendships judgement free, 0:06:05.675,0:06:08.158 purely based on spirit? 0:06:09.124,0:06:11.388 And there no superficial conversations, 0:06:11.388,0:06:14.553 as we shared our innermost thoughts,[br]our fears, 0:06:14.553,0:06:18.336 and our hopes for life[br]after the spinal ward. 0:06:19.392,0:06:23.304 I remember one night,[br]one of the nurses came in, Jonathan, 0:06:23.304,0:06:26.113 with a whole lot of plastic straws. 0:06:26.113,0:06:28.384 He put a pile on top of each of us,[br]and he said, 0:06:28.384,0:06:31.363 "Start threading them together." 0:06:31.363,0:06:35.625 Well, there wasn't much else to do[br]in the spinal ward, so we did. 0:06:35.625,0:06:38.441 And when we'd finished,[br]he went around silently 0:06:38.441,0:06:41.243 and he joined all of the straws up 0:06:41.243,0:06:43.920 till it looped around the whole ward 0:06:43.920,0:06:48.596 and then he said,[br]"Okay everybody, hold on to your straws." 0:06:48.596,0:06:49.984 And we did. 0:06:49.984,0:06:54.183 And he said, "Right.[br]Now we are all connected." 0:06:55.214,0:06:59.536 And as we held on and we breathed as one, 0:07:00.758,0:07:04.084 we knew we weren't on this journey alone. 0:07:05.265,0:07:09.872 And even lying paralyzed[br]in the spinal ward, 0:07:09.872,0:07:12.033 there were moments of incredible depth 0:07:12.033,0:07:16.152 and richness,[br]of authenticity and connection, 0:07:16.841,0:07:19.484 that I had never experienced before. 0:07:20.807,0:07:25.118 And each of us knew[br]that when we left the spinal ward, 0:07:25.702,0:07:28.188 we would never be the same. 0:07:30.464,0:07:33.447 After six months, it was time to go home. 0:07:33.729,0:07:37.339 I remember dad pushing me outside[br]in my wheelchair 0:07:37.339,0:07:40.301 wrapped in a plaster body cast 0:07:40.301,0:07:43.789 and feeling the sun on my face[br]for the first time. 0:07:43.789,0:07:45.786 I soaked it up and I thought, 0:07:45.786,0:07:48.786 "How could I ever have taken this[br]for granted?" 0:07:49.676,0:07:52.609 I felt so incredibly grateful for my life. 0:07:53.055,0:07:55.920 But before I left hospital,[br]the head nurse had said to me, 0:07:55.920,0:07:59.252 "Janine, I want you to be ready[br]because when you get home 0:07:59.252,0:08:00.772 something is going to happen." 0:08:00.772,0:08:01.917 And I said, "What?" 0:08:01.917,0:08:04.480 She said, "You're going to get depressed." 0:08:04.480,0:08:07.604 And I said, "Not me, not[br]'Janine the machine'" 0:08:07.604,0:08:09.269 which was my nickname. 0:08:09.269,0:08:12.287 She said "You are. Because, see,[br]it happens to everyone. 0:08:12.287,0:08:15.255 In the spinal ward, that's normal. 0:08:15.255,0:08:17.196 You're in a wheelchair, that's normal. 0:08:17.196,0:08:20.348 But you're going to get home[br]and realize how different life is." 0:08:20.348,0:08:24.016 And I got home, and something happened. 0:08:26.243,0:08:29.163 I realized Sister Sam was right. 0:08:29.952,0:08:32.352 I did get depressed. 0:08:32.783,0:08:36.573 I was in my wheelchair,[br]I had no feeling from the waist down, 0:08:36.573,0:08:39.505 attached to a catheter bottle,[br]I couldn't walk. 0:08:40.130,0:08:44.644 I'd lost so much weight in hospital,[br]I now weighed about 80 pounds. 0:08:46.295,0:08:48.144 And I wanted to give up. 0:08:48.144,0:08:50.434 All I wanted to do was[br]put my running shoes on 0:08:50.434,0:08:51.971 and run out the door. 0:08:51.971,0:08:55.245 I wanted my old life back.[br]I wanted my body back. 0:08:55.245,0:08:57.833 And I could remember mum[br]sitting on the end of my bed 0:08:57.833,0:09:01.674 and saying, "I wonder if life[br]will ever be good again?" 0:09:01.674,0:09:04.176 And I thought, "How could it? 0:09:04.176,0:09:07.176 Because I've lost everything[br]that I valued, 0:09:07.892,0:09:11.529 everything that I'd worked towards...[br]gone." 0:09:12.813,0:09:17.385 And the question I asked was:[br]Why me? Why me? 0:09:17.794,0:09:21.860 And then I remembered[br]my friends that were still 0:09:21.860,0:09:23.230 in the spinal ward. 0:09:23.709,0:09:25.724 Particularly Maria. 