WEBVTT 00:00:10.330 --> 00:00:12.217 Hello. 00:00:12.217 --> 00:00:13.705 My name is Stephen Kellogg. 00:00:13.705 --> 00:00:16.615 I'm a professional singer and songwriter. 00:00:17.195 --> 00:00:21.034 When I was kid, I wanted to be Bon Jovi: 00:00:21.034 --> 00:00:25.858 rock and roll, money, girls, 00:00:25.858 --> 00:00:28.028 leg kicks, (Laughter) 00:00:28.028 --> 00:00:30.409 moves wearing a headset, ironically. 00:00:30.409 --> 00:00:31.834 It's part of that. 00:00:31.834 --> 00:00:34.627 But, by the time I graduated college, 00:00:34.627 --> 00:00:36.313 not only was I not Bon Jovi, 00:00:36.313 --> 00:00:40.523 but I found myself eagerly jumping into a six-dollar-an-hour job, 00:00:40.523 --> 00:00:42.350 no benefits, 00:00:42.350 --> 00:00:46.835 working in a ten-foot-by-ten-foot kiosk in a mall. 00:00:46.835 --> 00:00:49.668 So, needless to say, there was not a lot of room 00:00:49.668 --> 00:00:53.425 to practice leg kicks in that environment. 00:00:53.425 --> 00:00:55.848 But, over time, work became something for me 00:00:55.848 --> 00:00:59.213 that was like pizza or sex: 00:00:59.213 --> 00:01:01.651 even when it's bad, it's pretty great. 00:01:01.651 --> 00:01:04.391 (Laughter) 00:01:07.401 --> 00:01:10.795 I believe that our ability to be satisfied with our work 00:01:10.795 --> 00:01:14.787 is something that is well within our grasp. 00:01:14.787 --> 00:01:18.602 I don't think it's specific to any one field. 00:01:18.602 --> 00:01:21.725 I don't think it's as subject to external forces 00:01:21.725 --> 00:01:24.347 as we give it credit for being. 00:01:24.347 --> 00:01:27.075 And I think that the strategies 00:01:27.075 --> 00:01:30.765 or the truths that have helped me find joy in my work 00:01:30.765 --> 00:01:32.807 are things that could work for anybody. 00:01:32.807 --> 00:01:35.165 And that's what I want to talk to you about today. 00:01:35.165 --> 00:01:36.462 When I was getting ready, 00:01:36.462 --> 00:01:38.504 I read a study in Forbes that said 00:01:38.504 --> 00:01:43.674 job satisfaction in America was at 19%. (Laughter) 00:01:43.674 --> 00:01:44.887 That's grim. 00:01:44.887 --> 00:01:46.867 I'm not sure if I totally believe that, 00:01:46.867 --> 00:01:48.797 but it's certainly supported my feeling 00:01:48.797 --> 00:01:51.909 that this might be a relevant talk. 00:01:51.909 --> 00:01:54.903 But even some of the more optimistic studies that I've found 00:01:54.903 --> 00:01:57.240 still had it well bellow 50%, 00:01:57.240 --> 00:01:59.453 which should mean that most people aren't happy 00:01:59.453 --> 00:02:02.010 with the work that they're doing. 00:02:02.010 --> 00:02:04.472 And that's a serious bummer. 00:02:04.472 --> 00:02:06.611 I don't think it has to be that way. 00:02:06.611 --> 00:02:08.323 So... 00:02:09.883 --> 00:02:12.036 I'm going to share some of those things. 00:02:12.036 --> 00:02:13.995 I know some of you guys might be thinking, 00:02:13.995 --> 00:02:15.499 "Well, you sing in a rock band. 00:02:15.499 --> 00:02:18.960 Of course you're happy with what you're doing." And you'd be right. 00:02:18.960 --> 00:02:22.811 Musicians do rate high on the satisfaction pole. 00:02:22.811 --> 00:02:26.607 But I would also say to you that the challenges that I face 00:02:26.607 --> 00:02:29.138 are, I think, the challenges that we all face. 00:02:29.138 --> 00:02:33.578 I'm going to introduce you to my four daughters here. 00:02:33.578 --> 00:02:34.948 (Audience) Aw... 00:02:34.948 --> 00:02:36.707 SK: Yeah... (Laughter) 00:02:38.119 --> 00:02:40.612 These are my favorite people in the world. 