[Script Info] Title: [Events] Format: Layer, Start, End, Style, Name, MarginL, MarginR, MarginV, Effect, Text Dialogue: 0,0:00:01.04,0:00:04.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Kakva li ste samo intrigantna\Ngrupa individualaca... Dialogue: 0,0:00:05.50,0:00:06.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,za jednog psihologa. Dialogue: 0,0:00:06.98,0:00:08.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Smijeh) Dialogue: 0,0:00:08.44,0:00:11.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Zadnjih nekoliko dana sam imao priliku Dialogue: 0,0:00:11.57,0:00:14.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,načuti neke od vaših razgovora Dialogue: 0,0:00:14.98,0:00:17.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i promatrati vaše međusobne interakcije. Dialogue: 0,0:00:17.17,0:00:19.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I mislim da se, već sada, može reći Dialogue: 0,0:00:19.72,0:00:24.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,da postoji 47 osoba u ovoj publici koje Dialogue: 0,0:00:25.49,0:00:26.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,upravo u ovome trenutku Dialogue: 0,0:00:27.41,0:00:31.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,pokazuje psihičke simptome o\Nkojima bih htio danas popričati. Dialogue: 0,0:00:31.57,0:00:32.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Smijeh) Dialogue: 0,0:00:32.94,0:00:35.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I mislio sam da bi ste možda\Nhtjeli saznati tko ste. Dialogue: 0,0:00:35.97,0:00:37.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Smijeh) Dialogue: 0,0:00:37.42,0:00:39.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ali umjesto da pokazujem na vas, Dialogue: 0,0:00:39.13,0:00:42.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,što bi bilo nepotrebno i nametljivo, Dialogue: 0,0:00:42.86,0:00:45.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,mislio sam vam ispričati\Nnekoliko činjenica i priča Dialogue: 0,0:00:45.89,0:00:48.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,u kojima ćete možda prepoznati dio sebe. Dialogue: 0,0:00:50.09,0:00:54.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ja sam u istraživačkom polju koje je\Npoznato kao psihologija osobnosti Dialogue: 0,0:00:54.35,0:00:57.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,što je dio veće znanosti o osobnosti Dialogue: 0,0:00:57.81,0:01:02.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,koja obuhvaća cijeli spektar\Nod neurona do naracije. Dialogue: 0,0:01:03.34,0:01:04.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I ono što mi pokušavamo, Dialogue: 0,0:01:05.60,0:01:07.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,na naš vlastiti način, Dialogue: 0,0:01:07.19,0:01:09.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,jest objasniti kako je svatko od nas Dialogue: 0,0:01:10.79,0:01:12.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,svatko od vas Dialogue: 0,0:01:12.47,0:01:14.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,u određenim aspektima Dialogue: 0,0:01:14.57,0:01:15.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,poput svih ostali ljudi, Dialogue: 0,0:01:16.99,0:01:18.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,poput nekih ljudi, Dialogue: 0,0:01:19.24,0:01:21.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i poput nijedne osobe. Dialogue: 0,0:01:22.58,0:01:25.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Možda odmah govorite za sebe Dialogue: 0,0:01:25.77,0:01:27.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Ja nisam intrigantan. Dialogue: 0,0:01:29.60,0:01:35.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ja sam 46. najdosadnija osoba \Nu Zapadnoj polutki." Dialogue: 0,0:01:35.90,0:01:38.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ili možda kažete za sebe, Dialogue: 0,0:01:38.21,0:01:40.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Ja sam intrigantan Dialogue: 0,0:01:41.25,0:01:45.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Iako me većina ljudi smatra\Nvelikim, glasnim čudakom." Dialogue: 0,0:01:45.23,0:01:46.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Smijeh) Dialogue: 0,0:01:46.44,0:01:52.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Upravo je tvoja samodijagnoza dosade\Ni urođena "čudnovatost" Dialogue: 0,0:01:52.32,0:01:56.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ono čime mene kao psihologa fasciniraš. Dialogue: 0,0:01:57.17,0:01:59.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dakle da pojasnim zašto je to tako. Dialogue: 0,0:02:00.28,0:02:04.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jedno od najutjecajnijih pristupa\Nu znanosti o osobnosti Dialogue: 0,0:02:04.47,0:02:06.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,poznat je kao psihologija ličnosti Dialogue: 0,0:02:06.08,0:02:11.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,koja svrstava osobu u 5 dimenzija,\Nkoje su normalno podijeljene. Dialogue: 0,0:02:11.48,0:02:18.