0:09:25.724,0:09:27.999 Maria was in a car accident[br]and she woke up 0:09:27.999,0:09:31.391 on her 16th birthday to the news[br]that she was a complete quadriplegic, 0:09:32.580,0:09:34.518 had no movement from the neck down, 0:09:34.518,0:09:37.450 had damage to her vocal cords[br]and she couldn't talk. 0:09:39.099,0:09:41.404 They told me, "We are going to move you[br]next to her 0:09:41.404,0:09:44.404 because we think it will be good to her." 0:09:44.404,0:09:48.616 I was worried. I didn't know[br]how I'd react being next to her. 0:09:48.616,0:09:51.343 I knew it would be challenging,[br]but it was actually 0:09:51.343,0:09:55.727 a blessing because Maria always smiled. 0:09:57.711,0:10:01.379 She was always happy,[br]and even when she began to talk again, 0:10:02.308,0:10:04.530 albeit difficult to understand, 0:10:04.530,0:10:07.591 she never complained. Not once. 0:10:07.913,0:10:13.795 And I wondered how had she ever[br]found that level of acceptance? 0:10:13.795,0:10:18.195 And I realized[br]that this wasn't just my life. 0:10:18.195,0:10:20.362 It was life itself. 0:10:20.375,0:10:24.801 I realized that this wasn't just my pain,[br]it was everybody's pain. 0:10:24.801,0:10:29.702 And then I knew, just like before,[br]that I had a choice. 0:10:30.531,0:10:34.723 I could keep fighting this[br]or I could let go and accept 0:10:35.558,0:10:39.985 not only my body,[br]but the circumstances of my life. 0:10:40.631,0:10:44.158 And then I stopped asking, "Why me?" 0:10:44.158,0:10:48.071 and I started to ask, "Why not me?" 0:10:48.071,0:10:52.086 And then I thought to myself[br]maybe being at rock bottom 0:10:52.086,0:10:55.251 is actually the perfect place to start. 0:10:58.996,0:11:02.470 I had never before thought[br]of myself as a creative person. 0:11:02.470,0:11:05.512 I was an athlete, my body was a machine. 0:11:06.788,0:11:10.619 But now, I was about to embark[br]on the most creative project 0:11:10.619,0:11:12.949 any of us could ever do. 0:11:12.949,0:11:15.487 That of rebuilding a life. 0:11:16.080,0:11:19.858 And even though I had absolutely[br]no idea what I was going to do, 0:11:19.858,0:11:23.827 in that uncertainty,[br]came a sense of freedom. 0:11:23.827,0:11:26.072 I was no longer tied to a set path. 0:11:26.072,0:11:31.116 I was free to explore[br]life's infinite possibilities. 0:11:32.448,0:11:36.535 And that realization[br]was about to change my life. 0:11:38.745,0:11:43.380 Sitting at home, in my wheelchair[br]and my plaster body cast, 0:11:43.380,0:11:46.054 an airplane flew overhead 0:11:46.665,0:11:49.118 and I looked up and I thought to myself, 0:11:49.118,0:11:53.556 "That's it! If I can't walk,[br]then I might as well fly!" 0:11:54.728,0:11:57.428 I said, "Mum, I'm going to learn[br]how to fly!" 0:11:57.428,0:11:59.439 She said, "That's nice, dear." 0:11:59.439,0:12:01.256 (Laughter) 0:12:01.256,0:12:03.827 I said, "Pass me the yellow pages." 0:12:03.827,0:12:06.662 She passed me the phone book,[br]I rang up the flying school, 0:12:06.662,0:12:10.367 I made a booking, said, "I'd like to make[br]a booking to come out for a flight." 0:12:10.367,0:12:12.527 They said, "When do you want to come out?" 0:12:12.527,0:12:15.014 I said, "Well I have to get[br]a friend to drive me out 0:12:15.014,0:12:17.964 because I can't drive, haha,[br]sort of can't walk either, ha. 0:12:17.964,0:12:18.904 Is that a problem?" 0:12:18.904,0:12:21.503 I made a booking,[br]and weeks later my friend Chris 0:12:21.503,0:12:23.419 and my mom drove me out to the airport. 0:12:23.419,0:12:24.680 All 80 pounds of me, 0:12:24.680,0:12:27.527 covered in a plaster body cast[br]and a baggy pair of overalls. 0:12:27.527,0:12:30.104 I can tell you I did not look[br]like the ideal candidate 0:12:30.104,0:12:31.376 to get a pilot's license. 0:12:31.376,0:12:32.862 (Laughter) 0:12:32.862,0:12:35.453 I'm holding onto the counter[br]because I can't stand. 0:12:35.453,0:12:37.573 I said, "Hi![br]I'm here for a flying lesson." 0:12:37.573,0:12:40.713 And they took one look and ran out[br]the back to draw short straws. 