0:00:10.330,0:00:12.217 Hello. 0:00:12.217,0:00:13.705 My name is Stephen Kellogg. 0:00:13.705,0:00:16.615 I'm a professional singer and songwriter. 0:00:17.195,0:00:21.034 When I was kid, I wanted to be Bon Jovi: 0:00:21.034,0:00:25.858 rock and roll, money, girls, 0:00:25.858,0:00:28.028 leg kicks, (Laughter) 0:00:28.028,0:00:30.409 moves wearing a headset, ironically. 0:00:30.409,0:00:31.834 It's part of that. 0:00:31.834,0:00:34.627 But, by the time I graduated college, 0:00:34.627,0:00:36.313 not only was I not Bon Jovi, 0:00:36.313,0:00:40.523 but I found myself eagerly[br]jumping into a six-dollar-an-hour job, 0:00:40.523,0:00:42.350 no benefits, 0:00:42.350,0:00:46.835 working in a ten-foot-by-ten-foot[br]kiosk in a mall. 0:00:46.835,0:00:49.668 So, needless to say,[br]there was not a lot of room 0:00:49.668,0:00:53.425 to practice leg kicks in that environment. 0:00:53.425,0:00:55.848 But, over time,[br]work became something for me 0:00:55.848,0:00:59.213 that was like pizza or sex: 0:00:59.213,0:01:01.651 even when it's bad, it's pretty great. 0:01:01.651,0:01:04.391 (Laughter) 0:01:07.401,0:01:10.795 I believe that our ability[br]to be satisfied with our work 0:01:10.795,0:01:14.787 is something[br]that is well within our grasp. 0:01:14.787,0:01:18.602 I don't think it's specific[br]to any one field. 0:01:18.602,0:01:21.725 I don't think it's as subject[br]to external forces 0:01:21.725,0:01:24.347 as we give it credit for being. 0:01:24.347,0:01:27.075 And I think that the strategies 0:01:27.075,0:01:30.765 or the truths that have helped me[br]find joy in my work 0:01:30.765,0:01:32.807 are things that could work for anybody. 0:01:32.807,0:01:35.165 And that's what I want[br]to talk to you about today. 0:01:35.165,0:01:36.462 When I was getting ready, 0:01:36.462,0:01:38.504 I read a study in Forbes that said 0:01:38.504,0:01:43.674 job satisfaction in America[br]was at 19%. (Laughter) 0:01:43.674,0:01:44.887 That's grim. 0:01:44.887,0:01:46.867 I'm not sure if I totally believe that, 0:01:46.867,0:01:48.797 but it's certainly supported my feeling 0:01:48.797,0:01:51.909 that this might be a relevant talk. 0:01:51.909,0:01:54.903 But even some of the more[br]optimistic studies that I've found 0:01:54.903,0:01:57.240 still had it well bellow 50%, 0:01:57.240,0:01:59.453 which should mean[br]that most people aren't happy 0:01:59.453,0:02:02.010 with the work that they're doing. 0:02:02.010,0:02:04.472 And that's a serious bummer. 0:02:04.472,0:02:06.611 I don't think it has to be that way. 0:02:06.611,0:02:08.323 So... 0:02:09.883,0:02:12.036 I'm going to share some of those things. 0:02:12.036,0:02:13.995 I know some of you guys[br]might be thinking, 0:02:13.995,0:02:15.499 "Well, you sing in a rock band. 0:02:15.499,0:02:18.960 Of course you're happy with what[br]you're doing." And you'd be right. 0:02:18.960,0:02:22.811 Musicians do rate high[br]on the satisfaction pole. 0:02:22.811,0:02:26.607 But I would also say to you[br]that the challenges that I face 0:02:26.607,0:02:29.138 are, I think, the challenges[br]that we all face. 0:02:29.138,0:02:33.578 I'm going to introduce you[br]to my four daughters here. 0:02:33.578,0:02:34.948 (Audience) Aw... 0:02:34.948,0:02:36.707 SK: Yeah... (Laughter) 0:02:38.119,0:02:40.612 These are my favorite people in the world. 