00:02:40.612 --> 00:02:44.829 And, over the last ten years, I've played 1,300 concerts 00:02:44.829 --> 00:02:48.421 and I figured out I've spent about four out of every seven days 00:02:48.421 --> 00:02:50.237 away from them. 00:02:50.237 --> 00:02:53.591 So, I know what it's like to struggle with time commitments, 00:02:53.591 --> 00:02:55.923 and how much time we spend working 00:02:55.923 --> 00:02:58.140 versus doing other things. 00:02:58.140 --> 00:03:00.205 I would also share with you 00:03:00.205 --> 00:03:03.912 a job performance review that I received, 00:03:03.912 --> 00:03:06.895 particularly public, in a newspaper, which says, 00:03:06.895 --> 00:03:12.262 "{his} music is likewise little more than an airbrushed fabrication... 00:03:12.262 --> 00:03:15.243 a victim of its own gritless contrivances 00:03:15.243 --> 00:03:17.805 and overproduced underproduction." 00:03:17.805 --> 00:03:21.097 (Laughter) 00:03:21.097 --> 00:03:23.177 I don't even know exactly what that means, 00:03:23.177 --> 00:03:24.679 but it's not good. 00:03:24.679 --> 00:03:27.140 (Laughter) 00:03:27.140 --> 00:03:28.975 And I think anybody who received 00:03:28.975 --> 00:03:31.146 a job performance evaluation like that 00:03:31.146 --> 00:03:32.928 would be very disappointed. 00:03:32.928 --> 00:03:34.696 So, I know what that's like too. 00:03:34.696 --> 00:03:36.620 And, if you still don't believe 00:03:36.620 --> 00:03:38.393 that my struggles are your struggles, 00:03:38.393 --> 00:03:39.985 I will show you my tax returns 00:03:39.985 --> 00:03:42.235 from the first few years that I did this. 00:03:42.235 --> 00:03:45.754 So, alright. Let's talk about how to be happier with the work that we do. 00:03:45.754 --> 00:03:48.124 The first strategy or idea: 00:03:48.124 --> 00:03:50.335 "Know why you're working." 00:03:50.335 --> 00:03:52.702 As the saying goes, measure your wealth 00:03:52.702 --> 00:03:55.393 not by the things you have, but by the things you have 00:03:55.393 --> 00:03:58.803 for which you wouldn't take any amount of money. 00:03:58.803 --> 00:04:01.570 Before my time as an illustrious songwriter, 00:04:01.570 --> 00:04:03.851 I had my first job at Brooks Pharmacy. 00:04:03.851 --> 00:04:05.271 I was sixteen years old. 00:04:05.271 --> 00:04:06.653 I was a sales associate, 00:04:06.653 --> 00:04:09.580 which meant that I was stocking shelves, 00:04:09.580 --> 00:04:11.568 checking people out, 00:04:11.568 --> 00:04:13.285 cleaning the toilet, you know, 00:04:13.285 --> 00:04:14.939 whatever needed to be done, 00:04:14.939 --> 00:04:18.938 and not work that one would consider 00:04:18.938 --> 00:04:22.420 obviously fun type of stuff. 00:04:22.420 --> 00:04:23.933 And one day, my mom came in 00:04:23.933 --> 00:04:26.983 and she was waving a phone bill, and she said, 00:04:26.983 --> 00:04:28.701 "If you're going to keep dating 00:04:28.701 --> 00:04:30.939 this girl who lives 45 minutes away, 00:04:30.939 --> 00:04:34.421 you're going to need to pay for this." 00:04:34.421 --> 00:04:37.214 So, as you can see, 00:04:37.214 --> 00:04:39.865 I married that girl. 00:04:39.865 --> 00:04:42.395 I knew there was no way I was going to be able to get 00:04:42.395 --> 00:04:44.975 from point A, my junior prom, 00:04:44.975 --> 00:04:46.461 to point B, my wedding day, 00:04:46.461 --> 00:04:49.504 unless I could continue that conversation with my future wife. 00:04:49.504 --> 00:04:51.710 I knew there was no way I was going to be able 00:04:51.710 --> 00:04:53.575 to continue that conversation, 00:04:53.575 --> 00:04:55.326 unless I paid that phone bill. 00:04:55.326 --> 00:04:57.101 When I went back to Brooks Pharmacy, 00:04:57.101 --> 00:04:58.903 I went back with a bounce in my step, 00:04:58.903 --> 00:05:01.130 because I knew why I was working. 