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I kojima se opisuju opće značajke\Nrazličitosti između ljudi. Dialogue: 0,0:02:19.38,0:02:21.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Zajedno tvore akronim "OCEAN". (OSEUN) Dialogue: 0,0:02:22.10,0:02:25.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"O" znači otvorenost Dialogue: 0,0:02:25.18,0:02:27.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,suprotno onima koji su više zatvoreni. Dialogue: 0,0:02:27.56,0:02:30.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"S" znači savjesnost Dialogue: 0,0:02:30.75,0:02:34.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,za razliku od onih koji\Nvode više pasivan život. Dialogue: 0,0:02:34.42,0:02:39.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"E"- ekstraverzija nasuprot\Nviše introvertiranim osobama. Dialogue: 0,0:02:39.09,0:02:41.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"U" - "ugodni individualci" Dialogue: 0,0:02:41.80,0:02:45.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,za razliku od onih \Nkoji su izrazito neugodni. Dialogue: 0,0:02:45.60,0:02:48.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i "N" -- "neurotično pojedinci", Dialogue: 0,0:02:48.27,0:02:50.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,za razliku od onih koji su stabilniji. Dialogue: 0,0:02:52.27,0:02:55.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ove sve dimenzije imaju učinak\Nna naše blagostanje Dialogue: 0,0:02:55.68,0:02:58.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,za vrijeme našega života. Dialogue: 0,0:02:58.76,0:03:01.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I tako znamo da su, npr. Dialogue: 0,0:03:01.14,0:03:06.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,otvorenost i savjesnost \Ndobri pokazatelji za uspješan život, Dialogue: 0,0:03:06.83,0:03:11.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ali otvoreni ljudi ostvaruju taj uspjeh\Nsvojom neustrašivosti Dialogue: 0,0:03:11.23,0:03:13.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,te povremenim čudnim ponašanjem. Dialogue: 0,0:03:14.08,0:03:18.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Savjesni ljudi to postižu \Npridržavanjem rokova, Dialogue: 0,0:03:18.47,0:03:22.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ustrajnošću te pomoću strasti. Dialogue: 0,0:03:23.66,0:03:27.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ekstrovertiranost i ugodnost \Nse oboje dobro slažu Dialogue: 0,0:03:27.57,0:03:30.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,u radu s ljudima. Dialogue: 0,0:03:30.87,0:03:33.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ekstroverte npr. smatram intrigantnima. Dialogue: 0,0:03:33.88,0:03:36.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Svojim studentima nekada\Nkažem osnovnu činjenicu Dialogue: 0,0:03:36.88,0:03:39.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,koja im možda može nešto otkriti\Nu pogledu na njihovu osobnost. Dialogue: 0,0:03:40.36,0:03:45.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Kažem da je za odrasle\Ngotovo nemoguće Dialogue: 0,0:03:45.43,0:03:49.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,da poližu vlastiti lakat. Dialogue: 0,0:03:49.29,0:03:50.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Smijeh) Dialogue: 0,0:03:50.56,0:03:51.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jeste li to znali? Dialogue: 0,0:03:53.50,0:03:57.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Neki od vas su već pokušali\Npolizati svoj lakat. Dialogue: 0,0:03:57.72,0:03:59.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ali ekstroverti među vama Dialogue: 0,0:03:59.52,0:04:02.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,su vjerovatno oni koji\Nkoji nisu samo pokušali Dialogue: 0,0:04:02.15,0:04:04.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,već i uspješno polizali lakat Dialogue: 0,0:04:04.67,0:04:06.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,osobe pokraj. Dialogue: 0,0:04:06.38,0:04:07.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Smijeh) Dialogue: 0,0:04:07.41,0:04:09.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,To su ekstroverti. Dialogue: 0,0:04:09.12,0:04:12.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Malo ću se detaljnije \Npozabaviti sa ekstroverzijom Dialogue: 0,0:04:12.56,0:04:15.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,jer je značajna i intrigantna Dialogue: 0,0:04:15.54,0:04:19.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,te nam pomaže u shvaćanju,\Nšto ja nazivam, naše tri prirode. Dialogue: 0,0:04:19.05,0:04:22.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Prva je naša biogenetska priroda,\Nnaša neuropsihologija. Dialogue: 0,0:04:22.74,0:04:25.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Druga je naša sociogenetička\Nili druga priroda, Dialogue: 0,0:04:26.28,0:04:30.