0:02:40.612,0:02:44.829 And, over the last ten years,[br]I've played 1,300 concerts 0:02:44.829,0:02:48.421 and I figured out I've spent[br]about four out of every seven days 0:02:48.421,0:02:50.237 away from them. 0:02:50.237,0:02:53.591 So, I know what it's like[br]to struggle with time commitments, 0:02:53.591,0:02:55.923 and how much time we spend working 0:02:55.923,0:02:58.140 versus doing other things. 0:02:58.140,0:03:00.205 I would also share with you 0:03:00.205,0:03:03.912 a job performance review that I received, 0:03:03.912,0:03:06.895 particularly public,[br]in a newspaper, which says, 0:03:06.895,0:03:12.262 "{his} music is likewise little more[br]than an airbrushed fabrication... 0:03:12.262,0:03:15.243 a victim of its own gritless contrivances 0:03:15.243,0:03:17.805 and overproduced underproduction." 0:03:17.805,0:03:21.097 (Laughter) 0:03:21.097,0:03:23.177 I don't even know exactly what that means, 0:03:23.177,0:03:24.679 but it's not good. 0:03:24.679,0:03:27.140 (Laughter) 0:03:27.140,0:03:28.975 And I think anybody who received 0:03:28.975,0:03:31.146 a job performance evaluation like that 0:03:31.146,0:03:32.928 would be very disappointed. 0:03:32.928,0:03:34.696 So, I know what that's like too. 0:03:34.696,0:03:36.620 And, if you still don't believe 0:03:36.620,0:03:38.393 that my struggles are your struggles, 0:03:38.393,0:03:39.985 I will show you my tax returns 0:03:39.985,0:03:42.235 from the first few years that I did this. 0:03:42.235,0:03:45.754 So, alright. Let's talk about how[br]to be happier with the work that we do. 0:03:45.754,0:03:48.124 The first strategy or idea: 0:03:48.124,0:03:50.335 "Know why you're working." 0:03:50.335,0:03:52.702 As the saying goes, measure your wealth 0:03:52.702,0:03:55.393 not by the things you have,[br]but by the things you have 0:03:55.393,0:03:58.803 for which you wouldn't take[br]any amount of money. 0:03:58.803,0:04:01.570 Before my time[br]as an illustrious songwriter, 0:04:01.570,0:04:03.851 I had my first job at Brooks Pharmacy. 0:04:03.851,0:04:05.271 I was sixteen years old. 0:04:05.271,0:04:06.653 I was a sales associate, 0:04:06.653,0:04:09.580 which meant that I was stocking shelves, 0:04:09.580,0:04:11.568 checking people out, 0:04:11.568,0:04:13.285 cleaning the toilet, you know, 0:04:13.285,0:04:14.939 whatever needed to be done, 0:04:14.939,0:04:18.938 and not work that one would consider 0:04:18.938,0:04:22.420 obviously fun type of stuff. 0:04:22.420,0:04:23.933 And one day, my mom came in 0:04:23.933,0:04:26.983 and she was waving a phone bill,[br]and she said, 0:04:26.983,0:04:28.701 "If you're going to keep dating 0:04:28.701,0:04:30.939 this girl who lives 45 minutes away, 0:04:30.939,0:04:34.421 you're going to need to pay for this." 0:04:34.421,0:04:37.214 So, as you can see, 0:04:37.214,0:04:39.865 I married that girl. 0:04:39.865,0:04:42.395 I knew there was no way[br]I was going to be able to get 0:04:42.395,0:04:44.975 from point A, my junior prom, 0:04:44.975,0:04:46.461 to point B, my wedding day, 0:04:46.461,0:04:49.504 unless I could continue[br]that conversation with my future wife. 0:04:49.504,0:04:51.710 I knew there was no way[br]I was going to be able 0:04:51.710,0:04:53.575 to continue that conversation, 0:04:53.575,0:04:55.326 unless I paid that phone bill. 0:04:55.326,0:04:57.101 When I went back to Brooks Pharmacy, 0:04:57.101,0:04:58.903 I went back with a bounce in my step, 0:04:58.903,0:05:01.130 because I knew why I was working. 