0:12:40.713,0:12:41.997 "You get her!" 0:12:41.997,0:12:44.193 "No, no! You take her!" 0:12:44.193,0:12:45.663 Finally this guy comes out, 0:12:45.663,0:12:48.117 "Hi! I'm Andrew[br]and I'm going to take you flying." 0:12:48.117,0:12:48.868 I go, "Great!" 0:12:48.868,0:12:50.038 So they drive me down. 0:12:50.038,0:12:51.568 They get me out on the tarmac, 0:12:51.568,0:12:53.929 and there was this red,[br]white, and blue airplane. 0:12:53.929,0:12:54.792 It was beautiful! 0:12:54.792,0:12:56.377 They lifted me into the cockpit. 0:12:56.377,0:12:59.231 They had to slide me up[br]on the wing, put me in the cockpit. 0:12:59.231,0:13:00.218 They sat me down. 0:13:00.218,0:13:02.138 There were buttons and dials everywhere. 0:13:02.138,0:13:05.747 I'm going, "Wow! How do you ever know[br]what all these buttons and dials do?" 0:13:05.747,0:13:08.885 Andrew the instructor got in the front;[br]started the airplane up, 0:13:08.885,0:13:11.332 he said, "Would you like[br]to have a go at taxiing?" 0:13:11.332,0:13:14.141 That's when you use your feet[br]to control the rudder pedals 0:13:14.141,0:13:16.141 to control the airplane on the ground. 0:13:16.141,0:13:18.144 I said, "No. Ha ha, I can't use my legs." 0:13:18.144,0:13:20.386 He went, "Oh." I said,[br]"But I can use my hands." 0:13:20.386,0:13:21.338 And he said, "Okay." 0:13:21.338,0:13:24.026 So he got over to the runway,[br]and he applied the power. 0:13:24.026,0:13:25.829 And as we took off down the runway, 0:13:25.829,0:13:29.163 and the wheels lifted up off the tarmac,[br]and we became airborne 0:13:29.163,0:13:33.453 I had the most incredible[br]sense of freedom. 0:13:33.827,0:13:38.944 And Andrew said to me,[br]as we got over the training area, 0:13:38.944,0:13:41.433 "You see that mountain over there?" 0:13:41.433,0:13:43.220 And I said, "Yeah?" 0:13:43.220,0:13:47.506 And he said, "Well you take the controls,[br]and you fly towards that mountain." 0:13:47.506,0:13:50.589 And as I looked up,[br]I realized that he was pointing 0:13:50.589,0:13:53.029 towards the Blue Mountains, 0:13:53.029,0:13:55.931 where the journey had begun. 0:13:56.663,0:14:00.477 And I took the controls, and I was flying, 0:14:01.158,0:14:04.327 and I was a long,[br]long way from that spinal ward. 0:14:04.327,0:14:07.662 And I knew right then[br]that I was going to be a pilot. 0:14:07.662,0:14:11.585 Didn't know how I'd ever pass[br]a medical, puff, 0:14:11.585,0:14:14.957 but I'd worry about that later[br]because right now I had a dream! 0:14:14.957,0:14:18.840 So I went home, I got a training[br]diary out, and I had a plan. 0:14:18.840,0:14:21.858 And I practiced my walking[br]as much as I could. 0:14:21.858,0:14:25.620 And I went from the point[br]of like two people holding me up, 0:14:25.620,0:14:27.922 to one person holding me up, 0:14:27.922,0:14:30.512 to the point where I could walk[br]around the furniture, 0:14:30.512,0:14:32.352 as long as it wasn't too far apart, 0:14:32.352,0:14:34.636 and then I made great progression[br]to the point 0:14:34.636,0:14:37.723 where I could walk around the house[br]holding onto the walls 0:14:37.723,0:14:40.571 like this, and mum said[br]she was forever following me 0:14:40.571,0:14:42.542 wiping off my fingerprints. 0:14:42.542,0:14:44.390 (Laughter) 0:14:44.390,0:14:47.268 But at least she always knew where I was. 0:14:47.268,0:14:48.681 (Laughter) 0:14:48.681,0:14:51.601 So while the doctors continued to operate, 0:14:51.601,0:14:53.659 and put my body back together again, 0:14:53.659,0:14:56.429 I went on with my theory study, 0:14:56.429,0:15:00.266 and then eventually and amazingly,[br]I passed my pilot's medical. 0:15:00.266,0:15:02.861 And that was my green light to fly. 0:15:02.861,0:15:04.511 And I spend every moment I could 0:15:04.511,0:15:07.116 out of that flying school[br]way out of my comfort zone, 0:15:07.116,0:15:09.084 all these young guys that wanted to be 0:15:09.084,0:15:11.815 Qantas pilots and, you know,[br]little, old hop-along me 0:15:11.815,0:15:14.392 in first my plaster cast,[br]and then my steel brace, 0:15:14.392,0:15:18.877 my baggy overalls, my bag of medication[br]and catheters, and my limp. 0:15:18.877,0:15:20.763 And they used to look at me and think, 0:15:20.763,0:15:24.050 "Oh! Who is she kidding?