00:05:01.130 --> 00:05:03.766 And I got into the habit of saying -- 00:05:03.766 --> 00:05:05.605 this is totally true -- I'd say, 00:05:05.605 --> 00:05:08.920 "Welcome to Brooks, where you'll love what we do for you." (Laughter) 00:05:08.920 --> 00:05:11.608 which I am not even sure if it's one of their sayings, 00:05:11.608 --> 00:05:14.668 but I just... (Laughter) 00:05:14.668 --> 00:05:17.846 You see, you've got to know why you're working. 00:05:17.846 --> 00:05:20.831 OK. The second strategy. 00:05:20.831 --> 00:05:24.204 "It's better to be at the bottom of a ladder you want to climb, 00:05:24.204 --> 00:05:25.910 than the top of one you don't." 00:05:25.910 --> 00:05:27.839 I got that from The Office. 00:05:27.839 --> 00:05:30.724 (Laughter) 00:05:30.724 --> 00:05:32.654 I'm big into sayings. 00:05:33.584 --> 00:05:37.851 So, about three years after I took that 6-dollar-an-hour job, 00:05:37.851 --> 00:05:42.054 I was selling advertising for a magazine, 00:05:42.054 --> 00:05:44.509 and I was doing pretty well at it. 00:05:44.509 --> 00:05:48.683 And I got a call to come play at this local steakhouse. 00:05:48.683 --> 00:05:50.890 And the gig was such that they said, 00:05:50.890 --> 00:05:53.464 "We want you to play four hours." 00:05:54.064 --> 00:05:55.731 The pay was absurdly low. 00:05:55.731 --> 00:05:57.265 They made a big deal of the fact 00:05:57.265 --> 00:05:59.631 that I was going to be fed. 00:05:59.631 --> 00:06:01.158 (Laughter) 00:06:01.158 --> 00:06:04.743 And they asked me to wear this really goofy shirt, 00:06:04.743 --> 00:06:08.371 with a steakhouse emblem on it and everything. 00:06:08.371 --> 00:06:10.351 So, it was not a sexy gig. 00:06:11.881 --> 00:06:15.158 But at the end of that first night doing that, 00:06:15.158 --> 00:06:18.463 I knew I was on a ladder I wanted to climb. 00:06:18.463 --> 00:06:21.406 I also knew I was at the bottom of that ladder, 00:06:21.406 --> 00:06:22.783 but it was alright. 00:06:22.783 --> 00:06:26.195 So, whenever possible, climb ladders worth climbing. 00:06:27.435 --> 00:06:31.645 Number three: "The grass is always going to look greener." 00:06:31.645 --> 00:06:33.268 This is such a cliché. 00:06:33.268 --> 00:06:36.250 I really hesitate to use it here at TED, 00:06:36.250 --> 00:06:39.084 but I don't think there's actually a better way to say this. 00:06:39.084 --> 00:06:41.305 We're talking about being happy with your work, 00:06:41.305 --> 00:06:44.695 and I think one of the easiest ways to be unhappy with your work 00:06:44.695 --> 00:06:48.515 is to sit there, looking over your shoulder, at the other guy, 00:06:48.515 --> 00:06:50.320 thinking that they have it better 00:06:50.320 --> 00:06:52.347 and that their situation's better. 00:06:52.347 --> 00:06:56.872 I think that we have common denominators in all work, 00:06:56.872 --> 00:06:58.428 or rules of the game. 00:06:58.428 --> 00:07:01.163 Everybody's going to have a boss 00:07:01.163 --> 00:07:03.294 who doesn't always appreciate you 00:07:03.294 --> 00:07:05.373 as much as you wish they would. 00:07:05.373 --> 00:07:07.442 We're going to have coworkers 00:07:07.442 --> 00:07:10.533 who don't do things the way we would 00:07:10.533 --> 00:07:14.843 or who are just annoying, you know. (Laughter) 00:07:14.843 --> 00:07:18.757 Rarely do people get paid what they feel they're worth. 