0:05:01.130,0:05:03.766 And I got into the habit of saying -- 0:05:03.766,0:05:05.605 this is totally true -- I'd say, 0:05:05.605,0:05:08.920 "Welcome to Brooks, where you'll love[br]what we do for you." (Laughter) 0:05:08.920,0:05:11.608 which I am not even sure[br]if it's one of their sayings, 0:05:11.608,0:05:14.668 but I just... (Laughter) 0:05:14.668,0:05:17.846 You see, you've got to know[br]why you're working. 0:05:17.846,0:05:20.831 OK. The second strategy. 0:05:20.831,0:05:24.204 "It's better to be at the bottom[br]of a ladder you want to climb, 0:05:24.204,0:05:25.910 than the top of one you don't." 0:05:25.910,0:05:27.839 I got that from The Office. 0:05:27.839,0:05:30.724 (Laughter) 0:05:30.724,0:05:32.654 I'm big into sayings. 0:05:33.584,0:05:37.851 So, about three years[br]after I took that 6-dollar-an-hour job, 0:05:37.851,0:05:42.054 I was selling advertising for a magazine, 0:05:42.054,0:05:44.509 and I was doing pretty well at it. 0:05:44.509,0:05:48.683 And I got a call to come play[br]at this local steakhouse. 0:05:48.683,0:05:50.890 And the gig was such that they said, 0:05:50.890,0:05:53.464 "We want you to play four hours." 0:05:54.064,0:05:55.731 The pay was absurdly low. 0:05:55.731,0:05:57.265 They made a big deal of the fact 0:05:57.265,0:05:59.631 that I was going to be fed. 0:05:59.631,0:06:01.158 (Laughter) 0:06:01.158,0:06:04.743 And they asked me to wear[br]this really goofy shirt, 0:06:04.743,0:06:08.371 with a steakhouse emblem on it[br]and everything. 0:06:08.371,0:06:10.351 So, it was not a sexy gig. 0:06:11.881,0:06:15.158 But at the end[br]of that first night doing that, 0:06:15.158,0:06:18.463 I knew I was on a ladder [br]I wanted to climb. 0:06:18.463,0:06:21.406 I also knew I was at the bottom[br]of that ladder, 0:06:21.406,0:06:22.783 but it was alright. 0:06:22.783,0:06:26.195 So, whenever possible,[br]climb ladders worth climbing. 0:06:27.435,0:06:31.645 Number three: "The grass[br]is always going to look greener." 0:06:31.645,0:06:33.268 This is such a cliché. 0:06:33.268,0:06:36.250 I really hesitate to use it here at TED, 0:06:36.250,0:06:39.084 but I don't think there's actually[br]a better way to say this. 0:06:39.084,0:06:41.305 We're talking about[br]being happy with your work, 0:06:41.305,0:06:44.695 and I think one of the easiest ways[br]to be unhappy with your work 0:06:44.695,0:06:48.515 is to sit there, looking over[br]your shoulder, at the other guy, 0:06:48.515,0:06:50.320 thinking that they have it better 0:06:50.320,0:06:52.347 and that their situation's better. 0:06:52.347,0:06:56.872 I think that we have[br]common denominators in all work, 0:06:56.872,0:06:58.428 or rules of the game. 0:06:58.428,0:07:01.163 Everybody's going to have a boss 0:07:01.163,0:07:03.294 who doesn't always appreciate you 0:07:03.294,0:07:05.373 as much as you wish they would. 0:07:05.373,0:07:07.442 We're going to have coworkers 0:07:07.442,0:07:10.533 who don't do things the way we would 0:07:10.533,0:07:14.843 or who are just annoying, [br]you know. (Laughter) 0:07:14.843,0:07:18.757 Rarely do people get paid[br]what they feel they're worth. 