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,koja se odnosi na kulturne i\Ndruštvene aspekte našeg života. Dialogue: 0,0:04:30.74,0:04:37.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I treća je ono što nas čini individualcem,\Nidiosinkrazija Dialogue: 0,0:04:38.19,0:04:41.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ili što ja zovem "idiogenska" priroda. Dialogue: 0,0:04:41.26,0:04:42.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Da vam pojasnim. Dialogue: 0,0:04:44.90,0:04:48.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jedno od obilježja ekstroverta je\Npotreba za stimulacijom. Dialogue: 0,0:04:48.97,0:04:53.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I ta se stimulacija postiže pronalaskom\Nstvari koje su uzbudljive: Dialogue: 0,0:04:53.72,0:04:57.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,glasni zvukovi, tulumi\Ni društveni događaji na TED-u. Dialogue: 0,0:04:57.78,0:05:01.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Naime ekstoverti tvore magnetsku jezgru. Dialogue: 0,0:05:01.03,0:05:02.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Okupljaju se. Dialogue: 0,0:05:02.71,0:05:04.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Vidio sam vas. Dialogue: 0,0:05:04.15,0:05:07.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Introverti provode više vrijeme\Nna mirnijim mjestima Dialogue: 0,0:05:07.50,0:05:09.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,na drugome katu Dialogue: 0,0:05:09.35,0:05:13.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,gdje mogu sniziti stimulaciju Dialogue: 0,0:05:13.16,0:05:17.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,te ih se može pogrešno shvatiti\Nkao nedruštvene osobe, Dialogue: 0,0:05:17.12,0:05:20.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ali oni nisu nužno nedruštveni. Dialogue: 0,0:05:21.31,0:05:24.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jednostavno shvatiš da ti je bolje Dialogue: 0,0:05:25.44,0:05:29.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,kada možeš smanjiti\Nrazinu vanjske stimulacije. Dialogue: 0,0:05:30.100,0:05:35.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Nekad su to interni stimulasni\Nkoji dolaze iz vlastitoga tijela Dialogue: 0,0:05:35.17,0:05:40.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,kofein, na primjer, bolje djeluje\Nkod ekstroverta nego interoverta. Dialogue: 0,0:05:40.11,0:05:43.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Kada ekstroverti dođu u ured u 9 ujutro Dialogue: 0,0:05:43.31,0:05:46.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i kažu "Stvarno mi treba šalica kave", Dialogue: 0,0:05:46.22,0:05:47.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ne šale se. Dialogue: 0,0:05:47.40,0:05:48.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Stvarno im treba. Dialogue: 0,0:05:49.53,0:05:51.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Introvertima to ne ide u korist, Dialogue: 0,0:05:51.36,0:05:53.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,osobito ako su zadaci u kojima sudjeluju, Dialogue: 0,0:05:54.91,0:05:56.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a popili su kavu, Dialogue: 0,0:05:56.48,0:05:58.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ako su ti zadaci ubrzani Dialogue: 0,0:05:58.64,0:06:00.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i ako su kvantitativni, Dialogue: 0,0:06:00.55,0:06:04.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,introverti mogu ostavititi dojam \Nda se ne ponašaju posebno kvantitativno. Dialogue: 0,0:06:05.58,0:06:07.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No to je progreška. Dialogue: 0,0:06:07.24,0:06:10.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dakle, ovo su posljedice \Nkoje su poprilično intrigantne: Dialogue: 0,0:06:10.31,0:06:12.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,nismo uvijek onakvi kakvima se činimo Dialogue: 0,0:06:12.42,0:06:15.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i to me dovodi do sljedeće stavke. Dialogue: 0,0:06:16.20,0:06:18.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Moram prvo reći, prije nego pređem na ovo, Dialogue: 0,0:06:18.78,0:06:21.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,nešto o spolnom odnosu Dialogue: 0,0:06:21.48,0:06:23.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,iako nemam baš vremena. Dialogue: 0,0:06:23.60,0:06:26.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dakle ako biste željeli da Dialogue: 0,0:06:26.50,0:06:27.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,da, želite? Dialogue: 0,0:06:27.68,0:06:28.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,OK. Dialogue: 0,0:06:28.85,0:06:29.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Smijeh) Dialogue: 0,0:06:29.96,0:06:31.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Postoje istraživanja Dialogue: 0,0:06:31.14,0:06:36.