00:07:18.757 --> 00:07:22.202 And, you know, sometimes, you have too many hours, 00:07:22.202 --> 00:07:26.678 too little hours, you could always do a better job, if only. 00:07:26.678 --> 00:07:29.132 It's fine that we have these. 00:07:29.132 --> 00:07:32.441 These exist at every job, at every level. 00:07:32.441 --> 00:07:35.259 The important thing, if you want to be happy with your work, 00:07:35.259 --> 00:07:38.233 is to realize that they exist at every level. 00:07:38.233 --> 00:07:40.603 Everybody's got these, so you're not sitting there 00:07:40.603 --> 00:07:43.763 thinking, "Ah, the grass is really greener on the other side." 00:07:43.763 --> 00:07:46.396 This picture, I'll just explain, that's me in a van, 00:07:46.396 --> 00:07:48.106 about five years into my touring. 00:07:48.106 --> 00:07:50.838 I had it in my mind that, if I could get on a tour bus, 00:07:50.838 --> 00:07:53.030 all my problems would be solved. 00:07:53.030 --> 00:07:54.454 One day, I got on a tour bus. 00:07:54.454 --> 00:07:56.466 I promptly found a bunch of new problems. 00:07:56.466 --> 00:07:57.752 Now, I'm back in a van, 00:07:57.752 --> 00:07:59.155 so I had a lot of problems. 00:07:59.155 --> 00:08:01.474 The bottom line is the grass isn't always greener 00:08:01.474 --> 00:08:03.761 on the other side. So, alright. 00:08:03.761 --> 00:08:09.142 Number four: "Understand the positive effects of your work." 00:08:09.142 --> 00:08:12.399 This is something that sounds simple, 00:08:12.399 --> 00:08:16.361 but I'm kind of amazed when I talk to people about their work, 00:08:16.361 --> 00:08:19.109 how not keyed in it's possible to be 00:08:19.109 --> 00:08:22.577 to the positive impact of what you do. 00:08:22.577 --> 00:08:25.277 I think of the guy that brings pizza to my house 00:08:25.277 --> 00:08:27.289 every Friday night. 00:08:27.289 --> 00:08:29.557 And now he knows I'm so psych to see him 00:08:29.557 --> 00:08:33.035 that he's got this big grin when he shows up -- (Laughter) -- doing it. 00:08:33.035 --> 00:08:35.527 But you're bringing the best food in the world -- 00:08:35.527 --> 00:08:38.398 non-negotiable -- to someone's house. 00:08:38.398 --> 00:08:41.291 (Laughter) 00:08:42.561 --> 00:08:44.303 It just is that way, you know. 00:08:44.303 --> 00:08:47.534 So, I think of my accountant, 00:08:47.534 --> 00:08:50.126 who takes a big scary mess of papers 00:08:50.126 --> 00:08:53.818 and the looming threat of the IRS and possibly jail, 00:08:53.818 --> 00:08:57.640 and he turns that into, sometimes, a tax return. (Laughter) 00:08:57.640 --> 00:08:59.409 I think of a realtor 00:08:59.409 --> 00:09:02.606 who takes in a young couple, 00:09:02.606 --> 00:09:04.402 who says, "We want this much house, 00:09:04.402 --> 00:09:05.830 and we have this much money," 00:09:05.830 --> 00:09:08.752 and, somehow, they make it work. 00:09:08.752 --> 00:09:10.316 I could do this with every job. 00:09:10.316 --> 00:09:13.810 Obviously, we don't have time to do that, but, seriously, email me, 00:09:13.810 --> 00:09:16.742 and I will help you find the positive impact of your work, 00:09:16.742 --> 00:09:19.551 if you can't, unless you're a criminal, 00:09:19.551 --> 00:09:21.232 in which case -- (Laughter) -- 00:09:21.232 --> 00:09:22.939 I can't help you there. 