0:07:18.757,0:07:22.202 And, you know, sometimes,[br]you have too many hours, 0:07:22.202,0:07:26.678 too little hours, you could always[br]do a better job, if only. 0:07:26.678,0:07:29.132 It's fine that we have these. 0:07:29.132,0:07:32.441 These exist at every job, at every level. 0:07:32.441,0:07:35.259 The important thing,[br]if you want to be happy with your work, 0:07:35.259,0:07:38.233 is to realize[br]that they exist at every level. 0:07:38.233,0:07:40.603 Everybody's got these,[br]so you're not sitting there 0:07:40.603,0:07:43.763 thinking, "Ah, the grass is really[br]greener on the other side." 0:07:43.763,0:07:46.396 This picture, I'll just explain,[br]that's me in a van, 0:07:46.396,0:07:48.106 about five years into my touring. 0:07:48.106,0:07:50.838 I had it in my mind that,[br]if I could get on a tour bus, 0:07:50.838,0:07:53.030 all my problems would be solved. 0:07:53.030,0:07:54.454 One day, I got on a tour bus. 0:07:54.454,0:07:56.466 I promptly found a bunch of new problems. 0:07:56.466,0:07:57.752 Now, I'm back in a van, 0:07:57.752,0:07:59.155 so I had a lot of problems. 0:07:59.155,0:08:01.474 The bottom line is[br]the grass isn't always greener 0:08:01.474,0:08:03.761 on the other side. So, alright. 0:08:03.761,0:08:09.142 Number four: "Understand[br]the positive effects of your work." 0:08:09.142,0:08:12.399 This is something that sounds simple, 0:08:12.399,0:08:16.361 but I'm kind of amazed[br]when I talk to people about their work, 0:08:16.361,0:08:19.109 how not keyed in it's possible to be 0:08:19.109,0:08:22.577 to the positive impact of what you do. 0:08:22.577,0:08:25.277 I think of the guy[br]that brings pizza to my house 0:08:25.277,0:08:27.289 every Friday night. 0:08:27.289,0:08:29.557 And now he knows I'm so psych to see him 0:08:29.557,0:08:33.035 that he's got this big grin when[br]he shows up -- (Laughter) -- doing it. 0:08:33.035,0:08:35.527 But you're bringing[br]the best food in the world -- 0:08:35.527,0:08:38.398 non-negotiable -- to someone's house. 0:08:38.398,0:08:41.291 (Laughter) 0:08:42.561,0:08:44.303 It just is that way, you know. 0:08:44.303,0:08:47.534 So, I think of my accountant, 0:08:47.534,0:08:50.126 who takes a big scary mess of papers 0:08:50.126,0:08:53.818 and the looming threat[br]of the IRS and possibly jail, 0:08:53.818,0:08:57.640 and he turns that into, sometimes,[br]a tax return. (Laughter) 0:08:57.640,0:08:59.409 I think of a realtor 0:08:59.409,0:09:02.606 who takes in a young couple, 0:09:02.606,0:09:04.402 who says, "We want this much house, 0:09:04.402,0:09:05.830 and we have this much money," 0:09:05.830,0:09:08.752 and, somehow, they make it work. 0:09:08.752,0:09:10.316 I could do this with every job. 0:09:10.316,0:09:13.810 Obviously, we don't have time to do that,[br]but, seriously, email me, 0:09:13.810,0:09:16.742 and I will help you find[br]the positive impact of your work, 0:09:16.742,0:09:19.551 if you can't, unless you're a criminal, 0:09:19.551,0:09:21.232 in which case -- (Laughter) -- 0:09:21.232,0:09:22.939 I can't help you there. 