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,o učestalosti upuštanja \Nindividualaca u bračni čin Dialogue: 0,0:06:37.41,0:06:40.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,na temelju muškarca i žene,\Nintroverta, ekstroverta. Dialogue: 0,0:06:41.10,0:06:42.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Stoga vas pitam: Dialogue: 0,0:06:42.28,0:06:44.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Koliko puta u minuti, Dialogue: 0,0:06:45.16,0:06:47.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,oprostite, to je studija na štakorima, Dialogue: 0,0:06:47.07,0:06:49.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Smijeh) Dialogue: 0,0:06:50.15,0:06:51.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Koliko se puta mjesečno Dialogue: 0,0:06:54.72,0:06:57.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,introvertirani muškarci\Nupuštaju u akciju? Dialogue: 0,0:06:58.49,0:06:59.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,3,0 Dialogue: 0,0:06:59.90,0:07:01.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ekstrovertirani muškarci? Dialogue: 0,0:07:01.56,0:07:03.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Više ili manje? Dialogue: 0,0:07:03.62,0:07:05.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Da, više. Dialogue: 0,0:07:05.61,0:07:07.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,5,5. Skoro pa dvostruko više. Dialogue: 0,0:07:09.26,0:07:11.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Introvertirane žene: 3,1. Dialogue: 0,0:07:11.86,0:07:13.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ekstrovertirane žene? Dialogue: 0,0:07:13.48,0:07:16.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Iskreno, govoreći kao \Nintovertirani muškarac, Dialogue: 0,0:07:16.85,0:07:18.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,što ću kasnije pojasniti, Dialogue: 0,0:07:18.61,0:07:20.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,one su hrabre. Dialogue: 0,0:07:20.97,0:07:22.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,7,5. Dialogue: 0,0:07:23.78,0:07:26.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ne samo da svladaju sve\Nekstrovertirane muškarce Dialogue: 0,0:07:26.16,0:07:28.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,već i pokupe par introvertiranih. Dialogue: 0,0:07:28.28,0:07:30.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Smijeh) Dialogue: 0,0:07:30.20,0:07:32.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Pljesak) Dialogue: 0,0:07:36.80,0:07:41.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Drugačije komuniciramo, \Nekstroverti i introverti. Dialogue: 0,0:07:42.58,0:07:44.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ekstroverti kada komuniciraju Dialogue: 0,0:07:44.11,0:07:48.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,žele imati puno društvenih susreta\Nkoji su isprekidani bliskosti. Dialogue: 0,0:07:48.60,0:07:51.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Vole stajati blizu za \Nugodniju komunikaciju. Dialogue: 0,0:07:52.55,0:07:54.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Vole imati puno kontakta očima Dialogue: 0,0:07:54.77,0:07:56.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ili uzajamnih pogleda. Dialogue: 0,0:07:57.24,0:07:58.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Otkrili smo straživanjima Dialogue: 0,0:07:58.47,0:08:01.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,da koriste više deminutivnih termina \Nkada nekoga upoznaju. Dialogue: 0,0:08:01.87,0:08:04.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dakle, kada ekstrovert upozna Charlesa Dialogue: 0,0:08:04.61,0:08:07.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,on ubrzo postaje Charlie i zatim Chuck Dialogue: 0,0:08:07.52,0:08:09.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i onda Chuckles dušo. Dialogue: 0,0:08:09.22,0:08:10.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Smijeh) Dialogue: 0,0:08:11.03,0:08:12.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dok kod introverta Dialogue: 0,0:08:12.46,0:08:17.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,on ostaje Charles dok ne dobije \Ndopuštenje za većom bliškošću Dialogue: 0,0:08:17.39,0:08:19.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,od osobe s kojom priča. Dialogue: 0,0:08:20.04,0:08:22.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Komuniciramo drugačije. Dialogue: 0,0:08:24.93,0:08:30.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ekstroverti preferiraju crno-bijeli,\Nkonkretni, jednostavni jezik. Dialogue: 0,0:08:31.85,0:08:35.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Introverti pereferiraju,\Ni ponovno ponavljam, Dialogue: 0,0:08:35.67,0:08:40.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,da sam toliki introvert\Nda si ne možete ni zamisliti, Dialogue: 0,0:08:40.85,0:08:42.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,komuniciramo drugačije. Dialogue: 0,0:08:42.59,0:08:46.