00:09:22.939 --> 00:09:24.483 (Laughter) 00:09:24.483 --> 00:09:27.254 This moment really came for me. 00:09:27.254 --> 00:09:30.923 I'd been out there -- I think I can say 00:09:30.923 --> 00:09:32.777 I feel at home with you. 00:09:32.777 --> 00:09:36.716 You know, I was trying to bolster my ego, sell more records, 00:09:36.716 --> 00:09:38.742 sell more tickets, be a bigger deal. 00:09:38.742 --> 00:09:41.421 And I'd been on tour and doing that for about six years. 00:09:41.421 --> 00:09:44.448 And I got a call to play at the Saint Jude Children's Hospital, 00:09:44.448 --> 00:09:45.639 in Memphis, Tennessee. 00:09:45.639 --> 00:09:50.235 And I went, and I played to about a dozen patients, 00:09:50.235 --> 00:09:53.299 and parents and staff. 00:09:53.299 --> 00:09:55.726 And at that small concert, 00:09:55.726 --> 00:09:57.725 I had an "aha" moment, 00:09:57.725 --> 00:10:00.798 because I saw people who had 00:10:00.798 --> 00:10:03.138 so little to smile about 00:10:03.138 --> 00:10:05.487 smiling back at me. 00:10:05.487 --> 00:10:10.246 And I realized that this skill set I'd been working on 00:10:10.246 --> 00:10:14.405 I had developed so that people without an inclination to smile 00:10:14.405 --> 00:10:16.590 could have joy again. 00:10:16.590 --> 00:10:18.859 And I never played a gig different -- 00:10:18.859 --> 00:10:21.640 I never played the same way, after that. 00:10:21.640 --> 00:10:25.165 So, key into whatever it is that you do 00:10:25.165 --> 00:10:27.204 that's positive, and hang on to that. 00:10:27.204 --> 00:10:29.401 You'll be happier with your work. OK. 00:10:29.401 --> 00:10:34.459 The fifth and final strategy, or insight, or truth 00:10:34.459 --> 00:10:36.996 that's made work like sex for me 00:10:36.996 --> 00:10:39.101 is this, -- (Laughter) -- 00:10:39.101 --> 00:10:42.619 "Maintain your integrity and core values." 00:10:42.619 --> 00:10:45.746 Core values are some of those buzz words, 00:10:45.746 --> 00:10:49.999 that you hear so much that it's kind of become white noise. 00:10:49.999 --> 00:10:54.433 But I'm really talking about your soul. 00:10:54.433 --> 00:10:59.469 And probably the most humiliating moment of my professional career 00:10:59.469 --> 00:11:01.487 came a couple years ago. 00:11:01.487 --> 00:11:03.770 It was decided I should have a hit song. 00:11:03.770 --> 00:11:05.994 So, I flew out to Los Angeles, 00:11:05.994 --> 00:11:08.744 where all hit songs come from, (Laughter) 00:11:08.744 --> 00:11:10.574 to work with some writers. 00:11:10.574 --> 00:11:14.368 And we wrote a song that was intended to be a tip of the hat 00:11:14.368 --> 00:11:16.690 to Simon & Garfunkel. 00:11:16.690 --> 00:11:19.949 Suffice it to say we pretty much put the hat on. (Laughter) 00:11:19.949 --> 00:11:21.454 And, when the song came out, 00:11:21.454 --> 00:11:23.443 my fans called me out on it and said, 00:11:23.443 --> 00:11:26.579 "You know, that song sounds like Paul Simon." 00:11:26.579 --> 00:11:29.402 My four-year-old daughter walked into my office one day, 00:11:29.402 --> 00:11:34.073 and she said, "Daddy, Paul Simon's song sounds like your song." 00:11:34.073 --> 00:11:35.224 (Laughter) 00:11:35.224 --> 00:11:37.313 And that was definitely, 00:11:37.313 --> 00:11:41.199 definitely the lowest moment of my career. 00:11:41.199 --> 00:11:44.477 I felt very out of touch with what I'm about. 00:11:44.477 --> 00:11:48.153 The good news is you can make those things right. 00:11:48.153 --> 00:11:50.959 And, in this case, I withdrew the song, 00:11:50.959 --> 00:11:55.279 rewrote it to be 100% mine, feel like mine. 00:11:55.279 --> 00:11:58.487 I explained as best as I could to my fans, 00:11:58.487 --> 00:12:00.596 kind of how that had happened. 