0:09:22.939,0:09:24.483 (Laughter) 0:09:24.483,0:09:27.254 This moment really came for me. 0:09:27.254,0:09:30.923 I'd been out there -- I think I can say 0:09:30.923,0:09:32.777 I feel at home with you. 0:09:32.777,0:09:36.716 You know, I was trying to bolster[br]my ego, sell more records, 0:09:36.716,0:09:38.742 sell more tickets, be a bigger deal. 0:09:38.742,0:09:41.421 And I'd been on tour[br]and doing that for about six years. 0:09:41.421,0:09:44.448 And I got a call to play[br]at the Saint Jude Children's Hospital, 0:09:44.448,0:09:45.639 in Memphis, Tennessee. 0:09:45.639,0:09:50.235 And I went, and I played[br]to about a dozen patients, 0:09:50.235,0:09:53.299 and parents and staff. 0:09:53.299,0:09:55.726 And at that small concert, 0:09:55.726,0:09:57.725 I had an "aha" moment, 0:09:57.725,0:10:00.798 because I saw people who had 0:10:00.798,0:10:03.138 so little to smile about 0:10:03.138,0:10:05.487 smiling back at me. 0:10:05.487,0:10:10.246 And I realized that this skill set[br]I'd been working on 0:10:10.246,0:10:14.405 I had developed so that people[br]without an inclination to smile 0:10:14.405,0:10:16.590 could have joy again. 0:10:16.590,0:10:18.859 And I never played a gig different -- 0:10:18.859,0:10:21.640 I never played the same way, after that. 0:10:21.640,0:10:25.165 So, key into whatever it is that you do 0:10:25.165,0:10:27.204 that's positive, and hang on to that. 0:10:27.204,0:10:29.401 You'll be happier with your work. OK. 0:10:29.401,0:10:34.459 The fifth and final strategy,[br]or insight, or truth 0:10:34.459,0:10:36.996 that's made work like sex for me 0:10:36.996,0:10:39.101 is this, -- (Laughter) -- 0:10:39.101,0:10:42.619 "Maintain your integrity and core values." 0:10:42.619,0:10:45.746 Core values are some of those buzz words, 0:10:45.746,0:10:49.999 that you hear so much[br]that it's kind of become white noise. 0:10:49.999,0:10:54.433 But I'm really talking about your soul. 0:10:54.433,0:10:59.469 And probably the most humiliating moment[br]of my professional career 0:10:59.469,0:11:01.487 came a couple years ago. 0:11:01.487,0:11:03.770 It was decided I should have a hit song. 0:11:03.770,0:11:05.994 So, I flew out to Los Angeles, 0:11:05.994,0:11:08.744 where all hit songs come from, (Laughter) 0:11:08.744,0:11:10.574 to work with some writers. 0:11:10.574,0:11:14.368 And we wrote a song that was[br]intended to be a tip of the hat 0:11:14.368,0:11:16.690 to Simon & Garfunkel. 0:11:16.690,0:11:19.949 Suffice it to say we pretty much[br]put the hat on. (Laughter) 0:11:19.949,0:11:21.454 And, when the song came out, 0:11:21.454,0:11:23.443 my fans called me out on it and said, 0:11:23.443,0:11:26.579 "You know, that song[br]sounds like Paul Simon." 0:11:26.579,0:11:29.402 My four-year-old daughter[br]walked into my office one day, 0:11:29.402,0:11:34.073 and she said, "Daddy, Paul Simon's song[br]sounds like your song." 0:11:34.073,0:11:35.224 (Laughter) 0:11:35.224,0:11:37.313 And that was definitely, 0:11:37.313,0:11:41.199 definitely the lowest moment of my career. 0:11:41.199,0:11:44.477 I felt very out of touch[br]with what I'm about. 0:11:44.477,0:11:48.153 The good news[br]is you can make those things right. 0:11:48.153,0:11:50.959 And, in this case, I withdrew the song, 0:11:50.959,0:11:55.279 rewrote it to be 100% mine, [br]feel like mine. 0:11:55.279,0:11:58.487 I explained as best as I could[br]to my fans, 0:11:58.487,0:12:00.596 kind of how that had happened. 