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mi preferiramo kontekstualno kompleksne, Dialogue: 0,0:08:46.61,0:08:48.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,zavisne, Dialogue: 0,0:08:48.57,0:08:50.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,lukave rečenice Dialogue: 0,0:08:50.61,0:08:51.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Smijeh) Dialogue: 0,0:08:51.66,0:08:53.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Više ili manje. Dialogue: 0,0:08:53.38,0:08:54.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Smijeh) Dialogue: 0,0:08:54.84,0:08:56.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Takoreći. Dialogue: 0,0:08:56.07,0:08:57.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Smijeh) Dialogue: 0,0:08:57.11,0:08:59.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Bez okolišanja Dialogue: 0,0:08:59.85,0:09:01.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,u vezi toga. Dialogue: 0,0:09:01.96,0:09:03.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dok razgovaramo Dialogue: 0,0:09:03.38,0:09:05.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ponekad svako priča svoje. Dialogue: 0,0:09:05.72,0:09:08.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Imao sam zajednički\Nsvajetnički ugovor s kolegom Dialogue: 0,0:09:08.38,0:09:11.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,koji se razlikuje od mene\Nkoliko je moguće. Dialogue: 0,0:09:11.74,0:09:13.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Prvo, njegovo ime je Tom. Dialogue: 0,0:09:14.50,0:09:15.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Moje nije. Dialogue: 0,0:09:15.74,0:09:17.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Smijeh) Dialogue: 0,0:09:17.03,0:09:18.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Drugo, on je visok oko 2 m, Dialogue: 0,0:09:18.99,0:09:20.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ja baš nisam. Dialogue: 0,0:09:20.96,0:09:22.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Smijeh) Dialogue: 0,0:09:22.03,0:09:25.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I treće, on je najekstovertnija osoba\Nkoju možete upoznati. Dialogue: 0,0:09:25.78,0:09:28.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ja sam teški introvert. Dialogue: 0,0:09:28.67,0:09:30.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Toliko se opteretim Dialogue: 0,0:09:30.39,0:09:35.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,da poslije tri popodne ne mogu\Npopit ni šalicu kave Dialogue: 0,0:09:35.23,0:09:37.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i očekivati san navečer. Dialogue: 0,0:09:38.18,0:09:42.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,U projekt nam je bio dodijeljen\Nkolega po imenu Micahel. Dialogue: 0,0:09:43.32,0:09:47.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I Michael je projekt skoro\Ndoveo do zastoja. Dialogue: 0,0:09:48.53,0:09:52.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Osoba koja ga nam je dodijelila \Npitala je Toma i mene Dialogue: 0,0:09:53.24,0:09:54.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Što mislite o Michaelu?". Dialogue: 0,0:09:54.73,0:09:56.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Reći ću vam što je Tom\Nodgovorio za minutu. Dialogue: 0,0:09:57.02,0:09:59.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Pričao je klasični "ekstrovertski". Dialogue: 0,0:09:59.96,0:10:03.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I evo kako su ekstrovertirane uši \Nshvatile ono što sam rekao, Dialogue: 0,0:10:03.55,0:10:05.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,što je zapravo prilično točno. Dialogue: 0,0:10:05.53,0:10:09.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Rekao sam, "Pa Michael \Nima nekad sklonost Dialogue: 0,0:10:10.38,0:10:13.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ponašati se na način\Nkoji se nekima od nas čini Dialogue: 0,0:10:14.49,0:10:18.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,nešto izravnije nego što je uobičajeno." Dialogue: 0,0:10:18.94,0:10:21.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Smijeh) Dialogue: 0,0:10:21.61,0:10:23.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Tom je zakolutao očima i rekao Dialogue: 0,0:10:23.41,0:10:25.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Briane, evo što sam ja rekao: Dialogue: 0,0:10:26.63,0:10:28.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,On je seronja!" Dialogue: 0,0:10:28.05,0:10:30.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Smijeh) Dialogue: 0,0:10:30.25,0:10:32.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Pljesak) Dialogue: 0,0:10:33.51,0:10:34.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Kao introvert Dialogue: 0,0:10:34.80,0:10:39.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ću suptilno aludirati na određene\N"seronjaste" osobine Dialogue: 0,0:10:40.00,0:10:41.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,u ponašanju te osobe, Dialogue: 0,0:10:41.32,0:10:44.