00:12:00.596 --> 00:12:03.314 And, out of the lowest moment of my career, 00:12:03.314 --> 00:12:05.913 came really the proudest moment of my career, 00:12:05.913 --> 00:12:10.846 because I knew exactly who I was in that moment, 00:12:10.846 --> 00:12:12.944 and I could continue my mission. 00:12:12.944 --> 00:12:15.959 So, don't ever underestimate the power 00:12:15.959 --> 00:12:19.993 of keeping your integrity and your values in your work. 00:12:19.993 --> 00:12:21.469 You do these five things, 00:12:21.469 --> 00:12:24.520 and we are going to show Forbes who's boss, my friends. 00:12:24.520 --> 00:12:25.845 (Laughter) 00:12:25.845 --> 00:12:30.439 So, I'm going to finish this talk with a song. 00:12:30.439 --> 00:12:31.749 It's what I do. 00:12:31.749 --> 00:12:35.641 I'm not really known for brevity, 00:12:35.641 --> 00:12:39.026 and no one that's ever interviewed me 00:12:39.026 --> 00:12:41.123 has accused me of being too concise. 00:12:41.123 --> 00:12:45.774 But this opportunity to do this today 00:12:45.774 --> 00:12:49.612 and boil down some of why work has been a positive thing, 00:12:49.612 --> 00:12:51.707 it gets me really excited. 00:12:51.707 --> 00:12:53.626 I hope that somebody out there 00:12:53.626 --> 00:12:57.518 who's not satisfied can grab on to that and can think, 00:12:57.518 --> 00:12:59.192 "If I know why I'm working, 00:12:59.192 --> 00:13:01.760 if I climb ladders worth climbing, 00:13:01.760 --> 00:13:04.231 if I don't spend all my time dreaming 00:13:04.231 --> 00:13:07.388 that the grass is greener on the other side, 00:13:07.388 --> 00:13:11.208 if I can understand the positive impacts of my work, 00:13:11.208 --> 00:13:14.118 and if I can keep my soul intact in the process, 00:13:14.118 --> 00:13:16.461 I'm going to get more out of my job." 00:13:16.461 --> 00:13:18.246 This song I'm going to leave you with 00:13:18.246 --> 00:13:22.751 is my final comment on job satisfaction. 00:13:22.751 --> 00:13:26.501 And it's the last thing that I want to share with you. 00:13:26.501 --> 00:13:27.826 I've put it in this song. 00:13:27.826 --> 00:13:32.386 It's, your work is just your work. 00:13:32.386 --> 00:13:35.502 It happens to be what we spend most of our waking hours doing, 00:13:35.502 --> 00:13:40.090 but it's not the whole of who you are, 00:13:40.090 --> 00:13:42.549 and it's just one part of your identity. 00:13:42.549 --> 00:13:43.709 You can switch it up, 00:13:43.709 --> 00:13:46.150 you can do whatever you have to do to be happy. 00:13:46.150 --> 00:13:47.542 But I hope we're happy. 00:13:47.542 --> 00:13:49.933 This song's called "Satisfied Man". 00:13:49.933 --> 00:13:54.140 (Acoustic guitar) 00:13:56.330 --> 00:13:59.805 ♪ There are some things you never get over ♪ 00:13:59.805 --> 00:14:03.154 ♪ Whatever your parents say ♪ 00:14:03.154 --> 00:14:05.914 ♪ First on my list of these three things ♪ 00:14:05.914 --> 00:14:09.667 ♪ is the sight of my father walking away ♪ 00:14:09.667 --> 00:14:13.221 ♪ Next on my list would be heaven ♪ 00:14:13.221 --> 00:14:16.644 ♪ I already know what it's like ♪ 00:14:16.644 --> 00:14:19.732 ♪ because I fell in love when I was sixteen ♪ 00:14:19.732 --> 00:14:23.421 ♪ with the absolute love of my life ♪ 00:14:23.421 --> 00:14:27.033 ♪ Last on my list would be losing ♪ 00:14:27.033 --> 00:14:30.391 ♪ Someone always needs to win ♪ 00:14:30.391 --> 00:14:33.492 ♪ And thumbing your nose at the boss I suppose ♪ 00:14:33.492 --> 00:14:37.581 ♪ just feels like a beautiful