0:12:00.596,0:12:03.314 And, out of the lowest moment[br]of my career, 0:12:03.314,0:12:05.913 came really the proudest moment[br]of my career, 0:12:05.913,0:12:10.846 because I knew exactly[br]who I was in that moment, 0:12:10.846,0:12:12.944 and I could continue my mission. 0:12:12.944,0:12:15.959 So, don't ever underestimate the power 0:12:15.959,0:12:19.993 of keeping your integrity [br]and your values in your work. 0:12:19.993,0:12:21.469 You do these five things, 0:12:21.469,0:12:24.520 and we are going to show[br]Forbes who's boss, my friends. 0:12:24.520,0:12:25.845 (Laughter) 0:12:25.845,0:12:30.439 So, I'm going to finish[br]this talk with a song. 0:12:30.439,0:12:31.749 It's what I do. 0:12:31.749,0:12:35.641 I'm not really known for brevity, 0:12:35.641,0:12:39.026 and no one that's ever interviewed me 0:12:39.026,0:12:41.123 has accused me of being too concise. 0:12:41.123,0:12:45.774 But this opportunity to do this today 0:12:45.774,0:12:49.612 and boil down some of why work[br]has been a positive thing, 0:12:49.612,0:12:51.707 it gets me really excited. 0:12:51.707,0:12:53.626 I hope that somebody out there 0:12:53.626,0:12:57.518 who's not satisfied[br]can grab on to that and can think, 0:12:57.518,0:12:59.192 "If I know why I'm working, 0:12:59.192,0:13:01.760 if I climb ladders worth climbing, 0:13:01.760,0:13:04.231 if I don't spend all my time dreaming 0:13:04.231,0:13:07.388 that the grass is greener[br]on the other side, 0:13:07.388,0:13:11.208 if I can understand[br]the positive impacts of my work, 0:13:11.208,0:13:14.118 and if I can keep[br]my soul intact in the process, 0:13:14.118,0:13:16.461 I'm going to get more out of my job." 0:13:16.461,0:13:18.246 This song I'm going to leave you with 0:13:18.246,0:13:22.751 is my final comment on job satisfaction. 0:13:22.751,0:13:26.501 And it's the last thing[br]that I want to share with you. 0:13:26.501,0:13:27.826 I've put it in this song. 0:13:27.826,0:13:32.386 It's, your work is just your work. 0:13:32.386,0:13:35.502 It happens to be what we spend[br]most of our waking hours doing, 0:13:35.502,0:13:40.090 but it's not the whole of who you are, 0:13:40.090,0:13:42.549 and it's just one part of your identity. 0:13:42.549,0:13:43.709 You can switch it up, 0:13:43.709,0:13:46.150 you can do whatever[br]you have to do to be happy. 0:13:46.150,0:13:47.542 But I hope we're happy. 0:13:47.542,0:13:49.933 This song's called "Satisfied Man". 0:13:49.933,0:13:54.140 (Acoustic guitar) 0:13:56.330,0:13:59.805 ♪ There are some things[br]you never get over ♪ 0:13:59.805,0:14:03.154 ♪ Whatever your parents say ♪ 0:14:03.154,0:14:05.914 ♪ First on my list of these three things ♪ 0:14:05.914,0:14:09.667 ♪ is the sight of my father walking away ♪ 0:14:09.667,0:14:13.221 ♪ Next on my list would be heaven ♪ 0:14:13.221,0:14:16.644 ♪ I already know what it's like ♪ 0:14:16.644,0:14:19.732 ♪ because I fell in love[br]when I was sixteen ♪ 0:14:19.732,0:14:23.421 ♪ with the absolute love of my life ♪ 0:14:23.421,0:14:27.033 ♪ Last on my list would be losing ♪ 0:14:27.033,0:14:30.391 ♪ Someone always needs to win ♪ 0:14:30.391,0:14:33.492 ♪ And thumbing your nose[br]at the boss I suppose ♪ 0:14:33.492,0:14:37.581 ♪ just feels like a beautiful thing ♪ 