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ali neću posegnuti za s-riječi. Dialogue: 0,0:10:44.15,0:10:45.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Smijeh) Dialogue: 0,0:10:47.23,0:10:48.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ali ekstrovert kaže, Dialogue: 0,0:10:48.52,0:10:51.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Ako hoda kao jedan, ako priča\Nkao jedan, zovem ga tako." Dialogue: 0,0:10:51.42,0:10:52.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i raziđemo se. Dialogue: 0,0:10:53.50,0:10:57.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ovo je nešto na čega \Nbi se trebali obazirati? Dialogue: 0,0:10:57.49,0:10:58.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Naravno. Dialogue: 0,0:10:58.68,0:11:00.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ovo je bitno znati. Dialogue: 0,0:11:00.29,0:11:01.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Je li to sve što nas čini? Dialogue: 0,0:11:02.67,0:11:04.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jesmo li mi samo hrpa osobina? Dialogue: 0,0:11:05.56,0:11:06.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ne, nismo. Dialogue: 0,0:11:08.12,0:11:10.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Upamtite, mi smo poput ostalih ljudi Dialogue: 0,0:11:11.27,0:11:12.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i posve drugačiji od ostalih ljudi. Dialogue: 0,0:11:13.49,0:11:15.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Što je sa idiosinkrazijskim nama? Dialogue: 0,0:11:16.48,0:11:19.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Kao Elizabeta ili kao George, Dialogue: 0,0:11:19.76,0:11:22.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,možete dijeliti svoju ekstraverziju ili\Nsvoj neuroticizam, Dialogue: 0,0:11:24.25,0:11:28.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ali postoje li posebna elizabetska \Nobilježja svojstvena za naše ponašanje, Dialogue: 0,0:11:28.28,0:11:30.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ili georgska Dialogue: 0,0:11:31.73,0:11:35.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,koja nam pomažu shvatit nekoga\Ndalje od hrpe osobina? Dialogue: 0,0:11:36.24,0:11:38.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Koja nas tjeraju da nekoga volimo? Dialogue: 0,0:11:39.46,0:11:42.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ne samo jer si određeni tip osobe. Dialogue: 0,0:11:43.19,0:11:45.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ne volim stavljati ljude u pretince. Dialogue: 0,0:11:47.08,0:11:49.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mislim da ni golubovi\Nne pripadaju u njih. Dialogue: 0,0:11:51.24,0:11:53.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Što je onda to što nas razlikuje? Dialogue: 0,0:11:54.00,0:11:58.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,To su naša postignuća u životu,\Nnaši osobni projekti. Dialogue: 0,0:11:59.40,0:12:01.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Vi upravo provodite osobni projekt, Dialogue: 0,0:12:01.25,0:12:04.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ali nitko ovdje ne mora znati. Dialogue: 0,0:12:05.50,0:12:07.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Vezano je za vaše dijete. Dialogue: 0,0:12:07.34,0:12:09.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Bili ste tri puta u bolnici Dialogue: 0,0:12:09.56,0:12:11.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i dalje se ne zna što nije u redu, Dialogue: 0,0:12:13.37,0:12:14.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ili može biti o vašoj majci Dialogue: 0,0:12:16.09,0:12:18.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i ponašali ste se izvan sebe. Dialogue: 0,0:12:18.22,0:12:19.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,To su osobine koje sami birate. Dialogue: 0,0:12:21.52,0:12:24.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ugodni ste, ali se ponašate neugodno Dialogue: 0,0:12:24.62,0:12:28.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,kako bi srušili te barijere\Nadministrativne tromosti Dialogue: 0,0:12:28.52,0:12:29.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,u bolnici, Dialogue: 0,0:12:29.70,0:12:32.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,kako bi dobili nešto \Nza vašu majku ili vaše dijete. Dialogue: 0,0:12:33.81,0:12:35.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Što su te slobodne osobine? Dialogue: 0,0:12:35.34,0:12:37.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Unutar njih provodimo scenarij Dialogue: 0,0:12:37.94,0:12:40.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,kako bi uzdigli središnji projekt\Nu našem životu. Dialogue: 0,0:12:41.74,0:12:43.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I one su ono što je važno. Dialogue: 0,0:12:43.83,0:12:46.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ne pitajte ljude koji su tip, Dialogue: 0,0:12:46.74,0:12:49.