[br]She is never going to be able to do this!" 0:15:24.050,0:15:26.112 And sometimes I thought that too. 0:15:26.112,0:15:27.745 But that didn't matter 0:15:27.745,0:15:30.273 because now there was something[br]inside that burned 0:15:30.273,0:15:33.715 that far outweighed my injuries. 0:15:34.589,0:15:36.754 And little goals[br]kept me going along the way. 0:15:36.754,0:15:40.164 And eventually I got[br]my private pilot's license, 0:15:40.164,0:15:42.372 and then I learned to navigate, 0:15:42.372,0:15:45.543 and I flew my friends around Australia. 0:15:45.543,0:15:48.179 And then I learned to fly[br]an airplane with two engines, 0:15:48.179,0:15:50.895 and I got my twin engine rating. 0:15:50.895,0:15:54.003 And then I learned to fly[br]in bad weather as well as fine weather 0:15:54.003,0:15:56.742 and got my instrument rating. 0:15:56.742,0:15:59.471 And then I got my commercial[br]pilot's license. 0:15:59.471,0:16:02.405 And then I got my instructor rating. 0:16:02.405,0:16:05.313 And then, I found myself[br]back at that same school 0:16:05.313,0:16:07.895 where I'd gone for that very first flight 0:16:07.895,0:16:10.856 teaching other people how to fly, 0:16:10.856,0:16:15.365 just under 18 months[br]after I'd left the spinal ward. 0:16:15.365,0:16:22.388 (Applause) 0:16:26.767,0:16:28.908 And then I thought, "Why stop there? 0:16:28.908,0:16:31.521 Why not learn to fly upside down?" 0:16:31.984,0:16:33.215 And I did. 0:16:33.215,0:16:34.846 And I learned to fly upside down 0:16:34.846,0:16:37.992 and became and aerobatics[br]flying instructor. 0:16:38.833,0:16:41.876 And mum and dad, never been up. 0:16:42.478,0:16:45.482 (Laughter) 0:16:45.482,0:16:49.056 But then I knew for certain,[br]that although my body 0:16:49.056,0:16:53.485 might be limited, it was my spirit[br]that was unstoppable. 0:16:56.647,0:16:59.465 The philosopher Lao Tzu once said, 0:16:59.966,0:17:02.212 "When you let go of what you are, 0:17:02.212,0:17:04.670 you become what you might be." 0:17:05.464,0:17:08.903 I now know that it wasn't till[br]I let go of who I thought 0:17:08.903,0:17:13.938 I was that I was able to create[br]a completely new life. 0:17:14.603,0:17:19.207 It wasn't till I let go of the life[br]I thought I should have, 0:17:19.707,0:17:21.302 that I was able to embrace 0:17:21.302,0:17:23.701 the life that was waiting for me. 0:17:24.161,0:17:29.495 I now know that my real strength[br]never came from my body. 0:17:30.022,0:17:33.005 And although my physical capabilities 0:17:33.005,0:17:38.429 have changed dramatically,[br]who I am is unchanged. 0:17:39.620,0:17:43.497 The pillar light inside of me[br]was still alight 0:17:43.497,0:17:46.861 just as it is in each and every one of us. 0:17:48.417,0:17:51.136 I know that I am not my body, 0:17:51.568,0:17:54.312 and I also know that you are not yours. 0:17:54.905,0:18:00.578 And then it no longer matters[br]what you look like, where you come from, 0:18:00.836,0:18:03.360 or what you do for a living. 0:18:03.360,0:18:06.515 All that matters is that we continue 0:18:06.515,0:18:10.512 to fan the flame of humanity[br]by living our lives 0:18:10.512,0:18:15.849 as the ultimate creative expression[br]of who we really are. 0:18:16.644,0:18:22.738 Because we are all connected[br]by millions and millions of straws. 0:18:24.016,0:18:27.989 And it's time to join those up,[br]and to hang on, 0:18:28.813,0:18:32.989 and if we are to move towards[br]our collective bliss, 0:18:32.989,0:18:36.144 it's time we shed our focus[br]on the physical, 0:18:36.144,0:18:39.399 and instead embrace[br]the virtues of the heart. 0:18:39.399,0:18:42.422 So raise your straws if you'll join me! 0:18:42.714,0:18:44.522 (Applause) Thank you! 0:18:44.529,0:18:49.206 (Applause) 0:18:50.081,0:18:51.727 Thank you. 0:18:53.259,0:18:55.905 (Applause)