0:14:37.581,0:14:41.016 ♪ The thing that nobody tells you ♪ 0:14:41.016,0:14:44.179 ♪ you figure it out if you can ♪ 0:14:44.179,0:14:47.460 ♪ There's one thing on Earth[br]no one can touch ♪ 0:14:47.460,0:14:50.852 ♪ It's the sleep of a satisfied man ♪ 0:14:50.852,0:14:56.421 ♪ Yeah, the sleep of a satisfied man ♪ 0:14:56.421,0:14:59.797 ♪ And I don't know [br]why I love the leaving ♪ 0:14:59.797,0:15:03.471 ♪ It's not from lack of loving you ♪ 0:15:03.471,0:15:06.694 ♪ You can't remember[br]when you stopped breathing ♪ 0:15:06.694,0:15:10.094 ♪ and I can't remember it too ♪ 0:15:10.094,0:15:13.440 ♪ But I'm coming home tomorrow ♪ 0:15:13.440,0:15:16.871 ♪ and I wanted you to know ♪ 0:15:16.871,0:15:20.541 ♪ that the part of me[br]that can make you smile ♪ 0:15:20.541,0:15:24.226 ♪ is the same part that needed to go ♪ 0:15:24.226,0:15:27.697 ♪ And the thing that nobody tells you ♪ 0:15:27.697,0:15:30.679 ♪ you figure it out if you can ♪ 0:15:30.679,0:15:34.322 ♪ It's that they can't interfere[br]or get inside here ♪ 0:15:34.322,0:15:37.792 ♪ to the sleep of a satisfied man ♪ 0:15:37.792,0:15:42.638 ♪ Yeah, the sleep of a satisfied man ♪ 0:15:42.638,0:15:47.591 ♪ And of all the things [br]I've had to learn ♪ 0:15:47.591,0:15:49.695 ♪ there's just one that won't quit ♪ 0:15:49.695,0:15:51.940 ♪ no matter how I try ♪ 0:15:51.940,0:15:55.576 ♪ one that won't quit,[br]it's all that I can stand ♪ 0:15:55.576,0:15:59.687 ♪ one that won't quit,[br]I'll never learn to say goodbye ♪ 0:15:59.687,0:16:03.451 ♪ but I hope for your sakes that you can ♪ 0:16:04.911,0:16:08.292 ♪ Then, on April 2nd,[br]the birth of my heart ♪ 0:16:08.292,0:16:11.849 ♪ the day that the zombie[br]awoke with a start ♪ 0:16:11.849,0:16:15.509 ♪ When I fell for Button[br]and she fell for me ♪ 0:16:15.509,0:16:18.907 ♪ back in the spring in 1993 ♪ 0:16:18.907,0:16:22.508 ♪ January 7th, 2005 ♪ 0:16:22.508,0:16:25.910 ♪ the birth of my blood [br]came fully to life ♪ 0:16:25.910,0:16:29.284 ♪ Now, when I see Saint Peter[br]and ask for my wings ♪ 0:16:29.284,0:16:32.945 ♪ leave me that memory[br]and the joy that it brings ♪ 0:16:32.945,0:16:36.663 ♪ Because the thing [br]that nobody tells you ♪ 0:16:36.663,0:16:39.692 ♪ you figure it out if you can ♪ 0:16:39.692,0:16:43.209 ♪ it's the things [br]that you never get over ♪ 0:16:43.209,0:16:46.901 ♪ that build the character of a man ♪ 0:16:46.901,0:16:50.653 ♪ And if heaven, [br]and family, and children ♪ 0:16:50.653,0:16:53.964 ♪ are what's left to me when I die ♪ 0:16:53.964,0:16:57.331 ♪ then, I hope for your sake[br]that you're better than me ♪ 0:16:57.331,0:17:00.945 ♪ at learning to say goodbye ♪ 0:17:00.945,0:17:04.412 ♪ Oh, if heaven, [br]and family, and children ♪ 0:17:04.412,0:17:07.955 ♪ are what's left to the race that I ran ♪ 0:17:07.955,0:17:11.440 ♪ then, I'll quietly slip[br]to this slumbering peace ♪ 0:17:11.440,0:17:14.872 ♪ of the sleep of a satisfied man ♪ 0:17:14.872,0:17:18.386 ♪ Yeah, the sleep of a satisfied man ♪ 0:17:18.386,0:17:20.578 ♪ Oh, the sleep of a satisfied... ♪ 0:17:20.578,0:17:22.919 ♪ And may you all be satisfied ♪ 0:17:32.169,0:17:34.013 (Cheers) (Applause) 0:17:34.013,0:17:36.534 Thank you all very much. 0:17:38.694,0:17:41.814 Thank you so much, everybody.[br]Thank you. 0:17:41.814,0:17:43.562 Thank you.