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,pitajte te ih, "Koji su \Ntvoji središnji projekti'?" Dialogue: 0,0:12:49.52,0:12:51.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I mi provedemo te slobodne osobine. Dialogue: 0,0:12:51.33,0:12:52.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ja sam introvert, Dialogue: 0,0:12:52.67,0:12:57.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ali imam središnji projekt, \Na to je podučavati. Dialogue: 0,0:12:57.64,0:12:58.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ja sam profesor Dialogue: 0,0:12:59.80,0:13:01.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i obožavam svoje studente Dialogue: 0,0:13:03.08,0:13:04.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i svoje istraživačko polje. Dialogue: 0,0:13:04.69,0:13:10.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I jedva im čekam reći\Nšto je novo, što je interesantno, Dialogue: 0,0:13:11.37,0:13:13.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sve im to jedva čekam reći. Dialogue: 0,0:13:13.64,0:13:15.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I zato se ponašam na\Nekstrovertan način Dialogue: 0,0:13:15.49,0:13:17.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,jer je u osam ujutro Dialogue: 0,0:13:17.04,0:13:19.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,studentima je potrebno malo humora, Dialogue: 0,0:13:19.41,0:13:22.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,malo motivacije da idu dalje Dialogue: 0,0:13:22.15,0:13:23.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,u teškim danima studiranja. Dialogue: 0,0:13:24.28,0:13:25.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ali moramo biti jako oprezni Dialogue: 0,0:13:26.46,0:13:29.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,kada se ponašamo drugačije. Dialogue: 0,0:13:30.68,0:13:35.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ponekad se dogodi da zanemarimo sebe. Dialogue: 0,0:13:37.31,0:13:41.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Npr., nakon perioda lažnog\Nekstrovertnog ponašanja, Dialogue: 0,0:13:41.95,0:13:44.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ja se moram povući. Dialogue: 0,0:13:45.92,0:13:49.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Kao što je rekla Susan Cain\Nu svojoj knjizi "Tišina" Dialogue: 0,0:13:49.06,0:13:52.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,u poglavlju u kojem se radilo o\No čudnom kanadskom profesoru Dialogue: 0,0:13:52.06,0:13:54.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,koji je predavao na Harvardu, Dialogue: 0,0:13:55.14,0:13:56.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ja nekad idem u toalet Dialogue: 0,0:13:56.83,0:14:00.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,kako bi pobjegao od napada \Nnečuvenih ekstroverta. Dialogue: 0,0:14:01.07,0:14:02.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Smijeh) Dialogue: 0,0:14:02.18,0:14:08.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sjećam se jednog dana\Nkad sam pobjegao u kabinu Dialogue: 0,0:14:08.57,0:14:10.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,kako bi izbjegao preveliku stimulaciju. Dialogue: 0,0:14:11.12,0:14:16.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I pravi ekstrovert je stao iza mene.\NNe baš u moju kabinu, Dialogue: 0,0:14:16.39,0:14:18.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ali u kabinu pokraj Dialogue: 0,0:14:18.37,0:14:20.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i čuo sam svakakve \Nzvukove olakšanja, Dialogue: 0,0:14:20.71,0:14:22.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,koje mrzimo pa čak i vlastite. Dialogue: 0,0:14:23.01,0:14:25.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Zato puštamo vodu i prije i nakon. Dialogue: 0,0:14:25.76,0:14:27.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Smijeh) Dialogue: 0,0:14:28.36,0:14:32.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I onda sam čuo hrapavi glas govoreći Dialogue: 0,0:14:32.97,0:14:35.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Hej, jel to doktor Little?" Dialogue: 0,0:14:35.43,0:14:37.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Smijeh) Dialogue: 0,0:14:38.66,0:14:45.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ako će išta zatvoriti introverta\Nna narednih šest mjeseci, Dialogue: 0,0:14:45.06,0:14:46.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to je onda pričanje na toaletu. Dialogue: 0,0:14:46.84,0:14:48.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Smijeh) Dialogue: 0,0:14:48.09,0:14:50.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Gdje upravo sad idem. Dialogue: 0,0:14:50.70,0:14:52.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Nemojte me slijediti. Dialogue: 0,0:14:52.55,0:14:53.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Hvala vam. Dialogue: 0,0:14:53.76,0:15:00.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Pljesak)