thing ♪ 00:14:37.581 --> 00:14:41.016 ♪ The thing that nobody tells you ♪ 00:14:41.016 --> 00:14:44.179 ♪ you figure it out if you can ♪ 00:14:44.179 --> 00:14:47.460 ♪ There's one thing on Earth no one can touch ♪ 00:14:47.460 --> 00:14:50.852 ♪ It's the sleep of a satisfied man ♪ 00:14:50.852 --> 00:14:56.421 ♪ Yeah, the sleep of a satisfied man ♪ 00:14:56.421 --> 00:14:59.797 ♪ And I don't know why I love the leaving ♪ 00:14:59.797 --> 00:15:03.471 ♪ It's not from lack of loving you ♪ 00:15:03.471 --> 00:15:06.694 ♪ You can't remember when you stopped breathing ♪ 00:15:06.694 --> 00:15:10.094 ♪ and I can't remember it too ♪ 00:15:10.094 --> 00:15:13.440 ♪ But I'm coming home tomorrow ♪ 00:15:13.440 --> 00:15:16.871 ♪ and I wanted you to know ♪ 00:15:16.871 --> 00:15:20.541 ♪ that the part of me that can make you smile ♪ 00:15:20.541 --> 00:15:24.226 ♪ is the same part that needed to go ♪ 00:15:24.226 --> 00:15:27.697 ♪ And the thing that nobody tells you ♪ 00:15:27.697 --> 00:15:30.679 ♪ you figure it out if you can ♪ 00:15:30.679 --> 00:15:34.322 ♪ It's that they can't interfere or get inside here ♪ 00:15:34.322 --> 00:15:37.792 ♪ to the sleep of a satisfied man ♪ 00:15:37.792 --> 00:15:42.638 ♪ Yeah, the sleep of a satisfied man ♪ 00:15:42.638 --> 00:15:47.591 ♪ And of all the things I've had to learn ♪ 00:15:47.591 --> 00:15:49.695 ♪ there's just one that won't quit ♪ 00:15:49.695 --> 00:15:51.940 ♪ no matter how I try ♪ 00:15:51.940 --> 00:15:55.576 ♪ one that won't quit, it's all that I can stand ♪ 00:15:55.576 --> 00:15:59.687 ♪ one that won't quit, I'll never learn to say goodbye ♪ 00:15:59.687 --> 00:16:03.451 ♪ but I hope for your sakes that you can ♪ 00:16:04.911 --> 00:16:08.292 ♪ Then, on April 2nd, the birth of my heart ♪ 00:16:08.292 --> 00:16:11.849 ♪ the day that the zombie awoke with a start ♪ 00:16:11.849 --> 00:16:15.509 ♪ When I fell for Button and she fell for me ♪ 00:16:15.509 --> 00:16:18.907 ♪ back in the spring in 1993 ♪ 00:16:18.907 --> 00:16:22.508 ♪ January 7th, 2005 ♪ 00:16:22.508 --> 00:16:25.910 ♪ the birth of my blood came fully to life ♪ 00:16:25.910 --> 00:16:29.284 ♪ Now, when I see Saint Peter and ask for my wings ♪ 00:16:29.284 --> 00:16:32.945 ♪ leave me that memory and the joy that it brings ♪ 00:16:32.945 --> 00:16:36.663 ♪ Because the thing that nobody tells you ♪ 00:16:36.663 --> 00:16:39.692 ♪ you figure it out if you can ♪ 00:16:39.692 --> 00:16:43.209 ♪ it's the things that you never get over ♪ 00:16:43.209 --> 00:16:46.901 ♪ that build the character of a man ♪ 00:16:46.901 --> 00:16:50.653 ♪ And if heaven, and family, and children ♪ 00:16:50.653 --> 00:16:53.964 ♪ are what's left to me when I die ♪ 00:16:53.964 --> 00:16:57.331 ♪ then, I hope for your sake that you're better than me ♪ 00:16:57.331 --> 00:17:00.945 ♪ at learning to say goodbye ♪ 00:17:00.945 --> 00:17:04.412 ♪ Oh, if heaven, and family, and children ♪ 00:17:04.412 --> 00:17:07.955 ♪ are what's left to the race that I ran ♪ 00:17:07.955 --> 00:17:11.440 ♪ then, I'll quietly slip to this slumbering peace ♪ 00:17:11.440 --> 00:17:14.872 ♪ of the sleep of a satisfied man ♪ 00:17:14.872 --> 00:17:18.386 ♪ Yeah, the sleep of a satisfied man ♪ 00:17:18.386 --> 00:17:20.578 ♪ Oh, the sleep of a satisfied... ♪ 00:17:20.578 --> 00:17:22.919 ♪ And may you all be satisfied ♪ 00:17:32.169 --> 00:17:34.013 (Cheers) (Applause) 00:17:34.013 --> 00:17:36.534 Thank you all very much. 00:17:38.694 --> 00:17:41.814 Thank you so much, everybody. Thank you. 00:17:41.814 --> 00:17:43.562 Thank you.